WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.520 --> 00:00:08.400 Sure woo. What's up, beautiful people. It is your baby mama, 2 00:00:08.480 --> 00:00:12.839 favorite baby Mama, Stormy P. And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip 3 00:00:12.960 --> 00:00:17.559 and Zip the modern day female perspective. Damn Son back at it again. 4 00:00:18.120 --> 00:00:21.559 And y'all, we are back at it again. But before we start everything, 5 00:00:21.679 --> 00:00:25.039 of course, I gotta let you know, Philly, I'm coming to 6 00:00:25.120 --> 00:00:29.679 you February seventies at World Cafe Live. And y'all, if you still haven't 7 00:00:29.719 --> 00:00:33.079 secured your tickets, what the fuck are your white egg? All right, 8 00:00:34.200 --> 00:00:37.399 it's gonna be so much fun. It's a live taping, So come dressed, 9 00:00:37.560 --> 00:00:40.159 come ready to have fun, and come ready to leave with some new 10 00:00:40.159 --> 00:00:43.000 cousins because once we've done, everybody family, all right, click the link 11 00:00:43.000 --> 00:00:45.799 of my bio and gets your tickets right now. Come be a part of 12 00:00:45.799 --> 00:00:49.320 the conversation. What are you waiting for? Because honestly we waiting for you. 13 00:00:49.399 --> 00:00:51.320 All right. You can click the link of my bio and get your 14 00:00:51.320 --> 00:00:54.320 tickets or go to www. Dot stormyp dot com. I can't wait to 15 00:00:54.320 --> 00:00:57.439 see you guys. There. Boom is that at the top. It was 16 00:00:57.840 --> 00:01:02.039 a style, Yeah, was a freestyle. Listen three times. I need 17 00:01:02.079 --> 00:01:03.200 to get on a big taker in the basement because the way she just be 18 00:01:03.239 --> 00:01:11.840 flowing off. All right, all right, okay, you know Dicky's from 19 00:01:11.159 --> 00:01:15.159 the Philly area. I don't think it's Philly. I think it's like ready, 20 00:01:15.400 --> 00:01:19.040 like Norsetown or something. But Dicky's from like Philly. Dicky, Yeah, 21 00:01:19.480 --> 00:01:22.640 what did you say? I said, Oh, no, not her 22 00:01:22.879 --> 00:01:30.159 anybody. Yeah, you're about to go to listen. Listen, Nikki is 23 00:01:30.200 --> 00:01:34.239 going through something. Nikki siting love and like your wasis because you know what's 24 00:01:34.319 --> 00:01:38.879 worse than like being in an argument with somebody, being in an argument with 25 00:01:38.920 --> 00:01:42.640 yourself. Okay, and right now, as when we are recording this, 26 00:01:42.760 --> 00:01:48.799 my girl is arguing with herself and she's going out sad. I said it 27 00:01:48.879 --> 00:01:53.000 on the internet prior to this. But if y'all if me, if y'all 28 00:01:53.040 --> 00:01:56.799 ever see me on the internet crashing out like Nicky is, and y'all don't 29 00:01:56.879 --> 00:01:59.439 check me, you were never my friend. That's all I want to say. 30 00:01:59.439 --> 00:02:00.480 That's all I'm a say about this. I'm not gonna say who's wrong, 31 00:02:00.519 --> 00:02:02.680 who's right, who got the best bars, X, Y and Z. 32 00:02:02.719 --> 00:02:07.319 I'm not saying none of that. All I'm saying is, baby, 33 00:02:07.680 --> 00:02:10.479 if you call yourself my friend, and you see me out here on ours 34 00:02:10.560 --> 00:02:15.960 internet acting like nickie baby. We was never friends and that's it and that's 35 00:02:16.000 --> 00:02:21.960 all. We was never friends. Okay, that's it, So make sure 36 00:02:22.000 --> 00:02:30.719 you said it in on Thursday, Say that with the Boys. Sitting with 37 00:02:30.759 --> 00:02:37.039 the Boys. So we started the show talking about Valentine's Day and how getting 38 00:02:37.039 --> 00:02:43.759 tickets of Chocolate Ship and said live is a great Valentine's steak idea. But 39 00:02:43.840 --> 00:02:47.199 this whole discourse made me want to share something very private with you guys. 40 00:02:47.879 --> 00:02:53.960 I went on Live this past week and discussed it there, and the response 41 00:02:54.080 --> 00:03:00.599 was so overwhelming I knew. I knew I had to come here and share 42 00:03:00.599 --> 00:03:04.280 it with you guys as well. And uh, you know, lately we've 43 00:03:04.319 --> 00:03:09.120 been having themes for all of our episodes, and the theme for today's show 44 00:03:10.759 --> 00:03:19.120 it's still single, okay, And hopefully by the end of the show you 45 00:03:19.159 --> 00:03:23.879 will understand that A. I am still single. B Why I am still 46 00:03:23.919 --> 00:03:29.719 single? And see why I don't mind flicking my bean till the cows come 47 00:03:29.759 --> 00:03:31.000 home because of the ship I got to put up with. Oh shit, 48 00:03:32.439 --> 00:03:38.319 oh you said, you said, flicking my beans till the cows come home. 49 00:03:38.479 --> 00:03:44.039 Okay, I'm making a sixteen bean soup. Okay, sixteen okay. 50 00:03:44.879 --> 00:03:50.759 So yeah, hopefully throughout the course of this things will become a little bit 51 00:03:50.759 --> 00:03:52.759 more clearer, because I know a lot of what I see on the internet 52 00:03:52.879 --> 00:03:55.240 is always okay. But you know, how can you still be single? 53 00:03:55.319 --> 00:03:59.400 You're funny, you down to earth, you know, you're cute, your 54 00:03:59.400 --> 00:04:01.719 body is like, how can you still be single? Babe? I'm about 55 00:04:01.719 --> 00:04:08.520 to explain it to you. He's about to find out, baby, You're 56 00:04:08.520 --> 00:04:14.680 about to find out. Okay. So we start our journey journey on Valentine's 57 00:04:14.800 --> 00:04:19.959 Day twenty twenty three. Okay, and this is probably one of the most 58 00:04:20.319 --> 00:04:27.120 traumatic experiences I've ever encountered. All Right, So last year for Valentine's Day, 59 00:04:27.199 --> 00:04:30.800 a man asked me to be his Valentine. Ain't November, I said, 60 00:04:30.839 --> 00:04:33.519 cool. Now, granted communication was a little bit spotty, but he 61 00:04:33.560 --> 00:04:39.519 pops back in week or two before, ready to bring it home, solidifying, 62 00:04:39.800 --> 00:04:43.199 Hey, we still got plans or what? Okay? Cool? Right, 63 00:04:43.839 --> 00:04:46.560 So he tells me to meet him in the city, not the one 64 00:04:46.560 --> 00:04:48.199 I live in, not the one he lives in, another one. Okay, 65 00:04:48.279 --> 00:04:53.759 cool, baby, things are happening this is going great, right, 66 00:04:54.399 --> 00:04:58.279 So we decided to go out to like, you know, selfie museum or 67 00:04:58.319 --> 00:05:00.759 something like that. And because neither one us live in this city, I 68 00:05:00.879 --> 00:05:04.920 send him a few restaurants because you know what, I'm a kind person. 69 00:05:05.199 --> 00:05:11.120 I am. I am so Valentine's Day twenty twenty three, a man invites 70 00:05:11.160 --> 00:05:14.920 me to a certain city and I pop up and I send him a list 71 00:05:14.959 --> 00:05:17.879 of restaurants for us to go to because I don't know what your bocket's like. 72 00:05:18.160 --> 00:05:24.720 Three different price ranges, all reasonable, right, So I send him 73 00:05:24.759 --> 00:05:30.079 these three different price restaurants and he chooses to take me to a restaurant outside 74 00:05:30.079 --> 00:05:32.319 of the list, and that costs more than the list. So we sit 75 00:05:32.360 --> 00:05:34.759 down and eat and he says, hey, what were you looking at? 76 00:05:34.959 --> 00:05:38.639 Did you see anything you like? And I say, yeah, you know, 77 00:05:38.639 --> 00:05:42.360 I was thinking about this appetizer, this entree, this strength. He 78 00:05:42.399 --> 00:05:45.480 says, okay, cool. The waitress comes over and says, hey, 79 00:05:45.839 --> 00:05:48.120 how can I How can I help you guys? You know, very courteous 80 00:05:48.560 --> 00:05:51.160 waitiress comes over and says, hey can I get you guys anything? What 81 00:05:51.199 --> 00:05:56.600 can I get you? He says, She's going to have this appetizer, 82 00:05:56.759 --> 00:06:04.959 this entree and this strength, and then we're going to share it. The 83 00:06:05.040 --> 00:06:09.759 waitress comes over and says, can I get you guys anything? What can 84 00:06:09.800 --> 00:06:14.240 I start you with? He says, She's gonna have this appetizer, this 85 00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:19.480 andre and this strict and then we're gonna share it. What you stop? 86 00:06:20.879 --> 00:06:27.480 This ship has to stop? What? What we're gonna share it? What? 87 00:06:29.199 --> 00:06:35.040 Valentine's Day twenty twenty three. I go to a restaurant. What what 88 00:06:35.639 --> 00:06:38.560 y'all? I know y'all trying to like, hold on, let me, 89 00:06:38.639 --> 00:06:40.879 let me scrow back, let me make sure, let me make sure, 90 00:06:40.959 --> 00:06:43.120 she said, But I think she's yes. Yes, I said it. 91 00:06:43.720 --> 00:06:46.399 I said it. You don't gotta rewind it. I said. That's what 92 00:06:46.480 --> 00:06:48.639 I said, he said, and we're gonna share it right now, black 93 00:06:48.680 --> 00:06:57.279 men. I want you all to know how much I love y'all. Okay. 94 00:06:59.120 --> 00:07:01.079 I want you all to know how much I love y'all. Okay. 95 00:07:02.120 --> 00:07:04.920 I want y'all to know how much I love y'all. Because when he said 96 00:07:04.920 --> 00:07:09.079 that dumb ass ship, I didn't play him. I didn't storm off the 97 00:07:09.079 --> 00:07:18.759 restaurant. You can't call him. I didn't say none of that. Okay. 98 00:07:18.879 --> 00:07:24.319 I didn't call you a brokie nothing okay when he said that, dumb 99 00:07:24.360 --> 00:07:27.279 ass ship the way you're said, yeah no, you can't do that. 100 00:07:30.680 --> 00:07:33.680 When he said that, the way you're said, yeah no, you can't 101 00:07:33.680 --> 00:07:38.839 do that. So black men, okay, I'm here for you, wait 102 00:07:40.519 --> 00:07:45.480 here for you because I didn't call you out, I didn't embarrass you. 103 00:07:45.600 --> 00:07:48.199 I didn't make the black hot no nothing. All my dumb ass did would 104 00:07:48.199 --> 00:07:51.120 say, oh, we can't do that. Okay, Well did you say 105 00:07:51.120 --> 00:08:05.600 anything else that You're like? Stupid y'all? Y'all ever like, no, 106 00:08:11.519 --> 00:08:16.160 y'all shy shot first the job I'm doing, shot back off the park, 107 00:08:16.199 --> 00:08:24.279 I see, how about on myself? I'm splendid yo, yo yo, 108 00:08:24.800 --> 00:08:31.360 I'm crying once again. I just would like to say, you know, 109 00:08:33.200 --> 00:08:37.440 y'all, ever look back at some of the stuff y'all do and say, 110 00:08:39.000 --> 00:08:41.480 and it's like, this ain't one of them situations where hindsight is twenty twenty. 111 00:08:41.840 --> 00:08:50.639 Hindsight is you was being dumb, like really really really right, So 112 00:08:50.759 --> 00:08:56.919 my man orders his food and I'm not gonna lie like. I didn't realize 113 00:08:56.919 --> 00:09:03.960 the severity of the situation until I got like back home and I started to 114 00:09:03.960 --> 00:09:07.519 replay it in my brain right, because I couldn't believe like, you know, 115 00:09:07.639 --> 00:09:13.600 like fight fright or freeze flight, fight or freeze. I think in 116 00:09:13.639 --> 00:09:20.159 that situation it was like fright flight or dumb because why would I ever say 117 00:09:20.759 --> 00:09:28.080 why, like make it make sense? So control like all of it, 118 00:09:28.159 --> 00:09:31.840 like all of it right. No, really, it was just like the 119 00:09:31.879 --> 00:09:37.200 low end sign just spinning, just spinning, just spinning. You know what's 120 00:09:37.240 --> 00:09:43.159 crazy, y'all. It's it seemed way worse now than it did then, 121 00:09:43.399 --> 00:09:46.440 but I think it was. I just was so traumatized. I couldn't do 122 00:09:46.480 --> 00:09:50.080 anything else about it, so I just made the best of a situation. 123 00:09:50.200 --> 00:09:52.320 I finished my food, and you know what, I just wanted to go 124 00:09:52.320 --> 00:09:54.320 back and talk about a few things. First, this wasn't one of those 125 00:09:54.440 --> 00:09:58.240 a la carte restaurants where you order a bunch of food and then everybody like 126 00:09:58.320 --> 00:10:01.159 digs in with their fork like, No, it was. It wasn't that. 127 00:10:01.799 --> 00:10:07.559 So Also, hindsight, I realized that man not once said what he 128 00:10:07.759 --> 00:10:11.159 liked, not once when we were discussing what we were going to order, 129 00:10:11.159 --> 00:10:13.120 that he said, Hey, you don't want to see that. I might 130 00:10:13.159 --> 00:10:16.399 get like you know this X Y and Z blah blah, blah. So 131 00:10:16.519 --> 00:10:20.480 what was the conversation as he was putting his fork in your mass tatoes? 132 00:10:22.799 --> 00:10:26.879 We did not share. And that's the problem. If y'all know me, 133 00:10:28.320 --> 00:10:31.559 and if y'all follow me on social media, y'all know I really like to 134 00:10:31.600 --> 00:10:33.559 eat. Like y'all be thinking i'd be in a gym every day because I 135 00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:37.240 like to know, baby, I like to eat, so in order for 136 00:10:37.279 --> 00:10:39.759 me not to look six months pregnant, I have to work out every day. 137 00:10:39.960 --> 00:10:43.799 But it's like knowing that I like to eat and knowing that you know 138 00:10:43.440 --> 00:10:48.799 I like to eat. How you just going off for the share, going 139 00:10:48.919 --> 00:10:52.919 for the share? No, he did end up ordering something. He did 140 00:10:52.000 --> 00:10:58.039 end up ordering something, but yeah, like and then and I don't like 141 00:10:58.080 --> 00:11:00.559 to share my oysters, Like come on, y'all, y'all already know, 142 00:11:01.159 --> 00:11:03.399 y'all know me, y'all know me, so y'all know how this went. 143 00:11:05.000 --> 00:11:09.120 But yeah, man, long story short, we're not up getting an argument 144 00:11:09.120 --> 00:11:13.759 that night, and he got and y'all got in an argument. Here's the 145 00:11:13.799 --> 00:11:18.240 thing. We ended up getting in an argument because he started the argument. 146 00:11:18.879 --> 00:11:22.480 Like, Wow, trying to share my food and then starting an argument is 147 00:11:22.679 --> 00:11:28.320 crazy, I say often, But that's kind of sassy like I never I 148 00:11:28.320 --> 00:11:31.559 don't like that, But that's when you gotta put it on the table behind 149 00:11:31.559 --> 00:11:37.919 shot that I will have to call that a And the argument was about he 150 00:11:39.000 --> 00:11:43.799 told me that he knows how women move when they really like him, and 151 00:11:43.840 --> 00:11:46.639 I'm just not moving like that. I'm not on his dick enough, basically. 152 00:11:48.799 --> 00:11:50.360 Now, now here's my only pushback. I want you all to listen 153 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:56.000 to this question right here, based on everything that I've told you so far, 154 00:11:56.600 --> 00:12:00.279 I want you all to physically describe what you think this may and look 155 00:12:00.360 --> 00:12:05.960 like. And he is he and he is, Yes, he is, 156 00:12:07.559 --> 00:12:09.600 Yes he is. And I don't even have to say it because you're already 157 00:12:09.639 --> 00:12:13.720 know I was out with Shamar Moore. Okay, you'll already know I was 158 00:12:13.759 --> 00:12:18.039 out with somebody who looks like Jalen Hurts. Okay, y'all already know I 159 00:12:18.159 --> 00:12:22.360 was out with somebody who was the same color as Burton Ernie. Okay. 160 00:12:22.559 --> 00:12:26.879 And here's my pushback. It be these ones who are so over the top 161 00:12:28.360 --> 00:12:31.080 that they give all the light skin men a bad name. And it's like, 162 00:12:31.200 --> 00:12:35.679 bruh, I know some solid ass light skin men out here, but 163 00:12:35.720 --> 00:12:39.320 then you got ones like this who are so toxic that they just polluted and 164 00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:43.799 make it the narrative for all the light skin men, light skin men. 165 00:12:43.840 --> 00:12:46.600 I love you. I know that the actions of this one individual does not 166 00:12:46.639 --> 00:12:50.799 represent all of you. Okay, I get that. I see that. 167 00:12:50.000 --> 00:12:58.559 I receive that, all right. First of all, it's Warmer's fu over 168 00:12:58.600 --> 00:13:05.000 here too. First of all, First of all, okay, my last 169 00:13:05.000 --> 00:13:07.399 boyfriend was very dark skin Okay, I don't even know you even did all 170 00:13:07.399 --> 00:13:11.399 that. Then, that's what I'm saying. I don't discriminate. Sound like 171 00:13:11.440 --> 00:13:15.320 it. I don't. First of all, I don't be on them like 172 00:13:15.360 --> 00:13:18.000 skin man. The light skin man be on me, real bad. The 173 00:13:18.080 --> 00:13:20.960 light skin man be on me. I don't be on them. You know 174 00:13:22.480 --> 00:13:30.559 you know what shot you met him at the show at City Winery, the 175 00:13:30.600 --> 00:13:33.600 one who came to the back after the show. There was a lot of 176 00:13:33.679 --> 00:13:39.080 niggas. This light skinned nigga won't up. I won't pick me up. 177 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:43.320 I want to pick you up. See no, no, no, no 178 00:13:43.320 --> 00:13:46.279 no. Remember remember one board me flowers and I thought it was the one. 179 00:13:46.840 --> 00:13:52.200 I thought it was baked for the day. No, yeah, not 180 00:13:52.200 --> 00:13:54.879 not him. The tall guy who came to the back afterwards. He was 181 00:13:54.879 --> 00:13:56.759 tall, he was like skinn he had green eyes, had the brown checking 182 00:13:56.799 --> 00:13:58.919 on. Yes, he picked yeah, yeah, yeah. He's the one 183 00:14:00.080 --> 00:14:01.919 picture up. After he took the picture I showed you all, he was 184 00:14:01.960 --> 00:14:05.960 like, hold on, bro, hold on, bro, And I remember 185 00:14:07.039 --> 00:14:07.960 and then I remember looked at the ball at the wall. I'm like, 186 00:14:09.360 --> 00:14:13.279 because I think somebody else did it, joking with you like one of your 187 00:14:13.279 --> 00:14:20.639 friends was after I remember that. Oh, I mean, but for the 188 00:14:20.639 --> 00:14:22.720 record, I don't want go on skam and they be on me. So 189 00:14:24.320 --> 00:14:28.840 nigga, I don't discriminate, ass, I don't discriminate. You know what's 190 00:14:28.879 --> 00:14:33.320 crazy. You are like the niggas who go after the bad bitches and they 191 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:35.399 get back if you broke. They ain't give you no pussy at the end 192 00:14:35.399 --> 00:14:37.080 of the day. I don't go after the light skin niggas. Light skin 193 00:14:37.159 --> 00:14:41.120 niggas, you know what's crazy. I will say, light skin niggas be 194 00:14:41.200 --> 00:14:45.159 ready to risk it off for me. I'm the same with Ratchets, so 195 00:14:45.279 --> 00:14:46.799 you get it. I can't get over I can't get on Ratchet Jones. 196 00:14:46.840 --> 00:14:52.559 But I have control. You should too. You don't because you I don't 197 00:14:52.600 --> 00:14:54.519 be. I don't have no stories like that. First of all, I 198 00:14:54.559 --> 00:14:56.960 got stories, but I ain't got in frequents like you do. First of 199 00:14:56.039 --> 00:15:01.240 all, I feel like you know you love you learn. Okay, if 200 00:15:01.320 --> 00:15:05.360 Stories was body how First of all, if Stories was body count, I 201 00:15:05.399 --> 00:15:09.879 would be a whore. But I often would have the top brothel in Las 202 00:15:09.000 --> 00:15:16.360 Vegas because it's so into turning. Yeah. Yeah, imagine if I put 203 00:15:16.440 --> 00:15:20.399 all these stories into like a series or a movie. Baby, come on, 204 00:15:20.720 --> 00:15:26.039 we would we would be like the hottest things in fucking power insecure, 205 00:15:26.240 --> 00:15:30.919 like not even crossing like racial lines, like we would be on some fucking 206 00:15:30.919 --> 00:15:35.600 grays anatomy ship. Everybody likes this. Come on, now, I just 207 00:15:35.600 --> 00:15:41.159 don't try to sell my ship, don't. I will sue you. First 208 00:15:41.159 --> 00:15:43.480 of all, don't try to sell my ship because all the stories I tell 209 00:15:43.720 --> 00:15:46.960 I can point to podcasts where I told them already. So let's try to 210 00:15:46.960 --> 00:15:54.639 sell my ship. All that aside, And I hate when y'all repose my 211 00:15:54.759 --> 00:15:58.080 videos on these androids and it's all blurry. I hate that, guys. 212 00:15:58.679 --> 00:16:02.440 I hate that. But going back to Valentine's Day, because Jah Nigga's been 213 00:16:02.440 --> 00:16:07.159 talking about me saying Valentine's but so the fuck what? Okay, I'm trying 214 00:16:07.279 --> 00:16:14.759 Valentine's Day, right. You know, I'm not usually one who glorifies things 215 00:16:14.759 --> 00:16:17.600 that I see on the internet, but I did see one thing I really 216 00:16:17.600 --> 00:16:22.000 wanted for Valentine's Day. So you know how they got the heart shaped candy. 217 00:16:22.360 --> 00:16:25.879 Like the candy comes in a heart shaped box. I want you to 218 00:16:25.960 --> 00:16:30.720 take the candy out and then put some chicken wings in there, just like 219 00:16:30.759 --> 00:16:34.240 this. That's what I want. That's what I want. I want. 220 00:16:34.720 --> 00:16:37.799 I want that, and then like you know, spice it up, maybe 221 00:16:37.799 --> 00:16:41.679 put some tacos in here. Right, I feel like, okay, hold 222 00:16:41.679 --> 00:16:42.960 on, but you didn't see it. You didn't see it. If I 223 00:16:44.000 --> 00:16:45.679 use this as a clip, I'm gonna insert it right here, right. 224 00:16:45.879 --> 00:16:49.360 But it's so cute, and it's something that I would like. I would 225 00:16:49.440 --> 00:16:55.919 love a heart shaped box full of wings or tacos, especially you know, 226 00:16:56.159 --> 00:16:57.320 you hand it to me maybe at the end of the night after I had 227 00:16:57.320 --> 00:17:00.399 a drink or two. So now I'm just like drunk eating chicken out that's 228 00:17:00.399 --> 00:17:04.880 heart shaped box. Like, baby, what this is romantic? Come on? 229 00:17:06.759 --> 00:17:10.039 Yeah? Let me let me just and add a little spice for you 230 00:17:10.039 --> 00:17:15.599 know, I'm a little dipping sauce come on, come on. Yeah, 231 00:17:15.720 --> 00:17:18.440 this is romantic, like, but I want to go back to my previous 232 00:17:18.440 --> 00:17:25.640 point. Yes, I don't necessarily need, you know, a bag or 233 00:17:25.640 --> 00:17:27.480 a tennis bracelet or something like that for Valentine's Like, give me something that 234 00:17:27.519 --> 00:17:32.519 I want, like chicken in a box art shaped box, Like, that's 235 00:17:32.519 --> 00:17:34.039 what I like. You know, I like to eat, you know, 236 00:17:34.160 --> 00:17:38.039 I like to eat while you playing like this. You know, my metabolism 237 00:17:38.160 --> 00:17:41.480 is high as fuck because I like to eat. I'm in the gym every 238 00:17:41.519 --> 00:17:44.480 day because I like to eat. Stop playing with me, stink. Come 239 00:17:44.519 --> 00:17:51.119 on, come on. I feel like when we talk about, you know, 240 00:17:51.359 --> 00:17:55.519 things to do after your Valentine Stay date, right, if the date 241 00:17:55.599 --> 00:17:57.440 is doing well, you know, hopefully you will want to chill and hang 242 00:17:57.480 --> 00:18:00.440 out. And you know, in the beginning of an episode, we were 243 00:18:00.440 --> 00:18:07.960 talking about still single. Another reason why add this to the list of stories. 244 00:18:07.240 --> 00:18:15.240 Okay, so the other day I was watching joy Ride spoiler alert. 245 00:18:15.599 --> 00:18:19.519 During one part of the movie, one of the ladies is smuggling drugs. 246 00:18:19.839 --> 00:18:25.440 She leaves one bag inside of her and it pops. So now she's in 247 00:18:25.559 --> 00:18:34.960 the gym working out on coke. Right, So, so as me and 248 00:18:36.039 --> 00:18:41.359 this man are watching the movie Oh man, this about to be a name. 249 00:18:44.559 --> 00:18:48.279 So as me and this guy are watching the movie, I'm like, 250 00:18:48.480 --> 00:18:52.200 wow, working out on coke is crazy. And he looks at me and 251 00:18:52.240 --> 00:18:56.680 says, oh, you ever did coke? And I go nah, just 252 00:18:56.759 --> 00:19:10.319 crack ah ah ah. And when we had these conversations up was there a 253 00:19:10.359 --> 00:19:15.880 next he asked? Why? He ain't say nothing, you know what's crazy? 254 00:19:15.759 --> 00:19:21.119 We we just laughed. He never asked why he we just laughed. 255 00:19:21.480 --> 00:19:23.319 But when we had these conversations like why are you still fucking single? And 256 00:19:23.400 --> 00:19:27.640 ship like that and shit like that, Because if he would have asked me, 257 00:19:27.680 --> 00:19:30.119 I would have been like, yo, you know I actually got laced 258 00:19:30.279 --> 00:19:34.720 X, Y and Z. But he didn't. We just laughed. It's 259 00:19:34.720 --> 00:19:41.440 like, oh man, I'm probably never gonna see this man again. But 260 00:19:41.519 --> 00:19:44.599 for the record, I just want to clear up. Yes, okay, 261 00:19:44.599 --> 00:19:47.920 So now I gotta tell sorry. He's happening right, And I feel like 262 00:19:47.920 --> 00:19:48.559 I've said it before, but if you didn't hear it, I'll tell you, 263 00:19:48.599 --> 00:19:52.480 like, am right. So I'm chilling with this guy and not just 264 00:19:52.839 --> 00:19:59.400 this guy the guy right like Grammy Award nominated guy like the guy right. 265 00:19:59.680 --> 00:20:02.519 We have been kicking it for a while, so much so that now we're 266 00:20:02.559 --> 00:20:06.440 comfortable bringing our friends around each other. So I bring some of my friends 267 00:20:06.480 --> 00:20:08.920 over. He got his friends. We all vibing, chilling, smoking, 268 00:20:10.039 --> 00:20:18.039 drinking, right, y'all out of nowhere, Like I just get high. 269 00:20:18.079 --> 00:20:22.279 And I don't mean like hi, I mean like hi, right, Like 270 00:20:22.480 --> 00:20:26.519 I'm hallucinating. I'm thinking niggas talking about me and that's not talking about me. 271 00:20:26.880 --> 00:20:30.319 I'm singing shit like it's going crazy, right, And I'm like, 272 00:20:30.480 --> 00:20:34.920 damn, I'm this is crazy. I felt better because one of his friends 273 00:20:34.920 --> 00:20:41.039 said, Yo, I'm high as shit, right, And he looks and 274 00:20:41.160 --> 00:20:48.839 he goes, it's cracking this, nigga. What everybody in the road is 275 00:20:48.920 --> 00:20:53.519 Like, what, nigga, what are you saying to us right now? 276 00:20:53.599 --> 00:20:59.039 Like? What can y'all be thinking that? The shit be sweet? Okay? 277 00:21:00.279 --> 00:21:03.000 Popular. I want to be in the rooms with people. Guess what 278 00:21:03.119 --> 00:21:07.000 they do. Cocing the rooms, they do, cracking the rooms. Okay, 279 00:21:07.079 --> 00:21:17.440 nobody tell me nothing. Ain't nobody tell me nothing? Wow? Wow? 280 00:21:17.759 --> 00:21:23.559 So yeah, you know I got least, but you know I left 281 00:21:23.720 --> 00:21:29.720 with my integrity and my booty hole intact. Oh so that's all that matters, 282 00:21:29.759 --> 00:21:33.839 all right, I did not hang with that man after that, you 283 00:21:33.839 --> 00:21:37.160 know, because I know the limits. I'm a pretty smart gal. Okay, 284 00:21:37.400 --> 00:21:40.480 I'm gonna pretend to be hipping down with everything. I'm not even gonna 285 00:21:40.480 --> 00:21:41.960 pretend I lied. I'm gonna say no. I'm gonna say no. I'm 286 00:21:41.960 --> 00:21:45.200 gonna tell if I have my own way, I'm gonna say no. One 287 00:21:45.240 --> 00:21:48.599 tell every time. But this time it wasn't thatad And yeah, you know, 288 00:21:51.160 --> 00:21:55.519 add another story to the brothel Horr bucket list. I was just thinking 289 00:21:55.519 --> 00:21:59.400 about them a little skits in my head. Crazy bruh if I made every 290 00:21:59.400 --> 00:22:03.480 one of my stories into a skit. Tyler Perry Bey on my line today 291 00:22:03.160 --> 00:22:06.799 today. Come on, Tyler, let's make it happen. What's up? 292 00:22:10.400 --> 00:22:18.279 So, once again, why I'm single? Here's another story go So y'all 293 00:22:18.279 --> 00:22:22.599 know, we have the show in Philly Valentine's Day February seventeenth, Valentine's Day 294 00:22:22.599 --> 00:22:27.400 weekend. So I'm trying to secure a venue for the after party. So 295 00:22:29.559 --> 00:22:30.880 I got connected through this guy I met while I was out one time. 296 00:22:30.920 --> 00:22:33.960 He was like, Yo, I think you should try this venue. You 297 00:22:33.079 --> 00:22:36.000 might like it. Blah blah blah blah. I'm like cool, let's set 298 00:22:36.039 --> 00:22:40.480 up a walk through. So I go to the walkthrough getting all information, 299 00:22:40.519 --> 00:22:42.079 blah blah blah blah blah. Goes, well, I see some things, 300 00:22:42.119 --> 00:22:45.160 I like, some things. I'm concerned about whatever. Now I'm walking back 301 00:22:45.160 --> 00:22:48.480 to my car. As a gentleman that he is, he says, don't 302 00:22:48.519 --> 00:22:52.799 worry about it, I'll walk you, okay. Cool. So we're going 303 00:22:52.839 --> 00:22:55.599 to my car. We say our goodbyes, and I get in the car 304 00:22:55.680 --> 00:23:00.559 and I go. He calls me like maybe ten minutes within me pulling off, 305 00:23:00.599 --> 00:23:03.920 and he like, yo, real fast, that thing was thanging today. 306 00:23:04.240 --> 00:23:10.640 I said, excuse me, excuse me, y'all. I got on 307 00:23:10.839 --> 00:23:15.480 like a fucking hoodie and some sweatpants. So I'm confused, and he's like, 308 00:23:15.559 --> 00:23:19.519 yo, like real shit, that thing was stanging today. I'm like, 309 00:23:19.640 --> 00:23:22.000 bro, what the fuck? And he's like, no, no, 310 00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:25.880 no, I'm gonna be real with you, right. I don't know you 311 00:23:25.960 --> 00:23:29.880 had it like that because like the first time I seen you, like you 312 00:23:29.960 --> 00:23:36.240 know, I know, I know, especially because like you you be walking 313 00:23:36.279 --> 00:23:48.480 like a dyke sometimes. Y'all. Yeah, yeah, y'all, y'all don't 314 00:23:48.599 --> 00:23:55.720 understand. I be so confused. I don't I don't I don't be swollen 315 00:23:55.720 --> 00:23:59.799 when I be walking. I just be walking. Shot is asshole because y'all 316 00:23:59.799 --> 00:24:02.880 can't see him, but he walking like fucking Deebo with his chest and his 317 00:24:03.039 --> 00:24:11.039 arms out and Ship, he's an asshole. He's no. No. I 318 00:24:11.079 --> 00:24:14.200 was telling Shot about this story before we started recording. He was like, 319 00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:15.759 yeah, you do that, ship't hear that time? Go ahead, Shot? 320 00:24:15.880 --> 00:24:19.640 Tell him when you had to had to go to the car. Yeah, 321 00:24:19.880 --> 00:24:23.920 that each got to go to the car. Just bumped me out the 322 00:24:23.920 --> 00:24:29.079 way and brought that Oh my god, what's up? The dog? Like? 323 00:24:29.160 --> 00:24:33.480 I did not stood the door like my dog like. First, first 324 00:24:33.519 --> 00:24:36.160 of all, all attentive. I had to back off like they can fall 325 00:24:36.200 --> 00:24:38.960 back. First of all, you had stuff you had to do in here, 326 00:24:40.000 --> 00:24:42.359 were like, I got enough tests for all of us. You can 327 00:24:42.400 --> 00:24:47.079 sit your ass down. That was crazy. I did not. I did 328 00:24:47.079 --> 00:24:53.920 not shine is gassing shadow scared? Oh my god, the whole My dog 329 00:24:55.039 --> 00:25:00.720 just betrayed? Where from bro? I don't be walking like a dyke. 330 00:25:02.279 --> 00:25:04.720 I don't be walking like a dyke. Sometimes I just walk with confidence. 331 00:25:04.920 --> 00:25:11.000 Okay. Sometimes it causes my chest to widen and my arms to extend. 332 00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:14.880 Okay, it don't and it don't. I said that for y'all. I 333 00:25:14.920 --> 00:25:18.079 don't be walking like that. I'm a lady. I'm so soft. I'm 334 00:25:18.119 --> 00:25:22.240 so soft. I'm soft like old girl Eddie. Am I your baby? 335 00:25:22.440 --> 00:25:26.440 I'm saf I'm soft like that. I'm soft like that. I am shy. 336 00:25:26.519 --> 00:25:33.519 Fuck you. So uh, somebody just called me a wicked witch or 337 00:25:33.519 --> 00:25:37.839 instrument. I have posted that video where I said you and his DMS, 338 00:25:37.880 --> 00:25:44.160 I'm in his spaghetti, and somebody called me awake. You don't know about 339 00:25:44.160 --> 00:25:48.359 the spaghetti. You don't know about the spaghetti. Jolly lollypop an't teach you 340 00:25:48.359 --> 00:25:52.079 about the spaghetti. Okay. So, especially if you're from the South, 341 00:25:52.119 --> 00:25:57.559 you probably already know about spaghetti. Okay, so you know, like whodoo 342 00:25:59.000 --> 00:26:02.559 or like putting the root on some So back in the day, ladies will 343 00:26:02.559 --> 00:26:06.400 put their menstrul blood and it's spaghetti as a way to keep the man. 344 00:26:07.559 --> 00:26:10.160 Come on, bro, I ain't think you was taking it like that. 345 00:26:10.640 --> 00:26:14.960 I what what I said. You know, stop trying to figure out why 346 00:26:14.960 --> 00:26:17.839 you can't get rid of me, you min nails thinks it's crazy. So 347 00:26:17.920 --> 00:26:22.039 he caught me a wicked witch. You and spaghetti? Yeah, you never 348 00:26:22.079 --> 00:26:26.759 heard of that before. Have you heard of like any who do? No, 349 00:26:26.799 --> 00:26:29.400 I know what you're talking about. I'm just saying, like I didn't 350 00:26:29.400 --> 00:26:32.440 even think you're gonna go like that. Yeah, like men like if you 351 00:26:32.480 --> 00:26:33.920 go to the post, you'll see like all the men like, Yo, 352 00:26:33.000 --> 00:26:36.319 that's why I don't eat spaghetti unless I cook it. That's why I don't 353 00:26:36.319 --> 00:26:38.880 eat any bread sauce items from any women. Like it's really a thing like 354 00:26:38.960 --> 00:26:45.559 men in the South would rather starve than fucking eat your red sauce. Like, 355 00:26:45.640 --> 00:26:51.839 yes, that's the thing. Somebody else going to say. It's not 356 00:26:51.920 --> 00:26:53.440 like got gonna comment. It's all fun and games. So it's my turn 357 00:26:53.480 --> 00:26:59.759 to make out Freido. I say, Yo, licks fingers passionately. I 358 00:26:59.759 --> 00:27:04.880 don't can't. Baby, you want some cinnamon show with the cream? Put 359 00:27:04.920 --> 00:27:08.640 that special cream on it. Baby. You guys are going to hell. 360 00:27:08.680 --> 00:27:22.119 We're all going to save your ah. Wow, still single, So y'all 361 00:27:22.160 --> 00:27:23.359 be thinking i'd really be about the toxic ship. But if I was, 362 00:27:23.400 --> 00:27:30.200 I wouldn't still be single. That's like the last thing, like the last 363 00:27:30.240 --> 00:27:33.559 thing that I thought. But did you think I don't know. I just 364 00:27:33.599 --> 00:27:37.000 didn't think it was that Like my mind don't be going right. They're like, 365 00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:41.880 oh man, you gotta broaden your toxicity. Remember who who the post 366 00:27:41.920 --> 00:27:47.799 three is? I remember? Yeah, so real fast. I'm just gonna 367 00:27:47.839 --> 00:27:51.799 say this before I go. Y'all men like to call me toxic, but 368 00:27:51.960 --> 00:27:56.200 y'all are really toxic. Okay. As soon as I started posting that toxic 369 00:27:56.200 --> 00:28:02.000 ship again, y'all been on my fucking ballack. Okay, all my bass 370 00:28:02.079 --> 00:28:03.839 back, all my ball sack. All the niggas is trying to spend the 371 00:28:03.920 --> 00:28:07.880 black, All the niggas trying to how they weigh in in some draws. 372 00:28:07.000 --> 00:28:10.960 Y'all are really crazy. I don't feel bad for y'all when y'all run into 373 00:28:11.000 --> 00:28:12.960 these toxic women, because I'm learning that you'll be seeking them out. So 374 00:28:14.119 --> 00:28:17.480 yeah, I just want to say that before we keep going. Thank you. 375 00:28:18.400 --> 00:28:22.279 Every man likes toxicity though that's toxic in itself, but it doesn't matter, 376 00:28:22.440 --> 00:28:25.680 just like you know, like you know how I be hating when people 377 00:28:25.680 --> 00:28:29.359 say every man a cheater because I think that's like false. But every man. 378 00:28:29.960 --> 00:28:32.599 That's why I like that whole term of lady in streets and the freaking 379 00:28:32.720 --> 00:28:37.240 sheets. There's a level of like I think every man like kind of likes 380 00:28:38.160 --> 00:28:41.519 on no love. I don't think it's like something crazy. We you're gonna 381 00:28:41.519 --> 00:28:47.400 get all your money taking in a wheelchair like but just like you know, 382 00:28:48.359 --> 00:28:52.839 okay, I'm learning, I'm learning. I'm learning. Or if you know 383 00:28:52.960 --> 00:28:56.240 some of y'all, some of you girls are would'all say, I don't want 384 00:28:56.240 --> 00:28:59.400 to be haggerling no more so you know that ship rubs off when you have 385 00:28:59.480 --> 00:29:02.079 to do it for I don't want to stay like that for a minute. 386 00:29:02.359 --> 00:29:06.480 I just want to say a lot of these women aren't toxic. Sometimes you 387 00:29:06.559 --> 00:29:11.240 make them toxic. Okay, so we're gonna break down what you said. 388 00:29:11.279 --> 00:29:17.240 So you said some women aren't toxic because you made them toxic. No, 389 00:29:17.480 --> 00:29:22.400 no, no, it's like technically, I'm not a paraplegic until I get 390 00:29:22.400 --> 00:29:25.519 in a wheelchair. So if you put me in a wheelchair now a pair 391 00:29:25.559 --> 00:29:29.599 ofplegic, it's your fault. It's your false thing. Okay, I understand, 392 00:29:29.680 --> 00:29:32.160 but yep, so, but if you're a paratrolegic, I still have 393 00:29:32.240 --> 00:29:34.799 to treat you like you're a paraplegic though, right once I become a paraplegic, 394 00:29:36.160 --> 00:29:37.720 once you become toxic, I have to treat you like you when I 395 00:29:37.720 --> 00:29:41.799 get there. But if I'm not, deer, don't if I'm not there, 396 00:29:44.839 --> 00:29:49.400 you smell like it, like you toast like it. I'm no to 397 00:29:51.160 --> 00:29:56.880 you know, we stop to report you to the men's ministry because this is 398 00:29:56.880 --> 00:29:59.839 not how ministry at church, This is not how you treat a fellow. 399 00:29:59.839 --> 00:30:02.880 So staring Christ. Okay, so I'm reporting you, Deacon, will be 400 00:30:02.880 --> 00:30:04.440 giving you a call before the night. It's over, my dog, no 401 00:30:04.480 --> 00:30:12.000 more, get taken it too far? Happy with late birthdays to my baby 402 00:30:12.000 --> 00:30:18.880 seven? He four? Now that's it. So Yeah, when I was 403 00:30:18.920 --> 00:30:22.720 going through this journey of why I'm still single, I realized a lot of 404 00:30:22.720 --> 00:30:26.400 it has to do with my thought process, the way I think, the 405 00:30:26.400 --> 00:30:32.200 things I believe in, and the things that I've put together in my head 406 00:30:32.920 --> 00:30:36.440 that a lot of people haven't. And I say a lot of people because 407 00:30:36.480 --> 00:30:40.039 I don't mean men, I don't mean women. A lot of people haven't 408 00:30:40.079 --> 00:30:44.799 put this shit together yet. So the first thing I want to discuss as 409 00:30:45.440 --> 00:30:55.920 things we haven't put together yet men in particular, men y'all don't like y'all 410 00:30:56.319 --> 00:31:00.039 friends. Well, I'll take that back. Men y'all don't like girls hanging 411 00:31:00.079 --> 00:31:04.759 out with the whole friend. Right, but you expect your girl to be 412 00:31:04.880 --> 00:31:10.720 cool with you hanging out with cheating Ash Jamal. Now, make it make 413 00:31:10.839 --> 00:31:15.240 sense. I need y'all to break this down for me one more time, 414 00:31:15.720 --> 00:31:21.640 one more time. Why is it that y'all don't like your girl and hanging 415 00:31:21.680 --> 00:31:23.920 out with the whole friend, but you expect her to be cool with you 416 00:31:25.000 --> 00:31:30.039 hanging out with cheating Ash Jamal. I'm confused. Make it make sense. 417 00:31:30.319 --> 00:31:32.720 Things are adding up here. Okay, let's take it back. You got 418 00:31:32.720 --> 00:31:34.160 me in trigonometry right now. I need to be in algebra one. Take 419 00:31:34.200 --> 00:31:37.519 me back, Take me back. Okay, I don't understand. I miss 420 00:31:37.599 --> 00:31:41.720 some steps, right. I know it's all a O into double stand into 421 00:31:41.720 --> 00:31:45.519 double stair. I don't think this should be a double standard. You don't 422 00:31:45.559 --> 00:31:49.559 want her hanging out with Keisha because Gisha get a little drunk, like to 423 00:31:49.599 --> 00:31:53.400 shake ass with no panties on. Right, but you expect her to be 424 00:31:53.519 --> 00:31:56.880 cool with you hanging out with Jamal. Every time Jamal come over, I 425 00:31:56.920 --> 00:32:00.200 hear him telling you another story about him cheating on his wife, chating on 426 00:32:00.240 --> 00:32:05.039 his girlfriend, chanting on his pregnant baby mine. I forgot the face that's 427 00:32:05.039 --> 00:32:10.599 between Keisha's cheeks. Okay, the new face every day as you guys remind 428 00:32:10.680 --> 00:32:15.920 Keisha of mister Charles sitting at home who paid Florida's glorious adventure that you guys 429 00:32:16.000 --> 00:32:20.920 rolled right now. But I digress. Go ahead, go off. What 430 00:32:21.160 --> 00:32:23.759 that got to do with Jamal cheating ass and them? I just want to, 431 00:32:23.839 --> 00:32:29.119 you know, tell the whole story. That's all I know. I 432 00:32:29.200 --> 00:32:31.400 know, I know that there is a double standard, y'all. But this 433 00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:36.279 is what I don't really understand. It doesn't make sense to me, because 434 00:32:36.720 --> 00:32:42.000 who's to say cheating? Ain't Jamal cheating? Ask Jamal ain't gonna trick you 435 00:32:42.039 --> 00:32:44.759 into doing some cheating ass shit. Now. I know you're gonna turn right 436 00:32:44.799 --> 00:32:46.440 back in me and say, well, who's to say, who asked? 437 00:32:46.480 --> 00:32:50.160 Kesha? Ain't gonna turn you into doing some whole ash. I ain't know 438 00:32:50.200 --> 00:32:53.160 who I'm not. She can't. She can't trick me into doing anything that 439 00:32:53.200 --> 00:32:58.960 I don't want to do. However, Jamal can put you in a position 440 00:32:59.200 --> 00:33:02.279 where can look like you doing some shit you ain't supposed to do. I'm 441 00:33:02.319 --> 00:33:05.720 just getting in a room for the jail and hurt this nigga. You get 442 00:33:05.720 --> 00:33:08.240 in somehow. First of all, Jen hurts is different. You can't use 443 00:33:08.240 --> 00:33:12.759 some but you gotta use somebody else. Wow, everybody sash. Everybody love 444 00:33:12.839 --> 00:33:19.880 Keisha? Stop it, y'all don't like Jisha. Who don't like Keisha. 445 00:33:20.599 --> 00:33:25.599 My whole thing is if you gotta go to the champagne room to give Jamal 446 00:33:25.839 --> 00:33:30.799 some extra funds because he ran out of cash. Now, my next door 447 00:33:30.839 --> 00:33:32.359 neighbor is just seeing you coming out to champagne room. It don't matter. 448 00:33:32.400 --> 00:33:36.519 You ain't do nothing in there. Hey don't know you went to give Jamal 449 00:33:36.559 --> 00:33:40.400 some extra cash. But that's different, right, That's different. Right now, 450 00:33:40.440 --> 00:33:44.119 what I'm supposed to think when my next door neighbor come to me as 451 00:33:44.160 --> 00:33:50.799 a man, say, Yo, I seen your nigga coming out the champagne 452 00:33:50.880 --> 00:33:53.799 room. I go to the club and they run receipts. I seen you 453 00:33:53.920 --> 00:33:58.680 coming out to champagne room. So like, Yo, why is it okay 454 00:33:58.839 --> 00:34:02.960 to hang out? But she nest Jamal, but not whole Ashkisha, tell 455 00:34:04.000 --> 00:34:07.599 me, tell me they both can get you stuck up. Honestly, honestly, 456 00:34:08.239 --> 00:34:13.280 let's make a men's stink. Let's make a men's stink like what we're 457 00:34:13.320 --> 00:34:15.079 doing. If you hanging out with Jamal. I'm hanging out with Keisha. 458 00:34:15.199 --> 00:34:19.960 But for the record, if you got a strong girl, she probably ain't 459 00:34:19.960 --> 00:34:22.280 gonna want to be around too many Keisha's anyway. Like, yeah, that's 460 00:34:22.360 --> 00:34:25.079 just a little bit too much. You can do whatever you want to do. 461 00:34:25.400 --> 00:34:28.719 I just don't like the attention that you're doing. That shit brings to 462 00:34:28.760 --> 00:34:34.320 me. So but niggas, y'all be like mamboos and stud a greedy'll got 463 00:34:34.320 --> 00:34:37.920 to so y'all gonna hang out with meat Estramal anyway, And what's the first 464 00:34:37.920 --> 00:34:39.519 thing with some me? Oh but you know he not happy at home and 465 00:34:39.599 --> 00:34:43.360 his wife doing it. I don't give fuck. I don't give. I 466 00:34:43.360 --> 00:34:45.519 don't care about none of that. I don't care about none of that. 467 00:34:45.119 --> 00:34:51.239 We're talking about the facts, Okay, the facts. Okay, that's ain't 468 00:34:51.280 --> 00:34:55.800 that's all now. On the flip side of this, right, y'all know, 469 00:34:55.800 --> 00:35:00.400 I'd like to be fair devil's advocate, if you will. Okay, 470 00:35:00.119 --> 00:35:05.599 on the flip side of this, And a lot of y'allre not gonna like 471 00:35:05.639 --> 00:35:07.639 what I'm about to say. A lot of y'all not gonna I'm about to 472 00:35:07.639 --> 00:35:12.159 say, but we should receive it. With fluff, because I'm giving it 473 00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:19.039 to you with fluff. Right. A lot of y'all don't like your spouse's 474 00:35:19.159 --> 00:35:22.559 whole ass friend. That's a fact. That's a fact. A lot of 475 00:35:22.599 --> 00:35:28.519 y'all don't like your spouse whole ass friend. Whole time your spouse is the 476 00:35:28.519 --> 00:35:34.719 hoe. Okay, whole time your spouse is the hoe. I mean, 477 00:35:34.760 --> 00:35:37.760 come on, come on, come on, Like you don't even realize you 478 00:35:37.880 --> 00:35:44.599 beefing with the scapegoat the alibi the ride home, whole time, the killer 479 00:35:44.679 --> 00:35:49.960 is in the house. Okay, I'm that guy. I'm not the killer. 480 00:35:49.960 --> 00:35:52.519 I'm the guy that you think I'm calling the crossfire? Like shah, 481 00:35:52.639 --> 00:35:55.679 what were y'all doing? Like why are you asking me? Yes? Yes, 482 00:35:55.800 --> 00:36:01.320 Like you don't like cheating, asked Jamaal, knowing your man is the 483 00:36:01.440 --> 00:36:05.880 chader. Jamal just got stuck because your man holding the keys. I was 484 00:36:05.960 --> 00:36:10.719 just holding the camera. Brah brah. Whole time you think Jamal calling him 485 00:36:10.760 --> 00:36:14.639 at late night to go out and run a train on some bitches. Whole 486 00:36:14.639 --> 00:36:15.960 time, he's just trying to make sure your nigga got home safe because he 487 00:36:16.000 --> 00:36:22.599 was wilding that night. Like what what you don't like? Keisha? Because 488 00:36:22.639 --> 00:36:24.400 she likes to shake her ass, and you've seen her shake her ass once 489 00:36:24.480 --> 00:36:28.880 or twice whole time. You don't even know that your girl is the one 490 00:36:28.920 --> 00:36:30.960 who likes to go to the secondary location with the niggas who buy her drinks. 491 00:36:30.960 --> 00:36:35.719 Come on, come on, make it make sense now. I'm not 492 00:36:35.760 --> 00:36:38.639 saying this is everybody's store fucking start, okay, But what I am saying 493 00:36:38.880 --> 00:36:46.960 is that sometimes the killer is in the house, okay, Like yes, 494 00:36:47.639 --> 00:36:52.000 and and I know it's easier to say my partner would never do something like 495 00:36:52.039 --> 00:36:57.440 that. I know my partner. I know my partner. Do you are 496 00:36:57.440 --> 00:37:01.280 you sure about that? You're sure around that? Like, because when you 497 00:37:01.360 --> 00:37:07.159 go back and you start to add shit up, is it really Jamal? 498 00:37:07.239 --> 00:37:12.159 Is it really Keisha? Like come on, let's be serious. And I 499 00:37:12.159 --> 00:37:15.800 know nobody likes to think about like that. Like it's easier just to blame 500 00:37:15.519 --> 00:37:21.840 Jamal Lakeisha because your spouse said they was waiting for Kisha. Your spouse said 501 00:37:22.039 --> 00:37:25.360 they was waiting for Jamal, no baby, Jamal Keisha, and the club 502 00:37:25.400 --> 00:37:31.840 owners was waiting for your spouse, because that's exactly exactly. So yeah, 503 00:37:31.840 --> 00:37:38.559 I'm just saying, watch yourself, watch yourself, and watch yourself because it 504 00:37:38.639 --> 00:37:42.679 ain't everything they're telling you. It ain't everything that you think it is. 505 00:37:42.840 --> 00:37:45.639 Like h, And you know what's crazy. I know each and every one 506 00:37:45.679 --> 00:37:51.119 of us has been in a situation where one of your friends partner don't like 507 00:37:51.159 --> 00:37:54.159 you. And that's crazy. Like one of your friends partners may not like 508 00:37:54.280 --> 00:37:58.920 you because your friend told a lot to save their ass. That ain't got 509 00:37:58.920 --> 00:38:02.119 nothing to do with me. I'm a Christian, I love the Lord, 510 00:38:04.480 --> 00:38:07.880 bruh. Like I wanted to leave because I had church in the morning, 511 00:38:07.840 --> 00:38:12.480 they wanted to stay out. I'm in trouble already. I had to leave 512 00:38:12.519 --> 00:38:14.920 praise and worship service in the morning, Like I didn't even want to stay 513 00:38:14.960 --> 00:38:16.960 out, Like this is crazy. This is exactly why I drive, bruh. 514 00:38:17.039 --> 00:38:20.960 Why I never not take my car bruh. And that's another reason why 515 00:38:20.960 --> 00:38:23.840 I drive is sickcause niggas won't not to drive it. Mmm. Now that 516 00:38:23.920 --> 00:38:27.760 right there, that's smart. That's smart. That's smart. That's smart. 517 00:38:27.960 --> 00:38:30.159 But yeah, man, just just pay attention to the science and make sure 518 00:38:30.440 --> 00:38:34.639 you beefing with the right person. That's all I'm gonna say. Oh right, 519 00:38:34.679 --> 00:38:37.400 guys, So now it's time to get into the edible portion of the 520 00:38:37.400 --> 00:38:40.880 show. So the edible portion is where we read comments, questions, stories, 521 00:38:40.960 --> 00:38:45.280 concerns that you guys write in on the day that we record, we 522 00:38:45.400 --> 00:38:49.199 usually put in a prompt and uh, if what you have to say is 523 00:38:49.239 --> 00:38:52.159 too long to fit in the prompt, or if you have something to share 524 00:38:52.239 --> 00:38:54.280 that's not on a day that we put the prompt up, you can always 525 00:38:54.400 --> 00:39:02.320 email me at inquiries at stormyp ea dot. All right, so I got 526 00:39:02.320 --> 00:39:07.880 some good ones today And the reason why I say they are good ones is 527 00:39:07.920 --> 00:39:14.840 because I like when we have conversations that I just don't get why the fuck 528 00:39:14.920 --> 00:39:19.920 y'all feel the way y'all feel about stuff? Like certain things are lost on 529 00:39:20.039 --> 00:39:25.360 me. And this first question really embodies that. So it says, do 530 00:39:25.400 --> 00:39:30.199 you trust a potential partner if they are still friends with an ex they don't 531 00:39:30.239 --> 00:39:34.920 have kids with? And I'm gonna read that again once again. It says, 532 00:39:35.840 --> 00:39:38.280 do you trust a potential partner if they are still friends with an ex 533 00:39:38.320 --> 00:39:44.800 they don't have kids with? Maybe I don't give a fuck, I don't 534 00:39:44.800 --> 00:39:46.840 care. I don't care. I don't care, I don't care. You 535 00:39:46.880 --> 00:39:52.199 know what's really crazy to me, y'all really be expecting to walk into people 536 00:39:52.320 --> 00:39:59.119 lives and expect them to delete every connection, friendship, relationship that they had 537 00:39:59.159 --> 00:40:02.320 before you. Baby, what you don't know what them and that person went 538 00:40:02.360 --> 00:40:08.000 through. You don't know that person could help them through eviction, funeral, 539 00:40:09.599 --> 00:40:15.800 miscarriage, anything like what the who do you think you are? Like? 540 00:40:15.920 --> 00:40:20.480 What you expect to come into my life and for me to erase all the 541 00:40:20.519 --> 00:40:24.239 relationships, connections, friendships I had before I met you? What it's like? 542 00:40:24.599 --> 00:40:30.000 And we have to remember not every person you meet is going to be 543 00:40:30.039 --> 00:40:32.199 your soulmate. I might have to bump a billy or two with you to 544 00:40:32.239 --> 00:40:36.840 realize you ain't the nigga for me. You ain't the main bag dog. 545 00:40:36.960 --> 00:40:39.360 Okay, we might have to go through certain things for me to pay attention 546 00:40:39.400 --> 00:40:43.400 to realize, Yo, our values don't align. The way we clean our 547 00:40:43.440 --> 00:40:46.000 houses, don't align. The way you treat your mama don't align. Like 548 00:40:46.159 --> 00:40:50.199 everybody that you meet isn't going to be the person for you. However, 549 00:40:51.239 --> 00:40:54.039 you might put me on some bomb ass restaurants. However, you might put 550 00:40:54.039 --> 00:40:58.880 me in a bomb ass financial position. However, you might be a bomb 551 00:40:58.960 --> 00:41:02.920 ass business partner. So it's like I don't expect whoever I'm dating because pay 552 00:41:02.960 --> 00:41:07.320 attention. They didn't say in a relationship, they said, Well, they 553 00:41:07.320 --> 00:41:10.679 didn't say in a relationship, they said a potential partner. Right, So 554 00:41:10.719 --> 00:41:15.440 it's like you expect every person you're dating to just erase everyone they met before 555 00:41:15.480 --> 00:41:21.440 you, as long as this friendship that they have doesn't make you feel insecure, 556 00:41:21.559 --> 00:41:25.440 inappropriate, awkward, or feel like you're the third will what's the problem. 557 00:41:25.559 --> 00:41:34.360 What's the problem? Are they still fucking because I'm not me personally? 558 00:41:35.440 --> 00:41:38.280 I don't care. I don't care because, yes, maybe you did sleep 559 00:41:38.280 --> 00:41:42.599 Pakeisha. Okay, not I feel like we've used Keisha too much? Give 560 00:41:42.639 --> 00:41:46.079 me another yes okay, because yes, maybe you did sleep with Jasmine, 561 00:41:46.119 --> 00:41:50.119 but you quickly found out you don't like the way Jasmine feet looks, so 562 00:41:50.159 --> 00:41:53.559 Jasmin ain't the girl for you. However, Jasmin is a bomb ass real 563 00:41:53.679 --> 00:41:57.599 estate agent and me and you were fitna buy a house. So guess who's 564 00:41:57.599 --> 00:42:00.360 still going to be in the picture, Jasmine Jeff. Y'all be blocking y'r 565 00:42:00.400 --> 00:42:04.840 blessings. That's what the problem is. Y'all be so entitled that you don't 566 00:42:04.840 --> 00:42:07.039 pay attention to the fact that you're blocking your blessings, baby, I don't 567 00:42:07.039 --> 00:42:12.400 know. Once again, I'd like to stress as long as it doesn't make 568 00:42:12.559 --> 00:42:16.239 me feel insecure or awkward or like I am the third will I don't care. 569 00:42:16.760 --> 00:42:21.519 But that's just me. But that's just me. What about you? 570 00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:24.639 Your deepest connections come on, especially when you want to go out. Bruh, 571 00:42:24.760 --> 00:42:27.519 you need a cook up, like yo, hold on, talme ab 572 00:42:27.519 --> 00:42:31.960 out, let me let me call. Yes, yes, you are willing 573 00:42:32.400 --> 00:42:37.719 to sell your first born son for tickets to the Super Bowl. But guess 574 00:42:37.719 --> 00:42:43.320 who potentially got the hook up? Chris? But you don't want her to 575 00:42:43.320 --> 00:42:45.119 fuck with Chris no more because they used to, you know, fuck around? 576 00:42:45.599 --> 00:42:50.559 What what? Because if she's really a down ass bitch, her and 577 00:42:50.639 --> 00:42:53.800 Chris probably still don't have a problem being friends. And that's that's another thing. 578 00:42:54.400 --> 00:43:00.239 If the person you're potentially dating is a good person, nine time out 579 00:43:00.280 --> 00:43:04.440 of ten, it's never a reason to beef. Like if there's beef, 580 00:43:04.440 --> 00:43:07.039 it's because one person still wants the other person. That's the only reason this 581 00:43:07.159 --> 00:43:12.039 beef. One person wants the other person and they can't connect because somebody's mad. 582 00:43:12.440 --> 00:43:14.400 That's the reason a lot of y'all want child support too. But that's 583 00:43:14.400 --> 00:43:20.280 the conversation for another day. I'm just saying, if it's no beef, 584 00:43:20.480 --> 00:43:22.760 there's no reason for us not to be cordial. Now, I'm not saying 585 00:43:22.840 --> 00:43:29.400 they have to be the best of friends' fucking sweetheart changed with the connecting pieces. 586 00:43:29.440 --> 00:43:31.039 I'm not saying that, all right. I'm not saying they gotta be 587 00:43:31.079 --> 00:43:35.039 the best of friends that have friendship bracelets and all that, But it's no 588 00:43:35.119 --> 00:43:37.679 reason why they can't be cordial. Yeah, I'm not gonna walk past her 589 00:43:37.679 --> 00:43:40.079 and not say exactly like the enemies or something like that. And that's my 590 00:43:40.119 --> 00:43:44.199 whole thing. Like, if I'm out somewhere, like I don't, I 591 00:43:44.239 --> 00:43:46.440 don't have any type of sexual connection within of my exes. But if I'm 592 00:43:46.440 --> 00:43:50.719 out somewhere and they see me or I see them first, yea, I'm 593 00:43:50.719 --> 00:43:52.440 selling a joint, Yo. What's up? Hey? How you doing? 594 00:43:52.480 --> 00:43:54.199 Like, you know, whatever the case may Because it's no beef, it's 595 00:43:54.239 --> 00:43:57.519 no beef. And at the end of the day, you ain't my ass 596 00:43:57.519 --> 00:44:04.400 already, So what's the problem I already why I'm just saying, like, 597 00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:07.320 I don't have a problem if I'm out and you know I'm with you know, 598 00:44:07.360 --> 00:44:09.960 some guy I'm dating, he sees somebody you know he used to, 599 00:44:10.119 --> 00:44:13.800 you know, fuck around with. I don't care if I'm out with somebody 600 00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:16.039 i'm dating and they see somebody that they used to date, I don't care. 601 00:44:16.840 --> 00:44:22.400 Could you not better than mine? Like nothing? You gotta you gotta 602 00:44:22.440 --> 00:44:27.840 stand on business. Come on, you gotta be secure with yours? Could 603 00:44:27.880 --> 00:44:29.719 she not better than mine? And you would me? Now? What's up? 604 00:44:30.840 --> 00:44:36.679 Come on? Is it my turn? Who you die? Come on? 605 00:44:37.480 --> 00:44:39.320 Come on, y'all. I want you all to stop this. I 606 00:44:39.400 --> 00:44:43.360 want you to stop this. It's given very much. I'm not playing with 607 00:44:43.440 --> 00:44:45.480 that toy no more. But I don't want anyone else to play with it 608 00:44:45.519 --> 00:44:47.880 either. Stop it. That's that's very immature. What are you, toddler? 609 00:44:49.079 --> 00:44:52.599 Grow up? Grow up? Okay, grow up? Sick of it? 610 00:44:55.280 --> 00:45:04.360 So the next one? Why do some women never say I'm not interested? 611 00:45:04.800 --> 00:45:09.559 It seems like some women just pretend until they ghost. Y'all. I 612 00:45:09.559 --> 00:45:13.079 saw a few of these this week. I saw a few of these this 613 00:45:13.119 --> 00:45:17.599 week. I don't know what be going on with the moon and the tide 614 00:45:17.800 --> 00:45:24.400 or the universe or whatever type of harmonious celestial things that be going on that 615 00:45:24.880 --> 00:45:29.119 I don't know it's mercury and the microwaves, Like, I don't know what 616 00:45:29.199 --> 00:45:34.280 type of sensational things that be happening to us, but I feel like every 617 00:45:34.320 --> 00:45:38.480 week there's like a theme, not necessarily a theme, but there's one question 618 00:45:38.679 --> 00:45:43.239 that's written by multiple men and women, just different ways. So first time, 619 00:45:43.239 --> 00:45:44.800 I let you know, a lot of times, y'all don't be going 620 00:45:44.800 --> 00:45:47.480 through the shit by yourself. I see it in my questions. It's other 621 00:45:47.480 --> 00:45:50.760 people out here rocking what you're going through the same shit, all right, 622 00:45:50.960 --> 00:45:54.320 But I want to read the question again. It says, why do some 623 00:45:54.480 --> 00:46:00.280 women never just say I'm not interested? It seems like some women and just 624 00:46:00.320 --> 00:46:07.480 pretend until they got excuse me, that wasn't my answer. Appreciate it, 625 00:46:07.599 --> 00:46:13.400 that wasn't my answer. That's why I'm still single. Just that number seven, 626 00:46:14.679 --> 00:46:20.159 Yeah, that's definitely like re number eight. But my answer is you're 627 00:46:20.159 --> 00:46:22.320 a seat filler, my guy. Like, and some of you may not 628 00:46:22.400 --> 00:46:24.880 know what a seat filler is. Do you know what a seat filler is? 629 00:46:25.320 --> 00:46:30.599 A seat filler is someone who's holding the position until the person that they 630 00:46:30.639 --> 00:46:35.920 want come along. Right, So a lot of times women will give you 631 00:46:35.960 --> 00:46:38.679 play, give you dates, give you time, give you energy. Maybe 632 00:46:38.679 --> 00:46:42.960 you can give you some guchi, but you're not the girl. You're not 633 00:46:43.119 --> 00:46:47.039 the guy that she wants. You're the guy that she gonna keep just in 634 00:46:47.079 --> 00:46:52.840 case, is given very much just in case, right, like just in 635 00:46:52.880 --> 00:46:55.840 case he doesn't come along. I know that I've built up this relationship with 636 00:46:55.920 --> 00:46:59.880 this person. So I'm good, I'm covered, I got a seat, 637 00:47:00.599 --> 00:47:02.519 I'm gucci, I'll be fine. At the end of the day. I 638 00:47:02.559 --> 00:47:06.960 know I still can potentially get a ring, a relationship, a child, 639 00:47:07.159 --> 00:47:10.320 a house, a car, whatever, you know, And is it right? 640 00:47:10.440 --> 00:47:15.000 No, But it takes a certain level of maturity to realize it's not 641 00:47:15.079 --> 00:47:16.480 right. And everybody, don't be there. I'm mer real with you, 642 00:47:16.559 --> 00:47:20.199 Okay. It takes a long time to get there, okay, And some 643 00:47:20.239 --> 00:47:22.880 people got to go through Some women have to go through certain things. Go 644 00:47:22.920 --> 00:47:27.920 talk to the lady, okay, maybe lose a big toe to diabetes. 645 00:47:28.000 --> 00:47:32.760 It takes different things. I ask about that off camera. There's so many 646 00:47:32.760 --> 00:47:37.599 things I have questions for that. It takes different things, right, But 647 00:47:37.760 --> 00:47:42.480 a lot of women really have to go through certain things or reach a certain 648 00:47:42.519 --> 00:47:47.280 point on their own before they realize that's not okay, right, So when 649 00:47:47.360 --> 00:47:52.719 we ask why do some women never just say I'm not interested? They just 650 00:47:52.760 --> 00:47:57.679 pretending to they goos. We also have to look at why are you trying 651 00:47:57.719 --> 00:48:04.119 to act like you don't see she's not interested? Dun come on, baby, 652 00:48:04.239 --> 00:48:06.719 because if you're asking me, that means you kind of already know. 653 00:48:07.360 --> 00:48:09.400 You know that she's not moving the way you will want her to move. 654 00:48:09.719 --> 00:48:13.920 And I feel like you could sit her down and intentionally say, hey, 655 00:48:14.639 --> 00:48:17.599 we cool, Like I know that Sean really hit the goots when you're down 656 00:48:17.599 --> 00:48:23.039 there or whatever maybe whatever it may be, Hey are we cool? Is 657 00:48:23.079 --> 00:48:25.639 there anything that she would like to discuss while we're talking? By blah blah 658 00:48:25.639 --> 00:48:29.599 blah blah, y'all don't really go out. Y'all wait to do that either. 659 00:48:29.719 --> 00:48:34.239 So who's really seat feeling for? Who? Right? And not take 660 00:48:34.280 --> 00:48:37.039 that back? She's seat feeling, But baby, you're the one who's actually 661 00:48:37.039 --> 00:48:40.920 pretending. You're pretending you don't see she ain't interested, or that she ain't 662 00:48:40.960 --> 00:48:45.559 moving the way she needs to move. If she's not reciprocating the energy that 663 00:48:45.599 --> 00:48:51.480 you're giving. Bounce, Okay, that's it in a yes, And I 664 00:48:51.480 --> 00:48:53.320 don't even think that's a sexual thing. Well, I don't even think that's 665 00:48:53.360 --> 00:48:59.840 a gender thing that goes both ways. Like, y'all be so blind so 666 00:49:00.079 --> 00:49:02.599 reciprocity or the lack thereof, it's amazing. I'm sorry. I didn't mean 667 00:49:02.639 --> 00:49:06.719 to swirl that on the fucking mic like that. I apologize, But y'all 668 00:49:06.719 --> 00:49:12.239 be so blind to reciprocity or the lack thereof. It's mind boggling. It's 669 00:49:12.280 --> 00:49:15.480 it's it's mind boggling. Y'all be tricking the hell out of y'allselves. It's 670 00:49:15.480 --> 00:49:20.199 not always them, sometimes a shoe mm hmmm, mm hmmm mm hmmm. 671 00:49:22.119 --> 00:49:27.199 So let's let's revisit. Uh, let's talk about what we went through today. 672 00:49:27.280 --> 00:49:30.719 First. In the beginning of the episode, I talked about this is 673 00:49:30.719 --> 00:49:34.320 what I want you to understand. I'm still single. Here are some of 674 00:49:34.320 --> 00:49:39.079 the reasons why I hope that by now you get a better understanding. And 675 00:49:39.840 --> 00:49:45.440 yeah, you you, if you're a nice young gentleman who's done with his 676 00:49:45.480 --> 00:49:46.760 whole phase, you decided that you want to to, you know, maybe 677 00:49:46.760 --> 00:49:49.440 get married tomorrow. I don't know, I don't know, I don't know 678 00:49:49.480 --> 00:49:52.159 whatever, whatever, you know, whatever, however, the spirit moves, 679 00:49:52.400 --> 00:49:55.480 that's no, no, no, no, no, we got to decide 680 00:49:55.519 --> 00:49:59.800 tomorrow so that by the time Payday hit on Friday, we gucci. Okay, 681 00:50:00.199 --> 00:50:01.480 yeah, you know, I like to I like the plant. I'm 682 00:50:01.480 --> 00:50:07.480 a planner, right, But no for Valentine's Day or Valentine's Day, you 683 00:50:07.599 --> 00:50:12.199 bitches. For Valentine's Day last year, I went on a date and a 684 00:50:12.239 --> 00:50:15.079 nigga asked me to share a plate. Actually he didn't ask me, and 685 00:50:15.159 --> 00:50:15.960 y'all, I know we talked about this, but I just want to go 686 00:50:16.039 --> 00:50:20.679 back. He did not ask me. He asserted himself on me. That 687 00:50:20.800 --> 00:50:23.400 has to be some type of assault. Okay, assault and battery on my 688 00:50:23.440 --> 00:50:29.960 plate. Okay. He told me he was going to share, but for 689 00:50:30.000 --> 00:50:32.360 the record, I just wanted to show that we didn't share and also didn't 690 00:50:32.400 --> 00:50:38.280 give Gucci. So there's that. This Valentine's Day. I'm a simple girl. 691 00:50:38.440 --> 00:50:43.239 I want simple things, one of them being I want a heart shaped 692 00:50:43.440 --> 00:50:50.199 candy box with chicken wings in okay, and had a little rise with dazzle, 693 00:50:51.199 --> 00:50:53.119 maybe even put some tacos in it. All right, I want these 694 00:50:53.119 --> 00:50:55.599 things. That's what I want from me. You should want better for you. 695 00:50:55.880 --> 00:51:04.039 I want better for me. Also, Uh yeah, I told this 696 00:51:04.079 --> 00:51:06.360 guy was watching a movie with You know, I did crack one time. 697 00:51:06.559 --> 00:51:07.960 He didn't asks for further details. I didn't give it to him, but 698 00:51:08.000 --> 00:51:10.519 for the record, you know, players fuck up too. I got laced. 699 00:51:14.880 --> 00:51:17.320 You know that that is what it is, big dog. Also, 700 00:51:20.719 --> 00:51:23.599 I went to a meeting and afterwards, uh, the man who set it 701 00:51:23.679 --> 00:51:30.159 up told me that my thing was thinking that asks look fat. Okay, 702 00:51:30.639 --> 00:51:35.960 But he also made sure to add that he didn't know I had ass because 703 00:51:36.000 --> 00:51:42.320 I walk like a dike sometimes dry, and before y'all start, I could 704 00:51:42.320 --> 00:51:45.639 say dyke okay because I walk like a dike. No, no, no, 705 00:51:45.679 --> 00:51:52.559 because I used to be a dike and it keeps getting crazy. Yeah. 706 00:51:52.639 --> 00:51:57.119 Also, we have to be real with ourselves. I'll say birds of 707 00:51:57.119 --> 00:52:00.360 a feather flock together. But for whatever reason, that doesn't apply to friend 708 00:52:00.480 --> 00:52:06.480 cheating Ash Jamal. Also a lot of you guys don't like the whole ass 709 00:52:06.519 --> 00:52:09.920 friend whole time. You know your spouse is the whole ass friend. But 710 00:52:10.159 --> 00:52:15.280 you know they choose to make Jamal and Kisha the scapegoat. So there's that. 711 00:52:16.480 --> 00:52:20.639 We also went through a few edibles. One of the questions that got 712 00:52:20.679 --> 00:52:23.599 sent in today was, you know, do you trust the potential partner if 713 00:52:23.599 --> 00:52:28.320 they're still friends with one of their excess that they didn't have kids with. 714 00:52:28.960 --> 00:52:31.239 And I felt like they edited that specifically into the end because a lot of 715 00:52:31.320 --> 00:52:35.000 y'all will be like, oh, well, having your ex as a friend 716 00:52:35.119 --> 00:52:39.159 is okay if you share a child. I don't see what the difference is 717 00:52:39.519 --> 00:52:43.559 because they have to have a lifelong commitment, okay. And what if wy 718 00:52:43.599 --> 00:52:45.920 they was together, they got a house, a mortgage, a lease. 719 00:52:46.119 --> 00:52:50.679 Like you act like everybody's getting married right now, they're not. They're not, 720 00:52:50.920 --> 00:52:52.800 okay, So what if they have like a mortgage, you know, 721 00:52:54.199 --> 00:53:00.519 a unit, a car, anything, you know? So long story, 722 00:53:00.519 --> 00:53:01.719 sure, I don't give fuck. Could she not better than mine? See 723 00:53:01.719 --> 00:53:07.800 what I said next? Why do some women never say I'm not interested? 724 00:53:07.320 --> 00:53:12.199 It seems like they just pretend until they ghost you. You are ghosting yourself, 725 00:53:12.519 --> 00:53:15.519 okay, because you knew she wasn't interested, and instead of you picking 726 00:53:15.599 --> 00:53:20.000 up on her, not reciprocating the energy, you chose to act like you 727 00:53:20.000 --> 00:53:22.719 ain't see a big dog. You chose to be Stevie wonder to the bullshit. 728 00:53:22.960 --> 00:53:25.159 Okay, Well, now live with that ribbon in the sky, because 729 00:53:25.159 --> 00:53:31.800 she's going she's not She's doin, all right, don't forget February seventeenth, 730 00:53:31.840 --> 00:53:37.559 it's going down at World Cafe, Live me Stormy Pete, Chocolate Chip and 731 00:53:37.599 --> 00:53:40.159 Sip. We're doing a live taping. It's gonna be knucking futs, all 732 00:53:40.239 --> 00:53:45.159 right. Click the link in my bio or go to www Dot Stormy Pea 733 00:53:45.280 --> 00:53:47.599 dot com and to get your tickets right now. If you wait till the 734 00:53:47.719 --> 00:53:52.280 last minute, you will not be able to get in. That's just it. 735 00:53:52.519 --> 00:53:53.519 That's it, that's it, and that's all. You already know that, 736 00:53:53.599 --> 00:53:58.079 you already know that my message is always going to be the same. 737 00:53:59.159 --> 00:54:02.800 Follow me on the ground at Stormy p p e A At Chocolate Chip and 738 00:54:02.880 --> 00:54:10.519 Zip. And if you don't remember anything else, please remember hmm the killer 739 00:54:10.559 --> 00:54:13.519 is in the house. I love you guys, and I see you next 740 00:54:13.519 --> 00:54:14.079 week. Peace,