1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:11,039 I made a decision I'll face Sunny sad on. I had a vision by 2 00:00:15,119 --> 00:00:20,920 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, what's up? Everybody? 3 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,800 Where are we? What time is it? How I know we have a 4 00:00:24,839 --> 00:00:31,000 great Thursday Get Special guest episode coming up this week. You guys are gonna 5 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:35,960 love. I enjoyed every second of it. I'm so glad because you know 6 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,960 when something's so sort of special, like personal. Yeah, spoiler alert. 7 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:47,320 We had Jonathan Brook, who's my all time favorite singer, on a full 8 00:00:47,359 --> 00:00:51,359 show where we interviewed her. She played songs and I was in heaven. 9 00:00:51,799 --> 00:00:55,840 Stunny was geeking out over. I was so geeking out. You know. 10 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,799 It's just one of those things where it's like, you know, when you 11 00:00:59,799 --> 00:01:03,600 feel like you made a discovery. My sister actually is the one who turned 12 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:07,599 me on to her back when she was with the Story that was their duo, 13 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:14,079 and I mean I took to it immediately got and then every single time 14 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,680 she had a new release, I got it right immediately as soon as it 15 00:01:17,719 --> 00:01:21,439 was out. And then you know, fell in love with certain songs and 16 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:26,280 played them over and over and over and and she has this one album called 17 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:30,480 My Mother Has Four Noses, which is a which is the soundtrack to a 18 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,599 musical to a play, a one woman show she did, and it's about 19 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:40,200 it's just it's very sad. But one of the songs is called are You 20 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:45,560 Getting This Down? And it is just like about it's just so touching And 21 00:01:45,719 --> 00:01:49,439 for a while, I literally couldn't listen to it without crying, so I'd 22 00:01:49,519 --> 00:01:52,959 have to not listen to it because it was just like I had a visceral 23 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:57,079 response every time and I would just cry. So it was just a really 24 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,599 special thing to be able to go, Oh, I have a podcast that 25 00:01:59,599 --> 00:02:05,480 I could help. I can help spread the Jonathan news to our audience and 26 00:02:05,599 --> 00:02:08,680 hopefully she'll turn us on her audience on to us. Right. She was 27 00:02:08,759 --> 00:02:12,159 so great, she was so fun to talk to you. I got the 28 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,319 chills, and she performed for us, Yeah, which was wonderful. She's 29 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:19,560 a hustler, like she is not a no getter. No, she's definitely 30 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,520 not a no getter. She's had some struggles and some but you know, 31 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:28,120 it's like the music business is really it's a tough business, definitely, and 32 00:02:28,199 --> 00:02:30,639 you think a lot of times, you know, for me, I because 33 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:34,879 I she's had a lot of success, she's had a lot of songs, 34 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,520 and she's had big soundtrack songs and soundtracks, and you always think other people 35 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,800 are, you know, killing it, killing the game. And it's always 36 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,280 interesting to me to talk to other people who are sort of mid level, 37 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,159 you know, have a have a nice social following, but have always had 38 00:02:50,199 --> 00:02:53,080 to struggle. Like she was saying to us that she can't afford you know, 39 00:02:53,319 --> 00:02:57,919 right pr and paying for social media and all that stuff, so she 40 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,759 has to kind of do it herself. And it's like related, Oh yeah, 41 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:05,199 very scrappy, that's for sure. It was just fun watching Stephanie like 42 00:03:06,199 --> 00:03:08,719 bask in it. It was really really nice. It was really nice. 43 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:13,080 Made my day. I was nervous this morning, I know, I could 44 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,159 tell. I know I was anxious. I was just like, oh, 45 00:03:15,199 --> 00:03:19,639 I hope, like you know, but she was so sweet. Oh she 46 00:03:19,719 --> 00:03:23,439 was great. She was very interesting and her lyrics are so like moving, 47 00:03:23,879 --> 00:03:29,159 very like smart and you know interesting. Yeah, she's too smart. Like 48 00:03:29,199 --> 00:03:30,879 there's one reference she made that I was like, I'm just gonna pretend like 49 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:36,439 I foo foods on her. Yeah, she said right, She's like, 50 00:03:36,479 --> 00:03:40,840 you know, the time laps or whatever. She said some word like yeah, 51 00:03:40,879 --> 00:03:44,879 And I wanted to interrupt her to say, like, I wouldn't didn't 52 00:03:44,919 --> 00:03:50,000 go to college, so I don't know none of us. There's out between 53 00:03:50,039 --> 00:03:57,080 the three of us right off high school graduates, high school equivalent scene. 54 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:00,280 Right, Yeah, we're getting by. Yeah anyway, let us say hi, 55 00:04:00,319 --> 00:04:09,039 toy doct rpe. We got Sarah Sefano, Leslie. I understand why 56 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,639 she's coughing at this point. It's back, It's back, Hayley, you're 57 00:04:11,639 --> 00:04:17,639 in good company. And Amy, Aliciasclante, Kelly Brandt, she's yeah, 58 00:04:17,959 --> 00:04:28,519 your aunt just punch her in a face for her cuteness. Gabby and Missy 59 00:04:29,439 --> 00:04:33,040 still doing the same thing. Missing and I saw a poster. I think 60 00:04:33,199 --> 00:04:38,199 I know. I haven't seen these bitches. They all over up and down 61 00:04:38,639 --> 00:04:44,480 Venice Boulevard. It's everywhere. Kick it away from them. Valerie, Bubba 62 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,759 Fenwick, Polly. We love your pancakes, Athena, love your dancing. 63 00:04:48,079 --> 00:04:51,879 Elizabeth Williamson. We love all of your kids except for one, and you 64 00:04:51,959 --> 00:04:57,079 know everyone that is hero. All your kids love you. Yeah. I 65 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:00,079 hope you still enjoy hearing your name. We love saying your name. We 66 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:08,199 do stop complaining. Rita Rocks the bassonet full of Elizabeth Williamson's newest kids, 67 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:12,480 whichever ones are still in the Bassonet Jacob, you're so Growley. We love 68 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,959 you, Leslie, stop with the costan people outside of Come on now, 69 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:21,160 seven eleven getting old, you're tired. People recognize you now and they had 70 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:26,600 to stay away. Yeah, all your disguises too, Ashley, you're so 71 00:05:26,759 --> 00:05:30,199 chic. Nikki call your girls, Randy may Aimes, you got too many 72 00:05:30,319 --> 00:05:34,120 names, Rachel you're you're almost not a newcomer, but still are Aaron who 73 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:39,120 does Stephanie Stinker Rinker, Krista gets a strap, and Sandra Snyd easy being 74 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:46,279 green and Jennifer you should sound up to try it sometime. I had a 75 00:05:46,519 --> 00:05:54,199 huge weekend. Yes I want an update. Huge huge, Okay, So 76 00:05:54,560 --> 00:06:00,639 my nephew Beckett was a bar mitzvah this weekend. Normally I would just say 77 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,519 he had a bar mitzvah, but like the Jews, they like to say, 78 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:09,199 you're a bar mitzvah. Here's this everything a mitzvah. With that Jews, 79 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:15,600 this is a mitzvah. That's it's a mitzvah. So my sister in 80 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:20,319 law, Roquel has been planning this bar mitzvah. This is like her life 81 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:26,040 right, although she's also my sister in law was one of the biggest go 82 00:06:26,199 --> 00:06:31,480 getters like you and me and Kaylin. Even Jonatha would not relate to my 83 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:36,079 sister in law. She is just like she doesn't I you would have thought 84 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:41,279 that my sister in law would have been a bar mitzvah zilla, like just 85 00:06:41,399 --> 00:06:46,040 going crazy and barking orders at people, but she'd She had this amazing event 86 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,079 planner who I want to give a shout out, you know, you know 87 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,600 me. I end up hanging with the I met this event planner and she 88 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:57,959 and I were just like, couldn't get enough like conversation. Her name's Aaron 89 00:06:58,399 --> 00:07:04,519 and her company is Cabe Magnolia Events, Cabe Magnolia Events. I just have 90 00:07:04,639 --> 00:07:08,720 to give her a shout out because I was like, why is everybody so 91 00:07:08,879 --> 00:07:14,560 calm? This is like an insane an amount of planning. Not I mean, 92 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,639 not that many. I guess maybe like eighty people. That's a lot 93 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:24,199 though that is still a lot trunk of people. So the thing is, 94 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:29,199 my sister in law is never going to listen to this, but it was 95 00:07:29,279 --> 00:07:35,399 a lot yeah for family. I went the night before and I was invited 96 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:40,800 to have dinner with Raquel and not her out of town family. So Raquel 97 00:07:40,959 --> 00:07:44,480 has a bunch of family. My brother not so much. Right. She's 98 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:49,360 basically me and my and John and the kids, right, don't I know? 99 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:57,240 Yeah, So I wanted to represent my brother. The night before it 100 00:07:57,399 --> 00:08:01,079 was already going to be a whole kshaw on Saturday, yes, with making 101 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,439 my kids, I mean, it was like it was like a twelve thirteen 102 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:07,959 hour day. But on Friday, I went to Santa Clarita, showed up, 103 00:08:09,199 --> 00:08:11,040 We had some dinner. It was really nice. I met her family. 104 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:15,759 Did you and the whole family go or ditch just me? Because I 105 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,839 wanted to. I didn't want my brother did not have somebody somebody, right, 106 00:08:20,439 --> 00:08:22,399 So it was me. It was Roquell and my brother and their kids. 107 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:28,519 And then it was Roquell's mom, her brother, her brother's wife, 108 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,679 their two kids. You know, there was like a houseful of people. 109 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:37,399 And then we went to temple that night that night, Friday night, Holy 110 00:08:37,639 --> 00:08:43,919 moly, go went to temple. By the way, all of these things 111 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:48,440 require outfits. I know, it's just gonna say this is how I outfits. 112 00:08:48,759 --> 00:08:52,480 What I'm wearing right now, you guys can see is dressed up for 113 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:56,559 me? This is I haven't gotten dressed right. You see a lot of 114 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:01,879 times on video I'm wearing sweatpants and a T shirt. Yeah me too, 115 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:05,759 because I don't fit into a lot of my old, like dressier clothes. 116 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,480 So I'm like, well, what do you I mean, what am I 117 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,960 going to go buy a bunch of new clothes for? What? Where am 118 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:16,440 I going? Target? Right? Not going anywhere? So I'm wearing like 119 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,519 if I put on pants, real pants, like I'm patting myself on the 120 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,399 back like I showed up. Yeah, you know. So anyway, I 121 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,720 had to figure out outfits I had. I had this one pair of pants 122 00:09:26,799 --> 00:09:31,639 that I bought at H and M, like forever ago, that I've just 123 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:33,720 been hanging in my closet with tags on. Again, where am I going? 124 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:37,759 So I was like, okay, I'll wear those pants. And then 125 00:09:37,799 --> 00:09:41,159 I bought a shirt that I was like, well, I could use this 126 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,159 for like when my book comes out, and I'm having to like, I 127 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,799 don't know, I'll use it. Yeah, right, I rationalized spending a 128 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,080 little money. So I had a shirt and these pants, and then I 129 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:56,279 went to temple. Oh my god, so it's a conservative temple. You 130 00:09:56,399 --> 00:10:01,159 know you're an honorary Jew. You know, there's Conservative, there's Orthodox that's 131 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:05,240 that's way more relate, and then there's reformed, which is what I'm kind 132 00:10:05,279 --> 00:10:07,120 of used to. That's me and my Jewish friends are all like reformed, 133 00:10:07,279 --> 00:10:11,279 Right, So I was thinking conservative, I'm gonna have to be a little 134 00:10:11,279 --> 00:10:16,639 more dressed up. Right. This was like a ragtag team that showed up 135 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:22,480 for Friday night services because it wasn't It was just my brother, Raquel, 136 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:28,039 the family, me and then they were probably like fifteen I guess regulars. 137 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,039 They were like, these people looked like they just stuffed out of rehab. 138 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:35,080 I don't know what was going on, but it was like, okay, 139 00:10:35,279 --> 00:10:39,279 like I get what I'm saying is I didn't need to sweat dressing up for 140 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:45,480 Friday night services. There were people whose biggest dress up was like a humongous 141 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,919 neck tattoo. I was like, lord, I mean it was mostly like 142 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,039 sneakers. But I was like, all right, you know, yeah, 143 00:10:52,840 --> 00:11:00,559 the rabbi. I love this rabbi. He started talking about twelve step weaving 144 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,840 that into his thing that he was talking about, and I was like, 145 00:11:03,159 --> 00:11:07,200 after he assessed the crowd, yeah, probably, So it turned out that 146 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:11,919 the rabbi had been sober twenty six years. Because of course I went up 147 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:16,159 and was like, hey, I love the twelve step stuff, like yeah, 148 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,679 I relate. And he was like, oh, I'm sober twenty six 149 00:11:18,799 --> 00:11:20,759 years and I was like, okay, so this is fun. So I 150 00:11:20,879 --> 00:11:26,519 have only a fun night Friday night, well not so fast Saturday morning? 151 00:11:26,799 --> 00:11:31,080 Yeah, how long was the service? One hour? Friday night? One 152 00:11:31,159 --> 00:11:35,360 hour? Get in, get out, you know. Yeah. Then we 153 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:39,720 went back to Rockhell's house and my brother and then I went home, got 154 00:11:39,759 --> 00:11:43,639 home at a reasonable time, went to sleep. Saturday morning, though, 155 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,799 that ship was on like Donkey Kong. You know, we had to be 156 00:11:48,039 --> 00:11:54,519 at temple at nine thirty am. The service was nine thirty two noon and 157 00:11:54,799 --> 00:12:00,960 not a minute less. My god, that motherfucking service was all of two 158 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:05,759 and a half hours. Holy shit. Okay, so and so now I'm 159 00:12:07,159 --> 00:12:09,720 I had to dress up for that right also, got it. I'm sweating 160 00:12:09,759 --> 00:12:13,240 the kids. We talked about this last week, but you know, now 161 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,559 it's we're at the wire. I didn't forget Xander's pants, but you know, 162 00:12:16,039 --> 00:12:18,879 Friday, I'm running around I'm making sure I get his pants back from 163 00:12:18,919 --> 00:12:22,360 the tailor. I go to the tailor. They have Xander's pants, but 164 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:26,200 they John's pants aren't ready yet, you know. So it's like, my 165 00:12:26,399 --> 00:12:28,679 god, I'm like, all right, just give me Xander's pants, let 166 00:12:28,759 --> 00:12:31,720 me pay. Then I have to send John. I'm like, make sure 167 00:12:31,799 --> 00:12:35,480 you go because that shit's not going to be open Saturday morning if you fuck 168 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,279 up and don't go pick up your pants. Yeah, Like, I don't 169 00:12:39,279 --> 00:12:43,000 know what you're gonna wear, which, in retrospect, he could have just 170 00:12:43,159 --> 00:12:48,440 warned. It wouldn't have mattered that much. But I'm like, we I 171 00:12:48,519 --> 00:12:50,720 don't have time to be worried, like you know, as moms were the 172 00:12:50,799 --> 00:12:54,919 default parent. I've got it. It's all locked in my brand. Gotta 173 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:58,519 have the directions, got to know what everybody's wearing, right, Okay, 174 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,639 I know you're going to relate to this. Wake up in the morning. 175 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:05,759 Okay. So I've said to Sadie many times, like, you know what 176 00:13:05,799 --> 00:13:09,279 you're wearing, right, you know what you're wearing. She's got two dresses 177 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:15,559 and one of them is like a kind of a shorter dress. One of 178 00:13:15,639 --> 00:13:18,879 them's like a long dress that she bought to wear to Like, I don't 179 00:13:18,879 --> 00:13:24,679 know, so some dance right and it's like a little fancier. She was 180 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:28,480 going to wear that at night to like the black tie party, right, 181 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,919 Okay, So I'm like making sure because we need to go to Santa Clarita. 182 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,840 If there's traffic, I don't want to be late. Yes, So 183 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:39,279 I'm like, we're gonna be early if anything, right, And they need 184 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:43,519 to have you and the kids have to have a different outfit for the morning 185 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:48,559 and the night. Correct. Okay. The nighttime is cocktail attire, right, 186 00:13:50,159 --> 00:13:52,840 which can mean a lot of things. It's not like it's black tie, 187 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:56,000 you know, and whatever. I'm not trying to micromanage the kids. 188 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,799 I just want to I'm not like, let me see your closet. I'm 189 00:13:58,799 --> 00:14:03,200 just like, do you know what you're wearing? Yes to the earlier service, 190 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,080 And so for the earlier services, you have to have your shoulders covered. 191 00:14:05,279 --> 00:14:09,320 Okay, Okay, So I would think Elbie's got it down. I 192 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:16,200 wouldn't worry about Elby. Am I correct? Well, yeah, you're you're 193 00:14:16,279 --> 00:14:18,799 correct. She has a couple of dressy things. She was fine, but 194 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:24,679 Sadie was like, yeah, I'm all good as locked in and now. 195 00:14:24,759 --> 00:14:26,759 And Xander's good. He knows what he's wearing. Okay, okay, So 196 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,799 cut to the morning. Everything's fine. We've got John's pants, he picked 197 00:14:31,879 --> 00:14:35,759 up his pants. I'm ready, I'm ready to go. I get up, 198 00:14:35,799 --> 00:14:39,759 I know what I'm wearing. People start showing up in the living room 199 00:14:39,799 --> 00:14:43,639 with what they're wearing. Xander's wearing like khaki pants, which I told him 200 00:14:43,679 --> 00:14:48,240 he could and this shirt. So ever, since we got our new washing 201 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:52,919 machine, uh huh, the old washing machine that was a front loading washing 202 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:58,000 machine got really moldy. But the good news is I don't know it clean 203 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:01,200 clothes and it was so then now we have a top loader because I don't 204 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:05,559 want to deal with the mold. But with the agitator, I don't know 205 00:15:05,759 --> 00:15:11,080 why, but stuff comes out like really wrinkled, and I hang most stuff 206 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:13,639 to dry because I don't want things shrinking. I have that issue too, 207 00:15:13,919 --> 00:15:18,720 like when then, when when you're washing your clothes, everything gets twisted twisted, 208 00:15:18,919 --> 00:15:22,000 yes, twisted, and then everything is a wrinkled mess. Yes, 209 00:15:22,279 --> 00:15:24,960 yes, yes, So then I spend like five minutes on each item, 210 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,960 like stretching it out and hanging it up. That's what I do, right, 211 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:33,360 And then still things are pretty wrinkled. Oh yeah, but like I'm 212 00:15:33,399 --> 00:15:35,519 not gonna start ironing. Oh fuck that. No, I'm just like I 213 00:15:35,639 --> 00:15:39,200 put it away and I'm like, well, on some day it me he 214 00:15:39,519 --> 00:15:43,919 she whoever in the house kis pulls out this wrinkled mess let it's on namm 215 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:48,200 to iron it exactly. I'm not gonna stay here and iron everything and put 216 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:52,080 it away exactly. Yeah. 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He's wearing khaki pants and this black shortsleeve shirt that is 263 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,079 just completely wrinkled, and he's like, and we're it's almost time to go, 264 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,039 right, And I was like, uh, Xander, absolutely not. 265 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,599 You can't wear that shirt also, and he was like he this boy had 266 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,759 the gall to go. Well, how come? And I was like, 267 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,880 have you seen yourself in a mirror? Right? I was like, it 268 00:19:44,079 --> 00:19:47,200 is so wrinkled, it's crazy wrinkled. And then of course Sadie comes out 269 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:51,000 and she's like, Xander, that shirt is so wrinkled. But meanwhile, 270 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:56,880 Sadie has come out in a long in this black dress that was supposed to 271 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,880 be for the evening. And I had made it very clear. I'd ask 272 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:04,039 or several times, okay, you have something different to wear at night than 273 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:08,119 you do during the day, correct, and she was like yep. So 274 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:12,519 I was like, okay, first of all, and I got a drag. 275 00:20:12,759 --> 00:20:18,240 I go into Xander's room. I find which he has a beautiful long 276 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:23,160 sleeved black like dress shirt. I'm like, how about this one? Oh, 277 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:26,119 because the first he was like, well, I don't really have anything 278 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:30,160 to wear. I'm like, so I give him the shirt. I was 279 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:33,000 like, put this on, and he was like, oh okay. Then 280 00:20:33,079 --> 00:20:36,279 I'm like, Sadie, that's what you're going to wear at night. That's 281 00:20:36,319 --> 00:20:41,599 like a cocktail outright, And she was like, oh okay. So she 282 00:20:41,839 --> 00:20:45,759 comes back out in like a short in a shorter the other dress, which 283 00:20:45,839 --> 00:20:47,960 like, well, why didn't you do that in the first place? Like 284 00:20:48,039 --> 00:20:49,880 we talked, an't get it. Why are we doing this at the time 285 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,480 that we're supposed to be leaving right, you know, because when you talk 286 00:20:53,559 --> 00:20:56,599 to these kids, it's in one ear and out the other. I think 287 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:02,039 you're not paying attention. No, they're not paying attention. So anyway, 288 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,920 we finally get all of our ship together. We're dressed nice for Temple, 289 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:11,480 we get to Temple, we get there early, and then we proceed to 290 00:21:11,559 --> 00:21:14,359 be like pretty much in hell. I mean, it was so bad. 291 00:21:14,599 --> 00:21:18,400 It was I've been so long and you know it's Jewish. Listen, I'm 292 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,839 Jewish. I can say this, But a lot of it's like it's like, 293 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,759 how do you even learn the melody to this? Like I know, 294 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:32,200 I know, and it's it is impressive to see a thirteen year old up 295 00:21:32,279 --> 00:21:37,279 there just reciting and all the stuff that they've worked over, I mean memorize 296 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,960 that part is impressive. And at last about ten minutes, like five minutes, 297 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,920 you're like, wow, this is impressive. The rest of the time 298 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,119 you're like, how what time is it? What time is it? Is 299 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,440 it done? Is I'm starving? All you could think about as you're hungry 300 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:56,319 you can't wait to get to lunch or whatever. It's times like these where 301 00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,720 I'm like, oh, eight D, Like yes, i know it's called 302 00:22:00,799 --> 00:22:03,920 ADHD now, but I know it because I'm like I sit there and I'm 303 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,759 like crawling out of my skin, and I'm looking around at other people, 304 00:22:07,839 --> 00:22:11,440 going is everybody as miserable as I am? Like my brain like I can't, 305 00:22:11,599 --> 00:22:15,359 Like I'm like, okay, just think about something like trying to figure 306 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,759 something out in your head, like make a shopping do something constructive, but 307 00:22:18,839 --> 00:22:21,960 I can't. Yeah, It's like my brain is just like ping ponging, 308 00:22:22,039 --> 00:22:27,680 and I'm like and every two seconds my brain is like this stocks when is 309 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:33,640 this gonna end? Oh my god, make it stop. And each thing 310 00:22:33,759 --> 00:22:37,079 my brain is going like, oh my god. The it's like not the 311 00:22:37,519 --> 00:22:41,680 main cantor. But there was like another canter who was doing the tourist stuff, 312 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,079 and I was like, this has got to be longer than normal. 313 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,920 But then like a LB does not have a d D. Even though she 314 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:52,039 was annoyed too, but I could tell that this is a me problem because 315 00:22:52,519 --> 00:22:56,079 I'm looking at Lby and she's looking at me like stop trying to catch my 316 00:22:56,200 --> 00:23:00,799 eye, like I get it, but stop sitting next to me. And 317 00:23:00,839 --> 00:23:03,559 I keep like tapping her and being like this is like really long, right, 318 00:23:06,079 --> 00:23:10,799 even though you know you're preparing yourself going into it, going like okay, 319 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,759 I know it's you know, how long was it? Two hours and 320 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:18,079 a half hours? Two and a half hours, no bathroom break, no 321 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:22,119 break, no intermission. O god. Like if you go to a show 322 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:26,400 at like The Pantagious and that's interesting, right, they have an intermission for 323 00:23:26,599 --> 00:23:30,559 that, but they also have an intermission like there's a point where you it's 324 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,720 kind of like, okay, now everybody gets to take twenty minutes go get 325 00:23:33,759 --> 00:23:36,839 some candy, right, you know whatever, go pee. Yeah, there's 326 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,640 no internet. They should have had an interview like why would you have two 327 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:45,000 and a half hours straight praying. I don't get it. I know it's 328 00:23:45,039 --> 00:23:47,160 like you're being like you sit there and you go, oh, now, 329 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,799 I know what being like a hostage feels like. Yes, yeah, I 330 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,599 watch a lot of locked up abroad and I feel for these people that are 331 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:59,759 stuck and like, you know, the being taken away by the the the 332 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,640 the Saudias or whatever in the in the in the Congo, you know, 333 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,319 the tribe whatever and there and they're there for like a year. Yeah, 334 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:11,759 and you start thinking, Wow, this is what must feel like to be 335 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:17,720 stuck solitary confined, solitary confinement. I am listening to a podcast like the 336 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:22,720 next day about this woman who got stuck in Joshua Tree. She was on 337 00:24:22,799 --> 00:24:25,599 a hike and she went off the trail and then she fell and broke her 338 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,799 pelvis and she was laying there and my only thought, because of what I've 339 00:24:29,839 --> 00:24:33,480 been through something a little worse the day before, my only thought was like 340 00:24:33,759 --> 00:24:37,119 what is she thinking about all day? Like how is the time going by 341 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:44,599 and must be crawling exactly exactly. She didn't even have prayers to listen to. 342 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,200 It's just quiet. It's quiet, nothing but trees and sky. Get 343 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:53,480 a podcast out there, like yeah, So I'm tortured and Elbi is being 344 00:24:53,559 --> 00:24:56,359 of no help to me because she is just an. She's already an. 345 00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:00,359 She's just like mom, stop yeah, and I'm like, oh, I'm 346 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,119 trying, Like I felt like the little kid, like yes, and she's 347 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,319 the mom and I was like okay, but other bar mits was you've gone 348 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,519 not not like this right, She's like, she whispered to me. She's 349 00:25:08,559 --> 00:25:11,440 like no, this is honestly the longest. She's like three, doing all 350 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:15,480 these extra prayers because at one point she was like this is it, this 351 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,880 is the end. Yeah, and I was like, yeah, you God, 352 00:25:22,279 --> 00:25:26,000 thank you Jesus, I mean sorry God, yes, thank you God. 353 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,160 You want like you want some sort of somebody to give you, like 354 00:25:30,519 --> 00:25:34,400 like you know that there's the lights coming at the end of the time, 355 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,079 like okay, this is they're wrapping it up. They're wrapping it up, 356 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,480 and then they don't wrap it up, and then it wasn't and then you're 357 00:25:40,519 --> 00:25:42,119 mad at the person that told you that I thought you was roughing. That's 358 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,319 what I was saying. Elbe. I'm like, elbe, this thing had 359 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,759 more false endings than the movie AI or bi Centennial. Man. I was 360 00:25:48,799 --> 00:25:51,119 like, Okay, it's start. It's this has got to be it, 361 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,480 right, this is the closing prayer. No. Then he'd be like, 362 00:25:53,599 --> 00:25:56,799 turn to page four ninety seven and I'm like, how are you fucking kidding 363 00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:00,279 me? What? And then I would look at oh beat like accusatorily, 364 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,519 like you just told me this was wrapping up, and she's like she's giving 365 00:26:03,559 --> 00:26:07,160 me like, I don't know, are you looking at me? This guy's 366 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,559 looking over here? What do you want from me? Like she's like, 367 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:12,480 I've never seen this before. We're whispering. We're in the front row, 368 00:26:12,799 --> 00:26:18,079 so I gotta keep it, like yeah, you gotta look like you're interesting, 369 00:26:18,279 --> 00:26:22,039 right, yeah, sit up straight and watch and like the only good 370 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,799 part was like and this is funny because later so my sister in law gives 371 00:26:26,839 --> 00:26:29,680 a speech and it was good, Like it was like made me cry. 372 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,920 My brother gave a speech and it was funny. It's my brother. So 373 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,680 I was like, oh, this is the best part. But there's speech 374 00:26:36,759 --> 00:26:40,200 is her speech had to have been like two minutes, and my brothers was 375 00:26:40,279 --> 00:26:44,759 like two minutes. Right. Then they bring up this guy who's like the 376 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,599 congregation guy. I don't know he's the head of the congregation, he's just 377 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:52,359 a guy. Yeah. He comes up. His speech goes on for like 378 00:26:52,519 --> 00:26:56,880 seven minutes, and it's chock full of like announcements about the temples, like 379 00:26:56,279 --> 00:27:00,359 none of these fucking people are ever coming to temple again exactly how these people 380 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,039 are from out of town? Like are you kidding me? Like we need 381 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:07,559 to know about And then tomorrow afternoon we're going to be showing a movie in 382 00:27:10,079 --> 00:27:11,759 at twelve and it's been rated. A lot of people are saying, it's 383 00:27:11,759 --> 00:27:17,079 shut up. Oh my god, we've been here. This is the tail 384 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,160 end of this. Oh. I was like, you do you have to 385 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,519 be kidding me with this, Like I saved the announcement. Hey, if 386 00:27:22,519 --> 00:27:26,599 anybody wants to stay for announcements afterwards, if hebody gives a fuck about coming 387 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,240 to temple here again, yes, stay for announcements because I didn't right, 388 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:36,759 where's the tomato on the road? And also there's like little kids there too. 389 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,680 I was like, if this is hard for me, how was this 390 00:27:38,839 --> 00:27:41,880 for like six year olds that we're having to call. But they were, 391 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,680 honestly, if I'm being honest, being better behaved than I was, like, 392 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,119 well, how was your kid? How was the twins? Like? 393 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,039 They were fine, They were fine. They were resigned to it. At 394 00:27:52,079 --> 00:27:53,839 some point they were just like, I mean, they didn't look happy. 395 00:27:55,279 --> 00:27:59,480 Was there any way you could put like an earbud in one ear in the 396 00:27:59,559 --> 00:28:03,960 pack? Oh my god. They were really like Nazis about the about the 397 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:18,079 phones. Wow, these people really don't want anyone to be on their phones. 398 00:28:18,559 --> 00:28:25,480 It's like Germany right now. So honestly, the Rabbi was just like, 399 00:28:25,839 --> 00:28:27,720 phones away, I don't want any phones, Like, turn your phones 400 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:32,799 all the way off. Like they were really in not being distracted by your 401 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,359 phone. I was like, yeah, you probably get a lot of people 402 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,559 who are like pulling out their phones. Yeah. It was so boring. 403 00:28:37,799 --> 00:28:41,880 Okay, so that ends. Then they just got a chime in that. 404 00:28:41,079 --> 00:28:45,920 I went to a school. It was like a small We had like seventy 405 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,920 five kids in our in our grade, and like four fifths of all of 406 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:56,880 them were Jewish. So I'm our entire middle school year was bar and bought 407 00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:02,720 mitzpels every single Saturday was a different bar or so for every single Saturday of 408 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:07,839 every weekend of eighth grade, me, a twelve thirteen year old boy with 409 00:29:08,079 --> 00:29:11,720 bad add was having to sit through every single one of these. Really, 410 00:29:11,759 --> 00:29:15,559 yeah, so I feel your pain, Stephanie. I was going, every 411 00:29:15,599 --> 00:29:19,519 single Saturday sucks. Oh my god, it's actually being an eighth grader, 412 00:29:19,759 --> 00:29:25,680 like every Saturday. Yeah, your whole Saturday's taken. Elbe was kind of 413 00:29:25,799 --> 00:29:29,200 used to it because she's the same thing because of Jewish camp she had. 414 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,720 There was a period of one year around that year where she every weekend, 415 00:29:32,839 --> 00:29:34,720 same thing, so she's used to it. But she told me, out 416 00:29:34,759 --> 00:29:37,599 of all of the ones she's been to, she's like, I've never seen 417 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,759 this many prayers, It's never gone this long. I'm like, my brother 418 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,960 and sister of that are not that Jewish, like, so, wow, 419 00:29:45,319 --> 00:29:51,039 that's amazy. I don't know, but it was kind of feel your pain. 420 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,599 Yeah. So, and like I was saying, it's frowned upon. 421 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,440 I'm sure Klan you know this, like to just go to the party, 422 00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:02,519 Yeah, you can't do that, so it's bad form, right. Yeah. 423 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,079 Although I did notice later at the party that there were quite a few 424 00:30:06,119 --> 00:30:10,559 people the Chalice's house was there or yeah, or hadn't come in the morning, 425 00:30:10,839 --> 00:30:14,559 you know, you had to work. Yeah. Anyway, we had 426 00:30:14,599 --> 00:30:18,400 to go up on stage on the ba and do a prayer which we'd been 427 00:30:18,519 --> 00:30:22,039 rehearsing. Bar who at a don't I humbara Like. We had a whole 428 00:30:22,119 --> 00:30:26,440 thing that we kind of memorized, and then the only thing that was good 429 00:30:26,559 --> 00:30:30,279 in my brain. So they had a bunch of different people I would say, 430 00:30:30,319 --> 00:30:34,160 like six people that had to go up and do this same thing. 431 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,680 It was this Torah prayer. So I got into a thing in my head 432 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,759 where I was like, Okay, I'm gonna be We're gonna be better than 433 00:30:40,799 --> 00:30:44,119 those people. Oh, those people are good. We're not gonna be as 434 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,960 good as those people. So that was like a little bit fun. It 435 00:30:47,039 --> 00:30:49,200 felt like a challenge, but each of them was so long. Anyway, 436 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,440 then we got up and we did our thing, and then we were done. 437 00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:53,920 And then from there on it was like, oh, now I'm really 438 00:30:55,000 --> 00:31:00,400 suffering. I'm not even having any anticipatory like feelings of some thing. Now 439 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,559 it's just all dead, dead air in one air and out the other. 440 00:31:04,319 --> 00:31:10,839 So then there's like a little lunch, But then we're in Santa Clarita doing 441 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,200 this, and we have to go back to the valley change and get ready, 442 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,240 and then we have to go back to Santa Clarita for the evening party. 443 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,319 What time are you heading back home? Like, so now it's like 444 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:26,279 twelve thirty one o'clock. We get home at like let's say we get home 445 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,839 at like one thirty, don't you guys eat at the thing. We ate 446 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,640 at the thing. Then we come home. Then we have to be back 447 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:37,799 there at five thirty to do pictures. Holy, So we lay around for 448 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,920 a while, just chill. Then we have to walk the dog. Then 449 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,519 you know, me and my anxiety about like I'm like, well, people 450 00:31:45,599 --> 00:31:48,200 is going to be alone all night? Yeah, I hate that, and 451 00:31:48,319 --> 00:31:52,920 so we're gonna have to. We walked her at like four and then we 452 00:31:52,119 --> 00:31:56,160 left at four thirty to make sure we were there by five thirty. And 453 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,640 then we got there and then we had to do like a lot of pictures, 454 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,119 you know all that. It's like a wedding, it is, yeah, 455 00:32:02,279 --> 00:32:07,799 and then the place was beautiful. My sister in law like went crazy 456 00:32:08,119 --> 00:32:12,920 with this event planner named Aaron and I don't remember her last name. Maybe 457 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:19,519 it's Kade, but Kade at Magnolia Event Planners look it up because I kept 458 00:32:19,559 --> 00:32:21,839 saying to my sister in law. I was like, oh my god, 459 00:32:22,079 --> 00:32:24,400 like this is insane, it's so and it ran like clockwork, and she 460 00:32:24,519 --> 00:32:28,680 was like, it's all my event planner Aaron, who was just like the 461 00:32:28,759 --> 00:32:32,599 super cool woman who used to work in TV. Apparently she did the wedding 462 00:32:34,119 --> 00:32:39,680 for Trista and Ryan, the first Bachelor couple. Wow did she work b 463 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:45,319 ABYC. I don't know, maybe she did. What's her name, Aaron? 464 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,519 Who it is? I know? E? R I N. I'm 465 00:32:49,559 --> 00:32:51,880 gonna ask her. I'm gonna text her and ask her her last name. 466 00:32:52,559 --> 00:32:54,839 Okay, hold on, I'm texting her right. A lot of people, 467 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:59,839 there's a lot of people in television that used to work in television to be 468 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:05,440 that, especially the women that worked in publicity and pr they are now A 469 00:33:05,559 --> 00:33:09,680 few of them are now like event planners, which is interesting. It's like 470 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:14,519 a job like they leave television because there's nowhere to I mean, after like 471 00:33:15,079 --> 00:33:19,640 ten years of working there, you just you get little incremental raises and you 472 00:33:19,839 --> 00:33:22,200 never you know you're going to be like the vice president or the president whatever. 473 00:33:22,319 --> 00:33:25,920 Then you have some kids, and you want more flexibility. She left 474 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,720 TV she had kid and he left TVs. So she becomes like an event 475 00:33:30,799 --> 00:33:34,240 planner. It's perfect. Yeah, you know, like Suzanne could be event 476 00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:37,559 planner and she works. You know a lot of those they have that those 477 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,880 skills because they put on events right for the company. So, so my 478 00:33:42,039 --> 00:33:45,759 sister had a lot of ideas and then she said that Aaron just elevated her 479 00:33:45,799 --> 00:33:50,319 ideas and made them happen. And it the whole thing was beautiful. It 480 00:33:51,559 --> 00:33:55,200 went without a hitch. The evening party was really fun. And the thing 481 00:33:55,279 --> 00:34:00,920 that I was going to tell you, so John's my brother went to Syracuse, 482 00:34:00,519 --> 00:34:07,759 and John went to Syracuse and I did not go to Syracuse. But 483 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:13,239 so my brother is a bit younger than John, right seven, like eight 484 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,880 nine years younger than John. So but so they both have friends. Oh, 485 00:34:17,079 --> 00:34:25,199 okay, her last name is Deglano Senti, Lenna Senti. Yeah, 486 00:34:25,559 --> 00:34:30,599 she's Italian. She's Italian. I wonder if that's her maiden name. I 487 00:34:30,639 --> 00:34:34,519 wonder if she worked at ABC. I don't know. Okay, but anyway, 488 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:40,760 so some some conversation about Syracuse started happening, and Elbi was Elbi was 489 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,599 with me and she was in it. She had been doing really well, 490 00:34:45,199 --> 00:34:50,719 she's been doing well after this breakup. But they started talking about Syracuse, 491 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:55,679 which is where her boyfriend is at school, and Elbi says, uh, 492 00:34:57,039 --> 00:35:01,559 like tough topic for me or so thing like don't love this topic. And 493 00:35:01,639 --> 00:35:07,800 then and she's kind of kidding, but John gets like, oh no, 494 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,480 like you know, but what's he supposed to do? He went to see 495 00:35:10,519 --> 00:35:14,880 he's bonding with people who all went to Syracuse, so he's like so then 496 00:35:15,039 --> 00:35:19,840 he overcompensates by going, oh, yeah, my daughter went through a breakup 497 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,719 and the guys at Syracuse and I'm sure Elbe so in anyway, Elbe gets 498 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:27,639 kind of bummed out. She's trying not to, but she's just like Also, 499 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,960 she had gotten like no sleep the night before. She had insomnia and 500 00:35:30,079 --> 00:35:34,559 she was up until six in the morning, Oh my gosh. And then 501 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:38,639 she couldn't sleep in between the temple and the evening, so she was really 502 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:42,440 tired. And you know what, So what happened is what happened, is 503 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:47,039 what happened. She just started getting like teary like and then I said I 504 00:35:47,159 --> 00:35:51,400 was like, oh, I was like, I'm sorry, Like you got 505 00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,920 a little triggered from the and she was like, yeah, it's just it's 506 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,440 fine, you know. But then she's and I said, well, you're 507 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:04,039 also really tired. Yes, So I had a suggestion for her, and 508 00:36:04,119 --> 00:36:07,719 I will tell you right after our next break. Quinn's Quins. I love 509 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:16,960 Quinns. They they there are high quality items of clothing, but for an 510 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:22,679 affordable price. Yes, And they gave us a promo code which I used, 511 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:29,800 and I wear their cashmere cardigan sweater all the time. It's gorgeous. 512 00:36:30,079 --> 00:36:32,440 I love it. It's pale pink. I love it. 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I just want to say that 548 00:38:58,159 --> 00:39:00,679 I was watching myself from out side of myself, and I was like, 549 00:39:01,159 --> 00:39:07,199 who are you because if you guys, remember you, We've raised our kids 550 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:13,159 alongside you guys. I remember many years ago, it would have been around 551 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,159 the time of like the Super Bowl that Jennifer Lopez. Yes, I remember 552 00:39:19,039 --> 00:39:22,199 when I was a little like I was a little like, oh my gosh, 553 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,280 our poor kids, like I need to see like pole dancing, you 554 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:29,000 know. And I just remember that somebody was we were so we got on 555 00:39:29,079 --> 00:39:31,719 this topic of drinking and somebody was saying that they drank with their like eighteen 556 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:37,320 year old daughter, and I remember being like pearl clutching, like how dare 557 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,880 you? Like that's you're corrupting your kids, like you shouldn't be teaching while 558 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,199 there I was. I was like, you you need a cocktail and she 559 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:47,800 was like really, I go, let's get you a drink prod or house 560 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,559 to the bar. I was like, do you And they had like a 561 00:39:50,599 --> 00:39:55,119 signature cocktail that was like teetoes, which I know all the kids drink teetoes. 562 00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:58,760 I know people drink tetoes, but I know that that was like the 563 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,440 first by the way, that's like the first thing she got drunk on or 564 00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:05,519 I had to get a call from the parent when she went to Lake Arrowhead 565 00:40:05,599 --> 00:40:08,239 Oh yeahmember and she was hung over and I did a whole Patreon about it. 566 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:12,519 I was practically crying. I was like so sad. I didn't know 567 00:40:12,559 --> 00:40:15,559 what to do. It made me so anxious, like my daughter got drunk 568 00:40:15,119 --> 00:40:19,719 and now here I am pushing alcohol. I was like, you're too sober, 569 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,960 that's the problem. But you know, you know, nobody knows your 570 00:40:23,039 --> 00:40:29,719 kid the way you know your kid absolutely, and you she's proven that she's 571 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:34,280 trustworthy. She's proven that she's not you know, getting wasted and drunk on 572 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,000 the weekend. So she's not never. No, she's a responsible kid, 573 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:42,519 she doesn't she I don't think she's had a drink in a like a long 574 00:40:42,639 --> 00:40:45,400 time. And the reason I say that is because I would know because at 575 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:49,320 the times that she has gone to a party where she knows she's going to 576 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,039 have a drink or two, she uber's right, So I know that she's 577 00:40:52,079 --> 00:40:55,320 been working, yes, going out with like a girlfriend here, or they're 578 00:40:55,400 --> 00:41:00,320 going shopping, so she hasn't let her hair down, right, and she's 579 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,840 been you know, she's been a little feeling down, you know, yeah, 580 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,840 and we all know alcohol makes things better, right, It's a good 581 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:13,440 way to deal with your that's you, right exactly. So it's so funny, 582 00:41:13,679 --> 00:41:16,239 and she was so funny about it. She was just like okay, 583 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:17,880 and I was like, what, what do you want. She goes, 584 00:41:19,119 --> 00:41:21,880 I don't know what should I get? And I was like, let's go 585 00:41:22,039 --> 00:41:25,800 look at you know. And then I see this drink that's Tito's sprite, 586 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:32,880 like some muddled raspberries and something else, and I was like some lime juice. 587 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,599 I was like, how does that look? And she goes that that 588 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,920 looks good. I was like, okay, so I order her one of 589 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:42,320 those. Oh so right before that, though, John was up at the 590 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,480 bar with me. I go, I'm gonna get i'll Be a drink. 591 00:41:44,599 --> 00:41:47,000 He goes, I think that's a great idea. He goes, look, 592 00:41:47,039 --> 00:41:52,199 you know how I was raised waspy family. We were having a beer at 593 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:53,360 home when we were fifteen. He goes, if it was up to me 594 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,880 and not you, I would have been introducing the twin. They would have 595 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:00,360 had a beer at home now. And I was like, well that's not 596 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:05,400 so fast. Like Elb's almost nineteen, you know. So he's like, 597 00:42:05,599 --> 00:42:08,239 I'm fine with it, So you get el Be a drink. She really 598 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:13,039 did cheer up. That was like at dinner and it's not like she was 599 00:42:13,159 --> 00:42:15,320 like okay, but I want to make sure I drink it on an empty 600 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:16,639 stomach. And then like don't eat much food, you know, you know. 601 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,119 She was like, Okay, I'm gonna have it. And then she 602 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,280 had dinner and I was like looking at her across the table, I was 603 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:27,119 like, you want another drink? Was one drink? Right? It's not 604 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,480 funn So she was like really, like I was, do you want the 605 00:42:30,519 --> 00:42:32,760 same thing? And she was like, yeah, it was really good. 606 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:40,480 But if she said I'd like a scotch straight up neat. So I'm sure 607 00:42:40,519 --> 00:42:44,800 I'm being judged by our audience. But whatever, it was a super gated, 608 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,800 a much more fun night. And she had another drink and then later 609 00:42:50,039 --> 00:42:52,480 she came up to me we were outside. She then she started having like 610 00:42:52,559 --> 00:42:57,519 a good time. She did was not acting even the slightest bit tipsy. 611 00:42:57,639 --> 00:43:00,599 She was just like much more relaxed and having fun. And then she went 612 00:43:00,639 --> 00:43:05,280 outside with Sadie so they could do Instagram pictures. Took a bunch of really 613 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,519 cute pictures, and I was outside and she was like, mom, how 614 00:43:07,599 --> 00:43:10,679 much alcohol do you think was in that drink? And I said, I 615 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:14,840 don't know why. I like probably a shot, you know, And she 616 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:19,559 was like, just because like I feel really good, Like this is a 617 00:43:19,679 --> 00:43:22,159 good amount of alcohol to have like I don't feel like, oh God, 618 00:43:22,159 --> 00:43:24,760 I'm gonna get drunk, or like I don't feel like I'm gonna have a 619 00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:29,440 hangover, but I also like feel like I'm having fun because I want to 620 00:43:29,519 --> 00:43:31,760 remember that. That was like good. Yeah, so you taught her, 621 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:36,800 had a drinks. Yeah, and then I let her drive home because you 622 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:42,559 know it's better drivers, way more relaxed. Yeah, she was ready for 623 00:43:42,679 --> 00:43:45,639 bed after that, but she was really tired, and then she had to 624 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,719 work the next day. She worked on Sunday. Yeah, but she probably 625 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,679 wasn't hung over anything, right, No, No, she had the two 626 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,559 drinks. Yeah, but I remember going to weddings when I was young and 627 00:43:54,719 --> 00:44:00,679 like sneaking drinks on people, Like that's where a lot of kids get drunk 628 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:05,159 for the first time. Right at weddings, ever happens where there's just like 629 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:09,000 alcohol flowing and you steal like some champagne off the table. You know what, 630 00:44:09,119 --> 00:44:12,880 I didn't really go to any after those bar MITSA was that I talked 631 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,519 about, and they didn't have a Yeah, they didn't have much booze flowing 632 00:44:15,519 --> 00:44:19,480 at those things, right right, right, Well, but you know again, 633 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,800 you and John know your daughter. You know what she's capable of you 634 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:27,320 know what she you know what she can handle, and it's up to you 635 00:44:27,519 --> 00:44:30,199 guys for that. I mean, it is illegal, it's technically illegal. 636 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,840 But yeah, I just I had a moment of like, listen, I 637 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:39,000 know, I know, right, I'm a recovering alcoholic. I'm not going 638 00:44:39,039 --> 00:44:43,519 to do something. I'm not going to like start something in her, right, 639 00:44:44,039 --> 00:44:46,039 I know who she is. She does not have an addictive personality, 640 00:44:46,639 --> 00:44:51,280 you know. Yeah, I would say that of the reason I wouldn't want 641 00:44:51,519 --> 00:44:53,960 John to give Xander a drink is because he's a lot more like me. 642 00:44:55,559 --> 00:45:00,480 He can go a little crazy with the sugar he gets like he's a little 643 00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:04,159 more compulsive like me, and Elbie's just not. It's annoying, right, 644 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:07,360 Albi will bring like get a bag of chips, Like she'll get in the 645 00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,000 mood for something, whatever it is, candy or chips and eat, Like 646 00:45:10,159 --> 00:45:13,639 she'll open a bag of chips, eat like a little bit, and then 647 00:45:13,679 --> 00:45:17,000 I'll find it full basically on the side of her bed like a week later. 648 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:21,880 Yeah, Like she'll just forget about it. How do you forget about 649 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,639 like chips or candy or chocolate or a bunch of her friends after her breakup, 650 00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:30,480 sent her chocolate and candy and stuff. It's still sitting in our country. 651 00:45:30,599 --> 00:45:32,360 I just never ate it. Just never got in the mood. Yeah, 652 00:45:32,559 --> 00:45:36,480 my kids get in the mood for candy. My kids will go to 653 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:42,119 like the there's a cookie place that just opened up. It's kind of popular. 654 00:45:42,199 --> 00:45:45,440 I don't I can't remember. Rumbles, yes, crumbles, And so 655 00:45:45,599 --> 00:45:47,119 when it first opened, they were over there all the time. And they'll 656 00:45:47,159 --> 00:45:50,880 come home with the box of them, and then they eat one and a 657 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,760 half and then they just the cookies just sit around. And it's not like 658 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,639 they got the shitty ones. They got the good, the good cockies. 659 00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,679 They probably spent like twenty five l four cookies, right, and and you 660 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,719 know, and then there's like me Adam Olga walking around going like now what 661 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,320 who's gonna eat these? You know? Not us? Right, they just 662 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:15,440 end up going just getting stale, or Phil gets to him whatever comes first. 663 00:46:15,039 --> 00:46:19,280 Right. But yeah, yeah, so I don't relate to Elby in 664 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,840 that way at all, which is why I felt very relaxed about her having 665 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,960 a drink. Plus we're with her, of course, what's going to happen 666 00:46:27,119 --> 00:46:30,119 Like she's with her parents, you know, right, it was just kind 667 00:46:30,159 --> 00:46:34,159 of a funny milestone. No, it's nice, it's yeah, it's it 668 00:46:34,599 --> 00:46:37,280 was cool. That's cool. Yeah. So all in all, so it 669 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,840 was a good. Yeah. I was like, that was our whole weekend. 670 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:44,400 Though Sunday I was just dead. Yeah. I bet, I bet, 671 00:46:45,199 --> 00:46:47,760 I bet your sister in law and your brother were exhausted. It was 672 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:52,519 funny because apparently they were having a brunch the next day. Oh my god, 673 00:46:52,639 --> 00:46:57,079 but I wasn't invited to. Our family wasn't invited to it. My 674 00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,119 sister in law, she listened to this, would probably say other she'd probably 675 00:47:00,119 --> 00:47:02,199 be like, if you had wanted to come, that would have been fine, 676 00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:06,480 But she'd never she never told us about it. But the funny thing 677 00:47:06,599 --> 00:47:08,920 is like other people, like from her family, from her side of the 678 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,039 family, were like, Okay, so we're going to see you at the 679 00:47:12,079 --> 00:47:15,559 brunch tomorrow, And then I had to keep going no. They're like why 680 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,639 why not? And I was like I didn't want to throw her under the 681 00:47:17,679 --> 00:47:21,199 bus. And we weren't invited. So I was just like, oh, 682 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:22,679 I think that was just for the out of town guests. And they're like, 683 00:47:23,159 --> 00:47:27,360 no, definitely not, because so and so is coming and I was 684 00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:32,519 like, yeah, well, we have a lot going on tomorrow, so 685 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:37,679 we're just not probably it's just not gonna happen. So I'll just say goodbye 686 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,159 now, like it was so lovely seeing you, and then i'd i'd see 687 00:47:40,199 --> 00:47:43,760 the next person to say, but we're going to see you at the brunch 688 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,559 tomorrow. We're going, okay, And rock Hell's mom was like practically in 689 00:47:47,639 --> 00:47:50,760 tears that she wasn't going to see us, and she was like, oh, 690 00:47:51,039 --> 00:47:52,679 and I said, I don't think. I think it's just for the 691 00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,039 out of town guest. She was like, oh no, let me go, 692 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,000 let me talk to Rocket, And I was like, no, no, 693 00:47:58,039 --> 00:48:00,840 no, no, it's fine, Like we couldn't we really couldn't come 694 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:02,920 anyway. It was so funny. Yeah. Yeah, so they had a 695 00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:07,880 whole thing the next day. She's wease wow. Yeah. I gotta say, 696 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:10,960 man, though, the Jews they really do it up. Love them, 697 00:48:12,519 --> 00:48:15,920 respect them, nothing but love and respect. It's because they run all 698 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:22,360 the banks, yes, but also they have all the money, you know 699 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:28,000 what I mean. Yes, But the other thing that I love is that 700 00:48:28,119 --> 00:48:30,719 they they like, you know, they take to get us canceled Friday, 701 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:35,599 like they all take you know, the Sabbath, you know Friday too, 702 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,920 that is the Sabbath, right, yeah, to uh you know, regroup, 703 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:45,800 be with you know in the moment with the family, turn off the 704 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:51,000 electronics. You know. It's just a like a healthy way of life. 705 00:48:51,119 --> 00:48:52,480 I feel like, you know, they there's well, the Jews are all 706 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:57,159 about community, but so are the Italians. You know what they have that 707 00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,039 old joke. It's like same guilt, different holidays. Right, We're all 708 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:04,559 kind of this. It's a similar thing. We're all very family oriented. 709 00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,920 Yes, yeah, me, except that the Italians are. I wish I 710 00:49:09,039 --> 00:49:14,400 was more connected to the Italians. There's not a big community Italian community out 711 00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:17,559 here, but there's uh like that. But the Italians are not as organized 712 00:49:17,599 --> 00:49:21,599 as the jew Well in some ways, they're very organized, that's true. 713 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,920 And criminal organizations, right, there's Jewish mafia doesn't do too bad either though, 714 00:49:27,039 --> 00:49:30,920 that's true. Yeah. Well yeah, I mean, listen, if 715 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,480 you're an observant Jew. But I most Jews that I know are not like 716 00:49:34,559 --> 00:49:37,159 going to temple every Friday night, but are really observant, right right right, 717 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:43,000 But yeah, yeah, well, like my dad said, you know, 718 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:47,920 uh, respect two things in life, Jews and books. That's what 719 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:52,159 that was? That was this tagline on its dooms don't I'm just kidding. 720 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,280 Well, I'll tell you this. We have a lot to talk about. 721 00:49:55,440 --> 00:50:01,159 We have more to talk about on on Friday. A lot and Patreon this 722 00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:07,440 week is pretty good. It's a Lynette Patreon, thank god. And she 723 00:50:07,559 --> 00:50:10,599 had a quite the story that I think people I think people will be I 724 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,599 think people will love it, be excited to hear it. Yeah, they 725 00:50:14,679 --> 00:50:20,480 love they love Lynette updates. 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