WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.439 --> 00:00:08.960 Hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you to think about 2 00:00:10.759 --> 00:00:19.280 today. I want to talk about plastic surgery. I have talked about it 3 00:00:19.359 --> 00:00:31.000 before. People still taking a great, great risk with their lives, so 4 00:00:31.120 --> 00:00:35.799 I want to talk about it again. People are taking great risks with their 5 00:00:35.840 --> 00:00:49.880 lives to get bbl's big boots, augmentations, all types of things, light 6 00:00:49.920 --> 00:01:03.359 bold, all types of things. But the price people are paying, many 7 00:01:03.439 --> 00:01:08.959 have paid with their lives. It's not worth it. People are worried about 8 00:01:10.000 --> 00:01:14.760 the wrong things. I'm here to tell you they are worried about the wrong 9 00:01:14.959 --> 00:01:21.640 things. I need for you to share this episode. I truly need for 10 00:01:21.680 --> 00:01:27.120 you to share this episode. People are worried about the wrong things. If 11 00:01:27.159 --> 00:01:36.239 you care so much about yourself, you will not be fixated on plastic surgery. 12 00:01:37.040 --> 00:01:42.000 If you cared so much about yourself and you wanted to do something to 13 00:01:42.280 --> 00:01:49.079 feel better about yourself, you need to start working on that interview that inner 14 00:01:49.079 --> 00:01:53.959 man, that inner woman, because that's gonna change everything. It's gonna change 15 00:01:53.959 --> 00:02:02.400 your mindset. You're gonna have a different attitude about your body. But what 16 00:02:02.519 --> 00:02:09.560 the problem is I've found out is a lot of people are listening to people 17 00:02:09.560 --> 00:02:15.479 who are like them people who are similar like minded. Oh yes, girl, 18 00:02:15.840 --> 00:02:23.960 get that butt lift. Even guys are getting butt lifts and getting their 19 00:02:23.960 --> 00:02:30.319 stomachs done and just every part of their bodies. You're listening to people who 20 00:02:30.360 --> 00:02:37.159 are similar to you, and yes, doctors would do it because they're making 21 00:02:37.240 --> 00:02:43.960 money. Some of these plastic surgeons are having surgeries back to back to back 22 00:02:44.080 --> 00:02:57.360 to back in the same day. Family members are suing these different places, 23 00:02:58.039 --> 00:03:07.599 these different facilities. But you gotta remember, yes, sometimes doctors are negligent, 24 00:03:07.800 --> 00:03:12.759 that's just fact. But you gotta look at the fact also that that 25 00:03:12.919 --> 00:03:21.199 individual chose to do that knowing the risks. You don't go into surgery without 26 00:03:21.240 --> 00:03:28.080 knowing the risk. I know. I've had surgeries and although it was nothing 27 00:03:28.120 --> 00:03:35.280 to do with plastic surgery, they still tell you the risk involved, but 28 00:03:35.439 --> 00:03:40.120 to willfully go because you want a bigger but you want a more shapely but 29 00:03:40.800 --> 00:03:49.840 you want this, you want that. You're taking an unnecessary risk if you're 30 00:03:49.879 --> 00:03:54.120 so worried about your appearance and all of that work on that entered you, 31 00:03:55.400 --> 00:04:04.360 because that's where all of your negative thoughts about yourself is coming from. Some 32 00:04:04.479 --> 00:04:11.319 of these men and women are very good looking people, but they can't see 33 00:04:11.319 --> 00:04:18.319 it because of that inner man, that inner woman. Getting you a bigger 34 00:04:18.680 --> 00:04:24.680 but or an enhanced body. That's not gonna change what's on the inside of 35 00:04:24.720 --> 00:04:29.480 you. You may smile, you may feel good when you look at it, 36 00:04:29.839 --> 00:04:33.839 but it's not gonna take away what's inside, that unhealed part of you. 37 00:04:34.800 --> 00:04:43.720 Nothing is gonna take that away other than you dealing with it and healingly 38 00:04:43.839 --> 00:04:47.879 from that unhealed part of you. That's the only thing that's gonna fix it. 39 00:04:48.319 --> 00:04:53.839 Plastic surgery is not gonna fix it. But so many people are worried 40 00:04:53.879 --> 00:05:01.120 about how they look. When you think how you're because of the mindset you 41 00:05:01.240 --> 00:05:10.439 have. People think in distorted ways because of the mindset they have. You 42 00:05:10.480 --> 00:05:16.000 don't think you're beautiful, although you're beautiful. Many people are drop dead gorgeous, 43 00:05:16.199 --> 00:05:23.480 but they still can't see it because of their mindset. And then they're 44 00:05:23.600 --> 00:05:27.600 listening to like minded people. Oh, yes, you need to go. 45 00:05:28.120 --> 00:05:30.480 Yeah, a little bit won't hurt. Oh, I want a little bit 46 00:05:30.519 --> 00:05:36.680 more. All of this crap from like minded people. How do you think 47 00:05:36.720 --> 00:05:43.399 that's gonna work? The blind leading the blind. But that's the way most 48 00:05:43.399 --> 00:05:50.920 people are in society, societies all over the world are built by what people 49 00:05:51.079 --> 00:05:58.720 say, and most people are broken, unhealed, unresolved issues inside of them. 50 00:05:58.920 --> 00:06:01.439 But this is where we're going. You need to look this certain way. 51 00:06:02.519 --> 00:06:09.160 You need to be this tall. You need to have all of these 52 00:06:09.199 --> 00:06:15.800 possessions. That's what makes you happy. You need this, you need that. 53 00:06:15.040 --> 00:06:19.720 You need to look this way. You need to look that way. 54 00:06:20.720 --> 00:06:30.439 You're getting your information from a bunch of unhealed individuals who are broken. I'm 55 00:06:30.480 --> 00:06:40.079 sorry, it is fat. Societies all over the world are taking advice from 56 00:06:40.079 --> 00:06:46.680 broken people. You know how, I know because if they was not broken, 57 00:06:46.160 --> 00:06:49.360 they would not give a lot of the information they're given. Oh, 58 00:06:49.439 --> 00:06:55.120 you gotta be a size zero. You can't be bigger than a two. 59 00:06:57.360 --> 00:07:03.639 You have to have this white house and picket fence. I mean so many 60 00:07:03.680 --> 00:07:09.639 things society say. It has to be this way or it has to be 61 00:07:09.759 --> 00:07:17.759 that way. You're getting your information from broken people. That is why people 62 00:07:18.199 --> 00:07:25.439 are not happy within self. That is why people have no peace within because 63 00:07:25.480 --> 00:07:32.360 they're listening to broken people who are giving them bad information. So you have 64 00:07:32.519 --> 00:07:41.759 your group of friends who sometimes all of them have gotten plastic surgery. You're 65 00:07:41.759 --> 00:07:46.600 taking your advice from someone who has like mind, like you know, think 66 00:07:46.759 --> 00:07:59.959 like you and a lot of people have lost their lives because instead of dealing 67 00:08:00.199 --> 00:08:03.639 with self, dealing with that inner man or inner woman, they are dealing 68 00:08:03.680 --> 00:08:11.959 with the appearance of the outside and thinking, well, if I look good 69 00:08:13.000 --> 00:08:16.680 on the outside, I'll feel good on the inside. Know you won't, 70 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:24.759 No, you won't. You're still gonna have the same issues, unresolved issues, 71 00:08:26.160 --> 00:08:33.919 untilled pain and hurt inside of you from trauma and or and or bad 72 00:08:35.039 --> 00:08:41.200 just bad experiences from early on in your life. Most people carry that around. 73 00:08:41.600 --> 00:08:46.320 But you're so worried about the outside, you're doing that backwards. You're 74 00:08:46.360 --> 00:08:54.200 doing that totally backwards, because it's not the outside that's gonna change your life. 75 00:08:54.279 --> 00:09:00.000 It's the inside, dealing with what's inside that's gonna change your life. 76 00:09:01.559 --> 00:09:07.320 Because once you heal from your pain or whatever it is going on inside of 77 00:09:07.360 --> 00:09:09.879 you that makes you think the way you think, when you heal from that, 78 00:09:11.200 --> 00:09:15.320 your mindset changes. Then you can look at yourself at all your flaws 79 00:09:15.639 --> 00:09:20.799 and love them. Everyone You say, hey, I don't have the biggest 80 00:09:20.799 --> 00:09:30.240 butt, but I'm still good looking, I'm still handsome, I'm still pretty. 81 00:09:31.519 --> 00:09:35.039 Because it's not all about the butt. It's about the butt for shallow 82 00:09:35.519 --> 00:09:46.360 minded, immature people. I mean seriously, and I'm not saying there's nothing 83 00:09:46.360 --> 00:09:50.639 wrong with having a nice but there isn't. But if you don't have one, 84 00:09:52.159 --> 00:09:56.720 hey be thankful and try to shape the one you got. If you're 85 00:09:56.759 --> 00:10:03.799 not happy with how it look, you can always go to the gym. 86 00:10:05.279 --> 00:10:07.639 If you can't afford the gym, you can make your own at home, 87 00:10:09.120 --> 00:10:15.039 easy, easy peasy. You can make your own gym at home. You 88 00:10:15.039 --> 00:10:22.720 can start your own circuit drills at home. Make up stuff. That's what 89 00:10:22.799 --> 00:10:30.240 I do. I make up things. And anyone who want to lose weight 90 00:10:30.279 --> 00:10:33.399 can lose weight. You just have to have the will to do it. 91 00:10:35.360 --> 00:10:41.200 I'm not talking out the side of my neck, meaning just talking to talk. 92 00:10:41.440 --> 00:10:48.320 I'm telling you what I know for a fact. But as I said, 93 00:10:50.279 --> 00:10:52.759 so many people are worried about how they look on the outside, but 94 00:10:52.919 --> 00:11:00.919 you don't think healing from past issues on the inside. It's important. It's 95 00:11:01.000 --> 00:11:05.480 way more important than your appearance on the outside. See, because your appearance 96 00:11:05.519 --> 00:11:13.279 on the outside is it's really like a facade, really, but you don't 97 00:11:13.360 --> 00:11:18.159 understand what's on the inside. It's what's causing you to think how you think. 98 00:11:18.440 --> 00:11:22.919 What's on the inside is what's causing you to sabotage your own life. 99 00:11:24.000 --> 00:11:31.000 What's on the inside, it's what's causing you to inflict unnecessary hurt on yourself 100 00:11:31.080 --> 00:11:37.519 by what you allowing, what you choose, what you accept, what you 101 00:11:37.639 --> 00:11:45.120 open yourself up to. So while you're worried about how you look on the 102 00:11:45.200 --> 00:11:52.120 outside and thinking you you gotta have all these different plastic surgeries, you need 103 00:11:52.159 --> 00:12:05.960 to work on the inside because it takes the inside to work properly in order 104 00:12:05.000 --> 00:12:09.960 for the outside to work. And I promise you, if you deal with 105 00:12:09.039 --> 00:12:15.799 the inside, the negativity that has you thinking the way you're thinking, if 106 00:12:15.840 --> 00:12:20.960 you deal with that, it's gonna change your life. You're gonna understand and 107 00:12:20.080 --> 00:12:24.360 you will come to the realization, I don't need all of that, big 108 00:12:24.399 --> 00:12:31.159 butt, I don't need all of this. I don't need all of that. 109 00:12:31.279 --> 00:12:35.519 You're gonna come to that realization because you're gonna learn how to love yourself, 110 00:12:37.519 --> 00:12:45.679 all of your flaws, because you're never gonna get exactly what you want 111 00:12:46.759 --> 00:12:52.840 and it don't matter anyways. But people got in their mind old my body, 112 00:12:52.919 --> 00:12:58.039 my body. I've told you plenty of times, you're worried about this, 113 00:12:58.039 --> 00:13:03.840 this physical, natural body. You need to be worried about that spiritual 114 00:13:03.879 --> 00:13:13.679 body because that's what's gonna live forever, that spirit man. And I'm not 115 00:13:13.720 --> 00:13:18.279 just sitting here talking. I'm telling you fact. I'm trying to encourage you. 116 00:13:18.480 --> 00:13:26.559 I'm trying to save your life because people are dying left and right because 117 00:13:26.600 --> 00:13:39.039 of plastic surgery. Unnecessarily. Your focus is wrong. You're so worried about 118 00:13:39.120 --> 00:13:45.159 the outside when you need to be I mean, you need to put that 119 00:13:45.440 --> 00:13:52.639 energy and way more on dealing with the inside because again, what's inside that's 120 00:13:52.799 --> 00:14:01.840 unresolved is what have you thinking the way you think. That's why you think 121 00:14:01.840 --> 00:14:05.840 the way you think. That's why you have insecurities. That's why you lack 122 00:14:05.960 --> 00:14:11.200 confidence. That's why you make the choices and decisions you make. That's why 123 00:14:11.240 --> 00:14:16.120 you allow and accept the things you do. That's why you easily conformed. 124 00:14:16.360 --> 00:14:22.039 That's why you go alone to get alone. That's why you're easily brainwashed. 125 00:14:22.240 --> 00:14:26.200 That's why you worship people who, by the way, are worse off than 126 00:14:26.240 --> 00:14:33.720 you mentally, and some are in high places, some are not. Because 127 00:14:35.000 --> 00:14:41.039 what's inside of you, it don't care your status, It don't discriminate. 128 00:14:43.639 --> 00:14:48.639 If you haven't dealt with that unresolved, it's gonna be a part of your 129 00:14:48.639 --> 00:14:58.159 life and it will rekhait end your life in some form or another without fail. 130 00:15:01.360 --> 00:15:07.960 It's so sad that people live their lives so unhappy about how they look. 131 00:15:11.000 --> 00:15:15.440 If any man tell you as a woman, if any man tell you 132 00:15:16.639 --> 00:15:24.960 or make you feel less than because of how something look on your body, 133 00:15:24.360 --> 00:15:31.879 you don't need him, and vice versa. If anyone try to put you 134 00:15:31.960 --> 00:15:41.000 down because of how something look on your body, you should not allow that 135 00:15:41.080 --> 00:15:46.519 person to affect your life. Because I promise you, I promise you they 136 00:15:46.559 --> 00:15:52.440 have their own unresolved issues. Because only people who talk about other individuals and 137 00:15:52.600 --> 00:15:58.559 put other individuals down, the only people do that are people who are dealing 138 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:06.720 with unresolved issues. Mature people, people who love themselves. They don't do 139 00:16:06.759 --> 00:16:12.360 that to other people. They don't. They don't. And as I said, 140 00:16:12.759 --> 00:16:19.000 brokenness does not discriminate. It affects people of all caliber, all walks 141 00:16:19.000 --> 00:16:25.799 of life. I can look at people and I'm like, oh my god, 142 00:16:26.639 --> 00:16:30.679 look at the plastic surgery some of these women. It's a pure shame 143 00:16:32.200 --> 00:16:38.759 as if you can't tell their booties are fake you Why? Why? Why? 144 00:16:38.840 --> 00:16:45.919 Why are you proud of something that's fake? I don't care if you 145 00:16:47.000 --> 00:16:49.679 spent the money for it, you know it's fake. It's not natural. 146 00:16:52.960 --> 00:16:56.279 I don't care if they use your own fat is still not natural because you 147 00:16:56.840 --> 00:17:03.640 had to enhance it. So why would you be proud of something fake and 148 00:17:04.119 --> 00:17:11.319 present yourself as if it's natural, as if people are stupid? People know 149 00:17:11.400 --> 00:17:18.559 how you looked before. Some people think they've done a great job and they 150 00:17:18.720 --> 00:17:23.880 look totally different. Just messed their faces up. Some people have messed their 151 00:17:25.000 --> 00:17:32.240 bodies up, I mean horrible, put all of that junk in their faces, 152 00:17:32.440 --> 00:17:37.759 walking around looking like terrible, but they think they look good. You 153 00:17:37.079 --> 00:17:44.920 don't, you look terrible. All of that crap in your face. That's 154 00:17:44.960 --> 00:17:49.960 not cute. It's not cute at all. Some people can't even smile. 155 00:17:52.079 --> 00:17:56.240 Their faces are so stiff. That is not cute. And it's no way 156 00:17:56.279 --> 00:18:06.200 you're looking at yourself and proud. No way, no freaking way, no 157 00:18:06.440 --> 00:18:14.000 way. But people again have it all wrong. You're so worried about the 158 00:18:14.119 --> 00:18:19.440 outside, when if you change that inner man, that inner woman, it 159 00:18:19.599 --> 00:18:30.200 will completely totally change your views. You will get rid of that negative self 160 00:18:30.240 --> 00:18:37.759 talk. You will learn how to love yourself. But so many people are 161 00:18:37.920 --> 00:18:45.640 listening to the wrong individuals, people who are thinking like them, individuals who 162 00:18:45.720 --> 00:19:00.599 also want enhancements done blind leading the blind completely. And so many people have 163 00:19:00.799 --> 00:19:08.160 lost their lives during plastic surgery, worrying about Oh, I gotta get this, 164 00:19:08.359 --> 00:19:14.640 I gotta get that, when what you need to worry about or focus 165 00:19:14.720 --> 00:19:18.440 on, because you shouldn't worry about anything, But what you need to be 166 00:19:18.480 --> 00:19:23.079 focusing on is that inner man, that inner woman. Change that in your 167 00:19:23.119 --> 00:19:30.759 whole attitude, your whole view will change, I promise you. But see, 168 00:19:30.759 --> 00:19:34.319 people don't want to take the time to do that. That's why people 169 00:19:34.359 --> 00:19:41.079 go through life from their childhood own into old age the same, still tormented 170 00:19:41.519 --> 00:19:49.440 by things that should have been let go of years and years and years ago, 171 00:19:51.440 --> 00:20:00.839 still tormented because you're holding onto those things, that stuff. It's gone, 172 00:20:00.799 --> 00:20:07.200 it's over, You're holding onto the memories of it. That's causing you 173 00:20:07.599 --> 00:20:18.200 to have these thoughts and develop these raw feelings that you keep reliving because you're 174 00:20:18.200 --> 00:20:23.319 holding onto it when you should have let it go. So you think you're 175 00:20:23.480 --> 00:20:33.480 ugly, you don't think you're worthy of anything, You don't like yourself you 176 00:20:33.559 --> 00:20:38.359 don't love yourself, you don't want to look at yourself, all because of 177 00:20:38.519 --> 00:20:45.720 that unresolved inside of you, all because you have not chosen to deal with 178 00:20:45.119 --> 00:20:49.200 those issues so you can heal from them and let them go. So it 179 00:20:49.200 --> 00:20:56.319 makes you have this negative view of yourself. You can't be happy with yourself 180 00:20:56.759 --> 00:21:03.880 because of your mindset. This may be your first time listening. If it 181 00:21:04.079 --> 00:21:11.559 is, I would tell you what I've said before. Our mindsets are formed 182 00:21:11.640 --> 00:21:19.799 from our trauma. Our traumatic experiences are bad experiences. That is what forms 183 00:21:19.839 --> 00:21:29.640 our mindset. You know, you become conditioned a certain certain way. You 184 00:21:29.759 --> 00:21:37.720 go through life and you pick up habitual ways of thinking, feeling, and 185 00:21:37.839 --> 00:21:45.319 acting. You learn those behaviors. People have told you you're ugly, you're 186 00:21:45.359 --> 00:21:51.000 not worth anything, you'll never amount up to anything. You believe it, 187 00:21:51.160 --> 00:21:57.799 and instead of denouncing that stuff and denying it, you embrace it and you 188 00:21:57.880 --> 00:22:02.400 embrace it for a life time. Now you really think that of yourself? 189 00:22:02.920 --> 00:22:07.680 Negative self talk for my buddy's flat, It may be, it may be 190 00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:21.160 so what so what? So what? Be grateful? Be grateful? Course, 191 00:22:21.279 --> 00:22:23.079 you could have been born without a butt. You could have been one 192 00:22:23.079 --> 00:22:29.039 of them people born with just the upper part of you, your upper torso 193 00:22:29.440 --> 00:22:37.960 nobody at all be grateful for all things. If you have small boobs, 194 00:22:38.039 --> 00:22:47.799 oh whale. If you have large boobs, oh whale, it's not worth 195 00:22:47.880 --> 00:22:55.039 the risk. It's not. You could save that money for something else, 196 00:22:55.279 --> 00:23:03.079 far, far, far more important. But people, they get things in 197 00:23:03.119 --> 00:23:11.319 their head and they just meditate on those things and they allow those thoughts to 198 00:23:11.359 --> 00:23:14.880 become powerful. And now the next thing, I gotta have this surgery. 199 00:23:14.920 --> 00:23:17.880 I'm gonna have this surgery. I don't come, but no one says I'm 200 00:23:17.960 --> 00:23:21.799 having this surgery. I got to have it. I want it. I 201 00:23:21.839 --> 00:23:26.720 don't care, I want it. You just harbrown and heartbrown and harbor on 202 00:23:26.799 --> 00:23:32.839 it until you get it. And some people have died because of those surgeries. 203 00:23:33.839 --> 00:23:45.799 Celebrity, none celebrity. But you may have died from having the surgery. 204 00:23:48.319 --> 00:23:52.839 But a lot of people are already walking dead because they have not healed 205 00:23:52.920 --> 00:24:00.400 from issues up their past, and it has sabotage. It have made them 206 00:24:00.400 --> 00:24:08.279 staggnant and fixated in their lives. And I've also told you many times some 207 00:24:08.400 --> 00:24:15.559 people accomplish things, they achieve great things in life, but inside they're still 208 00:24:15.599 --> 00:24:22.680 that same little child, still suffering, still making bad choices and decisions, 209 00:24:22.680 --> 00:24:33.480 still allowing and accepting things that they shouldn't because they never healed from their past. 210 00:24:37.200 --> 00:24:41.599 We see it every day, some people you know, some people you 211 00:24:41.720 --> 00:24:48.319 don't know. But we see it every day with the things that people are 212 00:24:48.400 --> 00:25:00.279 doing. People are just doing everything, every nothingness off limits any more. 213 00:25:02.319 --> 00:25:14.400 Nothing from the most vain to the most hideous. People are doing any and 214 00:25:14.640 --> 00:25:22.039 everything. It all comes from that inner man, that inner woman that forms 215 00:25:22.119 --> 00:25:29.519 that mindset that you have. You join cults, you do satanic rituals, 216 00:25:29.880 --> 00:25:37.400 you do all of the things you do because you're lacking something and you're reaching, 217 00:25:37.720 --> 00:25:42.440 you're seeking, you're searching, but you will never find it until you 218 00:25:42.519 --> 00:25:48.519 look inward. And that's a fact. You can take it to the bank 219 00:25:48.559 --> 00:25:56.920 and deposited. People are going through life every single day the very same, 220 00:25:57.839 --> 00:26:07.960 unwilling to change, change, unwilling. They're miserable. They've embraced misery, 221 00:26:07.480 --> 00:26:15.400 they've embraced it, and all they do is entertain negativity, negative thoughts, 222 00:26:15.880 --> 00:26:25.599 negative self talk for years and years and years and years, and they worry 223 00:26:25.599 --> 00:26:29.079 about the wrong thing. Do he love me? Do she love me? 224 00:26:29.319 --> 00:26:37.039 What about loving yourself? How about that that's what you need to do, 225 00:26:41.200 --> 00:26:45.480 and you worry about, oh how I look and will they like me? 226 00:26:45.240 --> 00:26:52.200 All of the wrong things instead of dealing with who you have allowed yourself to 227 00:26:52.279 --> 00:27:07.559 become that person that you continue to inflict pain upon yourself, and not only 228 00:27:07.640 --> 00:27:11.480 that you projected onto other, your children, anyone else in your life, 229 00:27:11.559 --> 00:27:21.319 your significant other, anyone around you, anyone who are not able to defend 230 00:27:22.720 --> 00:27:27.799 kids or herself. Are those who openly, openly allow you to do it. 231 00:27:30.640 --> 00:27:34.440 Because people who got it together not tolerating it. They're not going to 232 00:27:34.440 --> 00:27:41.759 tolerate it. I just I really wanted to talk about this because this stuff 233 00:27:41.880 --> 00:27:48.880 is out of control, like everything else out of control. I mean people, 234 00:27:49.240 --> 00:27:56.960 Oh my god, oh my god, a monk, you hear me. 235 00:27:56.960 --> 00:28:03.240 People are gone a monk. People are running a monk for real, 236 00:28:04.359 --> 00:28:15.039 And I mean it sounds me because I know no one has to live life 237 00:28:15.079 --> 00:28:21.559 that way, no one, no one has to give in to the pains 238 00:28:21.680 --> 00:28:26.160 of yesteryear. Everyone could choose a different route if they want it to, 239 00:28:27.039 --> 00:28:36.920 but most people, they stay on the same path of misery, same path 240 00:28:36.960 --> 00:28:41.839 of misery. Some people get old, I mean into old age, and 241 00:28:41.880 --> 00:28:48.920 they still think about killing themselves. And many have. That's crazy to me, 242 00:28:52.200 --> 00:28:56.480 because you have given in, You have succumb to the darkness when you 243 00:28:56.519 --> 00:29:03.519 didn't have to. Your life is what you make it. I don't care 244 00:29:03.559 --> 00:29:12.640 how you started out, how you end up. It's on you. It's 245 00:29:12.720 --> 00:29:18.519 on you. You're looking around at other people, Oh she's so beautiful, 246 00:29:18.799 --> 00:29:26.160 look at her body, when it's fake. They're miserable with themselves. You're 247 00:29:26.160 --> 00:29:30.279 looking at that people. Oh look what they have, and they are in 248 00:29:30.440 --> 00:29:41.440 bankruptcy. They're rich, but they have no money because they make a million, 249 00:29:41.640 --> 00:29:48.480 but there's but they live in a five million dollar home. I mean, 250 00:29:49.160 --> 00:29:56.319 your focus in your eyes are on the wrong things. I promise you, 251 00:29:56.200 --> 00:30:03.440 without a doubt whatsoever, if the world had people who would look inward 252 00:30:03.799 --> 00:30:11.680 instead of looking outward for resolution, this whole world would be such a more 253 00:30:11.759 --> 00:30:22.000 better place to live. It really would, it really would. I gotta 254 00:30:22.119 --> 00:30:30.599 tell you, I recommend Jesus because he could take away all of that if 255 00:30:30.640 --> 00:30:33.839 you leave it at his feet, all of that negativity, all of that 256 00:30:34.079 --> 00:30:44.960 negative ways of thinking. I know, I already know many don't believe. 257 00:30:45.039 --> 00:30:52.240 I'm just telling you that's my recommendation. That's the main one. And if 258 00:30:52.279 --> 00:31:06.880 you can't get with that. Learn how to love yourself because that big booty. 259 00:31:07.279 --> 00:31:11.279 I don't care how cute you think it it may be, or how 260 00:31:11.319 --> 00:31:15.200 good you think it may feel, You're gonna always resolve back to that inner 261 00:31:15.240 --> 00:31:23.880 pain. Them millions of dollars and billions of dollars. Oh yeah, you 262 00:31:23.960 --> 00:31:32.960 may rest nice because you can buy whatever you want, but it will not 263 00:31:33.119 --> 00:31:36.759 take away that pain inside of you that you're holding. No one too, 264 00:31:37.400 --> 00:31:45.279 those titles, those positions, that status you have, whatever is in you 265 00:31:45.440 --> 00:31:49.960 is coming out. It's not gonna take away what you're struggling with on the 266 00:31:51.000 --> 00:32:00.079 inside. Nothing nothing, nothing, nothing, and no one can fix you. 267 00:32:00.519 --> 00:32:04.839 Only you can do it. But you gotta want to. Most people 268 00:32:04.920 --> 00:32:08.200 don't. They just still in the same path. They're comfortable with pain, 269 00:32:09.839 --> 00:32:22.000 comfortable comfortable with pain, comfortable struggling, I mean, just comfortable, content, 270 00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:35.880 complacent, still crying about childhood things instead of moving on in life and 271 00:32:36.039 --> 00:32:40.680 growing mentally so you can become the best you that you can be. You're 272 00:32:40.720 --> 00:32:52.440 holding yourself back. You're holding yourselves back, and you believe in if you 273 00:32:52.480 --> 00:33:00.359 look a certain way, people are gonna love you and you're gonna feel better 274 00:33:00.359 --> 00:33:07.319 about yourself. But you're gonna find out wrong, especially when people end up 275 00:33:07.359 --> 00:33:19.960 being completely their bodies are are completely deformed because of surgeries or people die. 276 00:33:22.359 --> 00:33:30.079 I mean, I'm stopping right here. I said enough. I hope you 277 00:33:30.519 --> 00:33:37.720 understand this is very, very very important. If you don't love yourself, 278 00:33:39.000 --> 00:33:49.640 it don't matter who loves you, it won't be good enough for you. 279 00:33:49.880 --> 00:33:54.160 It will not be enough for you. When you don't love yourself, I 280 00:33:54.200 --> 00:34:04.319 don't care how beautiful they make your body. You still going to have those 281 00:34:04.480 --> 00:34:15.559 inner issues. I don't care what you have possession wise, it's not going 282 00:34:15.639 --> 00:34:22.000 to take away what's inside of you. It's not those of you who are 283 00:34:22.079 --> 00:34:27.559 listening to me who have not dealt with your unresolved issues. You're still suffering 284 00:34:27.599 --> 00:34:34.679 from long ago trauma or long ago bad experiences of some sort. You know, 285 00:34:34.800 --> 00:34:39.840 it's the truth. You know, if you are an adult and you're 286 00:34:39.920 --> 00:34:45.800 still holding onto unresolved issues, you're still mad, sad, depressed, unhappy, 287 00:34:45.920 --> 00:34:52.159 miserable. You can't love yourself, full of doubt, self negative talk, 288 00:34:52.559 --> 00:34:59.880 lack self love, lack self esteem, lack confidence, got all kinds 289 00:35:00.039 --> 00:35:06.960 of insecurities. You know what I'm saying, It's truth if you are adult 290 00:35:07.000 --> 00:35:10.480 and you're dealing with any of that. You know it's the truth. No 291 00:35:10.519 --> 00:35:15.480 one can fix you other than yourself, but you have to want to and 292 00:35:15.639 --> 00:35:22.840 you have to pursue it. You must pursue change with consistency, be intentional 293 00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:36.960 about it. It's a fact. So please share this episode. Everyone needs 294 00:35:37.000 --> 00:35:42.880 to hear it. Please share this episode. Thank you so much for listening. 295 00:35:43.360 --> 00:35:50.599 Much love to each and every one of you. It takes the inside 296 00:35:50.679 --> 00:35:59.400 to work in order for the outside to work. Your outside world will never 297 00:36:00.760 --> 00:36:07.679 be the way it could be if the inside is not healed. Thank you 298 00:36:07.800 --> 00:36:14.559 again. I end every episode the same, but before I go, please 299 00:36:14.679 --> 00:36:21.039 listen to relatable life chronicles and share. Thank you again. I end every 300 00:36:21.199 --> 00:36:27.039 episode the same, and I pray, I pray you do it. I 301 00:36:27.320 --> 00:36:30.440 really really do take on it.