All right, let's do this. Oh, I got Marissa and Vernon on
the line. Marissa, good morning, good morning, Hey, welcome to
second date update. Obviously, you know that that's when you get ghosted after
a great first date. So before we can try to get you some answers,
Marissa, you need to tell us about this great date. Yeah.
So I went on a date with a guy that I actually met at a
Halloween party, which I thought was really Yeah, it was really fun.
We had a great conversation with an awesome night, and then we took to
a very romantic dinner and it was that Italian restaurant and the night was great.
The date was amazing and I thought it was awesome. You didn't have
too much red wine, did you? No? I had one glass of
red wine? Okay, okay, and an Italian restaurant. I guess.
The producer says his name is Derek. How was the conversation with Derek?
Was a good conversation during the date? Oh yeah, she was amazing.
I felt like it was ending, like I just like didn't want it to
end. We just kept talking and talking and talking, like I barely even
ate because I was like talking so much. Okay, So I know this
is gonna sound dumb, but I always had a rule no salad on the
first date, because there's like no polite way to eat a salad. Did
you in fact have a salad? I did have a salad. Oh,
there we go. But I mean, if that's the reason, I'm going
to be very shocked. And if that's the reason he's not worth dating.
If a dude kid, like, if he's gonna not call you back because
because you ate a salad, I mean really, all right, So it
sounds like it was a great date. It sounds like it was fantastic,
and you're getting ghosted. So have you reached out to him and you're just
and he's not responding? Is that what's happening? I did. I waited
a little bit because I didn't want to be clinging or weird, so I
kind of just like waited till the next day to say, hey, thanks
for the date. It was awesome. And he didn't respond, and then
I was like, Okay, maybe he didn't get it or he's busy.
So I texted him again the next day and just said, you know,
hey, just want to recount to your things again. I had a really
good time. Hope you too like something like that, and then I have
not heard He never responded to either text. Okay, okay, well then
listen to texts. I'm gonna call him. We're gonna call Derek. You're
gonna be listening in. I'm gonna ask him about the date. I'm just
gonna tell him he's on the radio. I'm just be honest with him,
sud He has to say, are you ready? Okay? Oh, I
just think I'm weird about sal thing, but it's true. It makes you
look like a messy eater. Yeah, when you think about it, when
you really think about it, Yeah, there's no like pretty way to eat
a salad. Hi is Derek there? Derek? Hey, Derek, it's
Courtney. Hey, what's up. It's Walmart Jeff. Hey, Derek,
it's Savannah and you're on Kiss ninety five seven this morning. Derek. Okay,
hello, Hey? Oh no, all right, well I'll tell you
why you're on. It's called second date update. It's something we do on
the show here, Derek, where if you go on a first date and
you really enjoyed yourself, but you're getting ghosted and you want answers because you
really want to see that person again. You call us. Marissa called us
to tell us about your date. Okay, okay, yeah, this is
what I'll feel you in. So, Derek, Marissa said, you guys
met at a Halloween party, had a great time at the party, and
then you took her out for a romantic like dinner at an Italian restaurant.
She said, the conversation was great. She thought you guys were totally hitting
it off. She'd love to see you again. She even reached out twice
and sent you a text message, you know, thanking you for the date,
but you're ghosting her. Is there a reason for it or is it
just like miscommunication? Uh no, listen, I mean the date was all
right, I just it wasn't what I expected. Well, I mean,
what did you expect you went to it? Like, were you expecting what
not to be at an Italian restaurant? The atmosphere. We met at a
Halloween party and she was dressed as this sexy cheerleader, and you know,
I was expecting that on the date, But when once she showed up,
she just looked nothing like it. Like she just looked so disheveled and it
was just all she wasn't put together and slippers, no makeup, Her hair
wasn't done, just wasn't anything like she looked like at the Halloween party.
Okay, so you expected her to show up as a sexy cheerleader. Tid
Oh, she's here with her pomp pomps. Can't we pick her up?
Is that what you expected? Not what I expected. I just expected her
to really, you know, kind of come done up like any girl would
on a on a first date. You know, you know Corney, I
kind of know what he's talking about. You will not out of it.
It's like when women wear push up bras. It's like guys are expecting one
thing and then they take the bra off and it's something completely different. So
I kind of like when you walk around in a lear chart in here and
we're all like, whoa, Jeff, But really, you know what the
truth is exactly? Yes, Kim, listen, I want to bring Marissa.
Marissa is listening? Are you there? Marissa? Yeah? I mean
honestly, my jaws on the floor, Like, are you is this for
real? You're disgusting? Did you not shower? He says, you didn't
shower? Get tre you were wearing slippers? Like, what's going on.
I mean, I just look how I normally look every day, like in
everyday life, like and then you said something about slippers, like those are
proud of What are you talking about? Slippers? Girl? You got the
product loafers. Yeah, I have style. I'm so confused by this guy,
Like you expected me to come in a sexy cheerleader out hit. I
actually want to throw up. Yeah, it seems a little shallow, Derek
on your end, Listen, I'm not trying to be shallow here. I
just I have my expectations. I just thought that you would come kind of
done up, and you weren't. Oh my god, Derek, how can
you not appreciate the Proda loafers? What's wrong with you? They were just
they looked like you just got out of bed, Like you got out of
bed and you slipped on the slippers. Okay, I'm so confused by this,
Marissa. It just sounds like he expected you to be a sexy cheerleader
at dinner. I think that's yeah, I'm kind of getting that because I
just looked like how I look every day, which no one has ever told
me. I looked like I rolled out of bed. So I think you're
just choving a stick and you want maybe some like disgusting girl with fake boops
or something, but that's like not me, very natural, so I don't.
Yeah, I am like just so wow, like my well, I'm
sorry, I have my jobs on the floor. I'm like, well,
that's okay. I get it. You want to be yourself, and you
want to you want the person you're going on your day with to be like,
oh my gosh, she's beautiful and beautiful being yourself, not being a
sexy cheerleader or sexy stripper that they met at a Halloween party. I don't
think this is a love match. I'm just saying I usually offer a second
date, try it one more time, and I pick up the tab.
But I think, are we good, Marissa? Are you? Am I
correct in thinking that doesn't even matter. You don't want to go out with
him again? Oh I'm great to never see him again. Yes, all
right, Well listen, I guess we'll just wrap it up with Derek.
Thanks for being honest. I think I mean, at least we can thank
you for being honest. Yeah. I hope she doesn't go on another day
looking like the way she did. Oh my god, my all right,
I can't. Marissa. Hopefully we helped you out. I'm glad you found
out now instead of later. Okay, wow yeah, thank you guys,