WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.720 --> 00:00:03.439 Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Sorry it's late, that is my 2 00:00:03.560 --> 00:00:07.400 fault. I got my hair done yesterday and I it's great, well, 3 00:00:07.400 --> 00:00:09.439 thank you, but you know, like, okay, when you're a woman, 4 00:00:09.519 --> 00:00:13.320 you can't just like pop into a place really quick like my girl who 5 00:00:13.359 --> 00:00:16.920 Jenny knows she books out so far in advance, so I was like, 6 00:00:16.960 --> 00:00:20.480 oh I have I don't ever book it like I should, Like I should 7 00:00:20.480 --> 00:00:23.480 just every time I get my hair down, book it for however long from 8 00:00:23.559 --> 00:00:26.160 that point and just be done. But I don't. I wait until my 9 00:00:26.199 --> 00:00:29.559 hair is so gray that I'm like, I need it done now. So 10 00:00:29.679 --> 00:00:32.560 all she had was like an eleven fifteen on this past Monday. I'm like, 11 00:00:32.600 --> 00:00:35.960 I need it done, Jenny. I'm sorry, no i' and then 12 00:00:36.119 --> 00:00:39.079 not a big deal. I just it cuts it so close to my show 13 00:00:39.159 --> 00:00:42.840 too, that I went in yesterday with like mostly wet hair. It's like, 14 00:00:42.880 --> 00:00:45.759 oh man, this is but anyway, good grays are gone and I'm 15 00:00:45.799 --> 00:00:50.920 feeling good nice. It looks lovely. And Jenny's mentally not here. She's 16 00:00:50.920 --> 00:00:54.479 physically here, mentally gone because she's gone on vacation. I still have a 17 00:00:54.719 --> 00:00:58.079 day left of work, but I have a lot of stuff to prepare to 18 00:00:58.119 --> 00:01:00.640 be off for work because of holiday stuff coming up. So it's like, 19 00:01:02.119 --> 00:01:03.319 yeah, i still have like a day left of work, but I'm doing 20 00:01:03.400 --> 00:01:07.359 like a bunch of stuff to be on top of things while I'm out. 21 00:01:07.480 --> 00:01:11.239 So but that does mean that the podcast next week will also come out like 22 00:01:11.239 --> 00:01:12.480 a little bit later on Tuesday. It'll still be about Tuesday, but Ginning 23 00:01:12.519 --> 00:01:18.280 gets back Monday night. It's so annoying to me that they don't just give 24 00:01:18.400 --> 00:01:22.000 us July fifth off, and I know we talked about it. What this 25 00:01:22.120 --> 00:01:25.000 must be like a corporate thing? Are there all? Can they only allow 26 00:01:25.120 --> 00:01:29.159 so many days off the year or something? I don't know. That's a 27 00:01:29.159 --> 00:01:33.079 good question because I was looking last night. They're so greedy because it's a 28 00:01:33.159 --> 00:01:36.840 leap year. So the fourth is on a Thursday this year, obviously, 29 00:01:36.879 --> 00:01:38.560 and last year was on a Tuesday because of the leap year. Yeah, 30 00:01:38.599 --> 00:01:44.480 I'm pretty positive we had the third and the fourth off last year. I 31 00:01:44.519 --> 00:01:49.480 swear I don't remember, but probably. I also know obviously they added June 32 00:01:49.519 --> 00:01:53.040 teenth, so like in the past couple of years, so I think it's 33 00:01:53.079 --> 00:01:57.680 swapped, and I understand June and teenth is much more important than us getting 34 00:01:57.680 --> 00:02:00.439 off the fifth of July. Yeah, but can't we do both? Is 35 00:02:00.480 --> 00:02:06.400 my question? Is there some corporate rule that says you got to pick five 36 00:02:06.760 --> 00:02:09.879 five company holidays a year and that's it, Like, come on, I 37 00:02:09.879 --> 00:02:12.680 don't I know, I don't get it, and i don't know if I've 38 00:02:12.680 --> 00:02:15.840 said this on the podcast before, but like it's off. It's often hard 39 00:02:15.919 --> 00:02:19.439 for Andrew and I to plan trips because he's a I'm busy right now. 40 00:02:19.520 --> 00:02:22.879 I can't go anywhere type of person where I'm I'm like, I need three 41 00:02:22.879 --> 00:02:24.960 months in advance to be able to plan certain things because of how my job 42 00:02:25.000 --> 00:02:29.800 works and whatever. But we can usually bank on holidays being slow for him 43 00:02:29.800 --> 00:02:34.360 because nobody's looking at houses over the fourth of July, over Thanksgiving or whatever. 44 00:02:34.479 --> 00:02:37.639 Right, So I was like looking at the schedule and how it was 45 00:02:37.639 --> 00:02:39.599 a Thursday this year, and I sat there and I'm like, I'm literally 46 00:02:39.680 --> 00:02:43.280 not going to do anything for the fourth it being in the middle of the 47 00:02:43.319 --> 00:02:46.400 week, knowing I have to work Wednesday and work Friday. It just is 48 00:02:46.400 --> 00:02:49.400 not like conducive to a schedule where like I'm going to go out and watch 49 00:02:49.400 --> 00:02:51.840 fireworks and have a good time. But I got to get home and get 50 00:02:51.879 --> 00:02:53.680 to bed and be up in the morning. And so I mean I should 51 00:02:53.719 --> 00:02:55.879 say that like at this point in my life, that's where I'm at. 52 00:02:55.879 --> 00:03:00.080 That didn't stop me in the past, because I'm definitely the year I sliced 53 00:03:00.120 --> 00:03:04.000 my foot open on Big Gallen, it was like a Wednesday or Thursday, 54 00:03:04.039 --> 00:03:07.159 and I came into work the next day, but that was that was the 55 00:03:07.199 --> 00:03:13.400 most chaotic day on earth. Yes, So okay. So Steve was already 56 00:03:13.439 --> 00:03:16.879 off, he was on vacation. He was on vacation. Jenny had come 57 00:03:16.919 --> 00:03:24.199 to work with basically gangrenous just like infection, huge gash like two gashes on 58 00:03:24.240 --> 00:03:29.639 my feet. She was pale, and on top of all of it, 59 00:03:29.879 --> 00:03:32.759 I got into a car accident at the like outside of Caribou Coffee on my 60 00:03:32.800 --> 00:03:38.360 way into work. So I was like late, but not like crazy late, 61 00:03:38.400 --> 00:03:42.000 but just late enough where Dave had to start the show alone yep. 62 00:03:42.319 --> 00:03:46.599 And he's like looking at Jenny, like you need to go to a doctor 63 00:03:46.800 --> 00:03:50.719 immediately because it was so bad, and I like didn't want to leave you 64 00:03:50.719 --> 00:03:53.280 guys hanging. So I was still doing stuff and Dave's like, Jenny, 65 00:03:53.560 --> 00:03:58.120 leave it now, I will be fine for like ten minutes the ballon gets 66 00:03:58.159 --> 00:04:00.879 here. I remember walking down the hall in the skuy brunt that used to 67 00:04:00.960 --> 00:04:02.520 work here saw me and he's like, are you okay? And I was 68 00:04:02.560 --> 00:04:06.520 like, I don't know, Like I'm leaving though, but I was about 69 00:04:06.560 --> 00:04:10.360 to pass up because it was Yeah. I don't know if I was just 70 00:04:10.360 --> 00:04:12.719 in my head at that point or what was happening, but I did not 71 00:04:12.800 --> 00:04:15.000 feel well, and so yeah, I ended up in the er getting stitches 72 00:04:15.040 --> 00:04:19.800 and being scolded by the er paramedics and doctors of you dumb ass, why 73 00:04:19.839 --> 00:04:25.399 were you not here twelve fourteen hours ago? Not like like I literally just 74 00:04:25.399 --> 00:04:29.600 slept overnight in pure pain. Thought it was just a cod it'll be fine. 75 00:04:30.079 --> 00:04:31.079 Nope, it wore doubt. You got to help your foot. So 76 00:04:31.160 --> 00:04:33.519 that's exciting to get to keep my foot. But this is a warning to 77 00:04:33.519 --> 00:04:38.920 anyone who's doing crazy things on the fourth of July. Safe. Go in 78 00:04:38.959 --> 00:04:41.519 and get stitches right away if you feel like you know there's a chance to 79 00:04:41.560 --> 00:04:44.120 that. Don't just throw some gray goose on it, bandage it up on 80 00:04:44.160 --> 00:04:46.959 a boat and be like let's go. Yeah, who would do that? 81 00:04:46.000 --> 00:04:48.399 Claw? Who would do that? I don't know? I don't know really, 82 00:04:48.439 --> 00:04:53.040 but yeah, can I say though? Also with this trip coming up, 83 00:04:53.240 --> 00:04:56.000 I have talked many times about how we're supposed to do this very long 84 00:04:56.079 --> 00:05:00.759 hike yep, and I don't think it's gonna happen because, Hi, the 85 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:05.079 weather is supposed to be like one hundred degrees and I've been watching the weather 86 00:05:05.199 --> 00:05:10.720 and I'm like, at first, I have been wanting been monitoring so excited 87 00:05:10.879 --> 00:05:13.560 for it makes me so sad for you. So I was monitoring it for 88 00:05:13.600 --> 00:05:15.079 the last like month, kind of like seeing what the averages. And granted 89 00:05:15.120 --> 00:05:18.360 it's in the mountain and I'm looking at the city that is by, so 90 00:05:18.439 --> 00:05:24.000 it probably will be a little bit different. But it was like probably going 91 00:05:24.079 --> 00:05:26.639 to be in the eighties and already at eighty I was like, that's kind 92 00:05:26.639 --> 00:05:29.319 of hot to do, like a pretty long hike. Yeah, yea. 93 00:05:29.399 --> 00:05:31.639 So now I've been looking and it is like ninety nine one day, one 94 00:05:31.720 --> 00:05:36.639 hund and another day it's going to drop it probably, So I just I 95 00:05:36.680 --> 00:05:40.920 don't know what to do. I'm going to talk to my friends because one 96 00:05:40.920 --> 00:05:44.000 of my really good high school friends lives out there with her husband. Yeah, 97 00:05:44.120 --> 00:05:46.079 I think that they're planning on doing the hike with us, or at 98 00:05:46.120 --> 00:05:47.519 least they're going to do some of it with us, and so I kind 99 00:05:47.519 --> 00:05:50.360 of want to see where they're at or what they think and stuff about the 100 00:05:50.480 --> 00:05:55.240 conditions, like when is planned, b then planned because we're still going to 101 00:05:55.319 --> 00:05:58.199 do the original hike that I wanted to do, which is still like a 102 00:05:58.319 --> 00:06:01.439 nine anile hike that one or is it a totally different It's no, it's 103 00:06:01.439 --> 00:06:05.920 about so it's like once you get to this one lake that was like the 104 00:06:05.959 --> 00:06:10.199 original lake, and then the hard like the super hard part of the hike 105 00:06:10.399 --> 00:06:15.720 is like past that leg. Yeah, so that it's called Cold Chuck Lake, 106 00:06:15.079 --> 00:06:18.319 and that's already like kind of on the harder scale on all trails of 107 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:24.839 a hike because there's elevation gain and stuff, but that one doesn't. It's 108 00:06:24.879 --> 00:06:28.079 not intimidating to me. And so then like if we just stop there and 109 00:06:28.120 --> 00:06:30.759 turn around, then that was like the original hike we were going to do. 110 00:06:30.800 --> 00:06:33.959 But then I saw you can keep going and do the the enchantments is 111 00:06:33.959 --> 00:06:38.040 what it's called. And so I don't know, we'll see. I'm like 112 00:06:38.120 --> 00:06:43.000 trying to not there's like part of me that's like maybe I should feel relieved 113 00:06:43.040 --> 00:06:46.519 that I'm not going to put my body through such a crazy hike on a 114 00:06:46.600 --> 00:06:49.360 vacation and like, maybe I should actually just relax and enjoy a vacation for 115 00:06:49.399 --> 00:06:53.279 once. Yeah, that's not my personality. Andrew and I are like go, 116 00:06:53.279 --> 00:06:55.959 go, go, and we want to see and do everything that we 117 00:06:56.000 --> 00:06:59.920 can, and we love hard things. So if I'm at a beach place, 118 00:07:00.120 --> 00:07:05.360 I am so fine being so lazy. And anyone I've ever dated in 119 00:07:05.399 --> 00:07:10.879 the past that they can be lazy for so long. Yeah, but I 120 00:07:10.920 --> 00:07:16.399 can literally like couch rot on a beach chair for the entire day. I'll 121 00:07:16.439 --> 00:07:19.639 wake up, I'll listen to a little audio book, I get a snacky 122 00:07:19.920 --> 00:07:25.879 I can pass out for hours. And I think it discussed the men I've 123 00:07:25.920 --> 00:07:28.720 been with throughout my life. But like, if I'm in a city, 124 00:07:29.240 --> 00:07:34.680 then I still need a midday break. I cannot do like six am to 125 00:07:35.079 --> 00:07:40.600 midnight. I have to have a little siesta. Yeah you were a little 126 00:07:40.639 --> 00:07:43.959 relaxing in the middle of the day. Oh yeah, I love everything about 127 00:07:44.000 --> 00:07:46.360 that. Change my underwear because you know, I probably sweat through it. 128 00:07:46.879 --> 00:07:48.839 That's important. That's why women pack at least like three times the amount of 129 00:07:48.879 --> 00:07:51.240 underwear that they need. You just never know how many times you're changing it 130 00:07:51.800 --> 00:07:56.360 and whatever else might have. I know, for a fact, on every 131 00:07:56.439 --> 00:08:00.800 single vacation, I will wear at least two pair of panties every single day. 132 00:08:01.360 --> 00:08:03.360 I don't know if I've ever gone that far, but I would say 133 00:08:03.600 --> 00:08:07.680 I'm sorry, And why because you don't kouchie sweat as much as me. 134 00:08:07.839 --> 00:08:11.120 No, Because I do things like go to Tihiti and then I'm in a 135 00:08:11.120 --> 00:08:13.879 swimsuit a lot, so then I'm just like in a swimsuit, or then 136 00:08:13.879 --> 00:08:16.839 I'm in a dress. You should fucking burn that swimsuit at the end of 137 00:08:16.879 --> 00:08:20.639 that trip, seriously as much of my fucking life as I did on that 138 00:08:20.639 --> 00:08:24.279 trip. That's why I think I actually could still do this hike, because 139 00:08:24.319 --> 00:08:31.959 Tahiti was insane and it wasn't just like hot. It was like the moment 140 00:08:31.039 --> 00:08:35.039 you started walking ten feet, you were drenched in sweat because it was humid 141 00:08:35.080 --> 00:08:39.960 as shit. I've been on trips like that and it's it's miserable. The 142 00:08:39.000 --> 00:08:41.840 one that immediately comes to mind was like a New Orleans trip that I did 143 00:08:41.879 --> 00:08:46.320 with my friend Abby and then our friends that we know, Amy James and 144 00:08:46.320 --> 00:08:50.799 Dona Valentine, and I mean I couldn't. There was never like there was 145 00:08:50.919 --> 00:08:54.440 the only time and I can remember, that's how bad it was. The 146 00:08:54.480 --> 00:08:58.879 only time I wasn't sweating profusely was we did one of those fan boat banks. 147 00:09:00.440 --> 00:09:03.399 Yeah, the swater. That was the only time on the entire trip 148 00:09:03.399 --> 00:09:07.360 I wasn't dying. Yeah, that is not fun to me. I just 149 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:09.440 feel like I stink the whole time. I feel when I get hot, 150 00:09:09.559 --> 00:09:13.399 I get my stomach. It's hard and blowdy, it's weird. I hate 151 00:09:13.399 --> 00:09:16.000 it. I don't know. Yeah, no, I mean I feel you 152 00:09:16.120 --> 00:09:18.840 on that, but no, I'm not usually change in mind just twice a 153 00:09:18.919 --> 00:09:22.840 day if I don't have to. Yeah, that I'm grosser, though, 154 00:09:22.879 --> 00:09:24.399 I think I think I might just sit in it longer than you might. 155 00:09:24.519 --> 00:09:28.519 Oh mo, I'm pretty gross Honestly. Two times probably isn't enough for What's 156 00:09:28.559 --> 00:09:31.240 like when I was in Spain, I had to like peel my clothes off 157 00:09:31.279 --> 00:09:35.600 when I'd come back. I was like, oh God, this is disgusting. 158 00:09:35.360 --> 00:09:37.559 I'm trying to decide if I want to tell the story or not. 159 00:09:39.080 --> 00:09:43.320 I'm going to tell it. It's really disgusting. Yeah, okay, you've 160 00:09:43.399 --> 00:09:46.720 literally told maybe the most disgusting story ever on this podcast already. So I've 161 00:09:46.720 --> 00:09:50.519 never talked about STDs before though, that's okay, okay, I've never had 162 00:09:50.519 --> 00:09:54.279 an STD. I haven't either, which kind of spoils what I'm about to 163 00:09:54.320 --> 00:09:56.840 say. Oh my elder roommate did. Yeah, No, I've had friends 164 00:09:56.840 --> 00:10:01.879 who have had yeah, chlamydia. It was, Yeah, hers was chlamydia 165 00:10:01.919 --> 00:10:05.320 and it was I remember she went in. She'd take like a quick like 166 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:07.759 a drink. It was like a drink, and then like in seven days 167 00:10:07.759 --> 00:10:11.759 it was cleared and she had to contact anyone obviously she'd had sex with to 168 00:10:11.840 --> 00:10:15.080 let them know, because I guess men don't show signs like women do. 169 00:10:15.360 --> 00:10:18.080 Yeah, uh right, in most cases, I think, yeah, I 170 00:10:18.080 --> 00:10:22.080 think some people do. So here's the story. Though. It was going 171 00:10:22.120 --> 00:10:28.919 to be my twenty first birthday, and I had recently engaged in a sexual 172 00:10:28.960 --> 00:10:33.720 act with a gentleman yeah who. I was nervous because even though protection was 173 00:10:33.840 --> 00:10:37.240 used, he was a football player, and so I was like, how 174 00:10:37.320 --> 00:10:41.600 much did it actually protect me? And I started having issues down there and 175 00:10:41.639 --> 00:10:45.679 I was like, oh my god, I got an STD. What were 176 00:10:45.759 --> 00:10:50.240 the issues? Was it itching or discharge? Yeah? And so I am 177 00:10:50.360 --> 00:10:54.240 like, ugh, this is so disgusting. And I remember being at the 178 00:10:54.279 --> 00:10:58.679 Mall of America trying to find clothes for this trip to Vegas, yep, 179 00:10:58.000 --> 00:11:01.799 And I was like pulse at what was happening down there. And I had 180 00:11:01.879 --> 00:11:05.799 gone and got tested because I was like, okay, I gotta get tested, 181 00:11:05.960 --> 00:11:11.159 like something's not right, and I everything came back negative. Everything. 182 00:11:11.440 --> 00:11:16.559 It absolutely had to have been a bacterial infection. Something it had to have 183 00:11:16.600 --> 00:11:20.639 been. And I don't know if it just like had pit past the point 184 00:11:20.639 --> 00:11:24.720 of it being detected by the test or something, because I would get those 185 00:11:24.000 --> 00:11:28.200 every once in a while because I, like I wasn't in a relationship, 186 00:11:28.200 --> 00:11:31.879 so I would go really long periods of time without having sex in college, 187 00:11:31.960 --> 00:11:35.240 and then when I would have sex, it threw off my pH and so 188 00:11:35.440 --> 00:11:39.159 like anyways, I've had bacterial infections. It's just what happens with women when 189 00:11:39.159 --> 00:11:43.279 their pH gets thrown off, and probably other reasons too. So I'm like 190 00:11:43.360 --> 00:11:46.120 trying on clothes though at them All of America, and I'm not kidding you, 191 00:11:46.240 --> 00:11:48.360 Like I was ready to throw away my underwear because the situation was so 192 00:11:48.480 --> 00:11:52.039 bad, and I like get the results back that it's negative. And I 193 00:11:52.080 --> 00:11:54.519 was like, great, cool, whatever, but I'm still dealing with this. 194 00:11:54.720 --> 00:11:58.120 Yeah, and I'm going to Vegas for my twenty first and Lucky and 195 00:11:58.159 --> 00:12:01.759 I had gone away from the most part of that guy. Yeah, but 196 00:12:01.840 --> 00:12:05.039 I had just swept my ass off in Vegas. Was still like a little 197 00:12:05.120 --> 00:12:09.559 bit of issues, and I mean whatever. I was pretty much blasted the 198 00:12:09.559 --> 00:12:11.720 whole time because it was my twenty first, so I just drek it on 199 00:12:11.879 --> 00:12:15.720 and didn't care. Yeah, but I don't know if I've ever felt more 200 00:12:15.759 --> 00:12:18.919 disgusting in my life in those weeks trying to figure out, like what is 201 00:12:18.960 --> 00:12:20.159 wrong with me? And I'm telling me, like, now you're fine, 202 00:12:20.440 --> 00:12:24.080 It's just you're like whatever, lady, I'm telling you the same normal for 203 00:12:24.279 --> 00:12:28.440 me. All right, good. I've had to go through one hundred paramount 204 00:12:28.480 --> 00:12:31.000 I'm buying under where I can't afford this lifestyle. Something is wrong with me. 205 00:12:33.320 --> 00:12:35.120 We well, we were in town for the fourth of July. My 206 00:12:35.159 --> 00:12:39.440 sister last minute was like, Hey, can we come visit. I was 207 00:12:39.480 --> 00:12:41.559 like, actually, we have no plans. Nice. So I'm actually excited 208 00:12:41.559 --> 00:12:46.279 because they get intomorrow at like four o'clock. But it is so random because, 209 00:12:46.279 --> 00:12:50.360 like I said, I will work on the fifth Cold Haas it off, 210 00:12:50.440 --> 00:12:52.639 so they had this weird role. I was talking about this off the 211 00:12:52.759 --> 00:12:56.320 radio before we started to doing our podcast, where like they won't let us 212 00:12:56.360 --> 00:13:00.720 take off the same day, so like, if Dave is off, Jenny 213 00:13:00.720 --> 00:13:05.120 can't take off. If I'm off, Colt can't, So Colt has the 214 00:13:05.159 --> 00:13:07.480 day off. And I always think it's a little weird because some shows when 215 00:13:07.720 --> 00:13:11.919 they just take all their vacation at the same time yep. And part of 216 00:13:11.919 --> 00:13:13.919 me loves that idea, and part of me hates that idea because part of 217 00:13:15.000 --> 00:13:18.919 me is like, I don't want to base my vacation around someone else Colts 218 00:13:20.360 --> 00:13:26.279 brother in law's wedding, right, But I also hate being in I hate 219 00:13:26.320 --> 00:13:28.120 doing the show without Cult and he hates doing it without me. It's a 220 00:13:28.159 --> 00:13:31.720 little different on the morning show because you have other people, Like if Dave 221 00:13:31.799 --> 00:13:35.600 was off, I didn't mind doing the show with you and Steve or you 222 00:13:35.679 --> 00:13:39.399 and Drake or whatever, but it is you're just alone. It's so bizarre. 223 00:13:39.480 --> 00:13:43.440 I hate doing the afternoon show when Colt is on vacation. Yeah, 224 00:13:43.480 --> 00:13:46.720 and by the way, hate I've never done it. This will be my 225 00:13:46.720 --> 00:13:48.720 first time. Oh yeah, why I'm acting like this, like it's so 226 00:13:48.879 --> 00:13:52.200 off. I mean, it'll be fine, we'll get through it. But 227 00:13:52.399 --> 00:13:58.320 it's not a mouse in my pocket. Yeah, well I'll make promotion instructor 228 00:13:58.320 --> 00:14:01.960 Ted still to a cup of things with me. Is he around though, 229 00:14:01.000 --> 00:14:05.120 because I thought he would go up to a cabin or something. Yeah, 230 00:14:05.159 --> 00:14:09.759 I think he. I think he's seeing Friday off. But next week I 231 00:14:09.759 --> 00:14:11.440 think he's in there. You go, I got such a double check. 232 00:14:11.759 --> 00:14:16.120 You should probably check with them. I know. Hey, so I'm going 233 00:14:16.200 --> 00:14:18.879 to need you to come in and hang out with me for four hours every 234 00:14:18.919 --> 00:14:22.240 day. Yeah. So, are you guys gonna like boat it up while 235 00:14:22.279 --> 00:14:26.440 they're here or what are you thinking? Maybe a little boat action. We're 236 00:14:26.440 --> 00:14:28.639 going to like excelsior the Fourth of July stuff, maybe mound for the fireworks. 237 00:14:28.639 --> 00:14:31.519 I don't know. But is your niece and nephew coming to yep? 238 00:14:31.840 --> 00:14:35.759 Yeah, the whole fan, the whole famuh My. So, Jake and 239 00:14:35.799 --> 00:14:39.320 I we had sex two nights ago or two days ago, and I think 240 00:14:39.320 --> 00:14:43.679 we've talked about this before. We don't play music, and during the love 241 00:14:43.960 --> 00:14:48.600 ever, never ever ever put music, there's like no sound but us and 242 00:14:48.639 --> 00:14:52.799 a fan blowing on and so we're like, all right, let's go do 243 00:14:52.879 --> 00:14:58.320 this. And I was like, should we put music on? And he 244 00:14:58.360 --> 00:15:01.200 goes, sure, why not? And I was like, what do I 245 00:15:01.240 --> 00:15:03.919 put on? Because I don't have like a playlist, And he goes, 246 00:15:05.000 --> 00:15:09.159 what about Sabrina Carpenter? And I just started laughing and I was like that 247 00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:11.960 feels creepy. I was like, are you envisioning? He's like no, 248 00:15:13.000 --> 00:15:16.159 I'm just we both like that song like put on her radio And anyway, 249 00:15:16.200 --> 00:15:20.000 it had been a minute since we hooked up. It was brief, so 250 00:15:20.039 --> 00:15:22.679 I could count like the number of songs and I go, oh, I 251 00:15:22.720 --> 00:15:31.440 go, maybe that's why we don't put music on you how quick? It's 252 00:15:31.480 --> 00:15:33.960 so bad that it was quick. That's totally fine. I do not mind 253 00:15:35.039 --> 00:15:39.200 quick sex too, I am. I do not need a fucking horse and 254 00:15:39.240 --> 00:15:43.000 Pony show. Yeah, we both got ours. I was like, I 255 00:15:43.039 --> 00:15:46.039 would rather be quick because I can get on about my scroll on on my 256 00:15:46.080 --> 00:15:48.960 phone or do whatever I need to do. There are times, sure, 257 00:15:50.039 --> 00:15:54.679 but like for the the majority, I like a quick sesshon, I totally 258 00:15:54.679 --> 00:15:58.279 agree. We played Woodja on the show earlier, and so one of the 259 00:15:58.279 --> 00:16:04.240 options was Joe Biden, but oh, just in period, would you Joe 260 00:16:04.279 --> 00:16:07.120 Biden? Would you know? It was would you have sex with Joe Biden? 261 00:16:08.120 --> 00:16:12.159 But you get a free week somewhere anywhere in an airbnb and whatever country 262 00:16:12.200 --> 00:16:15.759 you want? And I go a week. No, He's like, okay, 263 00:16:15.759 --> 00:16:18.320 a month. And I was like, is there a time limit on 264 00:16:18.399 --> 00:16:22.919 the sacks? And he goes, all right, fine, he goes like 265 00:16:22.080 --> 00:16:26.720 an hour ago an hour yeah, like say like that, yeah, like 266 00:16:26.799 --> 00:16:30.559 saying that that would like be a good amount. I was like, I 267 00:16:30.600 --> 00:16:33.240 was thinking five minutes. Yeah, does he think that that's a short amount 268 00:16:33.240 --> 00:16:36.519 of time? Like think he did kind of think that, And I was 269 00:16:36.559 --> 00:16:40.799 like, I'm sorry, absolutely not. I do not think never ever ever. 270 00:16:40.919 --> 00:16:42.960 So anyways, I am on your side. But the thing is is 271 00:16:44.000 --> 00:16:48.720 that I think, well, I'm a little bit more selfish in this aspect. 272 00:16:48.799 --> 00:16:51.600 But we do a lot of like heat in the oven up kind of 273 00:16:51.639 --> 00:16:55.559 sexual act. We did that, yeah he o. And then that was 274 00:16:55.600 --> 00:16:59.679 where I was like good. And then he came to Poundtown Jenny. Yeah, 275 00:16:59.840 --> 00:17:02.440 so the Pound Town part, I'm like, baby, you can do 276 00:17:02.519 --> 00:17:06.160 two pumps and be done. I tell yeah that you is fine. I 277 00:17:06.160 --> 00:17:08.519 can tell He'll be like, uh's gonna happen. I'm like, great, 278 00:17:08.799 --> 00:17:12.440 yeah, good for you, right, like just do it baby, Yeah, 279 00:17:12.440 --> 00:17:17.559 And like sometimes like I feel like, I don't know, I get 280 00:17:17.599 --> 00:17:19.119 nervous sometimes because I know Andrew probably doesn't want me to say in all this, 281 00:17:19.240 --> 00:17:22.240 but I feel like he holds off a little bit because he thinks he 282 00:17:22.559 --> 00:17:26.039 needs to. Yeah, I want to be like, let it and blow 283 00:17:26.319 --> 00:17:33.200 now obviously if you haven't had any pleasure yourself and at last like two seconds, 284 00:17:33.480 --> 00:17:36.000 because I would think we've all had an experience like that, you do 285 00:17:36.039 --> 00:17:38.920 feel like, well, that was a waste of my energy to even lay 286 00:17:38.960 --> 00:17:41.799 down and put my clothes, Like my hair got a little snarley for what 287 00:17:42.200 --> 00:17:47.319 Yeah, not necessary, but for the most part, yeah, don't care. 288 00:17:47.799 --> 00:17:52.200 Let it be heard around the world. The if if I knew every 289 00:17:52.279 --> 00:17:55.559 time we were gonna do it it was gonna be an hour, I would 290 00:17:55.640 --> 00:17:59.920 say no so often probably same. I know that's like way too long. 291 00:18:00.119 --> 00:18:03.759 But I also my brain works in such a producer mindset now of a morning 292 00:18:03.839 --> 00:18:07.480 show and timing of things, and it's like something I need to like try 293 00:18:07.519 --> 00:18:11.559 to figure out how to turn off when I in my personal life because like 294 00:18:11.640 --> 00:18:14.119 I base my days off of like Okay, if I do this by this 295 00:18:14.200 --> 00:18:15.480 time, then this can happen, and then this will take this long and 296 00:18:15.519 --> 00:18:19.319 it's it's like detrimental to my weekend sometimes. Yeah, but I feel like 297 00:18:21.079 --> 00:18:23.200 with sex a lot of times I'll be like, oh, okay, Like 298 00:18:23.359 --> 00:18:27.240 I know that I need to be at this at like nine thirty am on 299 00:18:27.279 --> 00:18:30.559 like a Saturday or something, and I was like, and it's already eight, 300 00:18:30.559 --> 00:18:32.880 which means we only have this much time to do what? And then 301 00:18:32.920 --> 00:18:34.799 I get in my head about things. Yeah, and I'm like, and 302 00:18:34.839 --> 00:18:38.079 then it takes away from the moment. And so I, yeah, I 303 00:18:38.119 --> 00:18:41.240 want quicker sex. But then if I know that there could be a time 304 00:18:41.319 --> 00:18:45.079 limit, yeah, then I'm stressed about Okay, I need the freedom to 305 00:18:45.519 --> 00:18:48.680 go as long as I want, but also as short as I want to, 306 00:18:49.319 --> 00:18:53.480 that's fair. I typically don't like, uh, I think we've shared, 307 00:18:53.519 --> 00:18:56.480 we've talked about this. For I prefer morning sex, but like that's 308 00:18:56.480 --> 00:19:00.920 a limited situation for Jake and I in away because of Olive. But I 309 00:19:00.960 --> 00:19:06.799 typically don't like hook up right before I go do something because I just like 310 00:19:06.880 --> 00:19:12.000 don't want to deal with anything aftermath. Yeah, cleaning, ironing, washing, 311 00:19:12.480 --> 00:19:15.680 are you ironing? Your flapstone or what we got a little wrinkled? 312 00:19:17.920 --> 00:19:21.759 God? Which flaps are you talking about? You know which flaps I'm talking 313 00:19:21.759 --> 00:19:25.720 about? Oh, you shouldn't put an iron on those? You thanks? 314 00:19:25.880 --> 00:19:29.799 Yeah, there's so sensitive. God, I didn't show you this. I'm 315 00:19:29.799 --> 00:19:33.960 gonna see if I it's this awful flaast material. No, but I burnt 316 00:19:33.039 --> 00:19:37.319 myself steaming something. Were you steaming it when it was on your body? 317 00:19:37.440 --> 00:19:38.960 Gitty? What the fuck? Who does that? Oh? You can kind 318 00:19:38.960 --> 00:19:45.079 of see the geese her upper thigh because rah. I know it was pretty 319 00:19:45.119 --> 00:19:47.880 bad, but honestly didn't hurt that bad. Like it hurt in the moment, 320 00:19:47.960 --> 00:19:49.160 but then afterwards it was like fine, Like you know how you touch 321 00:19:49.160 --> 00:19:53.039 a crew. You're way too old to be steaming clothes on your body. 322 00:19:53.240 --> 00:19:57.119 Myself, I was going to an event, yeah, and my I was 323 00:19:57.160 --> 00:20:00.680 going with my girlfriend and she was like, oh, so I'm working out 324 00:20:00.680 --> 00:20:03.160 and then i'll go home, get ready quick, and I'll come get you. 325 00:20:03.400 --> 00:20:07.720 I'm like, sweet, Well, she'd like, didn't I thought she 326 00:20:07.799 --> 00:20:10.799 was gonna have to shower and do her hair and all this stuff. And 327 00:20:10.799 --> 00:20:11.319 the next thing I know, she's like, Okay, I'm on my way 328 00:20:11.319 --> 00:20:14.640 and I was like, fuck, like I am not ready, and so 329 00:20:14.680 --> 00:20:15.559 I put this dress on. It was so wrinkly. I was like, 330 00:20:15.559 --> 00:20:18.839 I don't have time to whip this off and like, steam it not on 331 00:20:18.960 --> 00:20:22.519 my body. So then I did steam it on my body and I immediately 332 00:20:22.519 --> 00:20:23.640 burnt myself. And then I did take it off and I was able to 333 00:20:23.680 --> 00:20:26.279 do it not on my body in time for her to pick me up and 334 00:20:26.319 --> 00:20:30.039 still be ready. So I learned a lesson, did you? And I, 335 00:20:30.200 --> 00:20:33.279 yeah, I won't do that again. I've done like a quick iron 336 00:20:33.480 --> 00:20:37.920 with a hair straightener on something, but like it'll be like pulling the dress 337 00:20:37.920 --> 00:20:41.640 out doing like the little flat iron thing, and that's pretty rare because I 338 00:20:41.640 --> 00:20:44.960 don't especially now, I don't really use a flat iron anymore. Like ever, 339 00:20:45.400 --> 00:20:49.880 by the way I was going to say, I wanted to recommend something, 340 00:20:51.359 --> 00:20:53.440 so I talked about it on like the radio show. So you may 341 00:20:53.440 --> 00:20:57.440 have seen the video, but I technically graduated from therapy. I did see 342 00:20:57.440 --> 00:21:03.480 that video, congratulations. So basically it was just like you could always have 343 00:21:03.559 --> 00:21:07.680 something to talk to your therapist about. But she feels like I'm like set 344 00:21:08.480 --> 00:21:17.039 because it was kind of like before I would be like like I wish therapy 345 00:21:17.119 --> 00:21:18.160 was today, you know what I mean, like I need to talk to 346 00:21:18.200 --> 00:21:23.319 someone today, Like almost every day needed someone to talk to and it's gotten, 347 00:21:23.440 --> 00:21:27.359 you know, and she's she knows this each time, like at a 348 00:21:27.400 --> 00:21:30.799 certain point, was like, Okay, let's not meet every week. Let's 349 00:21:30.839 --> 00:21:34.079 meet every three weeks, then every six weeks, then every eight weeks, 350 00:21:34.119 --> 00:21:37.240 and I mean the last time we met was probably over eight weeks, maybe 351 00:21:37.240 --> 00:21:41.160 three months ago, and so we always at the end we'll look and see 352 00:21:41.160 --> 00:21:45.240 when we want to meet again. And she was like, I'm gonna let 353 00:21:45.279 --> 00:21:48.480 you think about this. Do you want to set an appointment? I go, 354 00:21:48.720 --> 00:21:51.880 I feel like I don't need to have an appointment, and she goes, 355 00:21:52.839 --> 00:21:53.960 I thought the same thing. But I, you know, wanted you 356 00:21:55.000 --> 00:21:56.279 to feel that way, because if you wanted to, we would have them. 357 00:21:56.519 --> 00:21:59.799 But she's like, I just feel like you have the tools you need 358 00:21:59.839 --> 00:22:02.559 now. Doesn't mean I don't need therapy, doesn't need them. I mean, 359 00:22:02.599 --> 00:22:04.960 I'm never going to spiral have anxiety or different things. She's like, 360 00:22:06.000 --> 00:22:08.400 but you can set up an appointment with me if you feel like you need 361 00:22:08.440 --> 00:22:12.079 it. But like I was, like, it became like a thing on 362 00:22:12.119 --> 00:22:15.359 my calendar. I'm like, oh, I have therapy. Like I wasn't 363 00:22:15.400 --> 00:22:18.000 looking forward to it because I didn't have something weighing on me that I needed 364 00:22:18.000 --> 00:22:23.119 to talk about. And so I was like, this is just crazy that 365 00:22:23.200 --> 00:22:27.680 I'm like technically, you know quote unquote grind, which is every therapist's goal 366 00:22:27.920 --> 00:22:33.000 to have you not need them regularly. But she recommended this book because one 367 00:22:33.000 --> 00:22:37.759 of the things I have is I have like some built up anger over various 368 00:22:37.799 --> 00:22:44.160 things. And I will sometimes usually if I'm laying a bed at night or 369 00:22:44.200 --> 00:22:47.799 whatever, I start thinking of these things that anger me. They're in the 370 00:22:47.880 --> 00:22:49.960 past, and it's kind of like why am I doing it? Like I'll 371 00:22:51.119 --> 00:22:56.440 rev myself up over nothing. And so she recommended this book, and I 372 00:22:56.480 --> 00:23:00.880 wanted to share it on the podcast because I'm probably actually gonna make my book 373 00:23:00.880 --> 00:23:04.680 club read it because she says she would recommend it to every single woman ever. 374 00:23:06.359 --> 00:23:07.440 I'm sorry, it's gonna take me a second to find it, probably 375 00:23:08.400 --> 00:23:11.480 because I wrote it in my notes app and now I'm like where I should 376 00:23:11.519 --> 00:23:17.000 just look where. I texted it to my friends Donn and Amy. But 377 00:23:17.119 --> 00:23:22.279 she also the woman the author also has. She's like a bunch of podcasts. 378 00:23:22.440 --> 00:23:25.200 What the hell. I'm just gonna look at the text us and to 379 00:23:25.279 --> 00:23:32.400 Amy and Donna because I sorry, you're fine, Amy, Donna group text. 380 00:23:32.400 --> 00:23:37.599 Okay. So it's called The Dance of Anger, okay by doctor Harriet 381 00:23:37.680 --> 00:23:41.160 Lerner, and it's l E R N E R and if you go to 382 00:23:41.279 --> 00:23:44.079 like, I just have audible. So I just downloaded. I haven't listened 383 00:23:44.079 --> 00:23:47.519 to it yet. And then she says, if you like, look up 384 00:23:47.559 --> 00:23:51.160 podcasts and type in doctor Harriet Learner. She's on a bunch of people's podcasts 385 00:23:52.240 --> 00:23:55.960 talking about different topics. But the reason is, like the Dance of Anger, 386 00:23:56.000 --> 00:23:59.480 it's like for women, and like anger, we have built up over 387 00:23:59.559 --> 00:24:02.720 certain things. And like, I don't know, Like I said, I 388 00:24:02.759 --> 00:24:06.559 haven't listened to it yet, but she says she thinks every woman should read 389 00:24:06.559 --> 00:24:08.079 it. So I just wanted to recommend it. I downloaded it and I 390 00:24:08.079 --> 00:24:11.640 haven't started it yet. Okay, I want to hear about it once you 391 00:24:11.640 --> 00:24:14.759 read it. Yeah, because I'm still in the midst of a katar. 392 00:24:15.079 --> 00:24:17.440 Yeah, I know I need a life, and so I like, I 393 00:24:17.440 --> 00:24:19.640 am curious about that because I do the same thing where I'm laying in bed 394 00:24:19.640 --> 00:24:22.920 at night and suddenly I think is something that has already passed. Yeah, 395 00:24:22.960 --> 00:24:27.119 and I start getting like upset about something. And then because of my anxiety, 396 00:24:27.160 --> 00:24:32.039 I started thinking about things that bad that could happen in the future because 397 00:24:32.079 --> 00:24:34.079 of something that happened in the past that was resolved. And so yeah, 398 00:24:34.119 --> 00:24:40.480 that was one of So I always thought I leaned more depressive than anxious, 399 00:24:40.720 --> 00:24:45.519 but I guess I've learned that a lot of my quote unquote spiraling. And 400 00:24:45.599 --> 00:24:49.640 she's like, you keep using that word spiraling. It's it's been anxiety. 401 00:24:49.680 --> 00:24:53.759 And I didn't know that about myself because my parents are such depressed people or 402 00:24:53.799 --> 00:24:59.519 always have been. That I just assumed and I'm like a negative glass half 403 00:24:59.559 --> 00:25:04.039 full. But one of the things I was doing was I was like looking 404 00:25:04.079 --> 00:25:07.440 at something in the future that I wanted, like a goal, and I 405 00:25:07.519 --> 00:25:12.640 was kind of obsessed with it, and it would make me angry daily thinking 406 00:25:12.680 --> 00:25:17.319 about it. And I was like, this is not healthy, and she's 407 00:25:17.359 --> 00:25:21.000 like, because you're living in the future, which is literally anxiety, She's 408 00:25:21.039 --> 00:25:22.599 like, you have to quit living in the you know, she didn't say 409 00:25:22.599 --> 00:25:27.279 it like that, It never yet. And so in this recent session, 410 00:25:27.319 --> 00:25:32.359 I had said, like I've come to terms with I need to just be 411 00:25:32.400 --> 00:25:34.920 okay with what I'm doing right now. That is mean I don't have goals, 412 00:25:36.119 --> 00:25:38.640 but like I was, it wasn't a healthy goal. It was like 413 00:25:38.680 --> 00:25:42.519 a it was like I said, I was making myself angry that I hadn't 414 00:25:42.799 --> 00:25:47.759 like achieved it yet, and that was unhealthy. And so it was kind 415 00:25:47.759 --> 00:25:51.000 of like, I need to be okay with living in the present and what 416 00:25:51.119 --> 00:25:55.880 I'm doing, and if that's miserable, then I got to look at things 417 00:25:55.920 --> 00:25:59.519 different. But I'm not miserable in the present, and I have to let 418 00:25:59.559 --> 00:26:03.640 go of And this will be like really vulnerable and honest on this podcast. 419 00:26:03.680 --> 00:26:06.240 We don't talk about it a lot. I still get in my head a 420 00:26:06.279 --> 00:26:11.079 lot about the difference of mornings and afternoons, because in my mind, mornings 421 00:26:11.079 --> 00:26:18.759 will always be more prestigious than afternoons, and that is a mental struggle. 422 00:26:18.839 --> 00:26:25.000 I have a why does that matter? That's very inside, that's very radio. 423 00:26:26.000 --> 00:26:30.039 The outside world doesn't care. No, they don't go, oh, 424 00:26:30.119 --> 00:26:36.960 she's afternoons. Yeah fuck. Because also afternoons isn't a bad time slot there. 425 00:26:37.000 --> 00:26:40.880 There's always been two drive times for people, mornings and afternoons. So 426 00:26:40.920 --> 00:26:44.920 it's kind of like what is this about? Is this like a whole pride 427 00:26:45.000 --> 00:26:48.039 thing is this? And so it's a there are some deeper things there. 428 00:26:48.519 --> 00:26:52.960 And so one thing I have to like, who cares? Fallin? Who 429 00:26:53.000 --> 00:26:59.440 cares if you're doing afternoons instead of mornings. A you still are doing a 430 00:26:59.519 --> 00:27:02.000 job, you like, you're with a partner, you like, you're making 431 00:27:02.000 --> 00:27:07.000 good money, you're happy. So what you're mentally making yourself unhappy? And 432 00:27:07.079 --> 00:27:11.079 also it's not to say I'll never do a morning show ever again, but 433 00:27:11.119 --> 00:27:15.440 I need to be happy with where I am right now. And so that's 434 00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:18.720 kind of like one of those like mental struggles I've been dealing with. And 435 00:27:19.519 --> 00:27:26.039 that's like, I don't know, it's a weird thing to stop thinking about. 436 00:27:26.759 --> 00:27:30.319 So I feel like we all go through like so many different phases in 437 00:27:30.359 --> 00:27:37.200 life, and a lot of people base something that they're looking forward to or 438 00:27:37.240 --> 00:27:41.480 that they're reaching for, being career based. Yeah, and so I think, 439 00:27:41.599 --> 00:27:44.880 like I was thinking about it, and like this goes back so far. 440 00:27:44.920 --> 00:27:48.599 It's like in middle school, high school, I was trying to get 441 00:27:48.640 --> 00:27:51.119 good grades so I could get into a good college. So I was always 442 00:27:51.119 --> 00:27:55.640 stressed out about school and stuff like that. College comes I wanted to get 443 00:27:55.680 --> 00:27:59.000 good grades and get a good job because I thought that that's how it worked. 444 00:27:59.359 --> 00:28:02.240 Found out that really how it works. Yeah, Yeah, I have 445 00:28:02.240 --> 00:28:06.119 to like get out there and get internships and network and whatever. So that 446 00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:08.079 was like what I was focused on in college. In my twenties, I 447 00:28:08.160 --> 00:28:11.839 kind of was like the party girl and was you know, hooking up with 448 00:28:12.200 --> 00:28:15.240 dudes and doing whatever and kind of dating and stuff, and that was like 449 00:28:15.319 --> 00:28:18.440 kind of a focus for me, with career mixed in. Now I'm like 450 00:28:18.519 --> 00:28:23.880 fully career based much more, but I also have like a good relationship. 451 00:28:23.960 --> 00:28:29.920 So it's like you're always reaching for something and if you're thinking too hard about 452 00:28:29.920 --> 00:28:33.920 it constantly, then yeah, you're going to find like unhappiness in your present. 453 00:28:33.079 --> 00:28:36.400 Yeah, but I just think that that is how life works, to 454 00:28:36.440 --> 00:28:38.279 be honest, Like I understand where your therapist is coming from with a lot 455 00:28:38.319 --> 00:28:41.720 of the stuff, and like it's very worth it to be like, Okay, 456 00:28:41.759 --> 00:28:45.759 you need to like not be thinking about the future and whatever constantly, 457 00:28:45.880 --> 00:28:52.160 But it is part of life to always be looking to what's next. It's 458 00:28:52.240 --> 00:28:56.359 just how it is. Yeah, until you're dead, God, because then 459 00:28:57.240 --> 00:29:03.279 I don't happen. Then I don't know, if it's just immediately you're just 460 00:29:03.400 --> 00:29:06.480 cleared of that anxiety, that would be great. I don't know. That's 461 00:29:06.480 --> 00:29:10.680 what I pray for. I've that I if I reached the age of like 462 00:29:11.519 --> 00:29:14.960 seventy or something, I hope that at that point in life, I'm like 463 00:29:15.559 --> 00:29:19.319 book everything. I don't care. I'm just living till I'm not. Yeah, 464 00:29:19.319 --> 00:29:22.880 I hope that that is. I probably won't. I'll probably be anxious 465 00:29:22.960 --> 00:29:26.680 till the day I die. Yeah. Did I leave the stove one when 466 00:29:26.680 --> 00:29:29.680 I was biking my cookies. I don't know why you sound like that, 467 00:29:29.720 --> 00:29:32.000 but you do make a good cookies. So I put that into your world. 468 00:29:32.039 --> 00:29:33.200 Thank you. You're welcome. I don't know if I'll still be baking 469 00:29:33.240 --> 00:29:37.240 when I'm like too old and senile. I'll probably like, I mean, 470 00:29:37.640 --> 00:29:41.519 drunk Jenny burns Tilapias, old snowl Jenny might burnt cookies, you know what. 471 00:29:41.920 --> 00:29:45.319 And that's something to look forward to. Did you have anything else you 472 00:29:45.319 --> 00:29:48.039 want to add before we wrap up today's episode, yes, really quickly. 473 00:29:48.079 --> 00:29:52.160 So. I had a wedding over the weekend and I had a poor choice 474 00:29:52.200 --> 00:29:55.960 in the dress I wore. Why it was too short? Oh no, 475 00:29:56.160 --> 00:30:00.000 And I like tried on a few different dresses, and I have a few 476 00:30:00.160 --> 00:30:02.799 weddings this summer, so I was trying to decide what makes the most sense 477 00:30:02.839 --> 00:30:06.240 for each wedding. Yeah, one's outside ones whatever, and this one I 478 00:30:06.279 --> 00:30:07.359 was like, Okay, this will probably be the best one for this wedding. 479 00:30:07.720 --> 00:30:11.799 Well, of course, like it was above the knee in length and 480 00:30:11.839 --> 00:30:14.599 it was more of like, you're not body con super tight, but it 481 00:30:14.640 --> 00:30:18.200 was a little bit tighter, and I was like, okay, I'm gonna 482 00:30:18.240 --> 00:30:19.440 wear this. It's cute, tried it on, walked around the house. 483 00:30:19.480 --> 00:30:22.799 I was like, I can do this. It's not like riding up whatever. 484 00:30:22.160 --> 00:30:25.839 But when it comes down to it, any dress that you have to 485 00:30:25.920 --> 00:30:27.759 somewhat worry about in the end, you shouldn't wear it to a wedding, 486 00:30:27.880 --> 00:30:32.200 especially not if you're trying to dance. And also the back was kind of 487 00:30:32.240 --> 00:30:36.839 open, so I wore this blazer over top it because I was like, 488 00:30:37.000 --> 00:30:40.599 seriously scared people were gonna be judging me because of how short, and then 489 00:30:40.640 --> 00:30:44.319 the back was open and stuff. So I'm sweating, Oh god, I'm 490 00:30:44.799 --> 00:30:47.519 but I'm still dancing and having a good time. And at one point this 491 00:30:47.640 --> 00:30:51.440 older woman comes up to me like somebody's aunt and she and I was like, 492 00:30:51.440 --> 00:30:52.440 oh my god, is she about to say something to me about my 493 00:30:52.559 --> 00:30:56.160 dress? Like, and she goes, I just have to say, And 494 00:30:56.160 --> 00:31:00.440 I was like, here we go. She goes, you have the most 495 00:31:00.559 --> 00:31:06.519 disciplined electric slide I've ever seen. She's like, everyone else was just doing 496 00:31:06.559 --> 00:31:10.000 whatever, and you were the only one pretty much staying on the bead and 497 00:31:10.119 --> 00:31:12.440 doing the right mood. And so she was giving me a compliment. But 498 00:31:12.519 --> 00:31:15.599 I was so funny. I've never heard someone be like, you have the 499 00:31:15.599 --> 00:31:21.839 most disciplined So anyways, learn a lesson. Don't wear a dress that you 500 00:31:21.920 --> 00:31:25.759 might have to be worried about. It's so true. The moment you think 501 00:31:25.960 --> 00:31:30.240 I'm going to be uncomfortable in this, you probably are. Just don't put 502 00:31:30.279 --> 00:31:33.720 yourself through it. Every time I wear sequence, I regret it it like 503 00:31:33.880 --> 00:31:37.279 will always if it's like a strapless thing, chop up my fit like underarm 504 00:31:37.400 --> 00:31:41.319 skin, and I hate it. And it always like I never think sequence 505 00:31:41.359 --> 00:31:45.440 are that flattering on the body. I feel like the bulkiness of the material 506 00:31:45.480 --> 00:31:48.720 makes me look bigger. Yeah that's one of those takeaways I have, Yet 507 00:31:48.720 --> 00:31:51.599 I didn't know that's so true. About sequence dresses I wore but I love 508 00:31:51.640 --> 00:31:53.400 them for like a New Year's party once and I felt like it made me 509 00:31:53.480 --> 00:31:57.240 look just like frumpy and like didn't accentuate the curves that it was supposed to. 510 00:31:57.519 --> 00:32:00.880 Like never again, yeah, like I'll see them in stores and I'm 511 00:32:00.920 --> 00:32:05.920 like, Okay, maybe like someone super super super super super right can pull 512 00:32:06.000 --> 00:32:08.000 this off. But like, I don't know, it's just not not that 513 00:32:08.119 --> 00:32:12.359 you can look great and everything. But I just think Jenny was to me, 514 00:32:12.880 --> 00:32:15.440 no, you and anyone who is you can thank you. I just 515 00:32:15.480 --> 00:32:19.519 feel like it isn't the most flattering though a lot of times. All right, 516 00:32:19.640 --> 00:32:22.279 well, Jenny, have a great trip. Thank you. Catch up 517 00:32:22.319 --> 00:32:24.519 with you on Tuesday and see how the heat stroke hike went. Yeah, 518 00:32:24.680 --> 00:32:27.400 god, Okay, thanks for listening.