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Made a decision. Our face sunny
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everybody, welcome to it. For
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Friday. Robin's back. Hey,
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hey. Oh my god, it's
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cool enough. You guys have to
watch the video because we are shpitzing.

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It's like a It is like a
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It's bad. I think I have
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to the space, it was like
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It was like Arizona hot. That's
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I was gonna tell you. Oh, let's say hi to Let's say hello,

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Hello, Hello? Did Jennifer get
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being green Christa. You make may
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it out. Rebecca and open Joe
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Uh this next story has to do
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Katerina, get your Mueller checked.
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We love your dancing. Elizabeth. You

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got a lot of kids. Go
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kids love you, Rita Rock Everybody's
kids in your bastonet. Jacob is so

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growley, We love him. Leslie
is accosting people outside of seven eleven Now

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seven eleven, step it up?
Oh my god, Ashley so chic.

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Nikki call you a girl, Randy
Mayames got too many names, and Rachel

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is still a newcomer. Boom wow, impressive shorter this time. So I

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have this new obsession. It's John's
fault. He turned me onto it.

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Okay, Watching these like crime scene
like watching cops with their cameras. Have

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you ever watched these? It's always
like I used to watch Cops? Is

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it like the show? It's kind
of like Cops. A lot of it

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is traffic stops and it's people that
like it's drunk driving stops. It's a

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lot and it's mostly the ones that
John sends me are like Karen's. You

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know, it's these women that are
like how dare you I live? And

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there's so many funny ones. This
this one that I'm thinking about is this

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woman who just keeps saying that she
lives in a multimillion dollar house, like

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I guess she's allowed. So this
woman was was there was like a blockade.

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There was some kind of like little
parade. She couldn't get through for

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a race maybe like a yeah,
she couldn't get through in New Jersey.

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So she just busted down one of
the barricades. Oh my god. Yeah,

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and then she was shocked, shocked
that she was getting pulled over.

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I do you know who I am? I live in this gated community.

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I live here. I live in
a multimillion dollar home. I live in

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a multime Are you listening to me? I live in a multimillion dollar home.

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I have a right to run over
five k runners. Oh my god.

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The best, though, is the
drunk ones, because you know they're

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so drunk and belligerent. There is
one so this one woman that I was

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just watching, And the reason I
was it's so fascinating is because and there's

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such karens is the police. I
sit there with John watching them going,

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oh my god. Imagine this was
like a person of color. Imagine it

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was a person of color, they
would be dead by now, because every

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single time it's white women and the
cops are like, ma'am man, they

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have endless patience, endless patience.
A big thing that's helped is the fact

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that they have the it's not dash
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the body cama, So they wear
those body cameras, and a lot of

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times these women, these white women
are like, are you you're putting your

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hands on me, you know,
and the copsle it's just like, Ma'm

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no, I'm not, but I'm
going to be like you need to get

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out of soon. Stop you're you're
molesting me. And the cops are always

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like, ma'm I'm wearing body camera
right now, so like that shit is

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not gonna fly right, Like you
need to calm down. It is always

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the most crazy when they're drunk.
They're they're like, I was just driving

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to my grandmother's funeral. If somebody
saw this one, you know what I'm

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talking about. She's like, my
grandmother dive today. She's dead the same

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day, Yeah, exactly exactly.
She's like, I'm going to pay my

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risks facts. Okay, this was
after this woman hit another woman's car.

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This poor woman's broad daylight. It's
the middle of the day, it's at

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eleven am. She hits this.
This woman was like coming out onto like

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from my parking lot onto the road. And you know, when you're drunk,

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Well you might not know this,
but you know, when you're drunk

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and you're driving your car. Have
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people, people's eyes go towards this. Yeah, they go, they go

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towards objects on the side of the
road. They have trouble like staying straight

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ahead. So this woman just plowed
into this woman's car who just had like

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the nose of her car sticking out
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This woman swerved over to the side
and like hit her car, and

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then so the cops come. The
woman was okay, but the other woman

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was just like she just wouldn't get
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kept saying oh. So she's They're
like, ma'am, you need to get

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out of the car. She's like, I will not. I want you

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to call my dad. My dad
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And they're like, okay, we're
not calling your dad. This,

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Yeah, she's like thirties and she's
like, my dad's mother is the one

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who died. And so then she
she's like I need my phone. They're

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like, well, do you have
your phone. She's like, yes,

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I'm calling my dad. And she
literally holds up like a wet nap and

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she pulls like a like a like
a wet nap, like a diaper white

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basically to her ear. And the
cop goes, man, that's that's not

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your phone. That's like a wet
nap. That's a wipe. And she's

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like, oh, you're just gonna
talk to me Like dad like, oh

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no, she's not a phone doesn't
wipe. Oh my god. This video

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goes on for like twenty minutes.
I'm gonna I've got it. They're all

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on YouTube. It's not a show, no, it's just like it's it's

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a channel called like crime Watch or
crime stuff or and there's a bunch of

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different channels that show these videos and
a lot of them are so they're like

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twenty minutes long a lot of them, so you can really get a full

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And do they all say watch till
the end? You remember that from a

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long time ago, Well, some
of them do get bored. They take

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a while to like heat up,
but a lot of them are just like

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they're just Karen's out in the wild, just being crazy and like yelling,

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you know about their I live and
I'm multimately I'm a businesswoman. One of

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them was just screaming that she was
a business owner and given money to the

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police. Okay. This one was
a woman who had been reported. They'd

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called nine to one one because she'd
had a fight with her boyfriend. And

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I don't know if she'd hit her
boyfriend, but there had been a big

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fight in front of this hotel.
So she's out in front of the hotel

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and the cops come by and they're
like, hey, ma'am, you know

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what's going on? And she's like, what are you talking about? And

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they're like, well, somebody reported
somebody with your description who had an altercation

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with their with with a man with
a man and she's like, you know

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me. They're like, well they
fit your description. You're the only one

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standing out here and you're wearing no
shoes. Oh. She's like, I'm

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just waiting for a neuber to go
home. And the cops like, well,

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you're pretty drunk, and she's like
so what they're a law about being

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drunk now and they're like, well, yeah, in public. Yeah,

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and then so then okay, so
she they start trying to detain her.

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She won't say her name. She
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give money to the police. I
give a lot of money to the police.

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Do you want me to stop giving
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the city whatever township. She's like, I give money the blah blah blah

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township. And they're like, okay, so do you think you should be

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above the law because you give money
to the township and she's I mean.

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And it went on for so long, and then they get the guy comes

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out looking for her boy and then
he's like practically crying, going, you

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are hog tied my girlfriend? How
dare you? And they're like, oh,

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now they're deeply in love. She's
not hog tied. She has handcuffs

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on, she's walking, she walked
to the car. It's just people,

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white people screaming. Yeah, it's
just so it's really fun. Yeah,

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it sounds like when they get in
trouble, but a lot of times it

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just goes on for so long with
them being nice, and I'm like,

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I know, can we get some
payoffs. Don't hit this person in the

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head with a guitar made them?
What's with all the patients tae them?

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I want to see some tasing action. I watched similar videos. There's like

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a and I've had to I've had
to just delete the app because it's just

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such a waste of time. It's
such a time. It's Reddit and it's

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a subreddit. And I think I've
said this before. It's called public freak

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out. Oh, it's called Yeah, it's so entertaining and yeah a lot

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of them are cops pulling over people
who are intoxicated and you know, get

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off me, you're assaulting me,
you're blah blah blah. And I'll just

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spend hours watching these videos. And
I had to, like, I had

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to delete the red Axe. I
know, like, what do you think

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is so like? Is it soothing
just because it's not us? Like?

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Why? I think so? I
imagine being that like animated, ye,

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drawing that much attention to myself that
I think it's that's why it's entertaining for

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me. I think I think that's
right. It is wild though, because

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some of these drunk driving ones and
these women that are like I've got my

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thing. Kids are at home.
I need to go home and see my

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baby. And I'm always like wow, like I quit drinking, and I

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was I can't even imagine, like
if I'd ever been that bad and was

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like that belligerent about it, and
just do you never do you dive into

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the comments and leave a link to
your book. Oh my god, I

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should. That is such good.
I really should do that. So that

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that's what I've been doing. I
had something that I wanted to tell you.

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Oh oh so my foot A lot
of people foot still broken. Last

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last week I told you I had
gone to back to the doctor. He

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sent me for a CT scan.
I got my t CT scan. He

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told me it's still broken. I
had to get a bone stimulator. Okay,

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so it I got her. That
was a machine. I thought it

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was like a pill. Oh no, it is a little like it's a

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device. It's a medical device.
So it's this is just annoying. Uh

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So they called they had to run
it through my insurance. Right, So

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I get the call from the woman
who was trying to get it covered.

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They have like a department who does
that, and she's like, hi,

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so okay, we tried to put
it through your insurance. Your insurance denied

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it because and I was like,
really, because I don't know what else

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they're supposed to do, Like,
well, then you're going to pay for

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surgergy because that's like the next step. I mean, so they she said,

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they denied it because they want you
to have had an x two X

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rays nine weeks apart, showing that
it's still broken. So I didn't.

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It had hadn't been from the first
X ray to the second X ray,

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though it had been nine I don't
know. But she was like, from

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the very first X ray, from
the second X ray to the last X

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ray, it hadn't been nine months
nine weeks, but from the first from

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when I did it it had been
over nine week. It doesn't it had

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been nine and a half weeks anyway, but on the record of the doctor

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it wasn't. But check it out. She's like, so you're gonna have

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to pay for it out of pocket, and the out of pocket expenses five

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hundred dollars. So I was like, okay. She's like, you can

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make payments, interest free payments,
you can split it up however you want

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get reimbursed. No, because it's
out of pocket. She's like, but

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here's the good news. I guess
if your insurance had approved it, the

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charge would be like twenty seven hundred
dollars and none of it would it would

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all be being paid toward my deductible. She's like, so weird, Okay,

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out of pocket. So she's like, basically, you're lucky they denied

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it, because if they had accepted
it, you'd had that. Maybe that's

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why they denied it. Do you
think are they that good hearted? But

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now so anyway, so I got
this thing. The fedexed it to me.

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I said, yes, I will
accept the charges because I'm so tired

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of my foot, of being in
pain and not being able to walk.

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Yeah. The other day I took
Xander to the mall and I put the

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boot back on because I was just
like, I can't. There's no way

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I can walk that much. It
hurts a lot, But I gotta tell

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you, I think the bone stimulators
already starting to work. So it's like

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this little thing. It looks like
a it looks like a big like an

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older phone, like a big flip
phone, okay, and it's got a

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little window on the front of it, and then it's got a little like

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a cord and you put it has
it comes with like gel called ectrots.

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It is like it's not a let, yeah, kind almost. It's like

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a little thing that conducts radio waves. And you put the thing on.

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You wrap it around your foot and
you put the thing on and you connect

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it. Basically put some gel on
the thing and then you put it against

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your foot and then it's held on
there with this strap and then you just

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hit the timer and twenty minutes every
day you don't feel it. It doesn't

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hurt nothing. No, you don't
feel it at all. Oh my gosh.

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Yeah, that sounds like witchcraft,
I know. And it is a

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weird thing where you're like, is
this is this Western medicine because I'm like

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Western medicine, Like you know,
like is this like could I just as

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easily be like chanting for feeling warm
water and herbs. No, this is

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like a thing that's kind of been
proven. It's not foolproof, but some

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people it has like I don't know, like between forty and ninety percent six

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like rate. Well, some people
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for them. Yeah. I believe
it is already working because yesterday I was

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in some pain. This morning,
I was already feeling better. I did

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the bone stimulator today and I haven't
been having pain today at all, Like

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I've been not I'm not walking much, but like from here to the car

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around the house, you know,
and it doesn't hurt. Yeah, it

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was. This is the first time
I've seen you without a boot. Yeah,

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it's so exciting. I'm kind of
excited about that. Yeah, because

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you, I mean, you royally
fucked up our summer. It's unbelievable.

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I mean, it was so sad. I might first day of summer,

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like no mall trips of concerts was
so sad and sadder than I am because

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I'm so active, like and when
I say active, I don't mean like

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active. I don't mean like moving, like I don't mean hiking, have

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you, I mean like going to
the mall and eating big Bavary impression exactly

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like you know, no, but
like I mean, it's killing me that

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I can't watch the dog. I
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take Xander to them all the other
day. So we have a my nephew's

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bar Mitzvah's coming up same month,
and when this airs I believe, I

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don't well, we're still in August, but it's September, September bar Mitzvah.

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Then I have oh, this episode
is airing in for sure in September,

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towards the later in the month.
I'm going to a wedding in Seattle.

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Really yeah, leave kids home with
LB. Oh. Interesting, I

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was like, you know what,
we're going to this wedding. Why take

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people with us? Let them be
home? I agree. Oh, the

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only hitch in my giddy up is
that. You know, the kids say

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choo, choose name. Sadie and
Xander can't drive and Elbi does work,

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but how sweet is this? Elbi
was like, why don't I just call

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off of work? So we're leaving
on a Friday. Perfect, We're leaving

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like Friday morning. We're gonna walk
people, take the kids to school and

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then we leave. So Elby's going
to pick them up from school that day.

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Okay, probably not work that night, so you know, make sure

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that they get dinner. You know, they can just whatever they do grub,

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grub hub, door, daver eats, whatever, or E'll get them

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food or whatever. They can make
something. And then Saturday, Elby said

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she would just stay home. They're
gonna have to walk the dog in the

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morning, walk the dog at night, and then Sunday were we decided there

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weren't. It was really hard to
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out we could either do six am, no yea or five thirty at night.

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So we elected to do five thirty
at night. We get in at

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like eight pm. Yeah, so
they'll have to walk the dog one more

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time for us and then we'll be
up. That's nice who's I mean,

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can I ask whose wedding? Oh, it's just sorry, it's John's like

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old old college friend. That's so
fun. But it's it's his old college

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friend's daughter. Okay. Yeah.
So I haven't been to Seattle and like

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since I was a kid. It's
a fun city. Yeah, it's beautiful.

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Yeah, so we have like,
oh, have all like a whole

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thing saying on Sunday, you can
You've got the whole day to wander around.

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Yeah, we're gonna go to like
the fish market or whatever space needle.

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Yeah, maybe I don't know about
that. Yeah, so that's gonna

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be fun. But this bar Mitzvah
is my nephew's bar Mitzvah. So the

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kids are coming. I don't know
why. Maybe you can tell me,

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but it's causing me a lot of
adjea just to figure out like what to

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wear, Like Xander has no none
of my kids. My kids don't have

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a lot of dress clothes because we
live in California. When do they ever

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really dress up for anything? By
the way, I don't either, but

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I'm going to borrow. Yeah,
so when is it? It's next month?

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It is it's well, yeah,
it's this month. Oh okay,

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it's later in the month, so
oh yeah, yeah, so I took

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so Anyway, Xander is also doing
speech and debate at school, so he's

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like, I need some dress clothes
anyway. So I haven't shopped for like

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dress clothes for Xander since he was
younger, and it was kind of easy.

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Could just like go to coals,
Yeah, get like a dress shirt

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of a hall blazer. And he
can't fit int it. That's like so

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long ago. So I took him
to you know where we had luck.

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I was going to take him to
Macy's, but we went to H and

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M and they have a whole like
suit area. The only problem is everything

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is cut is a skinny cut.
Have you noticed this trend? It's skinny

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or slim and it's like skinny stretch. But it's like a weird fit and

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it's not it's not good for him. You know who actually has nice suits

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is Target? Really, if you're
on a budget, They've they've got stuff.

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Well, I might take him over
there, But we did have some

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luck. We tried on so many
things and he found this one pair of

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like gray pants with like little white
pinstripes, and then we got him a

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white dress shirt and a black dress
shirt to go if we might get a

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different colored pants, like find some
blue pants or something. So there was

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this really cute blue pants and this
blue jacket that it's the blue wasn't like

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a stuffy like navy blue. It
was like a grayish blue, I mean,

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like a really cool color blue.
So I was very into it.

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I was like, oh, this
would look so badass on you. But

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the pants just didn't fit him.
They were like too tight because of the

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freaking skinny. Yeah. I don't
know who can successfully wear those, and

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he's not built to fit into something
like that. So anyway, we found

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these gray pants and then I was
like, well, what jacket because I'm

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not a guy, so I don't
really know. And he's like, well,

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I think blue jacket might go with
the gray. I'm like really,

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but with the gray and white.
So anyway, I went out to get

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him another size in the jacket,
and while I was out there, there

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was like some dude, some dude. I can't it's hard to even describe

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what he looked like, but let's
just say he looked like maybe he could

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have been in a gang, but
then like really outgrown it. And now

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it was just kind of like a
dad. Yeah. You know, I

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imagine that guy totally cut, like
jorts and like kind of a buzz cut

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and like a mustache, but like
he were my school. Okay, okay,

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okay, the earth right. But
he's like the closest guy to me.

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I'm looking at this and I say
to the guy, I was like,

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excuse me, And you know,
he thought I was hitting on him.

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He thought, who is this senior
sist like hitting on me? But

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he turned around he's like yeah,
And I was like, can I ask

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you a question? Can I ask
you for some fashion advice? And I

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said, not for me, for
my kid and he was like yeah.

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And I was like, what,
which does this jacket? I need to

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know what jacket goes with these pants? And he was like, oh,

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the blue. You could do the
blue with those pants and I was like

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really, He's like yeah, absolutely, and he's like, how old's your

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kid? I said, no,
you don't think the gray because it was

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a gray and he goes no,
He's like, howlds your kid? And

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I said fifteen and he goes no, definitely, the blue. The gray

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two matchy matchy two stuffy. So
then it was really funny because then Xander

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comes out and we've got like his
stuff and the guy. Now, the

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guy's like on fire for like,
he's so excited that he got asked his

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opinion. So he comes over.
He's like, hey, how's it going,

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you know, and Xander's looking at
him like yeah, and he's like,

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listen, I just want to say, like, you know what would

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look good. He's like, what
you do is the gray pants and the

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and Xander doesn't know. So Xander
is looking scared and I was like,

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no, Xander, this is the
guy I asked for his friend. Yeah,

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he's my friend. And then Xander
goes, oh okay, and then

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he was all about it. He's
like, listen, hey buddy, this

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is what you want to do.
You want to wear it? Like you

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go the gray pants looks so cool
with some brown shoes and you do that

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blue jacket. He goes, I
got my shoes right here at H and

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M. And they were like these
really plastic e cooking shoes. And Xander's

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like, oh okay, and then
he's like, you know you want to

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do you gotta put a watch,
you gotta watch. Zander goes yeah,

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and he's wearing like an Apple Watch. He goes, I wear the Apple

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Watch just because it looks cool,
not even charged. He goes, but

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what I would do is just charge
it up. Just charge that up.

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Oh my god, looks great.
And he's like, you're gonna look great.

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It was really funny. He goes, you want to get a couple

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of chains, maybe like a like
a silver chain, but the kids actually

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do with it really yeah. Cesandrew
was like, I might need to get

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a chain, and I was like, maybe not. Well, Jack is

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now really into Versace, so he
has sprung. He has some fake Versaci

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but he has like you know,
buys knockoffs from Timu or something like but

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clothes, but clothing, but he
has real Versace sunglasses like the gold,

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like the tackiest, and they're super
cute because like they're his. Look.

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Now he's just so funny. So
yeah, he's adopting a look. I

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mean you saw him at my birthday, Yeah, had his cool little purple

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and black shirt. And he is
into fashion now, yeah, which he

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never was. I mean I could
have bought anything for that kid, and

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now I don't dare So okay,
it's funny. I was actually looking to

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see last time I was on the
show. And it was before he moved

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out, before Jack moved yea,
So it was last July. And I

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remember telling you how I was getting
obsessed with life three sixty. Yeah,

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remember that. We talked about that. I was kind of like doing an

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intervention on myself and like making a
plan, like I don't know how I'm

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going to do this, and said
the day Wade, let's remind people.

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So Jack went to college. Yeah, So he's at San Diego State,

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right, So, and he transferred
there. So he did his first two

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years at community yes, because one
of the years was COVID. Yeah,

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and he was online for both years
of community college. Way, and transferred

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to San Diego State. And so
I would just you know, he would

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he doesn't have a curfew, and
I couldn't go to sleep until he got

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home. I would just obsessively check, like two am, where is he?

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Where's And it's so ridiculous. This
is when he lived at home.

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There, when he lived at home, But like, what's going to stop

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me from doing that? When he's
at college. It's gonna be worse,

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right because he doesn't live there.
So I'm trying to figure out a plan

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for myself and Wade. I couldn't
go to move him in because it was

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my first day teaching, and Wade
drove him up there, and I,

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of course I checked like three sixty
bloop, he dropped himself off. He

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took himself off of late three sixty
and I was like, at first my

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heart sunk, and then I was
like, Okay, this is a gift

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because I this is what I needed. Like my parents did not know where

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I was when I was in college. I don't need to know where he

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is and keep tabs on him.
So and how did go and did it

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go away right away? The obsession? Yeah, pretty much. I mean

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there were times I wished I could
have checked it, but when it's not

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an option, there's like nothing to
manage. So it's I'm glad he did

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that. I never said a word
about it. You know, I don't

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know if he was waiting for me
to call and say, why did you

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take yourself off? But he was
I mean, how old was he was?

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Nineteen almost twenty and he's never been
back on. Nope, I'm glad

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00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,519
Elby hasn't asked to be off life
through sixty. Well, he didn't ask

406
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:23,200
of it. He just took himself
off. Yeah, I feel like for

407
00:29:23,359 --> 00:29:29,039
me, I mean with Sadie and
Xander, I need I need it,

408
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,440
And it's more like I oftentimes,
I mean, John's obsessed with it.

409
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:37,039
John watches what we're doing all the
time. It's annoying. It can be

410
00:29:37,119 --> 00:29:40,839
annoying. I know I've been with
you when Yeah, he will text me

411
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,119
if he if I've stopped at the
store, He'll be like, oh,

412
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,640
can you pick up blah blah blah. It's like he's just constantly seeing where

413
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:52,079
I am. Also, he's really
controlling and very jealout. Now he's kidding,

414
00:29:52,119 --> 00:29:56,240
it's very quirk. He has his
quirk that he I think he's bored

415
00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,160
and I think he's like living vicariously. How they almost home. Yeah.

416
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:06,039
But but with Elbe, I think
it's kind of a safety thing because you

417
00:30:06,079 --> 00:30:08,799
know, she's a young girl out
even when she's with friends, Like I

418
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,599
feel like I would want to know
if something happened or if I didn't hear

419
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,319
from her for a really long time. It helps me to know where she

420
00:30:15,559 --> 00:30:19,400
is, Yeah, for sure,
but she wasn't responding or but she also

421
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,400
still lives at home as Yeah,
so I think that was kind of the

422
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:27,119
line for Jack was moving out,
you know, and it was funny.

423
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:33,279
Shortly after he got there, he
calls me and he said, you know,

424
00:30:33,359 --> 00:30:36,279
I was wondering if you could send
me my passport because don't you think

425
00:30:36,319 --> 00:30:40,759
it's a good idea for me to
have my passport? And yeah, someone's

426
00:30:40,759 --> 00:30:45,839
going to Mexico, so what's the
plan. But I gave it to him.

427
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:51,480
Again, I have to draw the
parallel between like my upbringing and I

428
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:56,720
had strict conservative parents, but when
I became an adult, it's like,

429
00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,359
you're responsible, you haven't proven not
to be, so do your thing.

430
00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:07,759
And I've sort of tried to take
the same the same stance, you know,

431
00:31:07,119 --> 00:31:11,400
because I read about parents on the
web page, like someone is having

432
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:15,680
a hard time figuring out how to
pay the tuition. Let's say, just

433
00:31:15,799 --> 00:31:19,880
go into your kid's portal and see
what it's itemized on their portal. I'm

434
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:25,680
thinking, you have your kid's portal
password, and I don't. I would

435
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,440
never ask for it. I don't
have any of LB stuff. There's no

436
00:31:27,519 --> 00:31:33,319
way I could check anything. Yeah, I just I figured if he does

437
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:37,160
flunk out, i'll know because I
won't get a bill, right, And

438
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:44,039
I actually that it came up because
I wanted to get a good student discount

439
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:45,680
for him. So I had to
ask them, I'm like, this kind

440
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,599
of personal even though I'm paying for
school, but do you have above at

441
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,480
three point? Now? It's like
yeah, he said, okay, can

442
00:31:52,559 --> 00:31:55,599
you send me your transcript so I
can't send it to the insurance company.

443
00:31:55,720 --> 00:32:00,160
So he did. Interesting. Yeah, it's it's a weird line to draw,

444
00:32:00,799 --> 00:32:05,279
right, you know, Yeah,
I don't. I mean, Elbe

445
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,240
took care of all her college stuff
herself, and she just I mean I

446
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,240
helped her with the application, like, I sat with her, and because

447
00:32:13,279 --> 00:32:15,480
some of the stuff is questions that
you have to answer, like about your

448
00:32:15,519 --> 00:32:19,759
income on some of them, right, So I sat with her. But

449
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,319
I would never have known been able
to check. I knew parents. I

450
00:32:22,359 --> 00:32:24,720
mean I know parents that were like, oh my god, I found out

451
00:32:24,799 --> 00:32:28,720
my kid got into this school and
they don't know yet. And it's like,

452
00:32:28,799 --> 00:32:32,480
oh because they checked that portal before
their kids. Such an invasion of

453
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:37,079
it. I feel like it is
too. But cently the paying for college

454
00:32:37,119 --> 00:32:40,680
one oh one people don't because they
all do it right. But then I

455
00:32:40,759 --> 00:32:45,920
go the parents that are on that
page that are posting all the time are

456
00:32:45,039 --> 00:32:49,759
crazy and way too over involved with
their kid's lives anyway. Yeah, they

457
00:32:49,839 --> 00:32:53,759
act like they're the one going to
college. Yea, yeah, so like

458
00:32:54,000 --> 00:33:00,279
we're going to Michigan State. This
is where I'm not going your going.

459
00:33:01,279 --> 00:33:07,519
We It's not even like a husband
saying like we're pregnant, Like at least

460
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:12,079
yes, that is like if your
wife or your girlfriend is pregnant or your

461
00:33:12,119 --> 00:33:15,960
significant other participated, you are participating
in that. You are. That is

462
00:33:16,079 --> 00:33:21,279
something that you will be experiencing together. But you're not experiencing college with your

463
00:33:21,359 --> 00:33:23,160
kid. They are going to college, right, you are not, although

464
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:27,920
they wish they could, they could
rush with them and do all that stuff.

465
00:33:28,119 --> 00:33:30,519
I know, what was that?
Wasn't there a movie where the mom

466
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:35,759
goes back to school with her daughter? Oh? I don't know there's a

467
00:33:35,839 --> 00:33:38,720
movie like that. Back It's not
back to school because that's like a Rodney

468
00:33:38,799 --> 00:33:44,519
Dangerfield movie. Well, what was
the one with where the guys go back

469
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,319
with Will Ferrell? Old School?
Old School? I love that movie.

470
00:33:49,519 --> 00:33:52,799
Yeah, that's a funny one.
All right, let's take what I'm seeing.

471
00:33:53,240 --> 00:34:00,319
Oh it's called Life of the Party. Okay, yeah, yep,

472
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,799
okay, look at you, kaylen
Is it supposed to be good. I

473
00:34:04,799 --> 00:34:07,119
don't know. I came out in
twenty eighteen. Let me seet the rotten

474
00:34:07,759 --> 00:34:09,719
let's guests, the rotten tomatoes.
Right, let's take a little let's take

475
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:15,760
a quick break, and then we'll
come back with that score. Okay,

476
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,960
would you come up with? Are
you going to guess the score? Okay?

477
00:34:20,119 --> 00:34:24,719
I think it stars Melissa McCarthy.
Oh okay, so I think viewers

478
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:30,480
seventy two. I think critics forty
five. Oh that's a good guess.

479
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:37,760
Okay, I'm gonna guess viewers eighty
two. I'm gonna go ten higher than

480
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:43,679
you and critics seventy two. Mm. So the audience and the critics were

481
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:51,840
actually pretty simpatico on the movie.
Critics thirty eight, audience forty. Oh

482
00:34:52,519 --> 00:34:57,239
god, it's horrible. Then if
the audience doesn't like it, that's really

483
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,119
bad, especially for a comedy,
right. Oh yeah, and because critics

484
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:07,199
are often dismissive of comedies. But
yeah, wow, for the audience.

485
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,920
I usually always go by the audience
squaw too tomatoes, absolutely, especially like

486
00:35:12,079 --> 00:35:15,800
with scary movies. Yeah, because
I like you do you like scary movies?

487
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:20,360
Not really, I like psychological thrillers, but I don't like Gore.

488
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,679
I don't like slasher movies. I
don't like Gore, but I love scary

489
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:30,000
movies. We just watched one called
The Autopsy of Jane Dee. Yeah.

490
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:35,119
That was really I mean it was
kind of gory just because it was an

491
00:35:35,119 --> 00:35:40,199
autopsy. But it was good.
Yeah, like that's like a creepy movie,

492
00:35:40,599 --> 00:35:45,679
super super creepy. It was great. Is it Did it come out

493
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,320
in theaters? Probably but a while
ago. Yeah, I watched it.

494
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,119
We watched it on TV. We
streamed it. Okay, great. Yeah.

495
00:35:52,199 --> 00:35:57,679
John does not like scary movies.
Well Wade doesn't really either, but

496
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:01,199
I make him watch them, and
half the time we'll be sitting next to

497
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:06,320
each other on the couch. I
just remember this with the what's the one

498
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:10,719
that was all just on the video
Cameron Paranormal Activity? Yeah, paranormal Activity.

499
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,519
We watched all of those, and
I could see in the reflection of

500
00:36:15,599 --> 00:36:20,079
like our China cabinet, that Wade
wasn't even looking the TV. He was

501
00:36:20,199 --> 00:36:23,480
just like staring at me during the
scary parts funny, and then I look

502
00:36:23,519 --> 00:36:27,119
over and say, what is going
on? He's like, why do we

503
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,320
do this to ourselves? Why do
we do this to ourselves. This is

504
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:36,960
too scary. Be quiet. I
love being scared. I still remember as

505
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:43,000
a kid going to the drive in
to see a Christmas Carol with I'm sure

506
00:36:43,039 --> 00:36:46,239
it was a George C. Scot
one so ages me well as if drive

507
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:52,239
in didn't age me enough. And
the Ghost of Christmas Future just had that

508
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:57,679
black it didn't have a face,
and it scared the shit out of me.

509
00:36:58,159 --> 00:37:00,679
And I was up all night.
Oh. I woke my mom up

510
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,360
a couple of times, and then
the next morning I asked her if we

511
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,400
could go see it again. Really, Yeah, I just I love that

512
00:37:07,519 --> 00:37:14,880
feeling. Yeah. I watched a
movie. I'm okay, it's Vincent.

513
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:22,960
Can you google horror movies Vincent because
Vincent. It's like the Vincent is the

514
00:37:23,039 --> 00:37:29,280
director. No, but Vicent Price, Yeah, Vincent Price. And it

515
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,239
was like I want to say,
it was like a night at the opera

516
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:37,159
or something, and it's these vignettes. It's this guy who's getting revenge on

517
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:44,400
somebody. And I watched this in
grade school at somebody's house, like somebody

518
00:37:44,599 --> 00:37:46,800
either either I was at a friend's
house and there was a babysitter there.

519
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:51,239
It was somehow that we shouldn't have
been watching this movie and it was the

520
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:59,920
glorioust grossest, Like, this guy
is forced this this this guy's taking revenge

521
00:38:00,039 --> 00:38:06,760
on people. One of the worst
scenes was he kills this man's dogs and

522
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,559
then he makes them into pies and
he makes the pies. Yeah, and

523
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:14,519
you don't see him kill the dogs, but you know that he killed the

524
00:38:14,559 --> 00:38:16,320
dogs. And then he's eating.
The guy's eating the pies and then the

525
00:38:16,679 --> 00:38:21,840
man tells him that's your dogs where
and then and then he's like horrified and

526
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:27,480
scared and then he forces forces him
to eat until he like explodes. Oh

527
00:38:27,559 --> 00:38:31,159
my god. Now I've just never
done that moment on. I've like,

528
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:36,079
I don't like I don't like that
feeling. I don't want to be scared.

529
00:38:36,159 --> 00:38:38,440
I don't want to have things that
I can't unsee. Right, I

530
00:38:38,599 --> 00:38:42,079
still can see it in my head. And I was young. I was

531
00:38:42,159 --> 00:38:45,159
probably like third grade. Yeah,
that's too young to see that stuff.

532
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:50,519
I know. Sometimes my students will
talk about movies they've watched, and I'm

533
00:38:50,519 --> 00:38:53,159
like, oh, that's you.
I don't tell them, but I'm like,

534
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:57,960
okay, note to self, parents, a first grade or should not

535
00:38:58,079 --> 00:39:04,320
be watching Smile. I mean a
lot of young kids like, yeah,

536
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,079
I loved it. Yeah, I
don't remember that. I mean I kind

537
00:39:07,119 --> 00:39:10,159
of remember that movie. I mean
I didn't see it, but I remember

538
00:39:10,199 --> 00:39:13,719
the kids talking about my kids don't
like it and don't want to see it.

539
00:39:14,119 --> 00:39:16,639
Oh, Jack will watch any scary
movie with me, really love them

540
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:21,159
from a young age. Yep.
Although one of them we had to turn

541
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,800
off, and I was so grateful
we did because it was so scary.

542
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:32,320
Baba Duke, did you see that
was fucking terrifying And just at one point

543
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,159
I can't watch anymore, turn it
off, turn it off. I'm like,

544
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,320
thank god he said that, because
I was getting really scared. I

545
00:39:38,639 --> 00:39:44,039
don't even remember the premise of it, but it was super scary. I

546
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,719
remember, like it was yesterday,
seeing the Shining and thinking that was the

547
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,480
scariest movie I'd ever seen. It
was pretty crazy. Two Little Girls,

548
00:39:52,199 --> 00:39:59,519
anything with the little girls, Oh
La la la, the little kids rad

549
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,880
rack. Oh my god. Yeah, that movie scared the ship out of

550
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:07,800
me. But that's I like that
a little bit better. That's a little

551
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:13,519
more of a psychological thriller than I
think. I told you. My stepfather

552
00:40:13,599 --> 00:40:15,519
would take me to see, took
me to see like Friday the Thirteenth and

553
00:40:15,599 --> 00:40:19,320
all those movies when I was twelve, and he thought that was a bonding

554
00:40:19,519 --> 00:40:22,400
experience and he would take me to
see those kind of like we're just kids

555
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:27,039
at summer camp, are getting like
slaughter, even though he knew you didn't

556
00:40:27,119 --> 00:40:30,079
like scary movies. Yeah, like
your mom putting onions and things. You

557
00:40:30,199 --> 00:40:34,480
know, I would say, yeah, I'm what the fuck? I don't

558
00:40:34,559 --> 00:40:38,519
know a way to connect with your
kids something they hate. I don't know

559
00:40:38,639 --> 00:40:40,880
what he was thinking. Yeah,
I didn't like it. I know I

560
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,559
didn't like it, and I know
I didn't really want to go, but

561
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:51,400
I guess he was like offering and
would so I yeah, huh. Weird

562
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:57,719
parents are weird. They really are. So how's Jack. He's a senior

563
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,639
year? Yeah right, I mean
he had a last his junior year,

564
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:06,559
just having such a good time getting
good grades. He's doing speech and debate

565
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:13,159
and you know, he's let me
ask you this. Okay, he still

566
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,920
has autism. Yes, he doesn't
just go away. So does he still

567
00:41:16,079 --> 00:41:23,559
need any sort of accommodations or has
he completely learned to adapt to any situations

568
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:29,039
at work? When we have accommodations
in place, it was harder to get

569
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,920
at a university. It was easy
to get his accommodations in place. At

570
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:39,039
junior college, he could totally handle
that on his own. But for San

571
00:41:39,119 --> 00:41:45,360
Diego State, we had to have
a letter from a therapist. Remember with

572
00:41:45,559 --> 00:41:49,480
a therapist, so I was actually
able to call his therapists from when he

573
00:41:49,599 --> 00:41:52,800
was a kid and ask if she
could meet with him just to write up

574
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,760
the report. And she's like sure. She said, I do a sliding

575
00:41:55,840 --> 00:42:00,119
scale for families if you need that
or I think she charged two fifty and

576
00:42:00,199 --> 00:42:05,039
did this full right up. So
he does have things in place, like

577
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:10,880
more time on tests, alternate testing
location, but he hasn't used any of

578
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:15,960
it. We just always get that
stuff in place because you have no idea

579
00:42:16,119 --> 00:42:21,960
what a transition is going to be
like. And that's part of the reason

580
00:42:22,079 --> 00:42:24,800
we were able to get on campus
housing even though he was a junior.

581
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:30,480
He sort of pled his case that
I want to be close, I want

582
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:36,119
to live with people who know the
lay of the land, and I want

583
00:42:36,119 --> 00:42:37,840
to be successful, and I think
you want me to be successful too,

584
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:44,599
So they offered him a contract in
on campus apartments. Okay, so that's

585
00:42:44,639 --> 00:42:47,280
where he lived last year and loved
it and now he's living, oh my

586
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:52,400
god, with like ten guys at
a house like a block away from where

587
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,199
the apartment was. They have a
pool and he has his own room,

588
00:42:54,360 --> 00:43:00,599
and so he's like, it's a
house. But people buy up these houses

589
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:06,119
and then make them into dorms basically, okay, separate them into all these

590
00:43:06,159 --> 00:43:13,320
tiny bedrooms and you know, add
an adu that holds four people and charge

591
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:19,440
exorbitant amounts of rents. Oh gosh. And but you know, he loves

592
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,760
it. He loves it, and
he really likes having his own room because

593
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:27,000
he didn't have that last year.
Okay, so he's really enjoying it.

594
00:43:27,119 --> 00:43:31,119
School just started. What's his major
communication? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

595
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:35,199
I think I need that. Yeah, And he likes it and loves

596
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,559
it. Does he know have any
idea what he wants to do with it.

597
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:43,480
He was really interested in marketing and
that type of thing. So I

598
00:43:43,599 --> 00:43:47,960
do think he's the type of person
who could sell anything. So who knows

599
00:43:49,039 --> 00:43:52,440
where he'll end up. He did
decide to to get this past summer.

600
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,519
You know, his housing contract was
all the way through the summer, so

601
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,079
little too. He didn't know everyone
would be gone. Cycle people leave during

602
00:44:00,119 --> 00:44:04,159
the summer they move home, so
there was no one around. So he

603
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,159
was kind of bored. So he
went to the Jersey Mike's by campus and

604
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:12,320
got a job there. So he's
working now too, because you know,

605
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:19,519
he worked for like three years at
Jersey Mikes. He's a sandwich sandwich what

606
00:44:19,639 --> 00:44:22,840
do they call it? I forget
what Jersey Mike's actually has a name for

607
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,000
it. They do what it is? Not an artist? Not an artist.

608
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,960
So he's working and he likes sad
and he just started speech again.

609
00:44:31,519 --> 00:44:37,480
He's doing I think he's doing impromptu
this year, which is what I always

610
00:44:37,519 --> 00:44:42,119
did in speech, where you get
like ten minutes to prep. They give

611
00:44:42,159 --> 00:44:45,159
you a topic and you get ten
minutes and then you're on, Oh my

612
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:49,840
god, Xander would be really good
at that. I think you would be

613
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,480
good at that. Oh god,
No, well you're you're keeping this rolling.

614
00:44:54,440 --> 00:45:00,880
That's because it's you make as beach
based on like I would. I

615
00:45:01,199 --> 00:45:05,480
don't feel like I could do that. I still I was in sixth grade

616
00:45:05,639 --> 00:45:09,920
at the Speech Bowl and the one
topic I remember was tomatoes said to write

617
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:14,440
a speech on. I didn't write
it. I took notes, and so

618
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:20,159
I got up and talked about you
know how tomatoes come in all different forms

619
00:45:20,199 --> 00:45:22,360
and da da da da, and
oh my gosh, yeah, like what

620
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:27,079
are some of the topics that would
like a college kid would get. His

621
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are much more esoteric, like they're
not like sports cars, and they're usually

622
00:45:32,079 --> 00:45:38,000
political or they're much more complex.
And he always likes taking like a pop

623
00:45:38,119 --> 00:45:46,000
culture kind of approach because he's totally
into like hip hop and kind of drum

624
00:45:46,079 --> 00:45:51,800
and bass kind of stuff, and
so he'll often find a thread to connect

625
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,159
that too in his speech and so, you know, trying to do something

626
00:45:55,280 --> 00:46:00,880
different I think not so obvious,
but that's such a great skill. It

627
00:46:00,039 --> 00:46:04,440
was a great skill. But it
also totally depends on your judges because they

628
00:46:04,519 --> 00:46:07,000
may not appreciate that. So it's
like, well, maybe you need to

629
00:46:07,079 --> 00:46:13,400
get to know your judges too and
figure out if they want traditional or or

630
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:19,239
i don't know what, you'd call
it trendy. That's so cool. Yeah,

631
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,239
I'm so proud of him. I
know I am too. Yeah,

632
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:27,920
he's doing great, and empty nesting
is pretty nice. I think it's differently

633
00:46:28,079 --> 00:46:31,320
just one kid, because you know, if he was out, we never

634
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:37,760
had another kid to watch, so
we sort of experienced that already. But

635
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,840
he did not come home very much
last year. It's like why would he?

636
00:46:40,519 --> 00:46:45,719
It was fun though. At my
birthday party, he at like midnight

637
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:52,719
that Kaitlin, do you know Raising
Kanes the chicken Press? So they just

638
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:57,880
opened one in Northridge and it had
My party was on a Saturday and it

639
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,760
had opened on Wednesday, and so
like midnight, I said, do you

640
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,960
want to go to Raising Kanes?
Because he had been raving about it in

641
00:47:05,079 --> 00:47:07,679
San Diego. He's like, oh
my god, it's the best chicken I've

642
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,079
ever had. And he's like,
yeah, will you drive? Because I

643
00:47:10,199 --> 00:47:15,559
hadn't been drinking, I'm like sure. It was like Disneyland on steroids.

644
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:22,639
The line was I mean like a
quarter of a mile long, three lanes

645
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:27,079
wide. It was unreal. But
it was so fun. You know,

646
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:32,360
I can't remember the last time I've
driven with him because that was always like

647
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:37,280
when we would talk and then your
kid gets their license and it's like,

648
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:42,039
oh my god, there go those
conversations. None of the commuting conversations happened

649
00:47:42,079 --> 00:47:45,880
anymore. It was just fun.
It was sweet. So it's nice spending

650
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:52,199
time with him. Yeah, all
right, well this has been so lovely

651
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:57,440
having you Robin for these t shows. And we have we had on Thursday

652
00:47:57,679 --> 00:48:05,760
against special guests. Might have also
had his wife Shari. Maybe it's possible.

653
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:07,280
We don't. We don't know what
happened. You know, you know

654
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,480
better than I do, but I'm
not going to tell. Yeah, and

655
00:48:09,599 --> 00:48:16,079
Robin staying for that and we had
a great Patreona Flows disturbing. Yeah,

656
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:22,599
but before that, let me give
a quick shout out to it's from our

657
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:29,079
friend, uh, our friend,
you know, Maren from Sugar Skull.

658
00:48:30,079 --> 00:48:35,840
She gave yes, she's given her
shout out to the Hawaii Community Foundation dot

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00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:44,440
org has not hashtag slash Mauie dash
Strong. Hawaii Community Foundation dot org slash

660
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:49,800
Mauie dash Strong. Thank you for
that, Maren. That is really sweet

661
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:53,199
of you. And yeah, in
September, we'll get back to talking about

662
00:48:53,199 --> 00:48:58,840
your bakery and gift shop. Also, Christine Black is from storybook World Travel.

663
00:48:59,199 --> 00:49:04,159
You can find her on Facebook or
Instagram. She plans travel all around

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00:49:04,199 --> 00:49:07,440
the world, not just theme parks. There's never a cost to use her

665
00:49:07,599 --> 00:49:12,400
services. She loves helping our listeners
and she looks forward to working with more

666
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:16,880
of our listeners. And again,
her email address is Christine with a h

667
00:49:17,679 --> 00:49:25,400
B at storybook World travel dot com
and as always Adam Lerner three one zero

668
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:30,079
nine nine eight seven zero four eight
or Adam's got acar dot com. He

669
00:49:30,159 --> 00:49:34,719
will help you find the best deal
in a car, lease, buy,

670
00:49:35,599 --> 00:49:37,519
sell. He'll get rid of your
old car for you and get you good

671
00:49:37,559 --> 00:49:40,119
money for it. And he'll do
it all. He'll just show up in

672
00:49:40,159 --> 00:49:43,840
your driveway. It's the easiest thing. I love Adam. He got me

673
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,920
my car. He's helped Kaylin too. All right, that's it awesome.

674
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:52,039
Thank you, Robin, Thank you
Kaylin. You're a parent now, don't

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00:49:52,119 --> 00:49:52,599
nff it up.
