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All right, here we go.
Oh, we got a bunch of emails

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that we had to jump into once
the first one clicked on says, hey,

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Jenny and Fallon. I was just
curious how Jack's interview and lyric shuffle.

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How did it go? Please share
XO XO bestie M. I think

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it went well. Yeah, I
mean, neither of you like stuttered at

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all. You pretty pretty. I
mean you maybe with easy ones, I

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will. I mean, of course
I did, because there was no way

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I was gonna come with something like
well, actually the first word that came

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into mind was watermelon, and you
probably would know watermelon sugar right away.

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But no, I didn't want Jack's
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make her look bad obviously, so
of course I gave like pretty easy one

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asks. But you never know when
you're on the spot like that. You

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just don't know if you freeze,
even if they are easy. She is

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also just um, she was the
friendliest of every artist there, and that's

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not a knock on anyone else.
She is beyond overly friendly, like goes

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up to every single person, chats
with them, hugs them, shake their

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hand, whatever it is, and
she's a nice person. I think this

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was probably one of the bigger concerts
she's performed at because you could just see

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like how insanely excited she was.
And then when she got brought on stage

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with Full Rider to perform wild Ones, there was a moment where she literally

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like kind of squeezes her hand and
does this like scream, like a silent

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scream, like, oh my god, I can't believe I'm doing this with

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full right now. And so you
could just see how humble and appreciative she

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is of everything that's going on in
her life right now. She's a delight.

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Okay, next email, Hey,
fally be oh, I like,

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I rarely get emails directed to me, so let's see how this goes.

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Okay, I'm a longtime listener,
thirty two year old dude, so not

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your target demographic necessarily, but a
huge fan of the show and always in

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the mood for a fallon cackle.
Well, maybe I'll give you one before

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this is over. I'm a little
behind on the podcast, so forgive me,

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but I just listened to the last
couple of shows from bart while Day

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was out for vacation for a few
days. I don't normally write in,

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but I felt strongly like I should
give this feedback. I promise this turns

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into a compliment, so bear with
me. Oh god, how's it going

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to stop? All right? I'll
be honest. When Dave used to leave

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and it was just you and Steve
carrying the show, it was unlistenable.

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I know you've talked about that before
and the Minnesota Goodbye, about how for

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some reason you two just didn't work
even though your chemistry was great without Dave,

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it was just awkward. So I've
made a habit of skipping ahead on

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the podcast on the days that Dave
isn't there. So we have talked about

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this, Steve and I. It's
so funny. We are such good friends.

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We text each other almost every day. We try to meet for because

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you will ask us all the time, like do you still talk to Steve

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all the time? We give you. We we have so many inside jokes

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and know things that only maybe you
know experiences only we have that. We

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just have endless amounts of ridiculous things. We text each other. We try

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to see each other, I'd say
every two to three months for like a

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lunch. YEA, so great chemistry
is Steve when he was here on the

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show, with Dave. But when
Dave was gone, it was fucking awful.

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It was fucking awful, and I
admitted it. Steve admitted it.

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We would get fresher with each other
and you could like hear it on the

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air because it just it was funny
because I actually had better chemistry with like

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a night guy who would come in
sometimes if Steve was out, like over

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the holidays. It was just a
weird thing. I don't know what it

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is, but I just have a
more natural chemistry with Jenny, so anyway

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that it's not a knock on Steve, yeah, and knock on me.

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We like we just some people just
don't. That's the thing. You cannot

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just have chemistry with any person.
And you know that if you've ever dated,

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you know it could be someone who
could be friends with, but you

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just don't have dating chemistry. Okay, back to the email that, let's

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see how this turns out. Well, I've listened the last few days and

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it's a world of difference. I
don't think it's all because it features like

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Jenny necessarily or Steve, but I
think you've grown into the role and are

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more comfortable carrying the show now.
There used to be a pannock. I

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still have it. I have it, but I know exactly what you're talking

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about, where it felt like there
couldn't be a moment of silence and it

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was rushed and just weird. Dude, you are nailing this okay, but

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there's a noticeable difference, and you
sound so much more relaxed and like yourself

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now when you're running the show.
Bottom line, I hear by swear to

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no longer skip the show just because
Davis out. You're an extremely talented host

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and I look forward to many more
years of listening, and I know someday

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you'll have a successful show of your
own. After Jenny in the Morning Zoo

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ends. Obviously, thank you,
Garrett. I could say I could use

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his name everything. Garrett, you
are an observant person, because that is

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another thing. I absolutely was panicked, And I would like to say the

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show also sounds better, yes,
because of Jenny. Because Jenny runs the

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board. I don't, and what
that means is she's the one that pushes

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the buttons and makes things go smoothly. But I would panic, and I

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still do sometimes kind of pull the
curtain back, you know, if like

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a bit isn't going well, or
something. It is a very different feeling

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if you're the one leading the show. So I know like how Dave probably

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feels if a bit is going bad, you like it falls. It feels

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like it falls on your shoulders.
You feel bad because your job's entertain and

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if it's not going well, you
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entertaining. So I will. I
still do get panicky, but I do

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think I have calmed a lot.
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that Garrett your email, thank you
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was all grown up. Thank you, We try man. Okay, Hey

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Dave in the morning show team.
I hope this isn't just for Dave by

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the way, because yeah, I'll
be back on Friday Friday next week,

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which I'm off Friday, I have
to go to Florida from my nephew's graduation.

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I wanted to bring something up I
heard in your Minnesota Goodbye podcast when

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you mentioned the woman who found out
her husband was having sex with men.

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Her story very much focused on needing
to get a full STI panel and highly

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focused on ensuring that she did not
have one and made sure all were checked.

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For now, I definitely believe that
sexual health is highly important. However,

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it is also important to note that
this is not exclusive to men who

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have sex with men, and I
believe that was a big focus on that

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email and the responses. This is
also something that has fostered oppression in the

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gay community for decades that those outside
of the community may not realize or may

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just subconsciously jump immediately toward. For
example, when it has found out that

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heterosexual couples are cheating like war,
the roses STI panels are not immediately jumped

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to. I think that this is
just something that bothered me being a member

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of the community and have dealt with
this particular type of oppression over decades.

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Bobby, I don't remember that email, but I believe you and I'm so

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sorry if that like, I don't, Yeah, I apologize. You're right

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because usually when we bring up roses
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quick wrap up, so we definitely
don't talk about like STI panels and stuff.

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But you have a very valid point. I did see this yesterday and

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I thought it was so amazing.
I think it was glad that posted that

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finally they are going to start allowing
people of the LGBTQA community to go I

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believe actually might just be I guess
technically gay men to go donate blood.

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Now, Oh I did see that
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years they have not been allowed to
and it's been insane, and now they're

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like, oh right, we can
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people and allow them to donate blood. So I thought that was a really

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amazing thing I saw yesterday. Let's
see this is I don't okay, So

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what's the story with Benjamin? Okay? How is he related to the show?

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How long has he been a part
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he is going to be on the
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this after the show, you'll have
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But he's going to host a mixtape
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Benjamin. It's funny because Benjamin,
and he knows better than I do.

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I think he's just an outgoing person
who probably emailed or called the show.

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We loved his energy and for some
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in one day. Yep. And
I don't know when. This was probably

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at least five years ago. I
think it was even longer than that,

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because you guys were already friends with
him. And then we did this very

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weird contest where people had to come
in and do like a strip dance to

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like on a pole, to like
songs that you wouldn't strip too. We're

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songs to stripped, Yeah, and
Benjamin did that. And then he also

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was in our talent show for the
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ago, I want to say,
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already friends with him before that,
so it's been a long time. It's

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been a little while. So really
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he's highly entertaining and sometimes we'll be
like, oh, we should bring someone

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in, and so we'll be like, Nerdy is another person we really like.

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It's just someone in the community that
like, we think sounds good on

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the radio. And Benjamin's good too
because he's proactive and he'll reach out to

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us and be like, hey,
here's a new game. I thought of,

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what do you guys think of this? Right? And then I have

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become friends with him outside of work. We don't hang out all the time,

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but occasionally they say continue with their
email. You've done a bit before

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called what does that listener look like? And I feel the same about Benjamin.

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What does he look like? I
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the voice. I would love to
see a selfie from him on your socials

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if he's willing. Sorry for the
long email, but YO girl needs answers.

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So I note I had a dream
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a road trip to Indiana a lot
of curd but I won't bore you with

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details. Kisses. First of all, if it was a real dream a

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reality, I would have slept on
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the worst passenger. We usually do
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today on The Dave Ryan in the
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one on ours to story. Yeah, and I tagged him yesterday, so

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if you click on the tag then
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Well, the Benjamin is a good
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the show regularly because he's funnier than
all of us. Yeah. Next email,

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do you guys get to pick which
companies you advertise for or are they

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just assigned to you? I've used
zero res squeezed juice Cleanse, and Arthur's

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Jewelers because of you guys, and
I was super happy with all three.

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So nice work. Are you able
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you don't want to work with them? I'm not sure if this is interesting

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to talk about, but I was
curious how it worked. Happy Friday,

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Rebecca, Jenny, you want to
talk about it. Yeah, we absolutely

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can turn down something, and we
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to be frauds and endorse something that
doesn't represent us. So, for example,

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I was approached by a liposuction company
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and so I was like, I
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fit for me because you tell them
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So I was like, no,
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this because I'm not going to actually
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there are people in the building who
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them, but it just wasn't something
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it was probably one of the very
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we usually work with amazing advertisers here, but I just never wanted to do

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something that doesn't represent something that aligns
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Sure, but yeah, we get
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someone or not. Yeah, and
they're obviously we are in the business of

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making money like every business, so
they really want you to work if they

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find someone willing to advertise, they
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like, the only one I really
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stuff. I do work kind of
like social with Lifetime, but that to

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me is like that's promoting healthy lifestyle, but like I don't do. A

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long time ago, I was like, I'm not doing diet stuff anymore.

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So that's like kind of my main
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I'm pretty open to things. And
they kind of know us our sales department.

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They know like, Okay, Jenny
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new roofing company would be good for
her. Falon has a baby, maybe

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this, like you know, this
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kind of angle it like that for
us. But also thank you so much

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for trying the things we've recommended.
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good experiences. I knew you'd have
a good experience at Arthur's Jake literally said

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to me the other day. I
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I was like, they're so nice, and he goes Falon even if you

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didn't endorse, so I'd go to
him because I've had such a good experience.

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And I was like, that is
like high praise. Yeah, that's

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awesome, very nice. All right, Dave that one specifically today, So

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I'm not going to read that one
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have any more emails right now,
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Jenny, Yeah, I learned something
in therapy yesterday and I have to apply

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it. So you get the idea
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to time. So I have worked
on various things and relationships and boundaries and

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that's like boundaries is like the key
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I'm working on different relationships, but
one that I've openly talked about is my

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mom, and I feel like our
relationships has been a little bit better the

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past month or so. But she
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it was very interesting and I think
that this could apply to a lot of

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people. So she was asking me, like, what what feelings do you

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have when you see your mom,
why are you getting them? Like?

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What are what do you think is
like quote unquote triggering those So I'm going

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through and I'm talking about these different
things and I get off on a tangent

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about how I get stressed out thinking
about my mom when she's older and what

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like she has no money. Am
I going to have to pay all this

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money every month to help her live
in a nice place because my mom will

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be like, nope, just put
me in a state place. And I'm

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like, I can't. I can't
just let you go, like I would

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feel awful, blah blah blah.
So she stopped me and she said,

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you need to stop shooting all over
your mother. And I said, okay,

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what does that mean you know?
And she said, your mother's communicating

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to you that is good enough for
her. So what in your brain is

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telling you it's not. That's not
her. That is a you problem.

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You are saying you should want a
better place, You should want to do

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X y Z, you should want
to live a life like that. You

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need to stop shooting on your mom. Allow her to be herself. Set

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boundaries with your mom, but allow
her to be the person she is and

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live the life she has chosen and
set boundaries. And I was like,

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and I started thinking about it,
and I said, well that's and I

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go, I'm also just thinking of
so far in the future, like why

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am I letting that like bother me? But I thought that would be something

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maybe to look and word for.
I'm obviously not a license therapist, but

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if you have someone that you have
a complicated relationship, what is the hold

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up? What is bothering you about
them? Maybe it's like you're thinking they

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should be doing xy x y Z. But you can only do so much

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for someone, right and if that's
they're they're happy living that life, you

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need to allow them their own autonomy, as she said, and just make

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sure you set up boundaries to protect
yourself, but stop shooting on them.

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And I thought that was like I
was like, okay, I feel like

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I've learned the guy. I was
like, I'm gonna pass that along on

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on the podcast tomorrow. That's interesting. I like that a lot. She's

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so smart. Oh, I know, she sounds like I never met someone

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like this person. And I've been
like actively practicing some of the things,

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and I have felt a sense of
freedom lately on a couple of things that

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have been really amazing because of it. And she I told Jenny earliergo she

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said that I don't need to see
her every other week. We're pushing it.

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So my next to my see her
is June eight, So I'm like,

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look at that. She's so proud
of me. I'm getting better out

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of you too, because sometimes you
just like go to therapists and after a

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while you kind of fizzle out and
you don't necessarily like get a ton out

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of it. But yes, you've
gotten so much out of this, so

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much. I could write so many
things now. And I will say this,

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A lot of people ask me for
her since I'm actively using her.

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I don't recommend her right now,
but maybe in the future once, like

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if when our time is done.
But I hope that my best advice is

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like maybe check out like a like
ask a friend, because I feel like

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that's how I found her was through
a friend recommended her. But Phil Freddy

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sent emails. It's just me and
Jenny next Monday through Thursday. Ryan Show

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at KDWB dot com. Have a
great weekend.

