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And energy. Cancel, had cancel, It's not sorry and energy. What's

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up? Positive bitches, how are
we doing today? If you're hearing this

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episode, then you are meant to
be here, So keep listening on that

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Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will
laugh. Other times, baby Girl,

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we're gonna cry, but we will
always walk away feeling our most empowered positive

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bitch self. That is Babe in
true connection with herself. On this podcast,

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we unbecome who we are not so
we can fully step into exactly who

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we came here to be. Today, we're talking about how you don't have

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to fight, you don't have to
fret, you do not have to worry,

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you don't have to chase, because
your future husband, your person for

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you will recognize you upon arrival.
Oh yeah, and if you don't believe

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me just yet, don't worry because
I'm going to give you a prayer that

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will put you at ease and also
open the eyes of your person. We

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are going to put it into the
energetic universe today that our future husband partner,

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whoever it may be, will recognize
us just by seeing us exist.

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That's right, he will know you
are his wife. He will recognize you

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as that soul that he is meant
to be with. And this is very,

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very real. I hope you know
that anytime I'm about to enter into

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a soul contract with another soul,
do you know I recognize their soul immediately.

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And you're probably reflecting on your own
experiences right now. Have you ever

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had one of those experiences where you
just saw someone and you knew, oh,

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this person is going to deeply affect
my life. We're gonna make it

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so sealed in divine divinity, love
and light that your husband, your partner

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will know it's you just by setting
his eyes upon you. You won't have

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to do anything besides be your authentic
self. Before we get into today's podcast,

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I have a couple of announcements.
Of course, if you've not yet

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gotten your copy of Show Up as
Her, my new book Ten Laws for

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Reclaiming Your Power, Embodying Magnetic Energy
and Positive Affirmation. Be sure to get

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your copy because on this podcast,
we're gonna really be studying this book from

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front to back, taking out different
concepts to really understand and become conscious to

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the world that we're creating for ourselves. Hello, thank you. So if

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you've not yet gotten your copy the
link will be in the show notes.

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If you're looking for one on one
guidance, I am a certified life and

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energy coach and I do offer one
on one sessions via zoom everything from divine

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feminine healing to self concept work to
attachment system healing and everything in between.

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If you want to learn more about
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magnetic tips and tricks, and without
further ado, let's get into today's episode.

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As a magnetic woman, I can
tell you that regardless of what room

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I walk into a bar, a
restaurant, a party, the department store,

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I have people flocking to me,
staring at me always but flocking to

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me, and then so many of
them like, just just tell me their

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deepest, darkest secrets, drama of
it all. I really should be a

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spy because the information I get from
people is astronomical. With that being said,

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as you're on this empowering journey of
reclaiming your power and your magnetic energy.

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You're gonna notice that you are quite
literally a light for every room that

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you walk into. This means in
a room of darkness, when you're the

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light, you're going to attract a
lot of different people, not just like

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attracts like that's part of the story. That is a universal law, yes,

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absolutely, but there are other energetic
universal laws that are also at play

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in this reality. What I want
you to understand is that when you're out,

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you have to have discernment because you
are going to be attracting many different

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vibrational entities. People towards you a
especially as a magnetic woman. People want

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to feed on your light. I
hate to make it sound negative because it's

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not, but it is how energy
works. When you have this beautiful,

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positive magnetic energy, people want to
feed on it. They want some of

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what you have, and some people
who don't have it are gonna hate you

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in spirit. They're gonna hate you
in spirit. You're gonna be thinking to

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yourself, why is that person giving
me the dirtiest look? Why is that

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person hating on me? I've never
done anything to them, baby girl.

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They're jealous of your spirit, your
energy, and in this energetic realm,

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energy is the realist thing that we
can experience, even though people are gonna

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tell you that that is not the
case. I want to look at all

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the different types of people that we
attract, and we're gonna go to page

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in Show Up as Her, We're
gonna go to page done un Done one

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nineteen. So there are many different
types of people we attract, and I'm

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not gonna go through all the ones
I go through in the book, but

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I wanted to pick out specific ones. There are some people that we have

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made soul contracts with, So before
we even came to planet Earth, we

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have had many different lives. Okay, if you didn't know Nagano, we

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have had many different lives, and
before we came to planet Earth, we

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have a contractual agreement with some of
their souls that during this incarnation we're gonna

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help one another out. Maybe it's
because they have to clean up some of

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their karma, or actually we have
to. Maybe it's because we've had other

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lifetimes with them before we know we
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this. In a lot of Dolorous
Canon's work, she would say she was

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a hypnotherapist, and she would put
many different people through hypnosis to go through

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their past lives, and what she
found is that a lot of people would

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reincarnate with similar souls because they already
had a relationship with that soul. A

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lot of the time there was karma
tied up in there, but that we

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felt comfortable with certain souls. Now, when I when I am about to

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have a soul contract with someone like
I said, I will recognize them on

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a soul level. I don't even
need to see their face. I just

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need to witness their energy and I
will know, Oh, this person's going

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to have a huge impact on my
life. With my ex that was about

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we were together for like seven eight
years. When I saw his profile on

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Tinder, oh my god, this
was twenty sixteen. Don't judge me.

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On Tinder, I was in one
of those moods where I was just swiping,

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sliping left. I hated everyone,
and my finger was on it and

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I almost went left. And then
I literally heard a voice say, no,

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this person is going to have a
huge impact on your life. So

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I said, okay, whatever I
saw. He wrote something about milkshakes and

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said we're all gonna make it braw, like h cringe. Anyway, I

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swiped right, and I was right. He did have a huge impact on

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my life. Has taught me so
much and I'm so grateful for that connection.

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And even now, when I see
someone walking past me, I will

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just recognize their soul. When I
met a shaman once immediately recognized her soul.

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We have soul contracts with other people. Now, what I want you

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to understand is not all of these
people are meant to stay in our life

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forever. Because souls come in for
a seasonal reason or a lifetime. Let's

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read Earth is a place to learn, develop and grow. I believe our

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soul makes soul contracts with other souls
prior to coming to Earth for the purpose

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of helping each other through this lifetime. We usually make soul contracts with souls

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we've had experienced other lifetimes with.
This could be to clear away karma,

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or because we can count on a
soul to help us grow. A person

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on Earth may come into your life, break your heart and trigger your spiritual

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awakening, not to hurt you,
but because it was part of a soul

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contract to help you grow. Vibrationally, I know you're thinking, there's no

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way I made a contract with my
narcissistic mother. Keep in mind, you

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made a contract with that soul,
not that human. A soul may have

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intended to be a good caregiver,
but once on earth, was influenced by

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low vibrations, and with their free
will, they may have straight away from

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the contract. Once a sole contract
is fulfilled, or if the other is

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incapable of completing their part of the
contract, they may just fall out of

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your life. And I call this
cosmic cancelation. I had a group of

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great friends from kindergarten throughout high school
to the beginning of college. After that,

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they completely completely fell out of my
life. At first, I was

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very hurt by this fallout, but
then I realized this was cosmic cancelation.

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There was no actual reason why these
friendships fell out of my life other than

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our contract ending. I had the
best times with these girls throughout my school

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life, and I could not have
imagined it any other way. I loved

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them like they were my sisters,
but ultimately we fell out of vibration.

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We served one another for many years, and then it was finally time to

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go. Instead of letting the end
of these friendships kill me, I found

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a deep appreciation for the time times
that we've had together. What I want

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you to understand about a soulmate is
you might think, oh, this person

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is my soulmate. I know that
they are, and they may be,

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But just because someone is your soulmate
doesn't mean that they're meant to stay in

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your life forever. And if you're
in a relationship with someone, first of

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all, don't let your boyfriend get
in the way of your husband period.

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But if you're in a relationship with
someone and you're like, something isn't right,

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I really feel like this is wrong. But I thought they were my

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soulmate. Yeah, they may have
been your soulmate to teach you certain lessons,

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but that doesn't mean they have to
stay in your life forever. Now,

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I want us to go backwards,
actually, and I want us to

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go to page one seventeen. Here
we go. Another type of person you

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will attract is those you have beliefs
about. Our mind will magnify whatever we

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think about. This is in part
due to our reticular activating system in our

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brain, the RAS. The reticular
activating system acts as a filtration center based

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on our own beliefs, so we
can process the external world. If we

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were to try to take in all
the information we see every day, our

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bodies would be an overdrive. We
have the RIS to help us filter information

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in the external world so we can
process the world around us. The caveat

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to this is that the RS filters
information based on our own biases. If

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I think all bosses suck, my
RaaS will constantly be scanning to see when

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my boss will do something that may
irritate me. My boss may not actually

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suck, but because I already have
this assumption, I'm more likely to pick

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up on when they do something wrong
and magnify it. On top of this,

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my belief that all bosses suck will
attract bosses that are less likely to

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be good. If you keep attracting
a type of person you do not like,

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ask yourself, do I have a
belief about people like this that is

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causing me to repeatedly attract them into
my life? And I want us to

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go to actually page sixty two because
I have a positive bitch tip here that

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I think is really relevant. Positive
bitch. When you shift your thoughts,

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you shift your life. Our mind
is like a magnifying glass. What we

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think about will be magnified in our
reality. If I think I'm unlovable.

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I'm going to start to see this
in every situation, even if no one

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else is intending for me to feel
that way. Think about it like this.

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If I think all men are trash, I can go to a bar

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where there are one hundred men eighty
good men, and still align with a

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man I deem trash because my mind
is magnifying what I already think and then

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confirming my thought through my reality.
Our mind will magnify the guy who isn't

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the healthiest for us, and our
energy will sniff out their low vibration,

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leading us straight into the ego trap
of confirming what we already believe. We

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are always creating. However, some
of us aren't creating in ways that are

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conducive to our desires. Instead,
we're letting our negative thoughts be the foundation

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of our manifestations. I'm not going
to go into every category of people we

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attract. If you want to know
more, you can get the book,

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But I do want to give one
more. We attract people who fit into

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our story. This category is most
seen in our intimate relationships. If I

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grew up with an alcoholic mother,
absent father, and two little siblings,

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I may have stepped up to be
the role of the caregiver to get connection

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from my mother. As we move
through our lives, we forget that we

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create roles to be seen, heard, and loved. If I needed to

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be a caregiver as a child,
I most likely will align with someone who

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also needs me to be their caregiver
as an adult. This potential partner might

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be an alcoholic themselves, constantly ill, a hypochondriac, helpless, or generally

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chaotic. Either way, this partner
will reaffirm my narrative that I am,

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in fact a caregiver. We will
align with others who reconfirm who we think

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we are. I frequently hear my
clients tell me that they feel like they're

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addicted to their ex. This is
a positive bitch tip. They aren't actually

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addicted to their ex dude, rather
the dynamic that they had with that dude.

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Are are addicted to reconfirming our faulty
roles instead of deciding who we wish

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to be in the present. If
someone who is fulfilling our role in our

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life leaves, not only does it
hit upon the hurt from our original caregiver,

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but the wound becomes deeper as this
person hurts us in the present moment

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too. This is why love can
hurt like hell. We are hurting as

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both the child and the adult simultaneously. What I want you to understand from

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what we just went over is that, Yeah, you're gonna be attracting a

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lot of different people into your life, and you cannot just be accepting anyone

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and everyone. Your husband will recognize
you, those who want to feed on

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your energy will also recognize you.
Those who are going to fit into your

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story will also recognize you. You
will be recognized, But who are you

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going to allow into your life?
The beautiful thing about humans, the greatest

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gift that we have is our very
own free will. Whatever we allow,

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we amplify. If you don't want
to keep living in the current dynamic that

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you have, you have to stop
allowing it. This is not a moment

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to try to prove yourself to these
people who are committed to not understanding the

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truth of who you are. This
is not about getting someone to like you.

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If you're in a dynamic where you
feel like you're never enough, you're

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trying to prove yourself to your partner. You're trying to get them to like

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you. You feel like you've lost
yourself in order to have them. That

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is self betrayal, and all that's
gonna end up happening is over time,

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you're gonna start to erode from the
inside out, resent them, and hate

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yourself. You can't do this anymore. You know why, because there are

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people out there who will immediately see
you, recognize you, understand you,

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value you. And even if they
don't understand you at first, they will

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work too. They will strive too. You have to weed out the people

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who are giving you bread crumbs so
you can get that whole love loath.

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You should not be in a constant
state of chaos while you're dating. It

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might be normal lies, but there's
a lot of things that are normalized in

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society that are absolutely insane. I
truly believe we know when we're in a

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relationship that ain't right for us.
I don't care how much trauma we've been

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through. We know even if something's
familiar, we're like, yeah, it's

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familiar and totally toxic. We start
getting the belly aches, the acne,

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the migraines, the constant depletion.
We stop seeing our friends. We just

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lose ourselves. And there's that little
boys that's constantly telling us, maybe you

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should get out of this. Our
body keeps the score and she will keep

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speaking until she is heard. The
symptoms get worse, we feel worse,

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We end up depressed. We can't
let ourselves go down that road. Now.

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I think that even when we're in
a bad relationship, we rather the

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devil we know than the angel we
don't. Why is change easier sometimes versus

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other times where it's so hard.
I believe change is easier when we have

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something to look forward to. On
the other side, when we go from

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high school to college, that change
is easier because we know, oh,

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well, even though I'm leaving all
this familiarity from high school, I'm going

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to something greater and better. There's
a graduation process of moving on, and

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I know where I'm going, and
I know who I'm dorming with. I

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know what's ahead of me. But
when we're in a relationship and we're not

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sure how to get out of it, or we feel like we're settling,

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or we just went through a breakup, there's nothing to look forward to.

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We don't know that the other person
who's better where they may be, We

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don't see them, so it feels
like we're just stepping into the unknown with

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no better ending in sight. And
I'm here to tell you about your better

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ending in sight. Baby girl,
you got a boaz out there. I

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got a boaz out there. We
all got a boas out there. And

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maybe you're thinking, CEC, what
are you speaking of? And I'm going

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to tell you because we have a
man out there. I swear this rings

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true in my soul. It's like
how I know my own name. This

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is just, this is correct.
I don't care. This is correct.

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There's a man out there who will
just recognize you as his wife. And

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there's a story about this in the
Bible, and by the way, I'm

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reading from the Bible, but this
goes for all of us. I don't

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care what religion you are. I
don't care what walk of life you come

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from. I don't care, you
know I, because it doesn't matter.

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It doesn't matter. We can all
learn from this story, which is the

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Book of Ruth. We can all
take lessons from it. And I'm gonna

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explain to you from this book how
you're not gonna chase, but you're gonna

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choose, and you're gonna be seen, You're gonna be recognized, and you

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do not need to be stressing yourself
out. You don't need to be settling,

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you don't need to be manipulating yourself
so people like you, you don't

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need to do any of that.
All you need to do is show up

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as your best self. Literally,
show up as her Hello, and exist,

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and he will recognize you. Okay, I'm about to put peace on

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the platter for you. Okay.
So again, I'm going to read this

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like it's a reality show, because
that is how I internalize the Bible.

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As a reality show. It's Bible
gone, Bravo. Here we go.

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The story begins during the time of
the Judges. Due to a famine,

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Oh my, Alimelek and his wife
Naomi, along with their two sons their

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names aren't important, move from Bethlehem
to Moab. Alimelek dies so sad and

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the sons marry two Mobite women,
Oprah and Ruth. After about ten years,

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both sons die, so all the
men are dead, just putting that

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out there, leaving Naomi and her
daughters in law completely widowed. Naomi decides,

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you know what, girly girls,
I'm going to go back to Bethlehem.

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Moab has been quite a time,
but all the men in my life

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are dead. So I'm gonna go
back to Bethlehem, where I know and

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where I'm familiar with. And you
girls, you know what, you married

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my sons, but they're dead now, so just go off and go live

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your own life. Naomi said to
the two wives, go return home to

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your own mother's. I hope that
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And she kissed them and they cried. You have to understand that Oprah

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and Ruth are still young enough that
they can marry again and their people would

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look after them. And Naomi was
happy and blessed that her sons ever got

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married to them in the first place. So Oprah was like, you know

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what, Naomi, facts, I'm
gonna go find myself another husband. I

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don't blame her. I have to
say, like, I don't know,

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I don't blame her. But anyway, Oprah says, yeah, facts,

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I'm gonna go find myself another husband. I'm gonna stay in Moab. But

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Ruth, Ruth was like, no
way, she said, do not asked

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me to leave you or not follow
you. Wherever you go, I will

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go, and where you stay I
will say, your people will be my

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people, and your God will be
my God. Where you die, I

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will die, and there they will
bury me. Ruth is loyal, af

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very loyal to Naomi. Even though
she could go off and marry a new

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husband and blah blah blah, she
does not do that. She goes,

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no, Naomi, you are kind
to me. I love you. I'm

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gonna go back to Bethlehem with you. I'm gonna leave my town, my

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city. So Naomi and Ruth arrive
in Bethlehem at the beginning of the barley

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harvest. Ruth said to Naomi,
let me go to the field where I

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can glean grain. Perhaps someone will
be kind to me. Naomi said,

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go, my daughter. So Ruth
left and went to the field, and

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she gleaned by the way. Glean
just means gathering, gathering green behind the

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harvesters. Now she happened to come
to the part of the field that belonged

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to Bullas our man's. He was
a relative of Alimelec. So Ruth is

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gathering grain. Good for her.
And I want you to pay attention to

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this, because what did Ruth do. First of all, she remained loyal,

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awesome, But two she wasn't like
I'm just gonna sit on my butt

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and do nothing. She also wasn't
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I'm so desperate. What did she
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She was like, Okay, well, I'm gonna go to the fields

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and make myself useful. I'm gonna
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not just gonna sit on my butt. I'm gonna go out into the world,

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live my life. I'm gonna gather
some grain. And what happens is

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she's placed at the right place,
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Just you wait and see. She
is not just sitting around. She

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is doing the damn thing. I
really love how in this story, even

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though Elimelech died Naomi's husband, God
still provided through Alimelek by putting Ruth on

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a relative of Elimelech's land. So
even though that's husband is no longer there

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to provide, he's still providing spiritually
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Anyway, let's talk to Daddy Boas. Okay, Boaz notices her. It

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literally says that Boaz notices Ruth.
Okay, period, Boaz asked his servant

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who is that young woman. The
servant was the leader of the harvesters,

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and he said that young woman is
from Moab. She came back from the

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country called Moab with Naomi. She
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let me walk behind the harvesters.
She came at dawn and has been

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working until now. She only rested
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Boaz went up to Ruth and said, listen to me, my daughter.

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Do not go to another part of
this field to glean. Do not go

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away from here. Stay with my
woman. Servants. Look in the field

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where the harvesters are. Glean where
they are, I will tell the men

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not to touch you. The men
have filled jars with water. If you

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want to drink, use those jars. Then Ruth fell to the ground and

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hit her face. She asked him, why are you so kind to me?

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Why did you notice me? I'm
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they told me everything that you've done
for your husband's mother when your husband

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died. You came from your mother
and your father, from your own country.

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You came to people that did not
know you before. I pray the

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Lord, the God of Israel,
will pay you in full. That is

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because you came to him for protection. Boaz learns the truth of who Ruth

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is and he recognizes her. He
notices her on a sole level. Boaz

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had provided her energy. Let me
tell you, Boaz showed Ruth that he

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accepted her. He gave her protection. He offered her a drink from the

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water. This was more than the
law demanded. Boaz was very helpful to

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Ruth. He was a generous person, and he was kind to those who

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were dependent on him. Okay,
So when Naomi finds out that she's working

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on Boaz's field, Naomi sets a
plan and she's like, girl, you

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gotta marry Boaz. He has land, he's giving provider. He is someone

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you can be dependent on. He's
a relative of a limelech. Like,

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this is perfect. Let's set this
up. Naomi started plotting, scheming,

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if you will. Okay, she
started scheming because she sees how loyal Ruth

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has been to her, and she's
like, girl, I gotta repay the

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favor you've been so good to me. I'm gonna set you up for life.

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Naomi tells her, Now have a
bath and make yourself smell nice.

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Then dress in your best clothes,
go down to the threshing floor. Remain

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hidden until he finishes eating and drinking. Notice carefully the place where he lies

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down to sleep. Go there,
lift his skirt and lie by his feet.

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He'll tell you what to do.
So Ruth says, period, plan,

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let's do this. She does it. She He scares him in the

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middle of the ninety's like who are
you? And she says it's Ruth.

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I came here because I want you
to be my husband, my redeemer.

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And he says, my daughter,
I pray that the Lord will be good

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to you. You are even more
kind to me now than you were earlier.

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You have not run after young men, poor or rich. Do not

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be afraid. I will do everything
you have suggested. Everyone in town knows

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that you're a good woman. Essentially, he's down. He's down for the

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marriage. So Boaz and her marries, and she birth's a son. What

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this shows us is a couple of
things. First of all, Boaz noticed

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Ruth. Ruth wasn't manipulating herself so
he would like her. Ruth wasn't chasing

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him because he had money and was
provider energy. Ruth wasn't stalking him,

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She wasn't texting him first every single
day. She wasn't obsessing over him.

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She literally just showed up to do
some work. She existed, and Boas

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noticed her. This is exactly how
the divine masculine and divine feminine energy is

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meant to work. I don't care
what you think about that. I can't

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help the universal law. I can
only learn it, teach it to you,

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understand it, and work with it. If you want to attract a

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masculine energy, you cannot be chasing, because there can only ever be one

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chaser. And if you're chasing,
their repelling, their running. What did

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Ruth do? She showed up?
What did that allow Boas to do?

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It allowed Boas to notice her now
while she was focused on herself, working

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in the field, not even thinking
about I need a husband. I need

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a husband. I need a husband. That's how she was on her own

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pedestal and attracted him towards her.
When she went back to Naomi and said,

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oh, by the way, I'm
working for Boaz, and Naomi's like,

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oh damn, I know Boas provide
her energy. Let's get you two

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set up. Ruth listened to her, and Ruth said, okay, I

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will choose him. I will go
to him and I will let him know

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that I want to marry him.
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the CVC principle. Because Ruth did
make an opening. She went to

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his room. Oh scandalous. She
went to his room, but she didn't

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chase him. She chose him.
And as divine feminine energies, we're not

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just gonna sit down and be like, oh, I hope someone falls into

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my life. No, we're gonna
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page one sixty three. I often
get asked if it's divine feminine of us

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to go up to men or masculine
leading individuals, because it's really not about

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gender. I'm here to share the
good news. Yes, yes it is.

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It's fine. There's nothing wrong with
choosing who you want and creating a

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new cycle. However, chasing puts
us back into our masculine. If chasing

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men worked, I would tell you
to do it. Okay, it doesn't,

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so don't. If no one has
said this, let it be known

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that chasing men does not work.
The woman I've witness chase men never stop

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chasing them. The men usually accepted
the offer in front of them, but

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when they found an offer they deemed
quote unquote better they left. The men

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didn't have to do anything, so
there was no skin in the game for

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them. The men weren't initially into
those women, and the men never increased

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their connection enough to the point where
it could work. Instead of chasing,

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we want to choose, and this
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CVC stands for choosing versus chasing.
Choosing is aligned with the divine feminine energy,

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while pursuing is aligned with the divine
masculine. One can choose the person

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they desire by making the first move
without chasing them. What is choosing Choosing

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is starting a light conversation with someone
you find attractive, complimenting them while standing

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next to them, giving them a
smile, then refocusing back on ourselves.

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This opens the door allowing that other
person to know you're interested. One time

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at the bar, I literally went
up to someone and said, buy me

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a drink, and they happily obliged. After this, you are done.

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Once you have made a clear that
you're willing to speak to this person,

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rejoin your friends on the dance floor, take a bathroom break, or do

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literally anything else other than glue yourself
to them. The whole night. This

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allows them to then come to you, chase you, hunt you. They

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can reside in their masculine and you
can reside in your feminine. What is

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chasing. Chasing would be initiating the
conversation, but then following them around all

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night, texting them first, not
once, but every single day, and

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putting all your focus on them.
Choosing allows you to put yourself on the

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pedestal, while chasing the other person
puts them on the pedestal. Choosing is

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magnetic and chasing is repellent. You
can choose who you want while staying in

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your feminine and on your pedestal.
Choosing allows what you want to flow to

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you, rather than you running after
it. When you know what you want,

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so you create an opening for what
you want. Notice all the us

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in there that maintains your place on
the pedestal and allows the masculine energy to

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step up and chase you. Understand
what Ruth did. She made an opening

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to boas she said, Hey,
and there's five five five on my clock.

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I'm interested. Let's do the damn
thing. And then she allowed him

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to pursue her. Set the date, make sure all the customs and the

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contracts were in order for them to
be a match. Ruth is such an

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emblem of the divine and feminine energy
because she followed her heart. She was

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devoted to Naomi, who she loved. She wasn't chasing a man. She

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actually just said, you know what, I'm gonna go out. I'm gonna

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do my own thing. I'm gonna
work on the field. And the man

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noticed her, went to her,
provided for her, and gave her a

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son. God, it's good,
halleujah. Amen. We love it.

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And so it is the point of
me sharing this story with you is that

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you don't have to do much to
attract the right person. All you want

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to do is show up as your
best self. I like how Naomi told

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her, go take a bath,
dress in your nicest clothes. Present yourself

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as the best possible option that you
can be. Think about it when you're

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at the bar. You don't want
the bum who's wearing his pajamas. You

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want a person who's dressed nice,
who presents themselves nice. Work on you,

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give yourself self care, and show
up as your best self. I'm

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telling you this is what attracts the
people towards you. If you're interested in

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someone, go up to them,
create a conversation. Don't glue yourself to

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them the whole entire night. Why
because your boaz will notice you, your

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husband will notice you. I think
it's important to note. Ruth marries a

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man, he ends up dying,
She ends up committing to his mother,

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goes to a foreign land. There
were so many times during her story that

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she was in the unknown. She
goes to work for a random land farm,

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whatever it is. There was so
much uncertainty in her plan, and

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yet she was more than provided for. If you're in a season where you're

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unsure about your relationship, you're going
through a breakup, you're in the unknown

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and you don't know what's coming next, know that you will be provided for

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in the end. And if you're
not happy, it's because it's not the

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end. But when you trust no, I will get my needs met,

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and then some a funny thing happens
where you get your needs met, and

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then some You don't have a choice
if you want to move forward or not,

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because at the end of the day, the world is reoving and moving

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with or without you, So you
have to keep putting one foot in front

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of the other. And the best
way to do that is to remember,

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I'm walking now, but I'm walking
into abundance, into peace, into prosperity,

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because you will. When you keep
working on yourself, giving yourself the

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self care, the love, the
nurturing that you need, showing up doing

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the work, getting the damn thing
done, showing up as your best self,

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you get the best results, period, always and forever. Maybe you're

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thinking, CEC, I want my
husband, my soulmate, to immediately recognize

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me, But how can I know
that they will. Well, let's set

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it into motion with our words.
Our tongue is our greatest sword, and

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we can use it upon our self
or for ourselves. So let's not use

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it against ourselves, shall we.
Let's come into agreement with one another.

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And all you have to do in
order to do that is just say I

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want to come into agreement with this
prayer, with this command, and we

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can put our palms up because palms
are so powerful to really absorb this energy.

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Right here, God, I am
creating and opening a prayer for me

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as well as all of the people
that are listening right now. God,

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we pray, we command that our
husband, our future husband, will recognize

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us upon arrival, that as soon
as they lay eyes on us, they

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will immediately know us, feel us, sense us, recognize us down to

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a soul level, that we are
theirs, that we are a destined union.

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There will be no confusion, but
only clarity, No if ends or

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butts, but clarity that we are
theirs and they are ours. We will

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also recognize them on a soul level
and have an inner knowing through our intuition

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that that person is our husband,
our soulmate, our person. And if

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you want to claim this, say
I claim this, if you want this

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to be your destined reality, and
so it is, and so it is.

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Amen, healaru ya God. We
are ready willing and accepting of our

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boas the masculine energy who is the
provider and the protector, and this boas

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of ours, because we all have
a BOAZ will recognize us immediately clearly,

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so evidently there will be no doubts, no confusion, only clarity as soon

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as they lay their eyes onto us. I'm telling you this is how the

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divine masculine and feminine energies work.
You don't have to worry, you don't

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have to freight, you just such
a show up as your best self.

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If you're not your how to show
up as your best self. Get show

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up as her now. Start working
on yourself now so you can attract better

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later. I love you so much. I hope this podcast resonated with you,

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and if you did enjoy, please
leave a positive review on Apple Podcasts

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and Spotify. If not for me
to do it for you, because good

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karma and I will see you in
the next Onemagy Cancer Imlogy, No cancage, me CANCEAE