Hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you to think about
today. I want to talk about plastic surgery. I have talked about it
before. People still taking a great, great risk with their lives, so
I want to talk about it again. People are taking great risks with their
lives to get bbl's big boots, augmentations, all types of things, light
bold, all types of things. But the price people are paying, many
have paid with their lives. It's not worth it. People are worried about
the wrong things. I'm here to tell you they are worried about the wrong
things. I need for you to share this episode. I truly need for
you to share this episode. People are worried about the wrong things. If
you care so much about yourself, you will not be fixated on plastic surgery.
If you cared so much about yourself and you wanted to do something to
feel better about yourself, you need to start working on that interview that inner
man, that inner woman, because that's gonna change everything. It's gonna change
your mindset. You're gonna have a different attitude about your body. But what
the problem is I've found out is a lot of people are listening to people
who are like them people who are similar like minded. Oh yes, girl,
get that butt lift. Even guys are getting butt lifts and getting their
stomachs done and just every part of their bodies. You're listening to people who
are similar to you, and yes, doctors would do it because they're making
money. Some of these plastic surgeons are having surgeries back to back to back
to back in the same day. Family members are suing these different places,
these different facilities. But you gotta remember, yes, sometimes doctors are negligent,
that's just fact. But you gotta look at the fact also that that
individual chose to do that knowing the risks. You don't go into surgery without
knowing the risk. I know. I've had surgeries and although it was nothing
to do with plastic surgery, they still tell you the risk involved, but
to willfully go because you want a bigger but you want a more shapely but
you want this, you want that. You're taking an unnecessary risk if you're
so worried about your appearance and all of that work on that entered you,
because that's where all of your negative thoughts about yourself is coming from. Some
of these men and women are very good looking people, but they can't see
it because of that inner man, that inner woman. Getting you a bigger
but or an enhanced body. That's not gonna change what's on the inside of
you. You may smile, you may feel good when you look at it,
but it's not gonna take away what's inside, that unhealed part of you.
Nothing is gonna take that away other than you dealing with it and healingly
from that unhealed part of you. That's the only thing that's gonna fix it.
Plastic surgery is not gonna fix it. But so many people are worried
about how they look. When you think how you're because of the mindset you
have. People think in distorted ways because of the mindset they have. You
don't think you're beautiful, although you're beautiful. Many people are drop dead gorgeous,
but they still can't see it because of their mindset. And then they're
listening to like minded people. Oh, yes, you need to go.
Yeah, a little bit won't hurt. Oh, I want a little bit
more. All of this crap from like minded people. How do you think
that's gonna work? The blind leading the blind. But that's the way most
people are in society, societies all over the world are built by what people
say, and most people are broken, unhealed, unresolved issues inside of them.
But this is where we're going. You need to look this certain way.
You need to be this tall. You need to have all of these
possessions. That's what makes you happy. You need this, you need that.
You need to look this way. You need to look that way.
You're getting your information from a bunch of unhealed individuals who are broken. I'm
sorry, it is fat. Societies all over the world are taking advice from
broken people. You know how, I know because if they was not broken,
they would not give a lot of the information they're given. Oh,
you gotta be a size zero. You can't be bigger than a two.
You have to have this white house and picket fence. I mean so many
things society say. It has to be this way or it has to be
that way. You're getting your information from broken people. That is why people
are not happy within self. That is why people have no peace within because
they're listening to broken people who are giving them bad information. So you have
your group of friends who sometimes all of them have gotten plastic surgery. You're
taking your advice from someone who has like mind, like you know, think
like you and a lot of people have lost their lives because instead of dealing
with self, dealing with that inner man or inner woman, they are dealing
with the appearance of the outside and thinking, well, if I look good
on the outside, I'll feel good on the inside. Know you won't,
No, you won't. You're still gonna have the same issues, unresolved issues,
untilled pain and hurt inside of you from trauma and or and or bad
just bad experiences from early on in your life. Most people carry that around.
But you're so worried about the outside, you're doing that backwards. You're
doing that totally backwards, because it's not the outside that's gonna change your life.
It's the inside, dealing with what's inside that's gonna change your life.
Because once you heal from your pain or whatever it is going on inside of
you that makes you think the way you think, when you heal from that,
your mindset changes. Then you can look at yourself at all your flaws
and love them. Everyone You say, hey, I don't have the biggest
butt, but I'm still good looking, I'm still handsome, I'm still pretty.
Because it's not all about the butt. It's about the butt for shallow
minded, immature people. I mean seriously, and I'm not saying there's nothing
wrong with having a nice but there isn't. But if you don't have one,
hey be thankful and try to shape the one you got. If you're
not happy with how it look, you can always go to the gym.
If you can't afford the gym, you can make your own at home,
easy, easy peasy. You can make your own gym at home. You
can start your own circuit drills at home. Make up stuff. That's what
I do. I make up things. And anyone who want to lose weight
can lose weight. You just have to have the will to do it.
I'm not talking out the side of my neck, meaning just talking to talk.
I'm telling you what I know for a fact. But as I said,
so many people are worried about how they look on the outside, but
you don't think healing from past issues on the inside. It's important. It's
way more important than your appearance on the outside. See, because your appearance
on the outside is it's really like a facade, really, but you don't
understand what's on the inside. It's what's causing you to think how you think.
What's on the inside is what's causing you to sabotage your own life.
What's on the inside, it's what's causing you to inflict unnecessary hurt on yourself
by what you allowing, what you choose, what you accept, what you
open yourself up to. So while you're worried about how you look on the
outside and thinking you you gotta have all these different plastic surgeries, you need
to work on the inside because it takes the inside to work properly in order
for the outside to work. And I promise you, if you deal with
the inside, the negativity that has you thinking the way you're thinking, if
you deal with that, it's gonna change your life. You're gonna understand and
you will come to the realization, I don't need all of that, big
butt, I don't need all of this. I don't need all of that.
You're gonna come to that realization because you're gonna learn how to love yourself,
all of your flaws, because you're never gonna get exactly what you want
and it don't matter anyways. But people got in their mind old my body,
my body. I've told you plenty of times, you're worried about this,
this physical, natural body. You need to be worried about that spiritual
body because that's what's gonna live forever, that spirit man. And I'm not
just sitting here talking. I'm telling you fact. I'm trying to encourage you.
I'm trying to save your life because people are dying left and right because
of plastic surgery. Unnecessarily. Your focus is wrong. You're so worried about
the outside when you need to be I mean, you need to put that
energy and way more on dealing with the inside because again, what's inside that's
unresolved is what have you thinking the way you think. That's why you think
the way you think. That's why you have insecurities. That's why you lack
confidence. That's why you make the choices and decisions you make. That's why
you allow and accept the things you do. That's why you easily conformed.
That's why you go alone to get alone. That's why you're easily brainwashed.
That's why you worship people who, by the way, are worse off than
you mentally, and some are in high places, some are not. Because
what's inside of you, it don't care your status, It don't discriminate.
If you haven't dealt with that unresolved, it's gonna be a part of your
life and it will rekhait end your life in some form or another without fail.
It's so sad that people live their lives so unhappy about how they look.
If any man tell you as a woman, if any man tell you
or make you feel less than because of how something look on your body,
you don't need him, and vice versa. If anyone try to put you
down because of how something look on your body, you should not allow that
person to affect your life. Because I promise you, I promise you they
have their own unresolved issues. Because only people who talk about other individuals and
put other individuals down, the only people do that are people who are dealing
with unresolved issues. Mature people, people who love themselves. They don't do
that to other people. They don't. They don't. And as I said,
brokenness does not discriminate. It affects people of all caliber, all walks
of life. I can look at people and I'm like, oh my god,
look at the plastic surgery some of these women. It's a pure shame
as if you can't tell their booties are fake you Why? Why? Why?
Why are you proud of something that's fake? I don't care if you
spent the money for it, you know it's fake. It's not natural.
I don't care if they use your own fat is still not natural because you
had to enhance it. So why would you be proud of something fake and
present yourself as if it's natural, as if people are stupid? People know
how you looked before. Some people think they've done a great job and they
look totally different. Just messed their faces up. Some people have messed their
bodies up, I mean horrible, put all of that junk in their faces,
walking around looking like terrible, but they think they look good. You
don't, you look terrible. All of that crap in your face. That's
not cute. It's not cute at all. Some people can't even smile.
Their faces are so stiff. That is not cute. And it's no way
you're looking at yourself and proud. No way, no freaking way, no
way. But people again have it all wrong. You're so worried about the
outside, when if you change that inner man, that inner woman, it
will completely totally change your views. You will get rid of that negative self
talk. You will learn how to love yourself. But so many people are
listening to the wrong individuals, people who are thinking like them, individuals who
also want enhancements done blind leading the blind completely. And so many people have
lost their lives during plastic surgery, worrying about Oh, I gotta get this,
I gotta get that, when what you need to worry about or focus
on, because you shouldn't worry about anything, But what you need to be
focusing on is that inner man, that inner woman. Change that in your
whole attitude, your whole view will change, I promise you. But see,
people don't want to take the time to do that. That's why people
go through life from their childhood own into old age the same, still tormented
by things that should have been let go of years and years and years ago,
still tormented because you're holding onto those things, that stuff. It's gone,
it's over, You're holding onto the memories of it. That's causing you
to have these thoughts and develop these raw feelings that you keep reliving because you're
holding onto it when you should have let it go. So you think you're
ugly, you don't think you're worthy of anything, You don't like yourself you
don't love yourself, you don't want to look at yourself, all because of
that unresolved inside of you, all because you have not chosen to deal with
those issues so you can heal from them and let them go. So it
makes you have this negative view of yourself. You can't be happy with yourself
because of your mindset. This may be your first time listening. If it
is, I would tell you what I've said before. Our mindsets are formed
from our trauma. Our traumatic experiences are bad experiences. That is what forms
our mindset. You know, you become conditioned a certain certain way. You
go through life and you pick up habitual ways of thinking, feeling, and
acting. You learn those behaviors. People have told you you're ugly, you're
not worth anything, you'll never amount up to anything. You believe it,
and instead of denouncing that stuff and denying it, you embrace it and you
embrace it for a life time. Now you really think that of yourself?
Negative self talk for my buddy's flat, It may be, it may be
so what so what? So what? Be grateful? Be grateful? Course,
you could have been born without a butt. You could have been one
of them people born with just the upper part of you, your upper torso
nobody at all be grateful for all things. If you have small boobs,
oh whale. If you have large boobs, oh whale, it's not worth
the risk. It's not. You could save that money for something else,
far, far, far more important. But people, they get things in
their head and they just meditate on those things and they allow those thoughts to
become powerful. And now the next thing, I gotta have this surgery.
I'm gonna have this surgery. I don't come, but no one says I'm
having this surgery. I got to have it. I want it. I
don't care, I want it. You just harbrown and heartbrown and harbor on
it until you get it. And some people have died because of those surgeries.
Celebrity, none celebrity. But you may have died from having the surgery.
But a lot of people are already walking dead because they have not healed
from issues up their past, and it has sabotage. It have made them
staggnant and fixated in their lives. And I've also told you many times some
people accomplish things, they achieve great things in life, but inside they're still
that same little child, still suffering, still making bad choices and decisions,
still allowing and accepting things that they shouldn't because they never healed from their past.
We see it every day, some people you know, some people you
don't know. But we see it every day with the things that people are
doing. People are just doing everything, every nothingness off limits any more.
Nothing from the most vain to the most hideous. People are doing any and
everything. It all comes from that inner man, that inner woman that forms
that mindset that you have. You join cults, you do satanic rituals,
you do all of the things you do because you're lacking something and you're reaching,
you're seeking, you're searching, but you will never find it until you
look inward. And that's a fact. You can take it to the bank
and deposited. People are going through life every single day the very same,
unwilling to change, change, unwilling. They're miserable. They've embraced misery,
they've embraced it, and all they do is entertain negativity, negative thoughts,
negative self talk for years and years and years and years, and they worry
about the wrong thing. Do he love me? Do she love me?
What about loving yourself? How about that that's what you need to do,
and you worry about, oh how I look and will they like me?
All of the wrong things instead of dealing with who you have allowed yourself to
become that person that you continue to inflict pain upon yourself, and not only
that you projected onto other, your children, anyone else in your life,
your significant other, anyone around you, anyone who are not able to defend
kids or herself. Are those who openly, openly allow you to do it.
Because people who got it together not tolerating it. They're not going to
tolerate it. I just I really wanted to talk about this because this stuff
is out of control, like everything else out of control. I mean people,
Oh my god, oh my god, a monk, you hear me.
People are gone a monk. People are running a monk for real,
And I mean it sounds me because I know no one has to live life
that way, no one, no one has to give in to the pains
of yesteryear. Everyone could choose a different route if they want it to,
but most people, they stay on the same path of misery, same path
of misery. Some people get old, I mean into old age, and
they still think about killing themselves. And many have. That's crazy to me,
because you have given in, You have succumb to the darkness when you
didn't have to. Your life is what you make it. I don't care
how you started out, how you end up. It's on you. It's
on you. You're looking around at other people, Oh she's so beautiful,
look at her body, when it's fake. They're miserable with themselves. You're
looking at that people. Oh look what they have, and they are in
bankruptcy. They're rich, but they have no money because they make a million,
but there's but they live in a five million dollar home. I mean,
your focus in your eyes are on the wrong things. I promise you,
without a doubt whatsoever, if the world had people who would look inward
instead of looking outward for resolution, this whole world would be such a more
better place to live. It really would, it really would. I gotta
tell you, I recommend Jesus because he could take away all of that if
you leave it at his feet, all of that negativity, all of that
negative ways of thinking. I know, I already know many don't believe.
I'm just telling you that's my recommendation. That's the main one. And if
you can't get with that. Learn how to love yourself because that big booty.
I don't care how cute you think it it may be, or how
good you think it may feel, You're gonna always resolve back to that inner
pain. Them millions of dollars and billions of dollars. Oh yeah, you
may rest nice because you can buy whatever you want, but it will not
take away that pain inside of you that you're holding. No one too,
those titles, those positions, that status you have, whatever is in you
is coming out. It's not gonna take away what you're struggling with on the
inside. Nothing nothing, nothing, nothing, and no one can fix you.
Only you can do it. But you gotta want to. Most people
don't. They just still in the same path. They're comfortable with pain,
comfortable comfortable with pain, comfortable struggling, I mean, just comfortable, content,
complacent, still crying about childhood things instead of moving on in life and
growing mentally so you can become the best you that you can be. You're
holding yourself back. You're holding yourselves back, and you believe in if you
look a certain way, people are gonna love you and you're gonna feel better
about yourself. But you're gonna find out wrong, especially when people end up
being completely their bodies are are completely deformed because of surgeries or people die.
I mean, I'm stopping right here. I said enough. I hope you
understand this is very, very very important. If you don't love yourself,
it don't matter who loves you, it won't be good enough for you.
It will not be enough for you. When you don't love yourself, I
don't care how beautiful they make your body. You still going to have those
inner issues. I don't care what you have possession wise, it's not going
to take away what's inside of you. It's not those of you who are
listening to me who have not dealt with your unresolved issues. You're still suffering
from long ago trauma or long ago bad experiences of some sort. You know,
it's the truth. You know, if you are an adult and you're
still holding onto unresolved issues, you're still mad, sad, depressed, unhappy,
miserable. You can't love yourself, full of doubt, self negative talk,
lack self love, lack self esteem, lack confidence, got all kinds
of insecurities. You know what I'm saying, It's truth if you are adult
and you're dealing with any of that. You know it's the truth. No
one can fix you other than yourself, but you have to want to and
you have to pursue it. You must pursue change with consistency, be intentional
about it. It's a fact. So please share this episode. Everyone needs
to hear it. Please share this episode. Thank you so much for listening.
Much love to each and every one of you. It takes the inside
to work in order for the outside to work. Your outside world will never
be the way it could be if the inside is not healed. Thank you
again. I end every episode the same, but before I go, please
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really really do take on it.