1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:15,759 Made a decision out face sunny sad on. I had a vision to what's 2 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:22,000 up everybody? Who? It's Friday, Huriate. Hey, if you didn't 3 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:26,239 listen to Thursday's show, go check it out. Yesterday's show with Lisa Lampa 4 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:30,120 Nelly so good. It was really great. We're kind of killing it with 5 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,640 these interview episodes. We've had some real good ones, yes, we have, 6 00:00:33,799 --> 00:00:36,840 and we have some good ones coming up. Yeah. We got Mark 7 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:42,039 Wahlberg coming up the end of the month. Yes, right, Klein telling 8 00:00:42,079 --> 00:00:45,600 you not the host of Temptation Island, but the underworm model. Right, 9 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:49,399 way to confuse our audience. Mark, now the host, the host of 10 00:00:49,439 --> 00:00:53,320 Temptation Island. Start watching Temptation Island because we're gonna have questions for him. 11 00:00:53,359 --> 00:00:56,439 Have you been watching it? Not yet? I'm gonna get on it because 12 00:00:56,439 --> 00:01:00,679 I would get a paramount Peacock. Oh, pe Peacock. It's worth getting 13 00:01:00,719 --> 00:01:03,840 Peacock. Yeah, there's a lot of shows on Peacock. That's good. 14 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,120 Yeah, I just have to tell all the date lines are on there. 15 00:01:07,439 --> 00:01:12,640 Oh yeah, with no commercials. It's just that alone is worth it. 16 00:01:12,879 --> 00:01:19,159 Yeah, I'm addicted to Peacock. Peacock and Discovery yeah, yeah, so 17 00:01:19,359 --> 00:01:26,280 this sucks. I have Spectrum Cable and I have to watch the Bachelor. 18 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:30,879 But the main reason that I have just the basic cable package too, on 19 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:38,040 top of Max, Hulu, Netflix, you know, is because I have 20 00:01:38,159 --> 00:01:41,000 to watch ABC, because I have to watch the Bachelor, and now I'm 21 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:45,719 going to be watching the old Man Bachelor, the Golden Bachelo. Yeah for 22 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:51,079 our Rose Perks Patreon. But they're having a fight. Spectrum is having a 23 00:01:51,159 --> 00:01:57,239 fight with Disney, which is it's Disney is the parent company of ESPN and 24 00:01:57,719 --> 00:02:01,400 ABC. So if when you go when you go to the guide, it 25 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:05,560 shows you what's on, like, oh news, ABC News is on right 26 00:02:05,599 --> 00:02:07,840 now, but when you go to click it, it says we're sorry, 27 00:02:08,319 --> 00:02:13,800 but you know, those assholes over at Disney and ESPN are making it like 28 00:02:13,879 --> 00:02:16,439 they're trying to charge us way too much. So we were in a dispute 29 00:02:16,479 --> 00:02:20,840 with them and like, if you like, sorry, it's their fault that 30 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,360 we're not able to show you this, but it would like cost us way 31 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:27,080 too much money to kill. It's like, really, get your shit together, 32 00:02:27,479 --> 00:02:30,319 how's it? And then I'm like they go, if you want to 33 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,960 just tell them how mad you are, here's a you can go on this 34 00:02:34,159 --> 00:02:37,719 QR code and like it'll take you directly. It's like, no, how 35 00:02:37,759 --> 00:02:39,840 did I get hurt? Am I having to do the work? You get 36 00:02:39,879 --> 00:02:44,479 a lawyer? Yes, you get on a zoom with these people? Why? 37 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,879 Why? Why I have to do it? Why do I have to 38 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,319 go like, hey, excuse me, Disney, can you guys come back 39 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,240 on the spectrum because like I want to watch you, Like, no, 40 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:58,439 you talk spectrum. You are a big company. You don't have one lawyer 41 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,840 there that can get on the phone. You gotta make me do it. 42 00:03:00,479 --> 00:03:05,919 I know I'm good at email writing, but come on, I really did. 43 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:07,639 I was like John's like, should we like dispute this? I was 44 00:03:07,719 --> 00:03:15,599 like, no, I write enough goddamn emails. I'm retired. How is 45 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:19,240 it? How are they putting that on the I already pay a lot of 46 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,400 money by my cable TV. If you can't provide me ABC, you talk 47 00:03:23,439 --> 00:03:25,479 to ABC about it. Go talk to them. And it's not I'm not 48 00:03:25,599 --> 00:03:31,759 adding that to my fucking to do list. Cunts, Oh my god, 49 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:36,240 speaking of cunts, Oh yeah, you should say hello to our favorite people 50 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,840 cuts in a good way, Like Sarah Stefano is my Pieson and Leslie, 51 00:03:42,759 --> 00:03:46,159 why are you gotta be like Klin with that cough all the time? And 52 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:51,120 also the other Leslie who's accosting people everywhere. She's like, no one's safe 53 00:03:51,639 --> 00:03:55,560 from her. Stop that making it up and down Ventura, Polly, we 54 00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:01,800 love your pancakes. And Alicia Escalante of Oh Monte and Kelly Branch, she'll 55 00:04:01,919 --> 00:04:04,639 take it a hip hop like I took Jackie to hip hop? Yes, 56 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,599 did she still remember that? Oh yeah, we talked about it all the 57 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:16,759 time. Oh my god remember and sat Bass and Gabby and Missy. It's 58 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:21,040 not so cute and your antics are not cute anymore. It's together girl, 59 00:04:21,199 --> 00:04:27,120 Yes, come on now. And uh, Katarina, be careful. You 60 00:04:27,199 --> 00:04:30,680 already had one implant. Don't get that. I'll get another one. Valerie 61 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:35,279 Bubba Fenwick and we already did. Polly, we love your pancakes, right, 62 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,480 and uh we love your dancing. Elizabeth. You've got a lot of 63 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,920 kids. Hero, you got a lot of kids. They love you. 64 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,360 Rita you got a bassinette and you're rocking people's kids. I don't know what 65 00:04:46,439 --> 00:04:50,920 you're doing. Uh, Jacob, you're still Growley. You're very loved, 66 00:04:53,319 --> 00:04:58,839 and uh did we talk about Aaron who is and Rachel's she's still a newcomer, 67 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,120 and Randy's got a lot of names, and Nikki call your girl, 68 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,920 and Ashley she I now I'm probably repeating people. And Jennifer get up, 69 00:05:04,959 --> 00:05:11,079 and Sandra it's not easy being green. Christa yes, and Krista, you 70 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:23,399 made me watch true but that didn't especially but like that, Oh my god, 71 00:05:23,519 --> 00:05:28,720 so I have my I think I don't know if you're going to relate 72 00:05:28,759 --> 00:05:31,759 to this. This might be more of a Stephanie problem than I'll that problem. 73 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:38,079 But tell me, okay, so I have my sister my I don't 74 00:05:38,079 --> 00:05:43,279 know why I called my it's my my nephew. Yes, is getting bar 75 00:05:43,399 --> 00:05:48,560 mitzvad Oh really yes, tomorrow for you guys. I got a few days 76 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:53,160 and he was a baby when I met my. I remember I met you 77 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,720 at the park and I met your brother and he brought the baby yep in 78 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,519 a stroller. Yep. Now he's bar Mitt getting a bar mitzvah yeah, 79 00:06:00,879 --> 00:06:05,680 thirteen years old. Wow, which I just realized that I forgot his birthday. 80 00:06:06,399 --> 00:06:10,879 I'm the worst family. I'm like, honestly, I'm the worst with 81 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:15,120 birthdays Like that is my only family besides my immediate family, and I can't 82 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,600 like get my ship together to like wish my nephew a happy birthday. I 83 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:24,959 didn't do that, but I will be there to celebrate him, okay, 84 00:06:25,519 --> 00:06:30,120 on his bar Mitzvah day. But anyway, so it's a whole thing because 85 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:34,160 my sister in law is no joke. When she's an event planner basically like 86 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:40,279 she's a produces plays. So she is producing the fuck out of this bar 87 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:45,360 Mitzvah. It is no joke. Like a wedding, it is planned like 88 00:06:45,399 --> 00:06:50,480 a big ass wedding. I mean, the invitations were like super fancy. 89 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:56,959 You could put down what you know, you could order the filet, the 90 00:06:57,519 --> 00:07:04,279 chicken, orange ruffie, no salmon, or a vegetarian manicatti. Like it's 91 00:07:04,319 --> 00:07:12,519 a lot of choices. Wow. Yeah. And then so there's a temple. 92 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,759 It's it's so there's a temple portion that's in the morning. Uh, 93 00:07:16,319 --> 00:07:19,480 it's like hours, Like I we have to be there at nine thirty. 94 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:25,600 The service loss until noon. Other guests can come a little bit late. 95 00:07:25,839 --> 00:07:30,600 But family were immediate family, well you know family. So she's got family 96 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,439 coming in from out of town. So that's a whole Kashaw. Yeah, 97 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:41,399 okay, then there's a party at night and it's like cocktail attire. Right 98 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,920 wow. So here's the thing. What I know it's not about me. 99 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:50,279 It's not intellectually, I know it's not about me. But it is like 100 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:56,639 a huge deal to figure out what everybody's gonna wear. Because we live in 101 00:07:56,839 --> 00:08:01,480 la I don't know if anybody knows that. Ain't nobody dressing up for any 102 00:08:01,639 --> 00:08:07,240 Like I never have to get fancy right anything right now. I have had 103 00:08:07,279 --> 00:08:11,079 to get fancy. I have gone to things in the past, but they 104 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:16,480 were like fifteen pounds ago. Okay, So like not to player hate myself 105 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:22,079 for my weight. I understand that I'm not fat, I get that, 106 00:08:22,759 --> 00:08:26,000 but I am much bigger than I was the last time I dressed up. 107 00:08:26,199 --> 00:08:31,639 I cannot fit into any of my clothes. So I had to like figure 108 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,399 out, like who can I borrow clothes from? And also, you know, 109 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:39,480 when you're not feeling your best self, your most felt, it's like 110 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,919 trying on clothes is like kind of depressing thing you want to do. Yeah, 111 00:08:43,039 --> 00:08:46,480 don't want to be staring at myself in a full length mirror. And 112 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:50,200 also right now I'm not doing much about it because my foot of my foot, 113 00:08:50,519 --> 00:08:54,480 so it's like, I'm not even you know sometimes when you're like you've 114 00:08:54,519 --> 00:08:56,639 let yourself go a little bit, but you're like, it's fine because I'm 115 00:08:56,679 --> 00:09:01,759 back on track. Like I know, I know that you don't have weight 116 00:09:01,879 --> 00:09:07,159 struggles, but maybe clothes struggles where you're just feeling like what am I going 117 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,200 to wear to this? Or maybe you like you have something nice, but 118 00:09:09,279 --> 00:09:13,000 you wore it to the last the last time you were with the whatever it 119 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,279 is. I'm like, okay, I had to get I had to make 120 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,879 sure everybody in my face. And when you go to a the temple portion 121 00:09:20,919 --> 00:09:24,000 of the bar Mitzvah, you have to be dressed nice, but also your 122 00:09:24,039 --> 00:09:28,559 shoulders have to be covered. So it's a thing. So then I so 123 00:09:28,879 --> 00:09:33,879 I went shopping and it was just depressing. Can I ask you what about 124 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:39,159 like the thrift stores they have really cute sometimes they got some cute stuff like 125 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:43,639 RECHOI I don't know, Well, this is what I did. I just 126 00:09:43,799 --> 00:09:48,840 borrowed clothes from friends. So my friend was like, let me raid her 127 00:09:48,879 --> 00:09:54,039 closet. So I have a pair of like really nice black pants and I'm 128 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,480 like, I'm not wearing a dress to temp. I'm not a dress person, 129 00:09:56,879 --> 00:09:58,919 I'll wear a dress. I'm going to wear a dress to the party. 130 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:05,039 I feel like dresses just aren't me anymore. I haven't worn a dress 131 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,600 in a lot of years. But I'm like, i'll wear addressed to this 132 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,279 party. So a friend lent me a dress that does fit and it's cute, 133 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:15,720 and I'll wear it to the nighttime parts. I want to see picks, 134 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,480 I'll send you picks. And then I got have this pair of black 135 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:22,840 pants and I was like, then I found I went took myself shopping the 136 00:10:22,919 --> 00:10:26,360 other day, like I was. I was already at the mall for another 137 00:10:26,399 --> 00:10:28,519 reason. I have lunch with somebody. But I was like, I went 138 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:33,919 into Macy's. I tried on some stuff. It was so depressing. I 139 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:39,080 was like, this is awful, awful, just no dress fit me right. 140 00:10:39,279 --> 00:10:41,240 And you know, then you're like, I think I like to remain 141 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:45,080 a bit in denial because I just wear my sweatpants all the time. I 142 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,279 try to forget about it, but it's like staring at yourself in a freaking 143 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:52,759 full length mirror, you know, clothes that aren't fitting you right, It's 144 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:56,879 like, okay, yes, And then when they went the three way mirrors 145 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:01,080 and then you could see your backside what I look like from behind. Jesus 146 00:11:01,279 --> 00:11:07,159 Christ. Yeah, it's a whole combination of just like having gained weight but 147 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:13,720 also getting older and like also also I only can wear glasses now because and 148 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:18,039 I loved wearing contacts. Wearing contacts for me was very freeing and I feel 149 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:24,919 cuter in contact. But I have this double vision thing that's came on a 150 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:28,360 few years ago that I went to the eye doctor and the eye doctor was 151 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:33,360 like, you know, you're seeing double. And once he told me and 152 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,720 I realized I was, there's no going back from it. Like once your 153 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:41,159 brain is like, oh I do see double, then you you're like, 154 00:11:41,399 --> 00:11:45,519 oh shit, I can't see in my regular glasses. So now I have 155 00:11:45,639 --> 00:11:48,440 to have a prism. And they don't make contacts with a prism, so 156 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,120 now I have to always wear glasses or I cannot see. So I'm like 157 00:11:52,519 --> 00:11:58,159 glasses plus feeling overweight plus feeling like I'm getting older, and you know, 158 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,440 it's like a bad combination and to just be like so now I'm like resentful 159 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:05,480 of this barmit sky I'm like, God, damn it, I have to 160 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:09,840 wear a dress that I'm uncomfortable and I have to sound. I found a 161 00:12:09,919 --> 00:12:11,559 couple of shirts that I like, and I'm going to wear one of the 162 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,840 shirts that I found to the barmitspan. Then I have a little cute jacket 163 00:12:15,919 --> 00:12:18,159 that's gonna go over it. So I'm like, I'm fine. But then, 164 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,840 as I told, I had to take Xander Xanders like dress up, 165 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:28,399 like I'm gonna wear his clothes don't fit him right now, so I had 166 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,519 to take him to get dress pans. And I had to take him to 167 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:35,039 get the dress pans hemmed and I was like, how is somebody else's event 168 00:12:35,759 --> 00:12:37,120 becoming a full time job for that? That's what I want to meet, 169 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:41,720 right. Have you had that where you're like, oh my god, I 170 00:12:41,759 --> 00:12:45,799 would love to celebrate your another time. Yeah, Like I wish I could 171 00:12:45,879 --> 00:12:48,679 just be like, I'm so sorry, I wish you. Well, here's 172 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:52,360 a check, like this is too much work? Yes, I remember Sundy 173 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:56,320 in Italian were asked to be in a wedding. I remember remember. And 174 00:12:56,559 --> 00:13:01,600 it was my brother's new wife, yes, after Wendy who we all do 175 00:13:01,799 --> 00:13:09,519 not like, and this Charmuta's daughter was getting married and why why why were 176 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:11,559 we invited? To be in the wedding. We don't know you that well, 177 00:13:11,799 --> 00:13:16,200 right, especially your daughter, right, she wants Sonny in Italia and 178 00:13:16,279 --> 00:13:20,399 their weddings or like I barely went to your wedding, Yes, I exactly. 179 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:22,120 I don't even think I went. They got married in Europe, my 180 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:26,639 brother. Okay, so I didn't know. So now her daughter's getting married 181 00:13:26,759 --> 00:13:31,639 and she wants Sonny in Italian in the wedding, Like Sonny and Italian like, 182 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:35,240 who are these people and why are we in their wedding? Right? 183 00:13:35,399 --> 00:13:39,639 They were like ten and they were in two actually two weddings. Adam's niece 184 00:13:39,879 --> 00:13:45,519 in Oregon that that was fine because we see them Everythanksgiving and at least Sonny 185 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,519 and Italian knew who they were. But this side of my family, they're 186 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:52,279 like, huh, I think that's the one that I'm remembering that you were, 187 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,159 like, am I even gonna do this? Right? I took them 188 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:58,600 to Portland and We've had to fly out to get the plane tickets. I'd 189 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:03,519 get them the dresses and the suit and the whole thing, and they had 190 00:14:03,519 --> 00:14:07,440 to be at the rehearsal dinner. They were I think a little older for 191 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:13,399 that one. But my brother's wife's one was like out and freaking I don't 192 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:18,240 even know, like El Segundo and shit like far away, and we had 193 00:14:18,279 --> 00:14:20,279 to be there. It was a whole thing, you know, the wedding 194 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:24,080 doesn't start until that's the why. Yes, And we had to be there 195 00:14:24,279 --> 00:14:28,480 at like nine am. Wasn't that right around the time that your dad died? 196 00:14:28,039 --> 00:14:33,080 I think so it sounds right. And I got had to get sunny 197 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,519 a suit. I had to get hemmed, yes, you get a fixed. 198 00:14:35,799 --> 00:14:37,960 Natalia's dress had to be a certain color. Had to take her shopping 199 00:14:39,039 --> 00:14:41,480 and to find that, and then I have to find something to wear. 200 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:45,759 And then I'm driving them down to El Segundo at nine am when the wedding 201 00:14:45,759 --> 00:14:48,919 doesn't even start the five because they want the whole wedding party there. They 202 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:52,399 want pictures. Yes, we have to be there early. Yes, for 203 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:54,799 pictures. And that's the depressing because I was looking in the mirror and I'm 204 00:14:54,840 --> 00:15:00,240 like here, I am in my glasses and my thing, and oh gotta 205 00:15:00,279 --> 00:15:03,000 all be in pictures. And I'm like, my family looks so ragtag, 206 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,879 like it's just you know what I mean, Like, yes, every I'm 207 00:15:05,919 --> 00:15:09,440 sure Sadie's going to be wearing like Converse with her dress because that's what they 208 00:15:09,559 --> 00:15:13,679 do, and like she's like nice shoes. I don't have any nice shoes. 209 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,679 And then I'm like, I'm gonna buy her shoes that she's gonna wear 210 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:20,320 one time I never wear again, which is what I had to do for 211 00:15:20,399 --> 00:15:24,200 these weddings. Yeah, you know with Natalia and Sonny. Sonny was like, 212 00:15:24,279 --> 00:15:26,919 can I just wear my tennis shoes? Like, no, you gotta 213 00:15:26,919 --> 00:15:31,320 wear dress shoes. Then I get there nine am like hanging out. They 214 00:15:31,399 --> 00:15:35,279 got brunch at least that I don't know anybody there because my brother's not around, 215 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:39,320 right, I don't know anybody. So I just meeting all these relatives 216 00:15:39,399 --> 00:15:43,320 from out of town. Like I literally will not know a soul right at 217 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:48,159 this sparmouth side. I will actually I'll know one couple and their kid because 218 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:52,080 we go to Thanksgiving with them every year, who I really like. But 219 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,679 I'll know my sister, my brother and my sister on their kids. Would 220 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:58,799 that it will be busy. I don't know any of their Jewish friends right, 221 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,960 go to temple with them, nobody, No, So I'm spending a 222 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:06,399 Sunday all day with all these strangers. At least there's a spread of food, 223 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,200 and then it gets to be like three o'clock for the wedding starting at 224 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,799 five, so it's time to get dressed to get pictures taken. Lo and 225 00:16:12,919 --> 00:16:17,960 behold, I don't have Sunny's pants. Do you remember that? Like? 226 00:16:18,639 --> 00:16:21,399 Yes, I had to get him a belt and everything. I got the 227 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:23,360 belt. I was so focused on his belt, his tie, his jacket, 228 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:29,279 his vest, everything. I left his pants behind. So now I 229 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,039 get this ten year old boys in a wedding and he's supposed to be in 230 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:37,120 a black suit and no dress pants. And then I'm like, holy shit, 231 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:38,879 Now I mean else segundo. I don't know where I am. I 232 00:16:38,919 --> 00:16:42,240 don't know what is there a Marshal's nearby or a ross, But even if 233 00:16:42,279 --> 00:16:45,720 there is, they're gonna be too long, like they're getting what exactly? 234 00:16:45,919 --> 00:16:48,919 Yeah, so you know I had to go find him a pair of pants. 235 00:16:49,039 --> 00:16:52,039 I had to go, like get in the car with somebody's uncle who 236 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:56,000 I don't know. He lives out there, so he's he knows where the 237 00:16:56,039 --> 00:16:57,720 mall is, so he's driving me to the mall. And now I'm in 238 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:03,480 awkward like sitting in the car with this strange dude making you know, well, 239 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:07,640 dumb me, I forgot my son's pants. Making small talks. He's 240 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:12,440 shown me the sights of El Segando drafts me off of the mom rushing trying 241 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,920 to find I'm like, at Macy's they don't have anything, and wed you 242 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:18,519 have Sonny with you or were you? Just like, I'm just gonna whow. 243 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,559 I just wanged it. I was like, Sonny, just I don't 244 00:17:22,559 --> 00:17:26,039 want him to get hurt, so you just straight here and eat your bagel. 245 00:17:26,079 --> 00:17:27,839 I'll be back, you know. And then I know what sized pants 246 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,839 that he needs and if if they're too long, I'm just gonna like, 247 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:34,799 yeah, take them or whatever. Yeah with safety bens. Yeah, bought 248 00:17:34,839 --> 00:17:38,119 a thing of safety bens just so that I had it. Got his pants 249 00:17:38,559 --> 00:17:42,279 they were like the different color black. It was black. But then we 250 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:48,079 got there in his jackets black black and these are like gray black. It 251 00:17:48,279 --> 00:17:51,680 just did not and uh. And then they were in the wedding and then 252 00:17:51,759 --> 00:17:57,960 the the DJ announced them their names wrong, like Sony and Natalie or in 253 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:03,440 the Flower Boy kids, you know, like Sony and Natalie, and I 254 00:18:03,519 --> 00:18:07,920 was like, who e foks Sony and then you know, and then it 255 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:12,519 was like a long ass day. Yeah, it's just like for what, 256 00:18:12,839 --> 00:18:17,599 like right, who you know? I'm not friends. I barely sing them, 257 00:18:17,839 --> 00:18:22,279 haven't after their marriage, haven't seen them since pretty much. Well this 258 00:18:22,599 --> 00:18:26,319 is my actual brother, so I do. I do very much care about 259 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:30,319 them. But we're hardly Jewish like, so that's another thing. And we 260 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,240 have to go up on the bema. That's the Oh, let's take a 261 00:18:33,319 --> 00:18:37,279 quick break and then I'll tell you more. Oh, let's take a break 262 00:18:37,319 --> 00:18:41,519 and talk about Little Spoon. This show is sponsored by Little Spoon. Little 263 00:18:41,559 --> 00:18:49,000 Spoon we love it's a service that provides nutritious and delicious meals for babies, 264 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:53,720 for collars for big kids and Kaylin, you've been loving it. I was 265 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,799 very excited when they came on board. It's like, oh, I'm going 266 00:18:56,839 --> 00:18:59,799 to get the girls some some lunches and stuff like that. So yeah, 267 00:18:59,839 --> 00:19:02,640 I got him. I got him two different plates. One is just called 268 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:06,359 the All Star Chicken Nuggets Smack and Cheese broccoli Bites. 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And 303 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,359 luckily Elby's been to like a ship ton of's fuzz, so she's like 304 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:25,000 I got I got you, but I have to know it enough so that 305 00:21:25,079 --> 00:21:27,559 I'm not like we're going to be on a microphone. And Sadie and Xander 306 00:21:27,559 --> 00:21:30,720 are like, oh, we don't have any idea how to do this. 307 00:21:30,279 --> 00:21:34,559 They've never been to temple something ever in their lives. I don't know. 308 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,160 I might just go up with Elby. I'll have to see how it goes. 309 00:21:38,559 --> 00:21:44,759 But you know, there's kind of a lot expected when you're family, 310 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:48,039 right right, I feel like, yeah, I've been to them, and 311 00:21:48,759 --> 00:21:53,240 it's a long service, it's a lot. It's impressive. So we got 312 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,640 so we go to this thing on Saturday. So I have to. I'm 313 00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,480 I shouldn't say I have to. I was invited to have dinner with my 314 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:04,960 brother and sister in law and my sister in law's extended family who's coming in 315 00:22:06,079 --> 00:22:08,039 from out of town. Never met any of them. So I'm going to 316 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:14,039 go represent for my brother. Then the next day, nine thirty am, 317 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,759 we have to be at the temple the family. It's not close, you 318 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:22,839 know, drive to Santa Clarita. Then we do that whole morning, and 319 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:26,720 then we do lunch. There's like a lunch. Then we come home. 320 00:22:27,079 --> 00:22:32,880 But then we to change, right, party for the nighttime party. Then 321 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,400 we have to be back there, Like, well, I'll probably have two 322 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,119 hours of downtime and then we have to be back for the night time portion. 323 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,119 So that's what I was going to ask you, because it is in 324 00:22:41,279 --> 00:22:45,480 Santa Clarita, which is not close. So are you going? Wouldn't you? 325 00:22:45,599 --> 00:22:48,920 Would you? Why would you rather go to your brothers and hang out 326 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,160 and change and then go back to dinner or you're gonna make that trek going 327 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:57,400 back and forth. And by the way, it's just better to come home. 328 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:02,519 It's like thirty minutes. It's just easier to come home because no, 329 00:23:02,599 --> 00:23:04,279 I don't want to have all of our so plus we have Peepo, right, 330 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:08,000 we gotta walk the dog, like I mean, hire a pet sitter 331 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,359 for the day. Like that sounds like a lot. Yeah, Like, 332 00:23:11,559 --> 00:23:15,440 no, we're gonna come home. It's not like it's that far, right, 333 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,000 if it was like Elsa Gundo or something, we probably would stay there. 334 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:22,680 But but my sister in law was like, we're having the hair and 335 00:23:22,759 --> 00:23:27,200 makeup like professionally done. This is like a wedding dang, And I'm like, 336 00:23:27,839 --> 00:23:30,440 no, I don't need my hair and makeup professionally done, like, 337 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:37,400 bitch, No, I'm not a bright Yeah you know what I mean. 338 00:23:37,759 --> 00:23:40,559 Yeah, yeah, that's a lot. Yeah, it is a lot. 339 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,720 I didn't know that that's a lot. That does sound like a wedding. 340 00:23:44,519 --> 00:23:45,720 Oh, it is like a wedding. She wants. I was like, 341 00:23:47,039 --> 00:23:48,599 and then you have to be nice, like I don't want to be like 342 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,480 are you high? Like no, I don't want to get my hair and 343 00:23:52,559 --> 00:23:56,759 makeup spend another two hours with like all the girls getting the hair. No. 344 00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:00,240 I was like, no, I'm good, Like we'll just do our 345 00:24:00,279 --> 00:24:03,640 own like hair and makeup, like yeah, yeah, thank you though, 346 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:07,640 right right right, it's a big deal. When I was in Florida, 347 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:12,759 so Wendy and Jackie loved corny movies, which I don't. They like they 348 00:24:12,799 --> 00:24:15,599 you know, they liked them The Notebook, yes, but they liked the 349 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:22,400 Adam Sandler movie or have you seen the you know, there was another dopey 350 00:24:22,519 --> 00:24:27,039 movie with you know, even though I love uh what's his name? From 351 00:24:27,079 --> 00:24:32,759 Wedding Crashers Tall, Chicago, what's his name? Vince Vaughn. Vince Vaughn. 352 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,640 I love Vince von but there was like some Vince Vaughn movie that was 353 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,240 a dud. And they're like, let's watch it. And I was like, 354 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:41,839 it's like the proposal or the breakup or what was it? No, 355 00:24:41,279 --> 00:24:45,000 the breakup was great. This one was God, I can't even think of 356 00:24:45,039 --> 00:24:52,079 the name of it. Uh. You know when when Whenona Ryder was in 357 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:56,119 it and she cheated on Kevin she was married to Kevin James and she cheated 358 00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:02,279 on Kevin James. Uh, and it was about Vince Vaughan catching her cheating 359 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,039 the dilemma. The Dilemma, Okay, it was like, no, none 360 00:25:04,039 --> 00:25:07,359 of that was another like another Diamond dozen movies. I'm do we really have 361 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:11,359 to watch this shit? Okay? So I humor them. I fall end 362 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:12,680 up falling asleep. But the first night I was there, they're like, 363 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,599 Jackie Intillnatt, let's there's that new I want to see the new Adam Sandler 364 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,240 movie on Netflix. You're not invited to my bar mitzvah. Yeah, yeah, 365 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,400 you're so not invited to my bar mitzvah. That Woe's cute, is 366 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,839 it? Not? That one did look more serious than some of Adam Sandler's 367 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,160 other movies on Netflix, you know, like The Ridiculous Six or the Halloween 368 00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:37,400 movie. Like I saw the little trailer that they play for. It was 369 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,200 like, Okay, this looks a little more normal than some of his other 370 00:25:40,279 --> 00:25:42,759 ones, but it's serious. I thought it looked more serious. You watched 371 00:25:42,799 --> 00:25:48,960 it. I had to watch it, but then every these two bitches fall 372 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,359 asleep, and then I end up being like I'm invested. Now I know 373 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,240 how the ship ends. So I actually watched it. I was like, 374 00:25:56,599 --> 00:25:57,759 actually, yeah. Like the next morning, she's like, I want to 375 00:25:57,799 --> 00:26:00,480 finish watching it. I was like, you finished watching it, but I 376 00:26:00,759 --> 00:26:04,240 I finished watching it, and don't tell anybody, but I kind of enjoyed 377 00:26:04,279 --> 00:26:11,279 it. I mean, it was okay, it was you know, it 378 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,519 was like a coming of age. It's his daughters, his two daughters, 379 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:18,519 right. His wife is in it, so the whole family's in it. 380 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:22,519 Uh, but it's his actual daughter playing and it's At first was kind of 381 00:26:22,559 --> 00:26:26,400 distracting because I was like, oh my god, she talks just like Adam 382 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,480 Sandler. She got the same eyes as Adam Sandler. So I couldn't get 383 00:26:30,519 --> 00:26:32,720 over that for a while. But then once I got over it, I 384 00:26:32,759 --> 00:26:34,279 don't know, it was just like a coming of a like you know, 385 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,599 embarrassing, like, oh my god, we were talking about how you know 386 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,960 women fart from their vagina. You know, it's like, oh god, 387 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:45,079 you know, like just and then they're embarrassed because the whole class saw it, 388 00:26:45,279 --> 00:26:48,799 you know, and then they're fighting about their bar mitzvah, and it's 389 00:26:48,839 --> 00:26:52,680 like it was okay, but you're telling the story. I'm like, well, 390 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,640 you know, maybe your kids should watch it ahead of going to the 391 00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,559 bub Well. It's funny because I suggested it as like you're all home the 392 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,720 other night. I was like, we should watch this movie. You guys 393 00:27:02,759 --> 00:27:03,839 want to watch this movie and sad He's like, I already watched it. 394 00:27:04,559 --> 00:27:07,720 I was like, these kids just do their own thing. Like I was 395 00:27:07,759 --> 00:27:10,799 like, when did you watch it? She goes on like a week ago 396 00:27:10,839 --> 00:27:14,519 when it came out. I'm like, A right, You're like so we 397 00:27:14,599 --> 00:27:15,279 were like, well, how is it? You know, and she's like 398 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,759 it's okay, it's okay, kind of funny. She was like, it's 399 00:27:18,799 --> 00:27:22,160 kind of funny. Yeah, I liked it. Yeah, We're like, 400 00:27:22,319 --> 00:27:25,319 okay. Out of ten, she's like, I don't know, five five 401 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,440 it was fine, but we're like should we watch it? She was like, 402 00:27:27,799 --> 00:27:33,240 I don't know. You would not make a good film. Critic don't 403 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:40,799 watch it. What do I care? On your own Sady's so funny. 404 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:45,200 It is funny. But yeah, it was okay, all right, I 405 00:27:45,319 --> 00:27:49,119 mean, well, that will be happening when you guys listen to this tomorrow. 406 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,839 Yeah, I'll get through. Hopefully, I'll get through the day. 407 00:27:52,319 --> 00:27:56,559 I hate when I have a thing that's like hanging over Yes, that's like 408 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:02,119 okay, I'm sure it will be fun when it's actually happening, but there's 409 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,880 so much preparation that, like, and I got John's got to get his 410 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,000 pants for his suit, take it out, and he's, oh my god, 411 00:28:08,039 --> 00:28:11,240 I got to remind him to do that tomorrow. And then I gotta 412 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:15,160 make sure I picked Xander's pants up and bring them with me. I guess, 413 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,200 yeah, you bet, don't forget his pants. So you know what, 414 00:28:19,319 --> 00:28:25,240 I will say that I won't that I could have put on Patreon, 415 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:30,039 but I'll just tell you so you know how. Okay, this is bizarre. 416 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,599 Oh my god, that is really cute. Look at this thing. 417 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:37,000 Take a picture. I was. I took a picture yesterday. I had 418 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:41,119 a squirrel that stopped and stared at me for so long yesterday when I was 419 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:42,880 sitting outside and I was like, what the fuck is he staring at me 420 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:45,880 like that? For why is he staring at me? I had to take 421 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,759 a picture. I have a picture on my phone of this squirrel that came 422 00:28:48,839 --> 00:28:53,920 by me yesterday and stared me right in the eye for like a like like 423 00:28:55,039 --> 00:28:59,160 a death's stare, like mad dog and me for like, I don't know, 424 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:03,000 like two minutes. It went on and on. Then he went past 425 00:29:03,079 --> 00:29:04,640 it. Then he came back and he looked at me again, and I 426 00:29:04,759 --> 00:29:08,759 was like, what is going on? Now? I'm doing this podcast and 427 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,960 the fucking squirrel comes right up to the window just now and stares at us. 428 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:18,640 Yeah, what does this mean? Maybe the squirrel has a podcast and 429 00:29:18,759 --> 00:29:25,039 it's just trying to like, what's up? Can I do Thursday? We're 430 00:29:25,079 --> 00:29:29,759 like, we have somebody for next Thursday, but Chipmunk talk, give me 431 00:29:29,839 --> 00:29:33,480 your phone number. I'll text you about an opening. It's weird. It's 432 00:29:33,519 --> 00:29:37,640 like there's a lot of drama that goes on in this backyard. Yeah, 433 00:29:37,799 --> 00:29:41,400 and here he comes again. This is freaking me out. What does it 434 00:29:41,519 --> 00:29:45,920 mean? I don't know. Maybe it's some bit the ghost of somebody. 435 00:29:45,839 --> 00:29:51,000 Okay, okay, so you know how, you know how I'm a big 436 00:29:51,079 --> 00:29:55,200 time volunteer at my kids school. Now, yeah, and you know how 437 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:59,359 it was, there was like a little bit of like rough waters there. 438 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,240 Right, I don't know, go check Patreon, but there's somebody who's kind 439 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:10,119 of in charge of the volunteering, and I had I had some other ideas 440 00:30:10,279 --> 00:30:15,119 on how the So they do a staff breakfast every month, right, and 441 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,319 among other many other things they do at this school, they like to treat 442 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:22,480 the staff to breakfast, which is like, yeah, that's a good idea. 443 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,039 That's nice. And the staff, the teachers and all the administrators, 444 00:30:26,119 --> 00:30:32,079 they absolutely listen. We come from TV, right, TV there, you 445 00:30:32,119 --> 00:30:34,480 don't it's not a once a month thing that's every morning, like we're my 446 00:30:34,559 --> 00:30:38,839 Bagels craft service. Yeah, that's like you need we get spoiled by that. 447 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,359 But like a lot of jobs, it's like a big deal if they 448 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,519 have donuts in the morning. And I guess at school, like and these 449 00:30:45,599 --> 00:30:49,839 guys hot, they don't make enough money. They should be treated special. 450 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,920 So I'm all for it. Yeah, me too. But my whole thing 451 00:30:53,079 --> 00:30:57,680 was like I don't think that one parent should have to be in charge of 452 00:30:59,519 --> 00:31:02,960 stepping up. They're looking for volunteers to like, hey, who wants to 453 00:31:03,079 --> 00:31:06,160 host the staff breakfast, and it's like, well, I'm I would. 454 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,640 I don't mind helping, but I don't want to come up with the two 455 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:15,200 hundred dollars like to do it. And I had suggested, hey, what 456 00:31:15,359 --> 00:31:21,400 if like we get a bunch of parents to help to like chip in some 457 00:31:21,759 --> 00:31:26,960 money or some time, you know, or like make it more pot luck, 458 00:31:26,319 --> 00:31:30,440 like everybody brings an item signs up? Ever heard of sign up genius 459 00:31:30,839 --> 00:31:34,000 kind of a thing that people have been doing. So anyway, I was 460 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:40,440 met with a little bit of resistance, which I talked about and and then 461 00:31:40,519 --> 00:31:42,440 I was told, well, if you really think that could work, which 462 00:31:44,319 --> 00:31:47,440 the person who's in charge of it did not feel it would work out that 463 00:31:47,599 --> 00:31:51,799 well, that people weren't going to volunteer. She was like, why don't 464 00:31:51,799 --> 00:31:55,920 you take it over? So I was like, all right, I'll take 465 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,799 it over, and then she kind of didn't really let me take it over. 466 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:05,039 Well, but then I eventually, I eventually was tasked with this, 467 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,519 and I haven't given an update to this in a while. So now we've 468 00:32:07,559 --> 00:32:13,839 had to count them two staff breakfasts already. So one of them happened literally 469 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,000 the first week back at school. They wanted to do one, and I 470 00:32:16,119 --> 00:32:20,079 was like, and she put it made it up to me, So I 471 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,920 made a sign up genius. This is me, who we all know is 472 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:27,720 a no getter. I was like, I did it. I made the 473 00:32:27,759 --> 00:32:30,200 sign up. I had to learn how because I'd never actually made one. 474 00:32:30,319 --> 00:32:35,000 I've used them, I've signed up. I like made a sign up genius, 475 00:32:35,119 --> 00:32:37,599 which I didn't even watch a tutorial on it. I was just like, 476 00:32:37,839 --> 00:32:40,680 Okay, let me figure this out. Do you remember your password? 477 00:32:42,359 --> 00:32:45,680 I didn't have to remember my password at auto philed, thank god, because 478 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,200 that would be a disaster. I don't I don't know my password. But 479 00:32:47,279 --> 00:32:51,240 anyway, I made the sign up genius and then they sent it out to 480 00:32:51,319 --> 00:32:54,920 people and what do you what do you know? A lot of people signed 481 00:32:55,000 --> 00:33:00,279 up. It totally went off without a hitch. Nice showed brought the stuff, 482 00:33:00,519 --> 00:33:06,599 and then I had to do another one. That just happened and it 483 00:33:06,799 --> 00:33:08,920 was so great I felt I just want to I just felt so proud of 484 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:15,160 myself because I was like, yeah, I do know that I tend to 485 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,000 be like, I've got a better idea of how this should go. But 486 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:21,920 it did work out fine. Like I put it out there. I had 487 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,720 a couple of friends at the school that I didn't know about it, and 488 00:33:24,799 --> 00:33:28,240 I was like, hey, I know you've been looking for a way to 489 00:33:28,279 --> 00:33:30,000 help out at the school. Like here's the links of the Sign of Genius. 490 00:33:30,039 --> 00:33:34,079 If you want to bring something, we have the most beautiful spread. 491 00:33:34,599 --> 00:33:38,000 Two different people brought bagels, people brought cream cheese, people brought juice. 492 00:33:38,119 --> 00:33:44,640 I brought fruit, people brought pop tarts, pop tarts. Somebody brought all 493 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:49,480 the coffee, all the coffee creamers, like different kinds of creamers. Anyway, 494 00:33:49,519 --> 00:33:53,400 we had this beautiful spread and all the all the parents that helped out 495 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:58,559 like felt good, Like you feel like you're contributing something. The teachers are 496 00:33:58,599 --> 00:34:05,759 super appreciative and like I did get quite a few emails reminding me about things 497 00:34:05,839 --> 00:34:08,880 to do that I already knew to do. You know, the person who 498 00:34:09,039 --> 00:34:15,360 had been sort of you know, when you're dealing with somebody that's controlling, 499 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:22,559 I'm I'm trying to have a little empathy for the person that feels like if 500 00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:24,639 I don't do everything, it's not going to get done right. You know, 501 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:30,239 sometimes it's really hard to let go of and to feel very put upon 502 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,719 and like nobody helps out and nobody's willing, and I have to do everything 503 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,800 myself, and if I don't do it, it's just going to be a 504 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:44,199 shitty school for everybody. And maybe those people just don't have faith that they 505 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,320 can turn some of it to somebody else, and they just worry too much 506 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:50,159 that I'm going to trust this other person and they're not going to do it 507 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,519 right right. And when you're the person who's not being trusted that you're going 508 00:34:52,559 --> 00:34:55,559 to do it right, it can be so fucking irritating, you know, 509 00:34:57,199 --> 00:34:59,679 when you're like, can you step back, bitch, because I got it. 510 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:00,760 I I told you I got it, and I fucking got it. 511 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:05,000 What part of I got it? Like leave me alone? Do you not 512 00:35:05,159 --> 00:35:08,400 understand? But then if I just shift my perspective a little and go, 513 00:35:09,559 --> 00:35:14,679 let me understand that heretofore she really has been just doing it all herself. 514 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:19,480 Yeah, so let me show her, which I thought I did by handling 515 00:35:19,519 --> 00:35:22,679 it well the first breakfast, but I have to say for the second. 516 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:27,039 For the first one, she showed up and did and brought a bunch of 517 00:35:27,079 --> 00:35:30,360 stuff to which I was like, why did you do that? Like you 518 00:35:30,519 --> 00:35:34,679 gave this, you put this on me, so that you because you were 519 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,760 complaining that you don't want to have to do it and you don't have to 520 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:42,119 bandwidth is what the words she used, so like let me do it. 521 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,880 But you know what I'm telling you that I was like, you know what, 522 00:35:45,159 --> 00:35:49,559 let me look, let me feel for her, has some empathy. 523 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:53,079 She still felt like she needed to show up. So okay, she showed 524 00:35:53,159 --> 00:35:57,679 up. It went off without a hit. She was very appreciative. She 525 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,920 sent me an email she was like, that was awesome, thank you for 526 00:36:00,079 --> 00:36:05,960 handling it, which still made me feel like she still felt like my boss, 527 00:36:06,559 --> 00:36:08,159 right because like now you're you don't need to thank me, like I 528 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,800 took this off of your plate, right, you didn't have to do it 529 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,159 in the first place. But then after the second one, for the second 530 00:36:15,199 --> 00:36:20,119 one, she didn't show up. She she emailed me to tell me to 531 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,679 email people. She did email me some reminders, which I was like, 532 00:36:24,679 --> 00:36:28,920 thank you, I got We're all good. I totally got it. Don't 533 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,960 even worry about it. But in her defense, didn't show up for the 534 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:36,559 second one, didn't bring anything and didn't show up and didn't try to Like 535 00:36:36,639 --> 00:36:40,039 I thought for sure I would see her there, like commandeering and you know, 536 00:36:40,639 --> 00:36:44,320 but nope. Wow. And I started in the parking lot when I 537 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:45,599 was leaving and she was like, how did it go? And I was 538 00:36:45,639 --> 00:36:50,719 like it went great, Yeah, awesome, I know, And you're gonna 539 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,079 do number three. I'm in charge of all of them. Wow. Every 540 00:36:53,159 --> 00:36:59,199 month I have to throw a staff breakfast, but I don't. But it's 541 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:04,360 but it's not because I'm not doing it by myself. That's the thing. 542 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,199 Like so many people signed up. It was easy, breezy. Only thing 543 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:14,280 that was the slightest pain, honestly was having to show up at school like 544 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,039 an hour early, like with my stuff. But like my kids. The 545 00:37:17,159 --> 00:37:20,760 first one, both my kids were like, we'll come early with you and 546 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,320 help you set up. And then like Xander was like cutting tomatoes for bagels 547 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:28,360 and like they helped put stuff out. And then the second one, Xander 548 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,760 wasn't didn't go to school that day, but Sadie came with. She was 549 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,360 like, I'll go early with you. I don't care nice, like, 550 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:39,480 no problem, no problem, that's awesome, that's inspiring, good, good 551 00:37:39,519 --> 00:37:44,119 for the kind of thing that I am like, I don't like I think 552 00:37:44,159 --> 00:37:45,920 I want to be involved, but then it sounds like way too much work. 553 00:37:46,119 --> 00:37:51,360 But I was like, I faced my fear. I faced down like 554 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,360 what I thought was going to be like a contentious relationship with the person in 555 00:37:54,480 --> 00:38:00,960 charge of all the parents stuff, and I like took it on and figured 556 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,800 it out. And now it's like, oh, okay, this is no 557 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:07,199 problem, and now I'm in. Now I'm like listed on the board as 558 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:12,880 the person who's like in charge of that's great breakfast. That's good. Now 559 00:38:13,039 --> 00:38:15,559 sounds much harder than it really is, right, But you know what else 560 00:38:15,679 --> 00:38:20,119 is nice about it is that you know your kids are not getting any younger, 561 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,239 and they're this is like a good time for you to be like still 562 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:27,880 involved with their school, and you know, maybe once a month do stuff 563 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,760 with that. Like it's nice, that's good. I love that. Let's 564 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:37,840 take a quick break. Yeah. I do think like when Elby's school, 565 00:38:37,039 --> 00:38:42,800 her high school was like a big high school, and I was and then 566 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,000 the kids I volunteered a bunch when the kids were in their first middle schools. 567 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,920 But then when they were in the big middle school, I was like, 568 00:38:49,039 --> 00:38:51,119 well, I guess I can take the year off. They're both at 569 00:38:51,159 --> 00:38:54,679 big public schools. They don't need me, right, But now the twins 570 00:38:54,719 --> 00:39:00,519 are in it. It's a small charter school, independent charter and needs some 571 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:04,960 love from the parents. And I'm like, I feel like I had that 572 00:39:05,199 --> 00:39:08,559 year to kind of breathe, and now I am. I'm like, you 573 00:39:08,639 --> 00:39:13,599 know what I'm going to enjoy, like getting to be a part of this, 574 00:39:14,079 --> 00:39:16,639 yes for a couple more years. Yeah, that's what I'm you know, 575 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:22,239 because like I know how you're feeling. Yeah, yeah, it's like 576 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:27,039 the last year of school. Like I was in Target the other day and 577 00:39:27,199 --> 00:39:30,000 I was like, what was I looking for? And I came across, 578 00:39:30,159 --> 00:39:35,159 like, I don't know, the ten year old section for kids, and 579 00:39:35,159 --> 00:39:37,599 I was looking at their outfits and I was like, I remember when my 580 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,119 kids were ten and I would be in Target, going, oh my god, 581 00:39:40,159 --> 00:39:44,239 that's so cute for Sunny, that's so cute for her. Nice to 582 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,599 you know, and go walk just walking through Target. I was like about 583 00:39:46,639 --> 00:39:52,400 to cry. I was like thinking about I remember when they were little and 584 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,719 I would like take them with me to Target and bribe them with candy and 585 00:39:57,639 --> 00:40:00,719 check out. But yeah, now it's like they're driving themselves to Target. 586 00:40:01,519 --> 00:40:07,280 I know. There were so many good things, and it's weird because we 587 00:40:07,519 --> 00:40:13,480 both are in such a similar situation. And we started doing this podcast when 588 00:40:13,519 --> 00:40:15,800 our kids were so you young enough to be a pain in the ass and 589 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,440 feel like we were, you know, not in the corner office. And 590 00:40:20,599 --> 00:40:23,920 the time between like being in the mail room to the corner office, it 591 00:40:24,039 --> 00:40:28,840 does feel like it flew by. And now I knew you will never get 592 00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:34,840 that back. Will never They'll never be seven, eight or ten or even 593 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:38,039 like twelve or again. I know, and I remember when they were little. 594 00:40:38,079 --> 00:40:42,840 I just remember, like me, Melissa, Susanne, we were like 595 00:40:43,199 --> 00:40:45,760 willing the time to go buy faster, like all right, let's let's get 596 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:49,199 this going, like wait till it, Like I can't wait till they're six 597 00:40:49,559 --> 00:40:52,639 seven, when they're easy to handle. Yeah, it's like now, it's 598 00:40:52,679 --> 00:40:58,079 like I wish I would have just enjoyed, but you can't tell you but 599 00:40:58,199 --> 00:41:02,920 you can't. I do. I maintain that I did not enjoy the years 600 00:41:04,039 --> 00:41:08,159 between like zero and five. Yeah, I just I'm just saying, I'm 601 00:41:08,199 --> 00:41:12,679 just being honest. It's not that I hated it or that I disliked my 602 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,480 kids in any way. I loved, loved, loved my kids and felt 603 00:41:15,599 --> 00:41:21,639 that primal like Mama bear. But there was just so much anxiety and boredom, 604 00:41:22,159 --> 00:41:24,400 and like, it's just hard, it's just hard. It's relentless. 605 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:30,559 They need attention twenty four seven. There's always something, especially like twins, 606 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:34,480 right, me too. And Kaylin knows he's because both of his kids are 607 00:41:34,559 --> 00:41:39,119 young and so close an age that you're there's always something. Potty training, 608 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,000 you know, getting them to eat, getting them to do this. They 609 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,719 need to be entertained, figuring are they learning enough, are they this? 610 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:51,800 Are they what? And it's so relentless. And then you hit this part 611 00:41:52,039 --> 00:41:54,480 after they're five. Of course they still need to be watched all the time. 612 00:41:54,719 --> 00:42:00,840 But there's something that changes for me. Yeah, remember it was the 613 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,559 best. Yeah, when, like doctor Drew, I always told me, 614 00:42:02,639 --> 00:42:07,199 when they know when they they're going to go in the street, they could 615 00:42:07,199 --> 00:42:09,199 get hit by a car. That's when it kind of changes. That's when 616 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:13,400 they get a little older, they start to it. It gets a little 617 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:20,840 easier, right I hope, so I guess, yeah, yeah, it 618 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:24,440 really does. But then then you have other like challenges, and then you 619 00:42:24,519 --> 00:42:28,239 have a lot of school stuff, and then you're dealing with other parents, 620 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,440 and then there's a lot of things that are very annoying along the way to 621 00:42:31,599 --> 00:42:37,480 this stage where where they get fully independent, right, and then when they 622 00:42:37,519 --> 00:42:39,440 get fully independent, you're like, god, damn it. I know, 623 00:42:40,199 --> 00:42:50,280 but I think that hopefully because sometimes I Alby's right there in my house and 624 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,639 I miss her because she's just different, right right right, you know, 625 00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:59,320 Sonny said the other day and this is like I was like, oh, 626 00:42:59,679 --> 00:43:00,920 you know, I've been thinking about, you know, taking them on a 627 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:06,360 look at a college, because Natalia just went with her family with the family 628 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:10,360 friends to Florida to look at university out there, and then they went to 629 00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:15,119 New Orleans looked at it because her friend was interested. She's and she loved 630 00:43:15,199 --> 00:43:19,280 both. She's like, I ain't getting into these places, but I you 631 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:24,400 know, they were like she really liked the Floridas. So anyway, then 632 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:28,800 I was talking to Sonny about it, and he was like, well, 633 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,800 you know, he goes everybody and their mother and he looks right at me, 634 00:43:34,119 --> 00:43:37,840 are like going off. All my friends are going off looking at colleges. 635 00:43:37,519 --> 00:43:40,440 And I was like, yeah, okay, well where you want to 636 00:43:40,519 --> 00:43:44,599 go? Like I would like to take you and Italia? So what am 637 00:43:44,639 --> 00:43:46,519 I supposed to do? Like take Natalia and then take him take them or 638 00:43:46,559 --> 00:43:51,599 should I take them both to like ta they both, because just to look 639 00:43:51,639 --> 00:43:54,039 at even you know, even if they're not interesting, even if one's interested 640 00:43:54,039 --> 00:43:58,599 in the other ones, not just for the experience. But yeah, I 641 00:43:58,679 --> 00:44:00,239 mean I told him, I said, let's talk to your college counselor let's 642 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:04,320 figure out because I don't want to waste I want to take them somewhere that 643 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,719 it's realistic for them, you know, yeah, especially for Sonny. I 644 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:12,559 really want Sonny to go. Look, I think it'll really like you know, 645 00:44:13,159 --> 00:44:15,360 which to the one in Chicago, maybe that one I don't know I'm 646 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,320 going to talk to. This was just like two days ago. And he, 647 00:44:20,039 --> 00:44:22,840 I mean when he said everybody and their mother and he looked right at 648 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:27,639 me, meaning like you're not taking me on college tours, meaning like he's 649 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,360 joking, or like, you know, like his best friend Cam just got 650 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,039 back from wherever, and these other friends are out. You know, we're 651 00:44:34,119 --> 00:44:37,119 gone for two days last week because they weren't with their parents looking at schools, 652 00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:42,199 and you know, it's a time where everybody's like doing that, and 653 00:44:42,519 --> 00:44:45,159 I've been thinking about it and I would love to take them, you know, 654 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:46,960 especially just to bond with them. And just go somewhere. Yeah, 655 00:44:47,079 --> 00:44:51,119 I mean I say, pick a couple and that's it, and then it 656 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,000 and then depends where they get in. Right. Then when they get in 657 00:44:53,159 --> 00:44:57,119 somewhere, then you can take them and go if they're really considering it, 658 00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:00,360 right. I wish if I had to do that again, to be honest 659 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,840 with you, I wouldn't have taken I mean, Elbie went to UCLA, 660 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,920 but it's right here. Yeah, but like, did we really need to 661 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,519 go to Berkeley before she got in? No, It's it's like I don't 662 00:45:09,559 --> 00:45:13,119 even think we needed to go to a lot of the uc That's what I 663 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,199 think too. I'm like, do we really? But but at the same 664 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:21,599 time, I think it would be good for especially him Sonny, to really 665 00:45:21,679 --> 00:45:23,599 like see because you know, he was so I'm not going to go to 666 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,760 college for so long. Now he is wants to go to college. So 667 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,719 I think, you know, taking him to show him some of these you 668 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,920 know, universities would get him like even more sure. But I agree with 669 00:45:35,039 --> 00:45:37,239 the idea of like, you don't have to go to all of them, 670 00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,920 and I would go to one that he has a reasonable chance of getting into. 671 00:45:40,159 --> 00:45:44,400 Otherwise it's just disappointment, like yeah, yeah, yeah, take him 672 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,679 to these hard schools to get into my One of my really good friends took 673 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:52,320 her daughter to go see Brown and she fell in love with it, like 674 00:45:52,519 --> 00:45:55,440 was like, this is this is my school, Like I want to go 675 00:45:55,639 --> 00:45:59,719 here, like you know, and my friend feels like it was a mistake. 676 00:46:00,119 --> 00:46:02,639 Her daughter didn't get into Brown, and then was like that much sadder 677 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:07,800 because it felt so real going to see it and picturing herself there and like 678 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:09,199 this is my school, and it's like, well, she didn't get in, 679 00:46:09,559 --> 00:46:13,440 right, so right, you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, 680 00:46:13,639 --> 00:46:16,440 I mean I'm not saying I'm saying if like in her case, I 681 00:46:16,559 --> 00:46:20,880 understand why they did because her daughter actually did have a chance of getting in. 682 00:46:21,039 --> 00:46:27,679 She's super super good like kid, you know, like super high stats. 683 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,960 So but just looking back, she and I both agree that it's like, 684 00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:35,159 yeah, you don't want to like set him up for disappointment, right, 685 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:39,239 So I wish in retrospect, I wish I'd taken her to a couple 686 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:44,679 more schools where she for sure would have gotten in, maybe even out of 687 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,239 state, but to a school that a private university that would have given her 688 00:46:47,519 --> 00:46:52,440 money. Because I didn't take her to see University of Oregon, and I 689 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:57,199 thought about it a lot, and I'm kind of glad I didn't because we 690 00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:00,400 couldn't have afforded to send her there. They didn't give enough money off for 691 00:47:00,519 --> 00:47:02,519 us to afford it. So then I would have had that same thing. 692 00:47:02,639 --> 00:47:06,599 She would have been like, well, that was my fallback school. But 693 00:47:06,679 --> 00:47:07,880 I've been there and I really like it, and now I want to go 694 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:12,280 there. And I would have been like, right, I just had dinner 695 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,360 with Suzanne the other night. Her daughter's the same age as Sunny and Italia, 696 00:47:15,519 --> 00:47:21,079 and you know, she's doing the same thing. And Suzanne went to 697 00:47:21,159 --> 00:47:25,159 Season and you know, you can get anybody can get in and it's pretty 698 00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:29,920 cheap. And she's like, my daughter's not going to season. She's not 699 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,480 gonna go to season. Not gonna. Well now she's like, Season's looking 700 00:47:32,519 --> 00:47:37,440 pretty good. It's affordable. Any kid can get in, they have they 701 00:47:37,519 --> 00:47:40,199 have dorms. You know. She's like, I want her to be able 702 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:45,280 to like at least, you know, even though it's a Northridge it's like 703 00:47:45,639 --> 00:47:49,360 hops gipping a jump from her house, right at least, but some kids 704 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,039 come from other places are staying there. So even though they could easily come 705 00:47:52,079 --> 00:47:54,960 home. It's still feel You're still gonna be with kids that are not from 706 00:47:55,199 --> 00:48:00,840 right away. Right. So she's like, yeah, he sounds looking pretty 707 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:01,719 good. And then I was like him, maybe it's good for Sonny and 708 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:06,360 it tally you too. I don't know. I wouldn't mind them going to 709 00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:09,280 school close to home. I mean, listen, I'll be applied to cal 710 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:14,400 State San Diego, which we thought she had a real good chance of getting 711 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:20,519 into. No, she got declined from there. Yeah, so I mean 712 00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:23,719 it's all a kind of a crap show. I mean, now I sound 713 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:28,280 like bitter, like, uh no, but get it. Don't even apply. 714 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:34,440 They're not gonna get in anywhere. I'm gonna hears college for two years. 715 00:48:36,039 --> 00:48:37,320 That's all I will tell people. Now, I'm like, what's wrong 716 00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:43,719 with community college? Yeah? I don't know. I think. I think 717 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,880 though taking them to places where the college counselor says is a target for them 718 00:48:47,199 --> 00:48:50,440 is a good idea. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna do. I just 719 00:48:50,519 --> 00:48:53,280 think filling these kids heads with like here, like look at this school, 720 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,880 and then it's like they have no chance of getting in. It's like kind 721 00:48:55,920 --> 00:49:00,239 of sad, right right. And then I had the meetings last week with 722 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:06,639 their teachers. Oh do they still need luckily? Yeah, they're still what 723 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,320 the I epple because you know, they have this this hour of directive studies 724 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:14,840 which they can take advantage of, which is helping them a lot, which 725 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,800 is one hour of them sitting in a classroom where all they have to do 726 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,239 is just catch up on work or finish their whatever or focus or study or 727 00:49:22,519 --> 00:49:27,599 especially for Natalius, and she's doing this these office hours you know, after 728 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,119 school. You know, Oh my god, she's still doing the job too. 729 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:36,199 Yeah, yeah, okay, but go on, she met. Yeah, 730 00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:37,639 I had the meeting. You know, it's the same thing. It's 731 00:49:37,679 --> 00:49:40,079 like by now, it's like they're in their senior year. I've been doing 732 00:49:40,159 --> 00:49:44,320 this for years now, right, get on. Luckily I don't have to 733 00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,440 go to the school ever since COVID. It's like it's all on zoom now, 734 00:49:46,639 --> 00:49:50,119 isn't that the best? I was thinking about it. I was like, 735 00:49:50,199 --> 00:49:52,800 Wow, this is like COVID has changed some things for the better. 736 00:49:53,119 --> 00:49:57,920 Yes, I had to go at this at this school at seven forty five 737 00:49:58,039 --> 00:50:00,920 in the morning. You know, I'm just on zoo. So I had 738 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:02,679 them back to back ones on Thursday. The other one was on Friday. 739 00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:06,800 I had the Thursday one where I was on camera Friday one. I was 740 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,519 like, I turned my camera off. I was like, you know, 741 00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:12,840 I'm feeling so good this morning. I was like, and I just got 742 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,000 back from Florida too, right, I was like, sleep deprived. I 743 00:50:15,079 --> 00:50:19,400 was like, but I already saw you bitches yesterday on zoom. Do I 744 00:50:19,519 --> 00:50:22,480 have to there's only three of you. It's not like I have all their 745 00:50:22,559 --> 00:50:25,360 teachers there and they're all together, and they're together, it doesn't matter. 746 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:30,800 Well, they're in their in their own offices right before school starts. Everybody's 747 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,199 in there, and some of them are with the camera off. So that 748 00:50:34,559 --> 00:50:37,119 gave me the idea of the day before. There was a teacher there with 749 00:50:37,519 --> 00:50:39,800 her camera was off. Why I don't know. Maybe she was still at 750 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,559 home. I don't know. But I was like, oh, okay, 751 00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:49,920 two could play at that game like you. So anyway, yeah, did 752 00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:53,000 the I EP stuff. It's all the same basic stuff, right, but 753 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:58,239 but yeah, I mean, and Italia is still making the job though for 754 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,760 Gargos, she there's times where she's bored. There's times where she's has to 755 00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:05,880 answer phones and she's like, these people call and they're starting to tell me 756 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:07,960 about their case, and I'm like, uhlah, blah blah, I'm not 757 00:51:08,119 --> 00:51:12,679 a lawyer, Like, not far from it. Just let me get your 758 00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:15,079 name and number off, somebody call you. They go on. She's like, 759 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,079 I don't know what to do. They're going on and on and on 760 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:20,599 telling me their story, and the phone's ringing and somebody else is asking for 761 00:51:20,679 --> 00:51:22,400 this, and I gotta sit there and listen to this guy going. I'm 762 00:51:22,599 --> 00:51:25,199 like, what do you want from me? They go to law school, 763 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:31,760 but she's reading about like the Menendez stuff. Very interesting. She's like, 764 00:51:32,079 --> 00:51:36,639 holy, I said you should watch the documentary. Like yeah, she feels 765 00:51:36,639 --> 00:51:39,400 like she knows the story. But I said you should watch a documentary. 766 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:43,920 But she yeah, she's loving it. She does love it. But I 767 00:51:44,039 --> 00:51:45,119 don't know, it's taken a little bit of a toll on her. I 768 00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:50,880 think she needs to needs a lot every day, every four days. See, 769 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:52,679 I think she should do it one day a week. Yeah, that's 770 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,920 enough interning, that's huge. One day a week is all she should be 771 00:51:57,039 --> 00:52:00,119 doing. This is a job, right, right. If Elbe was going 772 00:52:00,199 --> 00:52:02,800 to work four times a week, I'd be like, no, yes, 773 00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:06,519 too much, too well? I wouldn't say that now, but I'm saying 774 00:52:06,679 --> 00:52:08,599 in senior year, I would have been like, no, yeah, yeah, 775 00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:12,679 she's she's like, I'll probably just do it for you know, a 776 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,079 semester maybe, but maybe she should cut down the days. I don't know 777 00:52:16,119 --> 00:52:20,400 if they'll letter, but whatever, Like, oh, well, you know 778 00:52:21,079 --> 00:52:23,039 it's her senior year, like her senior year in high school, and and 779 00:52:23,119 --> 00:52:27,599 she's not getting paid, right it, Yeah, I get it, but 780 00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:30,199 like can she? I would if I were her, I'd just be like, 781 00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:35,000 they could hire another intern to yeah, they could yeah, job share 782 00:52:35,039 --> 00:52:39,480 with her, right right, yeah, or pay her yeah yeah, anyway, 783 00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:44,280 all right, all right, let's go eat lunch. Super fun, 784 00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:49,079 Love you guys. Let's plan our next zoom, our next ye meet up 785 00:52:49,679 --> 00:52:53,840 for our ten dollars up subscribers. Yeah, so before we go for our 786 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:59,599 fifty dollars people again. Adam Lerner is a carbroker. Adam's got acar dot 787 00:52:59,679 --> 00:53:05,360 com. You've heard my speel about him. I was thinking about letting Adam 788 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,239 into the for Crying Out Loud Facebook group so that people if they want to 789 00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,880 ask him questions. Yeah, that would be great. 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