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All right, let's do this.
Oh, I got Marissa and Vernon on

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the line. Marissa, good morning, good morning, Hey, welcome to

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second date update. Obviously, you
know that that's when you get ghosted after

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a great first date. So before
we can try to get you some answers,

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Marissa, you need to tell us
about this great date. Yeah.

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So I went on a date with
a guy that I actually met at a

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Halloween party, which I thought was
really Yeah, it was really fun.

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We had a great conversation with an
awesome night, and then we took to

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a very romantic dinner and it was
that Italian restaurant and the night was great.

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The date was amazing and I thought
it was awesome. You didn't have

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too much red wine, did you? No? I had one glass of

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red wine? Okay, okay,
and an Italian restaurant. I guess.

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The producer says his name is Derek. How was the conversation with Derek?

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Was a good conversation during the date? Oh yeah, she was amazing.

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I felt like it was ending,
like I just like didn't want it to

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end. We just kept talking and
talking and talking, like I barely even

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ate because I was like talking so
much. Okay, So I know this

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is gonna sound dumb, but I
always had a rule no salad on the

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first date, because there's like no
polite way to eat a salad. Did

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you in fact have a salad?
I did have a salad. Oh,

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there we go. But I mean, if that's the reason, I'm going

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to be very shocked. And if
that's the reason he's not worth dating.

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If a dude kid, like,
if he's gonna not call you back because

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because you ate a salad, I
mean really, all right, So it

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sounds like it was a great date. It sounds like it was fantastic,

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and you're getting ghosted. So have
you reached out to him and you're just

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and he's not responding? Is that
what's happening? I did. I waited

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a little bit because I didn't want
to be clinging or weird, so I

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kind of just like waited till the
next day to say, hey, thanks

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for the date. It was awesome. And he didn't respond, and then

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I was like, Okay, maybe
he didn't get it or he's busy.

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So I texted him again the next
day and just said, you know,

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hey, just want to recount to
your things again. I had a really

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good time. Hope you too like
something like that, and then I have

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not heard He never responded to either
text. Okay, okay, well then

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listen to texts. I'm gonna call
him. We're gonna call Derek. You're

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gonna be listening in. I'm gonna
ask him about the date. I'm just

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gonna tell him he's on the radio. I'm just be honest with him,

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sud He has to say, are
you ready? Okay? Oh, I

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just think I'm weird about sal thing, but it's true. It makes you

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look like a messy eater. Yeah, when you think about it, when

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you really think about it, Yeah, there's no like pretty way to eat

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a salad. Hi is Derek there? Derek? Hey, Derek, it's

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Courtney. Hey, what's up.
It's Walmart Jeff. Hey, Derek,

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it's Savannah and you're on Kiss ninety
five seven this morning. Derek. Okay,

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hello, Hey? Oh no,
all right, well I'll tell you

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why you're on. It's called second
date update. It's something we do on

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the show here, Derek, where
if you go on a first date and

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you really enjoyed yourself, but you're
getting ghosted and you want answers because you

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really want to see that person again. You call us. Marissa called us

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to tell us about your date.
Okay, okay, yeah, this is

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what I'll feel you in. So, Derek, Marissa said, you guys

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met at a Halloween party, had
a great time at the party, and

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then you took her out for a
romantic like dinner at an Italian restaurant.

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She said, the conversation was great. She thought you guys were totally hitting

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it off. She'd love to see
you again. She even reached out twice

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and sent you a text message,
you know, thanking you for the date,

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but you're ghosting her. Is there
a reason for it or is it

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just like miscommunication? Uh no,
listen, I mean the date was all

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right, I just it wasn't what
I expected. Well, I mean,

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what did you expect you went to
it? Like, were you expecting what

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not to be at an Italian restaurant? The atmosphere. We met at a

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Halloween party and she was dressed as
this sexy cheerleader, and you know,

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I was expecting that on the date, But when once she showed up,

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she just looked nothing like it.
Like she just looked so disheveled and it

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was just all she wasn't put together
and slippers, no makeup, Her hair

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wasn't done, just wasn't anything like
she looked like at the Halloween party.

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Okay, so you expected her to
show up as a sexy cheerleader. Tid

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Oh, she's here with her pomp
pomps. Can't we pick her up?

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Is that what you expected? Not
what I expected. I just expected her

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to really, you know, kind
of come done up like any girl would

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on a on a first date.
You know, you know Corney, I

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kind of know what he's talking about. You will not out of it.

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It's like when women wear push up
bras. It's like guys are expecting one

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thing and then they take the bra
off and it's something completely different. So

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I kind of like when you walk
around in a lear chart in here and

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we're all like, whoa, Jeff, But really, you know what the

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truth is exactly? Yes, Kim, listen, I want to bring Marissa.

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Marissa is listening? Are you there? Marissa? Yeah? I mean

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honestly, my jaws on the floor, Like, are you is this for

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real? You're disgusting? Did you
not shower? He says, you didn't

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shower? Get tre you were wearing
slippers? Like, what's going on.

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I mean, I just look how
I normally look every day, like in

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everyday life, like and then you
said something about slippers, like those are

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proud of What are you talking about? Slippers? Girl? You got the

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product loafers. Yeah, I have
style. I'm so confused by this guy,

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Like you expected me to come in
a sexy cheerleader out hit. I

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actually want to throw up. Yeah, it seems a little shallow, Derek

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on your end, Listen, I'm
not trying to be shallow here. I

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just I have my expectations. I
just thought that you would come kind of

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done up, and you weren't.
Oh my god, Derek, how can

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you not appreciate the Proda loafers?
What's wrong with you? They were just

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they looked like you just got out
of bed, Like you got out of

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bed and you slipped on the slippers. Okay, I'm so confused by this,

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Marissa. It just sounds like he
expected you to be a sexy cheerleader

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at dinner. I think that's yeah, I'm kind of getting that because I

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just looked like how I look every
day, which no one has ever told

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me. I looked like I rolled
out of bed. So I think you're

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just choving a stick and you want
maybe some like disgusting girl with fake boops

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or something, but that's like not
me, very natural, so I don't.

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Yeah, I am like just so
wow, like my well, I'm

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sorry, I have my jobs on
the floor. I'm like, well,

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that's okay. I get it.
You want to be yourself, and you

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want to you want the person you're
going on your day with to be like,

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oh my gosh, she's beautiful and
beautiful being yourself, not being a

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sexy cheerleader or sexy stripper that they
met at a Halloween party. I don't

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think this is a love match.
I'm just saying I usually offer a second

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date, try it one more time, and I pick up the tab.

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But I think, are we good, Marissa? Are you? Am I

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correct in thinking that doesn't even matter. You don't want to go out with

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him again? Oh I'm great to
never see him again. Yes, all

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right, Well listen, I guess
we'll just wrap it up with Derek.

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Thanks for being honest. I think
I mean, at least we can thank

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you for being honest. Yeah.
I hope she doesn't go on another day

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looking like the way she did.
Oh my god, my all right,

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I can't. Marissa. Hopefully we
helped you out. I'm glad you found

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out now instead of later. Okay, wow yeah, thank you guys,