1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:11,000 I made a decision face sunny sound, I had a vision, right, 2 00:00:15,039 --> 00:00:20,399 what's up? Everybody crying out like I'm wearing my hey, hey, hey, 3 00:00:20,719 --> 00:00:26,000 hey, hey, gosh, what's happening? What's happening? Klin doesn't 4 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:30,239 remember? I know night Wait, that's not that's not that show. That's 5 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,840 Good Times, Good Times, Yep, that's j J JJ but this is 6 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:40,759 RAJ and member dedidd Yeah yeah, and rerun and rerun I could do reruns 7 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:46,679 dance yea, Oh my god, I love that show. They know I 8 00:00:46,719 --> 00:00:51,200 love that show. What's happening? Um, you know what's happening is uh 9 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:57,320 Ashley's chic she is deally happened, yes, And Leslie got accosted and sex 10 00:00:57,399 --> 00:01:03,840 tropiced. Oh no, wow, she needs I know, I know Leslie. 11 00:01:03,239 --> 00:01:08,799 And Jacob's still Grally and Rita rocks that bassinet and Hero everybody loves It's 12 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:14,879 Father's Days coming yep. And Elizabeth Williamson she has a lot of kids. 13 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:19,439 And Athena Ginschurt is a great dancer and does her makeup like really pretty yeah 14 00:01:19,439 --> 00:01:26,200 on fleek. And Polly Butterfield that's still a pretty name, yes Butterfield and 15 00:01:26,359 --> 00:01:30,400 Valerie hits out of the park. And Katarina should check her moller. She's 16 00:01:30,439 --> 00:01:34,359 probably tired of that. But yeah, what else is it hurting? Maybe? 17 00:01:34,719 --> 00:01:38,439 What's her last name? Mohler? Oh yeah, that's it yet? 18 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,519 Yeah? Yeah, what else? You what are you gonna do? Are 19 00:01:40,519 --> 00:01:42,439 you gonna do? What are you gonna do with that? Gabby and Missy? 20 00:01:42,879 --> 00:01:49,200 These girls they lost their teeth a long time ago. There's three of 21 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,359 them between the two. I found one of them in my garbage disposal. 22 00:01:52,439 --> 00:01:57,640 I'm sorry, guys, e Sean Vajpe talk about teeth. We're background. 23 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,840 Kelly Aunt, she is got a mentos for you in her purse. It's 24 00:02:02,879 --> 00:02:13,000 a fuzz on other gum stuck to it, stuff to a nickel. Amy's 25 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:22,919 a cunt, Aaron Alicia from the city of El Monte Leslie com I mean 26 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,080 COVID. That's not real. That's a hope a long time ago. Yeah, 27 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:30,240 And Jennifer get up, and Sarah's too, and Sandra's not easy being 28 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:36,479 green Christa, you make me wan and Stephanie's a stinker wrinker? Yeah, 29 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:43,280 what's up? What? Um? This is a Oh? I was gonna 30 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,919 tell you yes on Tuesday, I promised you I was going to tell you 31 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:51,759 that Xander had like a funny um oh my god, I had another thing 32 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,719 I want to tell you too. Okay, So Xander went to a friend's 33 00:02:53,759 --> 00:03:00,280 house yesterday on Memorial Day and he sent me a text and he like, 34 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,840 mom, or did he send it to me? Or did he send it 35 00:03:02,879 --> 00:03:09,879 to John? Let me look? Uh? And he said he was making 36 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,280 Oh no, I have to I think he sent it to John. Anyway, 37 00:03:15,599 --> 00:03:23,039 he said he made a Steve Harvey cake. What yeah, so uh. 38 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:27,000 Basically, he and his friend got bored. They told me, oh 39 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,080 yeah, here it is, and they bang a cake on our Instagram. 40 00:03:30,439 --> 00:03:35,039 Oh my god, it came out night. They baked a cake and they 41 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,039 made the face is Steve Harvey. It's not bad, Dade, It's not 42 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:43,080 bad at all. And they were so proud of it. But then they 43 00:03:43,319 --> 00:03:45,960 ate it. But clockilly, they took a picture of it. And then 44 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:51,400 apparently they were trying to Instagram Steve Harvey and tagging him and sending him the 45 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,560 cake. And now they want to like do another cake of somebody else, 46 00:03:54,599 --> 00:03:59,240 totally random. I can't remember who that. Yeah. What a night. 47 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:00,520 And they were so sided. When I came to pick him up, it 48 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,319 was like a girlfriend's house like a scroll that's a friend, you know? 49 00:04:03,479 --> 00:04:09,319 And yeah, they were like and then the mom was like really sweet, 50 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,840 like a sweet parent. I came over. I met the mom and dad 51 00:04:11,879 --> 00:04:14,039 and she was like, oh my gosh, they had the best time. 52 00:04:14,159 --> 00:04:16,360 Like, she goes, I haven't heard this much laughter in this house. 53 00:04:16,399 --> 00:04:19,480 And I don't know how long she goes. They laughed NonStop for hours. 54 00:04:19,639 --> 00:04:23,680 Oh my gosh. He went over there at like one and I didn't pick 55 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,319 him up until eight. Now is this a friend from school? Or it's 56 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:30,639 a friend from his old school? Okay, okay, from his last school 57 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:35,480 before this one? Oh so they that's so cute. Who doesn't go to 58 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:40,480 the school where he is at right now? Okay, goes to the school 59 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:44,439 where Elbie goes? Okay, okay, yeah, he kind of wants to 60 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,120 go. He wants to go back, he wants to go there, kind 61 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:51,639 of wants to go there. Really not happy at this one. It's so 62 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:56,959 small. Yeah, it's really really small. Sadie likes it though, right 63 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:01,120 well, Sadie, Sadie. Sadie does not like school. If I told 64 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,399 Sadie tomorrow, like, you know what, I'm just going to homeschool, 65 00:05:04,399 --> 00:05:10,199 you should be like cool. Cool, Great, I'd be like I never 66 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,920 really need I don't need to see people or do anything or okay, cool, 67 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,519 I'll just work from home in my bed. But I couldn't do that 68 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:20,439 because of all people she needs, she needs to be forced to go to 69 00:05:20,439 --> 00:05:25,199 school and interact with people. Xander, all he wants to do is like 70 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,600 interact in the rea, be involved in things, and like him, I 71 00:05:28,639 --> 00:05:31,319 love that, But like he, I don't know if he's getting enough opportunities. 72 00:05:31,639 --> 00:05:34,759 Yeah for that where he is, right, I see, Well it 73 00:05:34,879 --> 00:05:39,759 makes sense. That makes sense. Would they be willing to go to separate 74 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,800 schools? I think so? So you think he might go to the big 75 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:48,480 school. Well so I tried to apply, but it's really late in the 76 00:05:48,519 --> 00:05:54,920 application process and it's not our district school, right, So something to know 77 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,600 about LA. You don't have to deal with this where you are in your 78 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:04,680 school district, in the LA school district LUSD you it's very specific what your 79 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:10,519 district, what your districted school is, and your districted school could be super 80 00:06:10,519 --> 00:06:15,639 shitty, which ours is. So our districted schools like only a few blocks 81 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,800 from us, but nobody would want to go there. It's not a good 82 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:25,720 school, absolutely not didn't you look at my school then I went to school. 83 00:06:25,879 --> 00:06:29,279 No, No, that's very small. That's even smaller than where they 84 00:06:29,319 --> 00:06:33,959 are. That's a school that people apply to. So there's this thing called 85 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:39,040 choices out here, right. So if you apply to a school and you 86 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:42,720 don't get in, you get points. It's a magnet school. Your school 87 00:06:42,759 --> 00:06:46,360 is a magnet school. If you accrue enough points, you can use them 88 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,120 to get into another magnet school. But that ship is sailed for us. 89 00:06:50,199 --> 00:06:56,000 We weren't trying to get into any magnets, okay. But what they do 90 00:06:56,120 --> 00:07:00,639 is if you want to go to like a school one neighborhood over that's like 91 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,560 the big school that everyone goes to, you have to do something called open 92 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,439 enrollment, but you have to kind of know you want to go to that 93 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:11,439 school ahead of time. Yeah. So like when I applied for Sadie and 94 00:07:11,519 --> 00:07:15,480 Xander last year, they got in, but then they chose not to go 95 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,800 there. I see, So this year I didn't apply at the time that 96 00:07:18,839 --> 00:07:23,680 I should have applied because I thought they were happy. But then Xander was 97 00:07:23,759 --> 00:07:26,759 like, I will I want to change school, So I don't think he's 98 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:30,279 going to but I just tried to apply and there's like a wait, there's 99 00:07:30,319 --> 00:07:32,879 a waiting list of like five hundred and sixty five kids. Oh yeah, 100 00:07:32,319 --> 00:07:35,800 yeah, what's your school district kid? Or you know, but is it 101 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,519 small? No, I don't think so. I think it's pretty big big. 102 00:07:39,639 --> 00:07:45,120 Yeah. Ah for elementary school, Like you're cool when your kids start 103 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,920 elementary school. Yeah, you like the schools. I mean I haven't looked 104 00:07:47,959 --> 00:07:50,519 at I haven't looked at him yet. But you know, Amy, Amy 105 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,839 knows all the school. She's a teacher, all her friends or teachers. 106 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:57,879 She knows where to send them and where to put someone else's address. Right, 107 00:07:57,959 --> 00:08:01,560 that's one of those things, remember you have. I used my condo 108 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:09,839 address for when the kids started kindergarten for the school in school district, and 109 00:08:09,879 --> 00:08:13,120 then they went there for a while, and then at some point they were 110 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,959 getting you know, the school. It was getting there was a lot of 111 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:22,560 people doing that, and the school started getting just cracking down. And then 112 00:08:22,759 --> 00:08:26,519 Olga was living at my condo, so then we had to like leave toothbrushes 113 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:30,360 there make it look like in case people did come to the door and check. 114 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,519 Yeah, I remember that. It was at the time we were already 115 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:39,000 in the process of moving out of the neighborhood into the room, but we 116 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,159 were cionara to that. Like by the time they got to second grade, 117 00:08:41,159 --> 00:08:45,639 we were out, so they were just kindergarten first grade and then we left. 118 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,360 But yeah, I mean we tried, but it just got to it 119 00:08:50,399 --> 00:08:54,200 was a it was a No, it wasn't a magnet school. It was 120 00:08:54,279 --> 00:09:00,600 a charter school. Yeah, it's a mess up system. And I remember 121 00:09:00,639 --> 00:09:05,600 reading about like, it's not very equitable either, and there was a black 122 00:09:05,639 --> 00:09:11,440 woman who I don't know if she lied, but try to try to put 123 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:16,720 her kids and it was in La into a better school and she got caught 124 00:09:16,799 --> 00:09:20,120 and they put her in jail. What the fuck? Yeah, are you 125 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,600 kidding? Not kidding? The Crazy Store. I'm gonna have to look it 126 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:26,279 up and tell you about it. But I remember reading about it during the 127 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:31,919 time of like the George Foreman stuff and the oh my god, you're right, 128 00:09:33,879 --> 00:09:41,720 Kaylin's bowled over by stories. Yeah, the school's so hard and it's 129 00:09:41,759 --> 00:09:43,960 not like it was when I don't know, I know, well, I 130 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:46,919 would say it's not like it was when we were kids, but it's not 131 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,240 like it was when I was in like middle school and high school because you 132 00:09:50,279 --> 00:09:54,919 just went to. There's one school in Springfield, Massachusetts. There's one school. 133 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,399 It was called Classical High School. It was the only college prep school 134 00:09:58,519 --> 00:10:01,960 in like the most of the city. Right, So there was like a 135 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:05,039 private school that my mom would threaten to send me to. Looking back, 136 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,679 it's like, well, yeah, bitch, what you should have just sent 137 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,240 me there if you're so rich, right, that sounds weird, But like 138 00:10:11,279 --> 00:10:15,000 she was always like, oh, I'm gonna I'm gonna pull you from your 139 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,679 school because I was doing so terrible and put you in Saint George, which 140 00:10:18,759 --> 00:10:22,000 was like a Catholic school. She was never going to pay money to send 141 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,919 me to private school, right. For one, it was an empty threat, 142 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:30,000 But I didn't realize at the time that that would be kind of a 143 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,600 probably would have been a good like a good school, right right, Yeah, 144 00:10:33,639 --> 00:10:37,519 that's you know, you just reminded me my parents. When we first 145 00:10:37,639 --> 00:10:43,080 moved to California, my parents put me in a Christian school for like a 146 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:48,440 year, and I was like, what I remember, it was like right 147 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,879 before junior high and it was like one year and it was like Bible studies 148 00:10:52,879 --> 00:10:56,519 and stuff, and my dad's an atheist, and he was like, I 149 00:10:56,639 --> 00:10:58,720 thought it would be better than the normal, the regular school, and he 150 00:10:58,799 --> 00:11:03,240 was uh. And then I went to the local junior high, Columbus Junior 151 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:07,120 High in Canoga Park. Huh, that's the school my dad yelled, got 152 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,480 sent the nasty letter to my violin teacher, called her an asshole, tolder 153 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:16,639 to quit her job and learn how kids learned, because I took a violin 154 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:20,000 home and broke the string. And he's like, how does he's what's that 155 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:24,039 famous violinist? He suck? Yeah, how do you think he must have 156 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,320 broken a million strings? In? What kind of asshole take? It? 157 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:33,240 Takes away the privilege of letting the kid take the violin home, how she's 158 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,519 supposed to practice. Why don't you just quit your job and go back and 159 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:41,000 learn us? You know, I mean that whole letter and then traumatizing and 160 00:11:41,039 --> 00:11:45,879 then and then they start letting you take the violin now now now now that 161 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:50,919 it didn't work, my dad typed it on a typewriter Dick Paradise signed it 162 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:54,639 Dick Paradise and then uh. And then he took me out and he sent 163 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:58,480 me to the Magnet school because then it was bussing. There was busses, 164 00:11:58,519 --> 00:12:01,759 and we were getting and he wanted me to go to that Magnet school and 165 00:12:01,799 --> 00:12:07,240 so yeah, so then I went there from eighth grade all the way through 166 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:11,960 high school. Right. Yeah. Julie Cason sent her daughter to a Christian 167 00:12:13,039 --> 00:12:18,159 school for I want to say, for kindergarten. And then her daughter came 168 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,480 home and she, you know, talking about like, oh in Hell, 169 00:12:20,759 --> 00:12:24,320 like they burned, you burned in Heller, and I usually was like, 170 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:30,320 okay, Yeah, the girls go to a Christian preschool or whatever, and 171 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:31,440 every once in a while they come home they go, oh, yeah, 172 00:12:31,519 --> 00:12:37,559 look it's baby Jesus. Yeah, oh my god. Natalia was in New 173 00:12:37,639 --> 00:12:41,120 York and she was she was by herself because Adam was doing shows. So 174 00:12:41,159 --> 00:12:45,600 she called me and she was like walking by herself, going to the Starbucks. 175 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,120 And then she's going back to the hotel before I got dark. And 176 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,039 she gets back to the room. We're just chit chatting on FaceTime, and 177 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,600 uh, I go, are you bored? She's like, I'm okay. 178 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:56,559 And then she picks up because she's killing time because to go to dinner. 179 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:01,399 She picks up a book of Mormon. First, she says, a book 180 00:13:01,399 --> 00:13:03,840 of Mormon. I think she's talking about the play. And I'm like oh 181 00:13:03,879 --> 00:13:05,840 my god, it's done by the guys from from South Park. You should 182 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,559 you should go if you can go, and she goes, no, mom, 183 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,799 and then she holds it up. She goes, no, the real 184 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:13,840 Book of Mormon. Then she gets to the Bible and she's like she opens 185 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:18,120 it, she starts reading it, and she goes, you know who wrote 186 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:22,759 the Bible? Whom? And then I go, you should try and read. 187 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:26,279 So she tries to read it, and she's like, I would kind 188 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,799 of like to learn about this stuff. She's like, we never went to 189 00:13:28,919 --> 00:13:31,559 church. And she's got a lot of friends that go to church, you 190 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,759 know, but we just never Probably don't like it, right, they don't. 191 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,440 And she's gone a couple times with them on a Sunday with their family, 192 00:13:37,799 --> 00:13:39,720 and she's like, I don't know, I might kind of like it. 193 00:13:39,799 --> 00:13:43,080 And I'm like, you know, you know, some of it may 194 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,919 apply to your life, you know, and make you look at things different. 195 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:48,320 I don't know, you know. Maybe she's like yeah, I mean 196 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:54,279 she entertained the idea for about three minutes and was done. That'd be funny 197 00:13:54,279 --> 00:13:56,480 if you were like, you know what, let's start going to church every 198 00:13:56,519 --> 00:14:01,279 Sunday. Do you I love you go to Barry's boot camp. Yeah, 199 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:05,559 huh, we're going to church. Yeah, you can get on your Sunday 200 00:14:05,639 --> 00:14:11,200 dress. My dad always tell me the Bible is a beautiful story. Here's 201 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:15,440 a beautiful story, and you should read it. Just not true, but 202 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,039 it's a beautiful story. I think there are lots of things in religion and 203 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:24,799 in you know, I'm sure in the Bible that are positive things. But 204 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,879 it always kills me when fundamentalist Christians that are like no, no, no, 205 00:14:30,039 --> 00:14:35,799 that's that every word happened. It's like you can't see that that that 206 00:14:35,799 --> 00:14:39,240 that's like an analogy for like how to live your life? You really think 207 00:14:39,279 --> 00:14:45,960 that Noah got in an arc and like got two of every kind of animal, 208 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:50,240 like yeah. And then I was watching Jersey Shore and those the three 209 00:14:50,279 --> 00:14:52,759 of them, four of them are sitting around after a night of drinking talking 210 00:14:52,799 --> 00:14:58,440 about wait a minute, Noah's who wait who who parted the sea? It 211 00:14:58,559 --> 00:15:01,440 was Noah, right made I don't know any And then they were like, 212 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:05,320 how did Jesus get around? When Snooky's like, well, Jesus flew right 213 00:15:07,879 --> 00:15:11,399 here. You can talk about so funny. Oh my god, oh my 214 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:13,799 god. I have to start watching Jersey Shore again, the Jersey Shore Family 215 00:15:13,879 --> 00:15:18,879 Vacation. Highly recommend it. Oh my god. And oh let's take a 216 00:15:18,919 --> 00:15:22,960 quick break. Okay, we're back. Um, Okay, I have to 217 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:30,240 talk to you about a show that I've seen one episode of. But okay, 218 00:15:30,279 --> 00:15:37,159 maybe The Strange Case of of Natalia Grace Never Okay, google this shit 219 00:15:37,279 --> 00:15:41,639 real quick, Kalin. Okay, it's this. It's new and it's on 220 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,519 Oh my god. Oh it's on Discovery. So it's basically each HBO, 221 00:15:46,919 --> 00:15:52,600 Discovery Max. It's on Max. Yes, it's the story of the couple 222 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:58,120 that adopted a little girl who was a little person. She had Dwarfism. 223 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:03,440 Then she it She allegedly turns out to be like twenty two and she was 224 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:07,879 posing as a six year old. You remember this story now? Oh my 225 00:16:07,919 --> 00:16:14,440 god. So it's crazy. I don't know who all of these people are 226 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:18,200 fucked up. It's a documentary, but it's it's it's insane. It just 227 00:16:18,279 --> 00:16:22,559 came out yesterday. Oh god, I just released yesterday. Okay. But 228 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:26,840 I think it's a it's six parter, I think, okay, I think 229 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:33,440 they made a horror movie out of this, Yes, Natalia what but not, 230 00:16:33,639 --> 00:16:37,799 it's not the orphan though, because the orphan is that they think no, 231 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:41,399 yes, so they think it's like the story of the orphan yes, 232 00:16:41,399 --> 00:16:45,840 because they're in the trailer to this thing. I watched the first episode, 233 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:48,480 then I got really tired, so I couldn't finish it. I got hit 234 00:16:48,519 --> 00:16:55,279 by a trickilizer dark and John was like, you seem like you're falling asleep, 235 00:16:55,279 --> 00:16:59,320 and I was like, I'm just taking glasses off for one minute listening. 236 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:03,319 I'm I'm treating it like a podcast. He's like, you gotta see 237 00:17:03,319 --> 00:17:06,839 this. Let's just stop it. We'll watch for us tomorrow. Let me 238 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:11,559 side note before you go on, we all, all of us on the 239 00:17:11,599 --> 00:17:15,920 for Crying Out Loud community need to come together and give suggestions of shit to 240 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,640 watch because I think this writer strike is going to go on for a while. 241 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:22,319 Oh yeah, and we're gonna be fucked after all. We're gonna be 242 00:17:22,319 --> 00:17:26,400 like, when's the new season of whatever name your show? Right? Yeah? 243 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:30,039 Coming out? Yeah? And I'm scared. So you got this, 244 00:17:30,279 --> 00:17:33,680 okay? Can you read us the abstract? Kaylin uh yeah, just the 245 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,920 hold on. I was trying to see many episodes there were so only one 246 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:41,599 episode come out. I thought it was three, but it says it's over. 247 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:48,519 I think they're airing, like they didn't release it all together. Right, 248 00:17:48,759 --> 00:17:52,440 Yeah, it says it's a It was the three night event starting May 249 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:56,519 twenty ninth, so I don't know. Maybe, but the IMDb description as 250 00:17:56,559 --> 00:18:03,920 ooops. The Stockyseries offers extraordinary access and exclusive insight into a world renowned mystery. 251 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:07,799 Initially assumed to be a six year old Ukrainian orphan with a rare bone 252 00:18:07,799 --> 00:18:15,119 growth disorder, she was actually a fully grown adult. But then it's weird 253 00:18:15,279 --> 00:18:21,559 because it's like the dad is also kind of crazy, seems crazy, and 254 00:18:21,599 --> 00:18:26,920 then they're accusing this girl of trying to kill the family and the brothers, 255 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:33,200 and they're saying that she was like a psychotic and that. But there they 256 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:37,839 were possibly then abusing her. I think somebody else got arrested in this. 257 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:41,759 Like it's it's pure craziness, and I think there's gonna be a lot of 258 00:18:41,759 --> 00:18:44,880 twists and turns. I can't wait. All right, it looks good, 259 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:48,599 right, yeah, it looks good. Yeah I started, you know. 260 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,880 Okay, first of all, HBO Max is now max. You have to 261 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:56,240 redownload the app, which I don't know if anybody has had glitches with it, 262 00:18:56,279 --> 00:18:59,480 but it's been glitching for me. Oh really Sometimes I try to hit 263 00:18:59,559 --> 00:19:03,480 rewind in ten seconds and then it freezes. I don't know. But anyway, 264 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:06,799 because I had to do watch Succession. Yeah do you guys all watch? 265 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:11,240 Yeah? Yeah? Um. But then underneath it there was a doc 266 00:19:11,319 --> 00:19:15,240 about I can't remember what it's called, but it's, uh, how to 267 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:22,440 sex scandal, how to something a sex scandal or something. I started watching 268 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:26,839 it. It's a documentary how to create a sex scandal? Yeah, is 269 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:30,759 there like a bicycle or something. It's there's I think it's is if if 270 00:19:30,799 --> 00:19:33,720 it's on Max, like, that's it because it's underneath you know when you 271 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:37,960 see your child. Yeah yeah, So I started watching it and it was 272 00:19:37,319 --> 00:19:41,839 we'll get back to you for it. But it was about like these three 273 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,599 kids that got adopted. We're talking about how with their other family they were 274 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:52,720 put into a um swingers club to perform. Oh yeah, it's a lot 275 00:19:52,759 --> 00:19:57,720 of pedophilia. Oh that's so sad. But it turns seems to me, 276 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,039 I don't know that it might not have had I don't know that it might 277 00:20:02,039 --> 00:20:04,880 not have happened. Oh like that somebody was lying. I don't know so 278 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:10,799 I only watched because I too was darted with it when Tarankol eyes are dart. 279 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:14,160 By the way, did you start listening to the podcast, Scamanda? 280 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,599 No, I was gonna ask you the name of it today because I couldn't 281 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:22,359 think what I was like Skimamanda, Amanda, But say, all right, 282 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:26,880 Scamanda, gonna start. Oh god, a new episode came out today, 283 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,200 So there's four episodes. Good. Oh, it's so good. Crazy, 284 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:36,079 It's so good. This girl's just fucking ridiculously. Oh my god. Yeah, 285 00:20:36,559 --> 00:20:41,039 it's a cancer faking right story. But oh my god, I cannot 286 00:20:41,039 --> 00:20:45,599 wait to listen. She is just so freaking brazen, Like, it's so 287 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,559 good. Have you listened to it? Oh my god, you guys got 288 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,400 to get on it. Everybody's loving it. Okay, okay, so go 289 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:56,200 back to uh oh so okay. So I wanted to bring this up. 290 00:20:56,319 --> 00:21:03,640 Yeah, somebody in our Facebook group and hold on now I can't now I 291 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:07,480 gotta find it, okay, okay, So somebody in our Facebook group wrote 292 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:12,799 in Oh let somebody somebody wrote, do yourself a favor and watch this asap 293 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:17,079 on the ID network. It's so good. The Curious Case of Natalia grace. 294 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:25,319 Yeah. So um. But somebody wrote in anonymously a question for everybody 295 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,799 think. I saw this and I just thought it was I read it and 296 00:21:29,839 --> 00:21:33,519 I was like, Wow, this is like super interesting and what a crazy 297 00:21:33,559 --> 00:21:37,279 situation. And I want to hear what you guys think. I didn't get 298 00:21:37,319 --> 00:21:41,279 to read the comments, but I read I think I think she wrote and 299 00:21:41,319 --> 00:21:44,200 she starts it off. It's anonymous, so she starts it off. I'm 300 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:48,000 sure that I need to reel it in. And by the way, you 301 00:21:48,079 --> 00:21:49,880 don't need to real No, she doesn't need to realize it. Now. 302 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:55,599 I'm forty six and working on managing my emotions in a healthier way, but 303 00:21:55,759 --> 00:21:57,640 some things just get under my skin and I can't figure out how to deal 304 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:02,400 with it in my head and not my irritation. Okay, you ready. 305 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,799 My fiance and I moved in together one and a half years ago. I 306 00:22:06,839 --> 00:22:11,559 have a son, eleven, and he has two teen daughters fifteen and nineteen. 307 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:15,400 He and I dated for five years before we moved in, so I 308 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,920 should know what they're like by now and be over it. But the fifteen 309 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:22,920 year old, OMG, she's moody and mean, which I think is from 310 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:26,920 anxiety. He lets them do whatever they want. The two issues I'm struggling 311 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:32,160 with are the fifteen year old throwing tantrums over dinner, and then he makes 312 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,920 her chicken nuggets or hot dogs while my son eats the dinner I make without 313 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:40,839 complaining. The two girls are both extremely picky, so I tip to around 314 00:22:40,839 --> 00:22:44,119 and try to make things they like. But if I do that every night, 315 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,039 then we'll eat garbage every night, and I'm just not going to do 316 00:22:47,079 --> 00:22:52,400 that for myself and my son. Also, we went on vacation last summer 317 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:56,119 and her attitude was so abhorrent all week that I told him that I don't 318 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,319 want to waste money on a vacation this year. It sucks for everyone else. 319 00:23:00,039 --> 00:23:02,920 Then there's the nineteen year old who lives with us and is taking two 320 00:23:03,039 --> 00:23:07,240 online community college classes and won't get a job. She has a quote reason 321 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:11,599 not to want to do all the jobs that we suggest she apply for. 322 00:23:11,079 --> 00:23:15,799 She binges shows all day while he and I are working. She does zero 323 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:21,039 chores, just puts her stupid dirty dishes in the sink for the dish fairy, 324 00:23:21,519 --> 00:23:26,799 usually me. She calls her floor her floor's robe because she won't clean 325 00:23:26,839 --> 00:23:30,359 her room or put things away. At around five each day, she comes 326 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,480 in the kitchen and asks, what's for Dindon? I want to kill this 327 00:23:33,559 --> 00:23:40,559 girl. I didn't read. This is not what I read. My son 328 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,599 has his issues too, but he's receptive to me when I ask him to 329 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:47,200 do things. They don't like for me to ask them, so I have 330 00:23:47,279 --> 00:23:49,799 to go through their dad. He sometimes agrees with me, but he usually 331 00:23:49,799 --> 00:23:55,359 just makes excuses for them. I love all three of the kids. Maybe 332 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,519 this is just how kids are. I know I need to be patient and 333 00:23:57,599 --> 00:24:00,839 just walk away and let them do whatever. Honestly, I'm at the point 334 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,640 where if he doesn't care, then I shouldn't either. But they act so 335 00:24:03,839 --> 00:24:07,119 entitled that it really lights me up sometimes. What do you all think? 336 00:24:07,839 --> 00:24:15,000 Wow, I didn't see that well. I mean, first of all, 337 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,480 that's a tough situation. I bet it's pretty common though. I mean, 338 00:24:18,519 --> 00:24:22,440 when you have to bribe families and you're used to, you know, handling 339 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,880 your child one way and disciplining and feeding, and then the other person is 340 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,400 doing it their way, blah blah blah, that's got to be tough. 341 00:24:32,519 --> 00:24:37,880 And I'm sure the girls don't like somebody coming in and telling them what to 342 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:42,480 do or what to eat or whatever. But on the other hand, if 343 00:24:42,519 --> 00:24:45,799 you don't like it, make yourself some fucking dinner. Yeah, why is 344 00:24:45,839 --> 00:24:52,839 it her problem? And also I'm sorry, but and I know that I 345 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,400 am a super soft touch with my kids, and I know I just finished 346 00:24:56,440 --> 00:25:02,079 saying on our Tuesday episode that I'm like that. But oh hell though to 347 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:07,240 Elbie living at home and taking two classes and continuing to do like what she 348 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,799 does, Like, yes, I understand that she doesn't do many chores, 349 00:25:11,079 --> 00:25:15,799 but she works. She's also taking like six aps this year. Literally she's 350 00:25:15,799 --> 00:25:18,640 a job. Yeah, and she has a job and works a lot of 351 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:23,720 hours. I can't imagine her like, come, you know, November and 352 00:25:23,799 --> 00:25:27,640 she turns nineteen, and if she was taking like two classes and refusing to 353 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:33,000 work, ud be insane. I'd be like, you either move out with 354 00:25:33,039 --> 00:25:36,759 some friends and you pay your own rent and you can find some roommates get 355 00:25:36,759 --> 00:25:41,839 your rent lower, which she'd be honest, I might say anyway, Like 356 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,559 I would, I might be like, look, you're probably too old to 357 00:25:44,599 --> 00:25:47,160 be like just living. I mean, she's welcome, my daughter's welcome to 358 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,480 live at home, but that's because she's working. Yeah, right, right, 359 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,799 Like, what is the dad saying, though, I mean he's not 360 00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:56,680 doing any he's not doing anything, and where's her? Does she go to 361 00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:03,519 her biological moms? Ever? I don't know those details, but if if 362 00:26:03,559 --> 00:26:07,480 they're at the dads and the older one is living there, right, you're 363 00:26:07,519 --> 00:26:11,519 both living there. So she has to live with two teenagers, one who's 364 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:17,680 nineteen, and then they both would wouldn't you go crazy if your kid, 365 00:26:17,759 --> 00:26:19,960 if your stepkid came in, who's not even your stepkid yet because you're just 366 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:25,920 engaged, came in? It was like, what's for dindon now? Fuck 367 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:32,079 off? Yeah, fuck off? That's crazy. And I don't blame her 368 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:36,759 for anonymously posting and she's got a vent that that's got to be so fucking 369 00:26:36,839 --> 00:26:40,119 hard. How do you handle that day in and day out. I feel 370 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:44,960 like the dad of those girls needs to stand up and say, like, 371 00:26:45,039 --> 00:26:47,680 you don't have to be mean to your kids. But I think you have 372 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:53,039 to say look, yeah, like I know you're probably unhappy, but we're 373 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,200 this is a blended family situation. You live here, you have to have 374 00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:00,720 respect, and you don't have to eat everything on your plate. But like, 375 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,079 if you don't like it, you can make you can make dinner a 376 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,640 couple of times a week. Make the dinner. Yes, so you like 377 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,720 yes for everybody. Yeah, and she's doing a good job with her son. 378 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,400 It's like, you don't want that shit to like rub off on your 379 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,839 son. Well that's what she was kind of saying later, and that's what 380 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,640 like, um Tara, our friend who's in our group was kind of giving 381 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,599 that advice too, like what, that's a bad example for your son. 382 00:27:23,799 --> 00:27:29,200 Yeah. Yeah, absolutely see people being really disrespectful. And if your fifteen 383 00:27:29,279 --> 00:27:33,440 year old is ruining your family vacation, that's by having it is huge and 384 00:27:33,599 --> 00:27:37,519 go nuts if ice. And by the way, I have a friends that 385 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,200 are like this with their kids that just let them eat whatever they want, 386 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:45,799 give them whatever, no, no, have a bad attitude and don't try 387 00:27:45,799 --> 00:27:48,279 and correct it when they're getting everything. You know, they're getting a nice 388 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,400 day out, whatever it is, and they're like gotta puss on all the 389 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,720 time. It's not you know, it's not what you want to be around. 390 00:27:56,839 --> 00:27:59,000 And yeah, I would, I don't know, I would. Maybe 391 00:27:59,039 --> 00:28:03,559 she needs to take her and her husband to therapy and they can talk it 392 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:08,000 through on how to help get these kids on track. Yeah, because that's 393 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:15,359 really sad, and there's certain things like I like Elbe is on her own. 394 00:28:15,519 --> 00:28:18,759 If she Elbe rarely eats like what we're eating, but I don't. 395 00:28:18,799 --> 00:28:22,480 But I don't care because we don't do like we don't sit down as a 396 00:28:22,559 --> 00:28:26,079 family and have a meal and she doesn't go. I don't want that. 397 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,720 I want this. She's uber. Uber eats herself some food. Yeah, 398 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,559 when she's hungry, right, she's like a you know, emancipated. Yeah, 399 00:28:33,559 --> 00:28:37,119 well she should be, but she has her she hasn't done with my 400 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:41,599 money works. And if she wants to order herself whatever she wants to eat, 401 00:28:41,839 --> 00:28:45,640 like taking care at it. You're being into I say, she's being 402 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,160 independent. It annoys John. But I'm like, as long as like when 403 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,000 we're all together, if or if we go out to dinner, she's not 404 00:28:52,039 --> 00:28:55,119 going like no, I don't want to go there. I'm going to Uber 405 00:28:55,119 --> 00:28:56,680 eats. No. She of course, if we're going out to dinner, 406 00:28:56,759 --> 00:29:02,799 she's so polite and you know what I mean, Like, yeah, Xander's 407 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,440 got this like show tomorrow night, and Elbie's like, oh, I'm gonna 408 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,960 come. I want to come and bring her boyfriend, and like, I 409 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:14,039 don't know, I expect certain things. But and I don't expect other things. 410 00:29:14,319 --> 00:29:19,559 But if my kids were being blatantly disrespectful to it, my fiance doesn't. 411 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:25,200 He's got to feel bad and embarrassed. He must be like embarrassed, 412 00:29:25,279 --> 00:29:27,279 like you know, so what is wrong with him? Is he just whipped 413 00:29:27,279 --> 00:29:30,920 by? Yeah? I think he doesn't know. I think he just doesn't 414 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,319 know how to handle him. Yeah, maybe that's why you got a divorce 415 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,119 to begin with. Maybe he was too, who knows, I don't know. 416 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,640 Maybe that's there's something there that's blended over into this new relationship. I 417 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:47,960 think it's a deal breaker though. Yeah. If they're living together and the 418 00:29:48,079 --> 00:29:53,400 kids are being so disrespectful to her, that's and and my fiance wasn't standing 419 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,960 up for me at all, Yeah, and just constantly making me. I 420 00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:02,079 don't know. Yeah, I wouldn't like it. I think they need therapy. 421 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,759 I think they should go to a therapist and try. Yeah, what 422 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:07,559 is everybody's And if the nineteen year old everybody thinks she needs to stand up 423 00:30:07,559 --> 00:30:12,759 for herself and be like absolutely not. Yeah, like this is disrespect this 424 00:30:12,839 --> 00:30:18,119 is disrespectful, right, and like say, when she didn't want to go 425 00:30:18,119 --> 00:30:23,119 on vacation, what did it say I forgot any No, no, wow, 426 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,599 that's a shame. Let me see if I can see any It keeps 427 00:30:27,599 --> 00:30:32,279 going back to like you know when you're on Facebook, and then you go 428 00:30:32,319 --> 00:30:36,240 into Oh, okay, I'll read you a couple of the comments so we 429 00:30:36,279 --> 00:30:42,400 can see. Um. Somebody said just my opinion. Okay, this person 430 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,599 says, I don't think you have a step kid problem. I think you 431 00:30:45,599 --> 00:30:48,400 have a husband problem. It sounds like every person or a fiance problem. 432 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:52,799 It sounds like every person in the family would benefit from dad's stepping up and 433 00:30:52,799 --> 00:30:57,440 setting boundaries. Couples counseling may help him and see the need and motivate him. 434 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,279 And then this person said, this is a dad problem for sure, 435 00:31:00,759 --> 00:31:04,200 Maybe you two should seek couples therapy. That may lead to him reeling in 436 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:08,200 the girls good luck. And then this says, just my opinion, couldn't 437 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,079 do it. I say that as someone who's never been divorced but has had 438 00:31:11,079 --> 00:31:17,000 two step moms and two step dads. And then somebody else wrote, hell, 439 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:22,680 nah, that's about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. If you 440 00:31:22,759 --> 00:31:25,759 and your husband are not on the same page, nothing will change. Also, 441 00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:29,160 a nineteen year old is not a kid, she's an adult and needs 442 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,640 to contribute like one, right right, yeah right, yeah yeah. He 443 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,480 needs to get those kids into ship, needs to whip them into shape. 444 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,640 I don't know, though, does anybody really going to change? Is he 445 00:31:40,759 --> 00:31:45,359 going to change? That's a thing. And Tara wrote dad problem, which 446 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:52,079 is going to be a finance Oh I think she meant finance problem. I 447 00:31:52,119 --> 00:31:56,759 think she meant a fiance problem and then a husband problem until he becomes your 448 00:31:56,759 --> 00:31:59,920 ex husband. A nineteen year old is not a kid and the fifteen year 449 00:31:59,920 --> 00:32:01,480 old is on her way to becoming the nineteen year old. Yes, I 450 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:06,960 think you guys need a lot of heart to heart and change before becoming legally 451 00:32:07,119 --> 00:32:09,079 part of their lives, all of them. The fact that you think it's 452 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:13,400 you that needs to reel it in is the first red flag. Reread what 453 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,279 you wrote. Do you really believe it's you that needs to reel it in? 454 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:20,440 Not all kids are like this, And unless you like to cause play 455 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,640 as Cinderella, you need to ask yourself if this is what you want in 456 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:28,640 life too? Freeloading step daughters with no responsibilities and poor attitudes. Don't you 457 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,240 think if you marry this man and life goes on this way? You'll resent 458 00:32:30,279 --> 00:32:35,319 the shit out of him. And is this behavior you want your son learning 459 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,880 as? Right? Right? You said it, Tara, thank you. 460 00:32:39,599 --> 00:32:45,400 Wow. What do you think Klin as a dad? I mean, yeah, 461 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:51,519 I don't know. Maybe he just, like you know, doesn't really 462 00:32:51,599 --> 00:32:53,920 understand how to talk to the daughters. You know, maybe he just has 463 00:32:54,039 --> 00:33:00,359 really poor communication and he'd rather just avoid it rather than doing it. But 464 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,839 obviously he has to do that. But yeah, I was trying to think 465 00:33:04,839 --> 00:33:07,720 of I don't know, maybe his my communication is so bad he just just 466 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:12,200 chooses not to do it. Yeah, yeah, doesn't want to deal with 467 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:15,279 it. Yeah, yeah, I mean there's a lot I see this, 468 00:33:15,359 --> 00:33:20,400 and I'm not disrespecting dads, but I've seen, you know, dads that 469 00:33:20,559 --> 00:33:23,559 just don't know how to especially with daughters, don't know how to communicate, 470 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:29,039 don't know, you know, how to Like, I'm guessing that there's a 471 00:33:29,079 --> 00:33:34,240 bunch of issues that's going to bleed into this new relationship from his other relationship. 472 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,599 And again, I know, sometimes people just are hard to change, 473 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:46,400 and maybe something fundamentally has to change and maybe her threatening I'm out or something, 474 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:52,240 or we go to therapy as a family something because otherwise it's just gonna 475 00:33:52,319 --> 00:33:55,400 keep it's gonna get worse, it's not gonna get better. He's not gonna 476 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:59,240 go all of a sudden go oh yep, all right, let's get to 477 00:33:59,279 --> 00:34:00,359 it. Let's start cry on the whip. You know, he's I think 478 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:07,079 he needs some help. And I do understand, Like if he's been through 479 00:34:07,079 --> 00:34:12,039 a divorce and he you know, his kids are nineteen and fifteen, it's 480 00:34:12,039 --> 00:34:15,679 a little late to sort of change the way your parent and suddenly become like 481 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:20,960 a cracking the whip. Yeah, but you can have boundaries where you can 482 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,119 be like, look, if you don't want to go on the vacation, 483 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,960 go stay with your mom, right, But if you're gonna go, you 484 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,719 need to have a good attitude about it, right absolutely. You know, 485 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:34,440 if we're going to go to this restaurant or whatever, like either you want 486 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,400 to go or stay home, right, but like you can't go and then 487 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,679 ruin it for everybody else, or like if you don't want to eat the 488 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,960 food, that's fine, go make yourself right something. Yeah, it's pretty 489 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,599 simple. You just gotta you know, he's got to do it. He's 490 00:34:46,639 --> 00:34:50,360 got to step up. I think it's too much for her to you know, 491 00:34:50,679 --> 00:34:53,199 it's not fair for her right to have to handle all that shit right 492 00:34:54,159 --> 00:34:58,599 now. On the other hand, if if if the kids don't want to 493 00:34:58,639 --> 00:35:01,800 eat what she's made, like I don't know that you can for you can 494 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:06,119 be like, well you're you can't. I don't know that you can suddenly 495 00:35:06,159 --> 00:35:07,480 be like I'm not a short order cook. If you don't want it, 496 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,920 then go to bed hungry. Like they're fifteen and nineteen, they're gonna be 497 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,840 like, go fuck yourself. Yeah, Like I'm gonna go in the frigerator 498 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:16,159 and make myself something. Well, there you go. They're gonna have to 499 00:35:16,199 --> 00:35:21,000 learn how to make themselves something, right, Yeah, microwave your own Dino 500 00:35:21,079 --> 00:35:25,000 nuggets? Yeah, right, right, that's what I would do. I 501 00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:28,840 mean he's got the energy to do that for her, then he's got, 502 00:35:29,039 --> 00:35:31,000 you know, the energy to turn it around a little like come on, 503 00:35:31,199 --> 00:35:36,559 yeah, I mean like when I make I make certain things that my kids 504 00:35:37,159 --> 00:35:39,320 I can't there. I don't think there's anything We've talked the shit out of 505 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:43,199 this, but I don't think there's anything that every person in my family is 506 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,519 right yay, we're having that. There's always one or two of them that 507 00:35:46,559 --> 00:35:51,880 are like, oh okay, yeah, I'll just make myself something. Don't 508 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,719 worry about me, and I have to like, I can't be like, 509 00:35:54,079 --> 00:35:55,960 well, I can't believe you don't like that, you know, I have 510 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,559 to just be like, okay, yeah, I like it. I made 511 00:35:59,559 --> 00:36:01,880 it, so find something. Italian has been getting better. She's been because 512 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,559 she likes to eat healthy. I just asked her, I said, I 513 00:36:05,559 --> 00:36:07,280 want to have cake for you, you know, before Sonny goes off to 514 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:10,559 Japan. And she's like, okay, but I don't really like cake. 515 00:36:10,599 --> 00:36:13,920 Can we get something else? Like okay, but whatever, you know, 516 00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:17,280 let's but she like if doesn't like what we're making. She she's been going 517 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:21,920 to the grocery store and like I've been telling asking her, what does she 518 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,760 want to make? She finds these recipes on Instagram. She's starting to make 519 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:29,599 it for herself. That's just great, Yeah, because she sometimes doesn't want 520 00:36:29,639 --> 00:36:34,639 to eat what we're eating or whatever. Right, right, do I need 521 00:36:34,679 --> 00:36:39,480 some more recipes? Let's take a let's take a break. Okay, we're 522 00:36:39,519 --> 00:36:45,400 back. But what are you making these days? Well? I want I 523 00:36:45,519 --> 00:36:51,360 made some chicken parmesan. Yes, I did old school Italian because I've been 524 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:57,440 following this TikTok Grandma non nona piaka no na pae nona pia something like that, 525 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,760 and she reminds me of my grandmother. And it's the cutest thing. 526 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,480 Where does Kaylin go? I think he, I don't know, to smoke. 527 00:37:04,079 --> 00:37:07,880 No, he doesn't smoke. He always a bathroom. Kaylin just walked 528 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:15,440 out, probably probably went to go pee. Yeah, okay, no na 529 00:37:15,519 --> 00:37:21,239 pia none yea and yeah, and it's her like son does. She does. 530 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,079 She makes meat balls and she inspires me and I show it to the 531 00:37:23,119 --> 00:37:25,960 kids. I'm like, you guys want some old school Italian like yeah, 532 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:30,440 okay. So they're starting to finally eat what I'm making now now that they've 533 00:37:30,679 --> 00:37:34,719 are older, and they got some say I mean, I asked them like, 534 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,440 I'm not gonna make this unless you're gonna eat it, right, you 535 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:38,960 know. And it's nice because there's times, you know, on the weekends 536 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,800 it's just the three of us and blah blah blah. I'm trying to have 537 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,320 like Sunday dinners every Sunday with them, and you know, it's been working 538 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:49,119 out. So the last time I cooked, she was out of town. 539 00:37:49,159 --> 00:37:52,960 But before she left, chicken parmesan, which is it was easy. It 540 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:57,559 was pretty good. Yeah, Like you got chicken breast and you beat the 541 00:37:57,639 --> 00:38:00,039 sheet them up, make them like really thick, and okay, then as 542 00:38:00,079 --> 00:38:06,800 you don't just get thin chicken breasts. Yeah, but yes, but I 543 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,119 want them really thin, so I make them as thin as possible. Sometimes 544 00:38:09,159 --> 00:38:13,800 there's a little like there's there thin, then there's one that's a little chunky 545 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:17,280 whatever, and then I take that. Yeah, I take the beat up 546 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:22,079 the eggsp it in the eggs, dip it in the bread, the breading, 547 00:38:22,519 --> 00:38:24,679 and then you just fry them, fry them up, and then you 548 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,920 just take the sauce, you pour it over, you put the mat on 549 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,400 the top, and then you bake it. You know, you bake it. 550 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:35,159 You bake it for a little bit, and then I make a little 551 00:38:35,199 --> 00:38:39,079 bit of linguini on the side, a little bit of a little and then 552 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,599 like I don't know, they want like a vegetable or something, but that 553 00:38:43,679 --> 00:38:50,199 goes by the wayside. I try. Oh my god, I totally relate 554 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,360 to that. Yeah, but my kids too are like, oh, should 555 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:59,719 we do like broccoli or I'm like, yeah, steam and then shrinks and 556 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,800 then that that great. Yeah, you eat it because it's heelsy. But 557 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,159 like, you know, what I do is I get, um, I 558 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,760 buy the bags of baby broccoli. Yeah, I get like two bags of 559 00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,760 that. I put it on a cookie sheet. I spray the cookie sheet. 560 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,480 I put on the cookie sheet, and I get some of that. 561 00:39:13,639 --> 00:39:16,159 Um. I put a little olive oil on it, and I take some 562 00:39:16,199 --> 00:39:20,639 of that, you know, like missus h. I can't remember what it's 563 00:39:20,639 --> 00:39:23,960 like a salt substitute, but it's but I don't I'll put a little salt 564 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,639 and pepper on there too, but some of this stuff that's like little flakes 565 00:39:27,679 --> 00:39:31,360 of seasoning that's sort of like citrusy. Yeah, and I put that on 566 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:35,119 it. I pop it in the oven for a while, like longer than 567 00:39:35,159 --> 00:39:37,519 you would think you need to cook it right until it's like crispy's kind of 568 00:39:37,599 --> 00:39:42,440 yeah, yeah, that's pretty good. That's good. Yeah. I love 569 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:46,440 that. There's always something though that like if I'm making say salmon, it's 570 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:51,639 like when the salmon's like okay, right, but then it's like baked potatoes 571 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,320 and broccoli, and it takes so long to cook everything, and then sometimes 572 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,159 I'll be like, oh, the salmon's like just okay, right, I 573 00:39:58,159 --> 00:40:00,360 don't know, I like I went through all the I'm not even that good, 574 00:40:00,559 --> 00:40:04,360 right. I do that too with salmon sometimes, like oh, salmon 575 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,360 sounds good, and then I make it. It's like, all right, 576 00:40:06,519 --> 00:40:12,119 salmon, right, it's all just boring salmon, right. But yeah, 577 00:40:12,159 --> 00:40:15,599 I you know. The nice thing is those sauces that we use, like 578 00:40:15,119 --> 00:40:21,480 those are great because they yeah, because then I just put the chicken and 579 00:40:21,519 --> 00:40:23,079 then just pour that in and you just bake it and then it's done and 580 00:40:23,079 --> 00:40:28,239 it's like and then sometimes I'll get like a side something from the deli, 581 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,880 like mashed potatoes, because I don't want to make mashed potatoes. But then 582 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:36,480 they're like, ooh, mashed potatoes. We're fancy, you know. So 583 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,239 so I think I told you one of the one of my gotos, which 584 00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,559 I haven't done in a little while, is I get the I get chicken 585 00:40:40,559 --> 00:40:45,119 tenders. Yeah, I'll take a recipe that I find and then I'll just 586 00:40:45,159 --> 00:40:47,440 try to make it easier for myself. Yeah, I'll do chicken tenders and 587 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:52,559 then I put I put them in, um, a little sour cream. 588 00:40:52,599 --> 00:40:54,920 I take eggs and I'll put a little sour cream in there, and then 589 00:40:54,960 --> 00:41:00,320 I put them in shaking bake oh you nice. And then I bake them 590 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,320 for thirty minutes and then yeah, I'll do that with baked potato or the 591 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:07,000 instant mashed potatoes yea, the garlic mashed potatoes and the broccoli, and then 592 00:41:07,039 --> 00:41:10,800 I'll have a couple of little different things to dip them, dip the chicken 593 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:16,440 into nice. So I'll do like barbecue sauce ranch and like I like it 594 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,440 in like spicy, like hot sauce, like wing sauce. Yeah, like 595 00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,639 a buffalo sauce. Yeah. But like, oh, that's a great recipe 596 00:41:23,199 --> 00:41:27,880 and it's really low it's like low fat. Yeah, what do you put 597 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:31,039 in? Sour cream? I just add a little sour cream to the eggs, 598 00:41:31,039 --> 00:41:35,199 so it's like eggs and sour cream mix and maybe a little bit of 599 00:41:35,199 --> 00:41:38,880 milk. Nice because you know, the original recipe of that calls for buttermilk. 600 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,039 But one time I didn't have any buttermilk, so I tried I had 601 00:41:43,079 --> 00:41:44,960 sour cream in the house. I was like, let me just try a 602 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,199 little sour cream in like a little bit of milk, and it was it 603 00:41:47,599 --> 00:41:52,039 sounds good. Yeah, it's really good. Yeah. So then it's like 604 00:41:52,119 --> 00:41:54,599 not fried, but it's still really juicy. Because it's just chicken tenders and 605 00:41:54,639 --> 00:41:59,519 it doesn't have to cook that long. Yeah. Wow Yeah. My other 606 00:42:00,159 --> 00:42:04,320 that everybody loves, do we take a break? Oh? Okay. The 607 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,719 other one that that they love, they both love is Lamb chops. Not 608 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:12,920 everybody else Lamb chops, but you like just all you do is the lemon 609 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,679 pepper. You just put it all on. It's like so then you bake 610 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:20,280 it really crispy and you're sucking on the bone with the lemon pepper and they 611 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:24,480 love it. Yeah. I don't really. I don't eat lamb work, 612 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:29,960 but I want to, like try to make more fish that's not salmon. 613 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:36,400 I always want to try brand Zeno. What's up? It's that like fish 614 00:42:36,519 --> 00:42:39,199 that you like people like? I just saw it on one of those TikTok 615 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:44,440 videos that I also follow, these other Italian guys, and they had Chaz 616 00:42:44,519 --> 00:42:47,599 Palm and Terry On and he has a restaurant in New York and he was 617 00:42:47,599 --> 00:42:51,960 talking about their brand Zeno, and I always hear it like an Italian movies, 618 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,519 they order Brent. I don't know, it's like a white fish or 619 00:42:53,559 --> 00:42:58,199 something. I don't even know what that sounds good. I like all kinds 620 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:01,840 of fish. Yeah, any fish, yeah, hmm. Maybe to make 621 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:07,159 halibit sometime halibit, or I could make some trout. I love trout there 622 00:43:07,199 --> 00:43:12,239 you go, But I'm so spoiled by eating trout at like nice restaurants where 623 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,880 they flank where they grill it, yeah, or on a plank right right. 624 00:43:16,639 --> 00:43:20,199 I don't know what they do, but when they come with it then 625 00:43:20,679 --> 00:43:23,440 and they chop it off the bone, yes, yeah, I love that. 626 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:27,800 Oh my god. Do you remember this restaurant in La called Jones It 627 00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,599 was like jones On, Yes, yes, oh my god. Years ago. 628 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:32,119 I used to go there all the time, you know who. I 629 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:37,679 used to go there with Tig Tigg and I used to go to Jones on 630 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:43,159 Third and we I ordered the trout every time, and I would swill Apple 631 00:43:43,199 --> 00:43:47,840 Martini's back when I was an alcoholic. Yeah, I love they have around 632 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:52,639 jones On. I think, yeah, yeah, it's like kind of dark 633 00:43:52,079 --> 00:43:55,079 and it was, um It's just a great place to like kind of drink 634 00:43:55,119 --> 00:44:00,679 and people watch and to go there sometimes after work sometimes. Yeah. Remember 635 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,920 the Mustache Cafe. It was across the street from the Improv. Really do 636 00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:08,760 you ever go there without him? No Mustache Cafe Mustache Cafe. It's probably 637 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:13,480 not there anymore. That was a good place, I bunch, do you 638 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:19,199 remember, yes, yes, yes, yeah, that was good right. 639 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:25,800 There was also uh what's his name on Melrose Frankie's on Melrose Italian restaurant, 640 00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,880 and he Frankie was like Jimmy's friend or something. He ended up catering our 641 00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:36,400 wedding. Oh, because I wanted traditional Italian like sausage and peppers and you 642 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,239 know all that. And yeah, he catered our wedding. It was so 643 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:42,679 good. I don't even know if he's still there, but that would be 644 00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,719 fun to go to sometime. Yeah. I like the old school Italian stuff. 645 00:44:46,079 --> 00:44:51,559 Yeah, I do too. I love like really good pizza, yes 646 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:57,519 too pasta. Like my one of my favorite foods is Linguidian clam sauce at 647 00:44:57,559 --> 00:45:00,760 home. That's your favorite too, Yes. When I first met Adam, 648 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:05,360 that's what he would make, Linguinian clams. Yeah. I know you can 649 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,880 do it, just to have John go get the clam sauce. I will 650 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:14,519 I make Linguini and clam sauce. But I like like Linguinian clams lams. 651 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:19,199 It seems hard to be afraid, right, yeah, Like if they don't 652 00:45:19,199 --> 00:45:22,000 open right now, you know, how do you do them? Like? 653 00:45:22,079 --> 00:45:25,679 Right? Put them in a steamer? They did, But then how do 654 00:45:25,679 --> 00:45:30,000 you make them taste good? Like with the like why wouldn't oi? Yeah 655 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:35,320 exactly how? I don't know. It seems like magic. Maybe there's a 656 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:40,639 recipe online. TikTok. Yeah, on TikTok. All right, well listen 657 00:45:42,159 --> 00:45:45,880 before we go, we should promote our show. Next week. We have 658 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:50,920 a special guest. Oh, Teresa Strasser coming in. Yes, yes, 659 00:45:51,039 --> 00:45:53,519 we love Teresa. Oh my god. Give a promoter book, a promoter 660 00:45:53,639 --> 00:46:00,239 book. The name of the book. It's called Making It Home. Okay, 661 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:04,719 so it's called Teresa is coming on and where she's promoting Making It Home, 662 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,679 her new book, Yeah, which is coming out very very soon. 663 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:10,679 I can't wait to read it. She's such a great writer. I told 664 00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:15,119 you I read it was beautiful. I cried several times. I can't say, 665 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:16,440 such a well written book. Yeah, she's gonna be so. She's 666 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:20,760 a great guest. And she has a Patreon. Oh she does, she 667 00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:22,320 does. She already told us she has a good Patreon for us. Oh, 668 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:27,079 oh, Patreon for us. Yeah. Oh I cannot wait. Yeah, 669 00:46:27,079 --> 00:46:30,519 it's gonna be fine. I know we're recording that on Saturday. So 670 00:46:30,559 --> 00:46:32,840 if you guys have any questions for her or whatever, yeah, write him 671 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:37,159 in yep um. And then just last, but not least, Adam Lerner. 672 00:46:37,199 --> 00:46:40,519 He's my friend who's a car broker. Trust him with my wife. 673 00:46:40,559 --> 00:46:45,920 He's gonna help me hook up Elbie with a car. He got us artigue 674 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:49,599 one and he can get anybody a car. And he was like, hey, 675 00:46:49,639 --> 00:46:52,119 I started shouting him out kind of for free because I wanted to spread 676 00:46:52,159 --> 00:46:55,880 the news, and he was like, hey, why don't we just My 677 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,440 guy that he works with was like, wants to pay for advertise, That's 678 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,480 great. I might use him too for Sonny Man. You really should. 679 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:08,719 He's he's this is the thing, Like he's so great. And one of 680 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,880 the things I told him, I go, the reason you're so good at 681 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:15,960 this is because he's always been a car guy, Like he's always loved to 682 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,519 just talk about cars for free, and he liked to help his friends, 683 00:47:17,559 --> 00:47:23,079 so U when he his business that he was working in just wasn't really handing 684 00:47:23,119 --> 00:47:27,760 out. So his wife, my really good friend, was like, why 685 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,599 don't you just do the cars for real? Like it's what you already love 686 00:47:30,639 --> 00:47:34,239 to do. So that's why he's so good at it, because he'll sit 687 00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,639 on the phone with you and just like talk to you about cars. Kaylin, 688 00:47:37,679 --> 00:47:38,760 you've called him, yeah, trying to help you. Yeah, I 689 00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:42,000 was. I was looking for a new car. I just had to kind 690 00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,320 of sort my taxes out before I could go and get it. But yeah, 691 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,400 I talked to him and he was helping me out. Yeah, he 692 00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,599 can help you out, Like you don't have to commit to getting having him 693 00:47:50,639 --> 00:47:53,159 get your car, but it doesn't cost you anything. So that's the beauty 694 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:57,440 and he can do it anywhere. I love that. Yeah. So if 695 00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,960 you're just if you're just like, hey, I'm thinking about a car, 696 00:48:00,039 --> 00:48:01,840 are but like, can you talk to me about it and like help me 697 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,880 figure out what to do? He can do He'll just talk to you to 698 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:09,599 Oh sorry, Yeah, here's his phone number three one zero nine nine eight 699 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:15,280 seven zero four eight. Awesome. Yeah, check him out. Yeah all 700 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:19,039 right, thanks Kalen, Thanks everybody. We love you. Guys. You're 701 00:48:19,079 --> 00:48:24,760 a parent now, don't if it up. Letting go