Made a decision. I'll face sunny sad on I had a vision. So
hey, everybody, welcome to for Crying Out Loud. This is us.
What a nice welcome bank you, thank you. We're on camera. Oh
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that much information for YouTube? Well there's there's like the main title for Crying
Out Loud and then there's a little there's a little tag underneath it. So
don't look at the babies that are crying. When you pull up the videos
like crying out, you're gonna see a ton of like crying cry babies.
Look for our crying baby from somebody tried to start a podcast and call it
for Crying Out Loud. Listen, you could do one fucking minute of research
and go, oh, there's already a podcast that's doing well, right,
I don't need to compete with that for crying out loud, what's up everybody.
I've often thought about podcast other podcast titles, and the first thing you
do is you go look it up. Sometimes you'll see like, oh,
somebody used this title. I had one that was going to be for dating,
and I wanted to call it okay stupid, which I thought was a
great in my mind. I'm like, this is a good title. I
think somebody who had used it, but like not when for a year?
Right, they made like two episodes and it was a waste. So to
those people, I say, takedown your shitty podcast that you didn't sustain,
take a dance stupid and allow that title to be used. But I feel
like somebody else could. If you use the title and you started actually making
shows, people would figure it out. Right anyway. That was like that
for our podcast that we do the water Cooler When, because that's like a
pretty common name you'd think for a podcast. So when we first did it,
there was like one other one. They didn't really they didn't hadn't really
posted any episode. They gave up on it. They made like four episodes
and they gave up on us. It's like, Okay, we're gonna make
it. And now there's a ton of toton called the water cooler. Oh
interesting, huh, you gotta find a good one. So let's say hi
to our friends. We have our friends, like our girlfriend Nikki, call
your girlfriend, yeah, call your girlfriend yeah, or called girl, your
girl Ashley so chic. Sometimes Leslie accosted me personally and outside of IKEA.
Yeah, I was like heard for me. She that she accosted those other
two sharmut does that we're gonna come up upon? Oh, Missy and Gabby?
Yes, oh, the three of them. Huh, guys, they're
out there now. Jacob is very Growley still is. Yeah, but he's
our He's our dude. Rita rocks that bassinet with all of Elizabeth Williamson's hundred
and five kids in it. Hero, Happy, Happy Father's Day. Athena
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And the Sissort Valerie hits out of the park. Katarina, girl, get
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that muller umbe whoo Kelly Bryant, She'll take a hip hop class. Aaron
who does Alicia Escalante from the City of elmante Leslie still coughing, Sarah Stefun,
Jennifer get up, Sandra, and ain't easy being green Christa you make
me want to stop. But Stephanie is a stinker wrinker. I love you
guys. What's up? It is what I was just going to ask you.
If you ever go down a rabbit hole, do you ever get caught
up and you're looking at Facebook and then a reel you see a Facebook reel
come up and you're like, oh, let me look at this, and
then it reminds you of something. It's sort of like the if you give
a mouse a cookie, Yeah, it's gonna watch some milk to go with
it, and you're like, oh, that reminds me of Whitney Houston,
like stanging at the end I will, And I was like, remember when
Whitney Houston did the national Anthem. I was like, very famous. Yes,
at some wit will you pull up Whitney Houston doing the Oh Say Kid?
And it's famous because she freaking killed it and she always kills it.
I know, But I was thinking, you know, so many people on
like the Voice an American idol like try to do their Whitney, And I
was thinking, what makes Whitney so special? She should And then you watch
her singing the national anthem and you're like, oh yeah, yeah, oh
yeah, yeah, what a sad that's such a way a talent. So
sad, I know. And then I was thinking, so I watched the
video for what's the What was the one the movie with Kevin Cosner that she
guard? Yeah? I think that was I'll Always Love You? Yeah?
Yes, if are you gonna saying it now? So that song? And
there's like a music video where she's like sad about Kevin Cosner, And I
was like, in her actual life though, she had like a crazy toxic
relationship with Bobby Brown, no big love story. It was like, did
you ever see them? Did you ever watch the Bobby Brown reality show?
I think I did. I'm sure I did, so John and I have
this joke from it, which is so sad. Now I know they're both
dead, right are they both? He's gone too? Now? The daughter
passed away? The daughter passed away? Is he is he still alive by
Bobby Brown? Yet? Oh? He is? Okay? Well they okay,
Well they were such bad drug addicts, right, together and they're both
there's these scenes where they're both like just intoxicated and uh, and they're like
at one point they're either going to go buy glasses or something, and they're
they're both going like glasses, glasses, glasses, blasses. I want my
glass. Remember that blasses sound familiar? John and I, I mean we
were howling. We watched it so long ago. We kept replaying that scene,
right, and then anytime anybody in our house mentions glasses, we goes
glasses. Glasses. Anyway, I was thinking like, yeah, like what
a wave wave And then and she was on so many pills right towards the
end that she couldn't poop. Oh really true, this is true. This
wasn't. Remember the Barbara Walters interview and I think of Whitney Houston. I
think it was Barbara Walters or Diane Sawyer. Yeah, membo blaa, that's
right. And that interview, of course, remember we black don't know that
crack crack something about crack crack is whack? Is that what she said?
I think? So? Yeah, yeah, she was talking about crack cocaine.
And she was sweating, like profusely sweating, which now that I'm probably
passed her age. Now I get it, like menopause, Like I'd probably
be sweating at Diane Say or Barballa. But you know, it was a
lot. I think. I think Whitney Houston died at forty nine. She
did, and she was so ya it's in a bathtub, right, yeah,
at the like Beverly Hilton Hotel. Hadn't she just performed or I think
she was about to go to the award show ask cap or something. Yeah,
this is like, don't don't come to us for like, don't ask
us for don't fact check me. Yeah. So, so there's this scene
with her and Bobby where she's can't poop, and then Bobby wants to offer
her. He's like, do you need some do you want some black love?
Or she might say black love and basically, okay, I'm sorry for
that. But what they're talking about is that he's offering to like put it
to like put a finger, get poop out of. Yeah, and they
love John. Yes. He oftentimes says do you need black love? And
then I go, no, No, I don't need finger. Are you
are you playing it? Oh? You want me to play it? Yeah?
Okay, no, heed to sit in the corner, and I don't
know if we do you can play it, because yes, we can't putting
it on. If we're putting on YouTube, though, then it's it's not
like just we're talking about it. It's oh god, I gotta look up
the exact rules of that. But everyone knows it's you can't really play something
I'm doing on YouTube. Down listen to yourself a favor. But it was
at Super Bowl twenty five and nine one nine one, and it was apparently
we just gotten to war because I had just looked this up. We were
at war. This is the Rabbit, and so it was a very patriotic
football game people were and people were like feeling very patriotic. Yeah yeah,
and then she just kills kills kills that song. Yeah, it's it is
It's like it makes you want to make Yeah, and then it's just so
sad. I wish I had that kind of talent. Could you imagine?
She's smart? But then you know what I was thinking, I was like,
is it the talent? Though? That like ruined her life? Like
look at these people, which it's like Amy Winehouse right another one, Yeah,
like is it the is it the talent? Is it? Are they
tortured artists or is it the fame? It depends on the person obviously.
I mean, look at Bruce Springsteen. He never does drugs or anything like
that. He's extremely talented in my opinion, but he doesn't get people chills.
Mate, Wow, he gives me chills. I don't know, it's
it's people now love Bruce Springsteen. So did he get famous later in life?
Was he young when he got famous? Yeah? He was, well,
No, he wrote a lot of albums at a young age. And
that's why I love him so much. When he was in his young twenties,
was writing these beautiful poetry these first second, first album, second album,
and then Born to Run was okay. But then Born in the USA
that's what like put him on the map. How old was he around him?
He was thirty five by that, Oh wow. But he wrote like
Born to Run when he was twenty five. But did it get super famous?
I mean it did it did, okay, but it wasn't like you
know, it wasn't the status of the Born in the USA tours. But
I won't bore you with that those details. But no, it's not boring
me. But I'm furness about people's fame, like whether they were already there
was already stuff about think about all the you know, the young people.
Think about like half of the cast of different strokes and where they are.
Well, actually the whole cast gone. Dana Plato died, gone, Todd
Bridges gone. He died too. Yeah, he passed away. Are you
sure? I'm pretty positive? No, I think he didn't die. Look
up, Todd brig didn't go to jail. Yeah, but then I think
he got sober. I think he was was a drug addict and then he
got sober, and I'm thinking, oh, he is my bad trying to
kill it. But but he didn't. He died. Charlotte Ray died.
Yeah, well dad, he died. They they didn't die from like,
you know, doing drugs. No, that is true. But Todd Bridges
wasn't a lot of trouble and then he got himself, had a gone.
He was like wept some weapons charges. Yeah, but it's sad, like
you know, and then think about like what's her name from, well,
what's her name from one day at a time, Juliet Julie Aunt Phillips,
McKenzie Kenzie Phillips. Yeah, she had a horrible but but Valley Bertonelly fine,
but look at what Phillips's past was. I mean she was she had
a very you know, troubled, tragic childhood, right when Valley Broughton,
you know she was brought up in a family that you know. M hmmm.
So I'm trying to get Carney Wilson speaking of Wilson yea, yeah,
um, not that Mackenzie Phillips was in Wilson Phillips. But Carney, I
think it's going to come on her show. Really yeah, maybe next month.
Oh that's exciting. I know. Yeah, she's awesome. And we
have a guest coming this week on our show. We should promote, we
should talk on our Thursday show. We have a Thursday Yes, we're gonna
what are we gonna talk about? I don't know, reality shows? Yeah,
we'll play it by her. I've been wanting to tell you about this
show that I came across, but it's kind of it can be it can
be a little triggering for people. Okay, but it's it's called it is
called under all right, So it's called under Undercover, Underage. It's a
docuseries and it's it's on Discovery. But it's also like I think you can
find it on Hulu, okay, because I looked it up to make sure
that you could see it. Undercover underage. Okay, undercover underage. This
woman Rule Powell. She's a child advocate. She started this non RuPaul.
Her name is rule r Oo Powell oh Rue Powell Upow. Not to be
confused with RuPaul, not RuPaul. No girl, No, she's not.
It would be hard for RuPaul to go undercover. Yeah, you'd be like,
are you RuPaul would be like, no, Darlin, no she Now
RuPaul cannot do what she does, Sissy that way, because you know what
she she Okay, so she has a nonprofit organization that busts guy online that
are trying to pick up young girls like to catch her predator. Yes,
and she looks she's she's got like three daughters. She looks she I think
she's like in her forties. She looks like she can be sixteen fourteen,
fifteen sixteen. So the first I went about it backwards, So I saw
this this I was looking for docuseries, saw that they had two seasons,
so I watched one episode in the second season and I was hooked. So
I watched the second season first the first season is not as good as a
second season because their whole thing is that she's got this small group of people,
like like her crew that work for her. There's like a researcher.
There's like, you know, the one that can do the you know,
the do the inner like do ai pictures, you know, the graphics and
all that and doctor things up and make things look like what they're not.
So like they took a picture of her, so they she creates this profile
of like fourteen year old girl in her bedroom. They work in a house,
so they got upstairs is the bedrooms. They're like a set. She's
got wigs, she's got filters, she's got nails, she's got braces and
glasses like she looks. Then she had to do like something where her grandma
died, so they aged her on the computer. Took a picture so that
the guy could see like her grandmother, like a picture of her grandmother.
This whole like every episode they're catching they'll call like you know, the contractor,
or they'll call like, um, the the handyman. You know,
they give him like these fakes. They don't show you. They they his
voice is you know, like you know, and it's so fucking fascinating how
they catch these guys and she so the second season, it's not like to
catch up the same thing as to catch up. It is catch but but
it's not Chris Hansen walking in Gone, you know, like you know,
it's it's different. It's totally different because she's got the Sheriff's department on on
like ready on call. So what she does is she gets a bunch of
accounts going and then she gets them hooked and then she builds a relationship with
them and then they're sitting there watching on the big screen. She's got like
four phones, you know, they you know, it's not just her talking,
it's other people. But everybody has to know what her story is,
how old she is, what her condition, living conditions are, everything.
Everybody's on the same page. So she's like oftentimes playing like a troubled yea
yes, And so she'll be on the phone and so like the guy will
go, let's FaceTime, So she has to run. Guys, he's calling,
he's calling. So they run upstairs to the bedroom, they turn the
lights up, blah blah blah blah. And then so it's so the second
season, she's not doing it anymore. They hire these these two young they're
twenty or twenty one year olds, like like theater students that want to help,
and they dress them up and they get you know, they have them
look like these young, you know, twelve year old girls right in their
bedrooms. And it can be very disturbing because there's times where the guy wants
to like jack off and stuff and she has to sit there and watch him,
and the girl like gets upset, you know, she because she's imagining,
you know, this could be a twelve year old. Let's let's let's
take a break because I got more to tell. Everybody. Relax, everybody,
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like two guys on the on the hook kind of thing, right, So
what happens, Well, what happens is what happened. So what happens is
once they go, okay, you know they've talked a bunch of times,
now this is on, you know, been going for like a couple of
weeks or maybe even a month. Then they'll set up a date, like
he'll want to go and meet like let's go, you know, to the
pizza parto, let's go meet the pizza parlor. Whatever. So she'll go
and meet him. She'll call the Sheriff's department. She has them. Now
they have their eating and they're going, okay, we got two guys on
this corner or two guys. But the first thing is is she's got to
identify the guy before she can give it to the sheriff's department. So that's
hard. So it's just some guy on the internet, you know, and
that's talking to her. How the hell do they find they find these guys,
It's insane how they They will like, of course they go through the
Facebook and they go but they'll like, he'll send like, one guy sent
a picture of himself in the bathroom and you could see his company keycard in
the corner, but you can't. But the guy, the graphics dude,
he like zooms in, turns it the right way, zooms and then sees
like the logo of the company and then zooms in like and then get and
then looks for oh, he said he did electrical whatever, so he lives
in this area. So then they will find electrical companies. They'll call,
they'll look at um, yearbooks from high schools, just all this little they
get. They try to get as much information until they can finally identify.
Once they have the guy identified what kind of car he drives, which is
hard to find too. Um, then then they get the sheriffs. Then
the sheriffs will like get on the corner, and then that's the payoff because
then she will go like, you know, be across the street, you
know kind of, and she'll the woman that's running it. Sometimes will dress
like the girl that was on the phone, but from from Afar, so
she'll put her wig on and whatever and dress like her, but not use
that girl in that environment because she's got like, you know, bulletproof vest
on. She's worked with police before. So she goes to the actual meeting
and cops come bust the guy. It's the best, the payoffs the best
because he undercover undercover. Hey no, it's just undercover underage, Okay.
Yeah. And it's two seasons now, the first So I watched the first
season. The first season, Bam, they get the guy. He's facing
ten years in prison. Blah blah blah. They give you all the like
this, you know, all the charges they bring against him, blah blah
blah. That's the second season. The first season, they don't have their
ship down as good as they do in the second season. She is in
the house, but it's her doing all of the phone calls, not the
other actors, right, And then every time they go to bust they don't
have the cameras to bust the guy, so they'll just go So she'll she
just says, Okay, we have everything we need, we package it,
we give it to the police department, and then they'll just put up on
the screen. He was never caught or he charges. He's still out there.
Charges haven't been brought up. These child it's insane horn guys or child
you know, pedophiles. Thank you, kin. Yeah, I was right
at the tip of your tongue. They really don't end up facing a lot
of charges, you know, they think they don't got a podcast for you.
Yeah. Betrayed season two? Is it betrayed or Betrayal? I think
it's betrayed? Season two is about is about a woman who catches her husband
betrayed. Let me look at it really quickly. Betrayal. Betrayal season two,
Dude, it's so good. Yeah, Yeah, it's a like I
said, it's this woman and she finds all this child pornography on her husband's
computer and it's tons of it. Don't go to jail. That's that's not
really a spoiler. It's just like as it's as so far where I'm hearing,
it's like they don't you think these people go away for fifty years.
No, So most of the time I'm noticing. They catch the guy he
gets ten years, but he only serves like three years and then he's on
probation. That's that's about it. That depends on the person. There was
one guy, this is kind of disturbing, but he asked. He's,
well, there was one guy that she went to go meet. And a
lot of times it's the guy he's like he's nervous to do it's his first
time or whatever, or says it's its first time, and he goes and
he means her. This guy was meeting her in a like a parking lot
and a like a dirt parking lot. His truck was filled with like duct
tape and like guns, knives, like he obviously was just gonna come and
like you know, rape. Yeah, and he went away for a while
so because he's already had priors. But see a lot of these, right,
But a lot of times these guys are like they don't get caught,
so it's their first time. So they get three years. They face ten
years, but they get like three years and then probation and and they're not
gonna stop it's not like they're gonna be like right, Oh I right,
Oh okay, I won't like young girls anymore. Right, I'm good.
Yeah, now that I know it's wrong, Like you know that, like
most of these guys were probably fighting it and like, oh I wish I
didn't like best, right, I mean it's terrible. It's terrible it is,
and uh, it's just so good though, because she's like when it's
satisfying, this it's so sad because you she's flow this guy. She's trying
to get him. They're trying to figure it out, and it's like,
I want to work. I want to do that. Like that looks like
I wouldn't want to be on the phone with the guy, but I should.
You could look twelve. Yeah, but all the research and stuff,
like her little team that she has, it's really it's a it's a it's
an interesting show, underage undercover. I'm going to look it up tonight when
I get home. Yeah, I'm telling you, I need new stuff.
Yes, did you ever watch The Curious Case of Natalia Grace yet? Yeah?
Okay talked about Yeah, Kaylin, did you ever watch it? No?
Yeah? Good? Is this guy? I'm not a I'm not a
documentary docuseries person. That's just not really my way unless it's got alien,
unless it has alien right, right, right, any new alien shit?
H Yeah. There is this incident in Las Vegas. I don't know,
it's a bit iffy, but apparently there's this family living there and they claim
that like two aliens essentially came down and relect standing in their backyard, and
one of the guy calls nine one one, and you can hear him like
telling nine one one like, hey, listen, I know this sounds crazy.
It's nighttime. There's this thing standing there and it's like eight ten feet
tall. And then separately, there's a like a police officer who's like talking
to a couple outside a house and you see something in the background like fall
out of the sky, and the police officer and everyone was like, what
the hell was that thing? And then he starts driving around this town in
Las Vegas like asking these people like did you see that thing fall out the
sky? At the same time, this family's calling in saying there's something standing
outside my backyard. It's ten feet tall. It looks like an alien.
And then the cop eventually goes over to their house. I don't know.
Why is this shit always happen in Vegas? By the way, I know?
And ten feet tall? That feels wrong for an alien. Are they
supposed to be little? I'm like squishy, I think I could deal with.
Yeah, green and kind of appliable, you could deal with. I
don't need an alien to be ten feet so unnecessary? Right, that's so
menacing? And for your first time, like I'm out of the gate like
that, that's your coming out party? Feet tall? I know, try
to be a little Yeah, send send one of the smaller people to make
the connection. The first connection. You're going to show up in someone's backyard,
don't you guys got one of those? Oh my god, that would
be funny if they thought that she was an alien. No, she has
dwarfism. She's not an alien, right, Al, How was your father's
day? Yeah? You know, ultimately it was very nice. But I
did run into a bit of a problem with the kind of brunch that Amy
took me to. Oh was it like a male stripper brunch? If only
then I wouldn't be complaining. Um No, I love seafood, and there's
a restaurant that we go to, um on the water that does great seafood
that I like. So we went there and when we got there, they
were like, oh, we're only doing like we're doing like a brunch that's
already laid out, Like the whole menu's already laid out. So I couldn't
get the things that I wanted, like a buffet style, and I was
like, I don't want that. So um, there's this really cute street
in Seal Beach and it just has all these great restaurants there, and so
I was like, okay, let's go there. We went down there and
there was another seafood place, like kind of a little fancier that I had
seen before, and I go, okay, great, let's go here.
And they got us in very quickly and then like the food just took forever
to kids. It not too bad. Actually it wasn't too bad. But
there was a there was a table next to us that was like, you
know, they ended up talking to us. He was like a pastor that
had fifteen children and like ten boys. It was like this giant group right
next to us that got there right after we did. So I have a
feeling that Okay, they were very nice. Um and so yeah, possibly
um, so yeah, I like, I got two appetizers and then the
food. It took such a long time, and the girls were just getting
crazy, Like I even had the iPad there for them to play on,
and even at that was they were starting to get burned out on that.
It's like, where's our food? Were so hungry. The waiters kept coming
over to apologize and like, I don't want to be a pain, so
I'm just like, it's so good. I think it was this big group
that came in right kind of around the same time, but I don't know.
They didn't give us, like, they didn't give us an issue.
I got like a lobster with like mashed potatoes and asparagus, except they didn't
give me asparagus. They gave me green beans, and I don't like green
beans. The mashed potatoes were cold. The lobster was kind of cold and
tiny. They brought it out. I ate all of it before Amy got
her chicken caesar salad and Blake got her chicken tenders. Oh that's those two.
Somehow, those two meals took like way longer and they came out way
after mine came. And uh yeah, I mean the waitress was very nice,
but I was disappointed. I thought I would like that that seafood,
and so I was kind of a bummer. But we uh we left there,
got some ice cream, walk down the pier. That was nice.
That's nice. Okay, that was good. What did you do for a
Father's day? So, as you know, now, I'm hungry for seafood.
Broken foot, got a broken paw, so um, poor John.
He had to. He's been walking people every day, right, Xander has
also been picking up the slack. It's really sweet. Xander's been walking the
dog like every day. Nice. Yeah, raised his allowance. You gotta
pay kids and stuff. I know all of you guys are like, whoa,
that's just chores. Your kids should be pitching in. Well not my
kids, Hey, you kid show me the money. No, honest to
god, Xander did not did not ask to be paid. He was just
like, of course I will, I will help. And I was like,
no, but it's the summer and you need some spending money anyway.
And if you want to take on this job, like because I'm gonna be
not able to walk for like a month, I was like, oh,
I'm gonna raise your allowance way up for the for the month. Yeah,
for the summer while you help out with like all this stuff around the house.
And he was so like, you don't have to do that, but
thank you so much, mom. He's really sweeting. Um. So,
anyway, Xander was sleeping, so on Father's Day, John still had to
he took the morning walk with the dog, and then the kids got up
and made him coffee, which was nice, nice, and then did he
have a mug in it? So later that night, so I had our
lovely Becky baris right him, a quad squad mug with a picture of Elbie,
Sadie, Xander and Peepo love that. But as he was pulling it,
so it's it comes packed in styrofoam with like a styrofoam cop cap and
top and bottom, and he we got the top off and when he was
trying to pull the mug out of the bottom, the handle broke off.
Oh no, I know I have to. I have to message Becky and
um, see if she's finding out right now, Well she's gonna find out
when I message her. I got to message her about it. That sucks.
Yeah, Well I got my mug really sad, I know. But
she also sent Yeah, she sent me a mug, which I love,
and it's got the show on my favorite scene from my favorite movie Goodfellas of
the painting that my mom made. Look at this painting my mother made.
Look at this painting like this, this guy's going this way, this dog's
going that way, and this guy's going wait on from me. It's the
best I know. Thank you, Becky. What I love about that this
service is it so easy to make like private jokes for people, you know,
like when you think of something that would make somebody happy to have,
that would mean something to them. Like I remember when um, John and
I were watching mad Men not Madman, uh succession no breaking back, breaking
bad, breaking bad and the Chicken restaurants. Oh ohoo Harman. Yes yes,
I had to immediately for like a Christmas present or a birthday present,
went online and found a mug. I love the logo of the restaurant.
I love it. But like Becky could do something like that, Yeah she
could totally. I was thinking, um because I didn't never got Sonny and
a birthday present. Oh oh my god, I'll tell you about these.
Yeah, yeah, I'll tell you about his trip on Friday, Okay,
But I was thinking about it and I kept saying Sonny, like, what
do you want for your birthday? And he's like, he's always like like,
you know, n tellis like I want. He's always like M.
And then I was like, I wonder if there was somebody on UM Cameo,
which I fell down that rabbit hole. Oh you did that I could
get for Sonny. But I don't know, like I don't know who was
sports people like, I don't know. I'm sure maybe Kaylen. You know,
I don't know. He's so into sports. I know, I wonder
who his favorite basketball players right now, I think it's but now he wouldn't
be on Cameo. I don't know. Yeah, I don't think of I
don't think the big the big stars are really doing a lot. I think
what's his name is Lebron? I think I looked up the Lakers. There
was like one big one. I don't know. And then I was starting
to think like TV show he he got really into um Game of Thrones because
he had to watch something like on the plane and stuff. So then as
I'm like, no, I'm trying to think some like super obscure yeah,
actor from like the fifties and the sixties of some big movie that he liked,
because he likes the most random, right, Like, yeah, just
pick a big movie from like the sixties and get one of the notable actors
from that and they're probably on cameo. Yeah, like Rockford Files or so.
I don't know Jim Rockford. I don't know, and he doesn't watch
TV. I don't worry that he would get it. Just be like this
is so weird. Yeah, like what he would think. It's funny though,
because he actually thought about getting cameo for his dad. Oh okay,
so that gave me the ideas. But then I'm like, I don't know
who I'm cameo, Sonny? Would I have to? I'd figure it out.
I'd be like somebody from Breaking Bad. Didn't he love Breaking Back?
Yeah? He did. Somebody from Breaking Bad? Man. I wonder who's
on there? Oh, that would be awesome. I Wondranston is on there?
Or Jesse? What's the Jesse's um? Aaron? Yeah, yeah,
that would be cool. Yeah something like that. Yeah, happy birthday,
bitch. Oh my god, look him up. I gotta look it up
if you want, Like, this is whatever? Crazy? Did you do?
It? Gonna say? I just like it. I'm on cameo.
You could put me on there and all yeah, and I'll be like yeah,
and I'll just like an oversized bright orange sweater and yeah, get a
basketball, yeah beanie, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right.
Yeah, and I'll be like her sunny. I don't know why I'd be
talking like yeah, no voice, but I you know, i'd i'd learned
listen Lynette. I would study okay, Paul, Yeah, I'll study the
impression. I'm not gonna just do it like yeah, yeah, yeah,
I'll got a down yeah all right, it'll be bleddy of course. Should
we take another quick break? Yeah? So this is um not interesting my
kids summer man like summer, oh my god, like there there's nothing planned.
Well, Natalia's got Spanish class that she's doing. Okay, so every
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday. She's got Spanish. But she also wants to
get a job, which I'm happy about, thank god. So I don't
know, like she maybe wants to work. I don't know, like one
of those places that she works out at. Maybe. I don't know,
it'd be good for her. She'd love that because all she does is work
out, um, and then she could get free. Probably, Yet she
could go she should go work at Barry's boot camp. I told her that.
She said, they have to you have to be eighteen. Oh yeah,
she already looked into it. But I don't know. There's some places
around that she's looking into. And Sonny too, Um, Sonny loves the
y MCA goes there all the time. So I don't know. I mean
there's that feels like it would be a depressing place to work though. Yeah,
are they all go there? Yeah, it's where he goes to work
out. Yeah, So I don't know. Yeah, summer, I mean,
what are your kids doing? So? Did I ever tell you that
Sadie is like obsessed with getting new piercings? She thinks, So it's weird,
like she loves to get pierced. So she has her nose pierced,
and she has three piercings on each ear, and she wants a fourth.
It's like, I don't know if it gives her some kind of like endorphin
rush to get like a new piercing. Kids love that. I love it
so for her to get a fourth one on her ear. I told her,
like, I just don't think that, like going to Claire's is the
way to go for it's because you're you're getting into like you got very little
real estate right the square acres or like very teeny tiny you get up the
ear, especially on her, she's got she's little, right, So I
was like, I just would rather that if they're not using a gun on
that. It just feels like it would listen. I was I was a
piercer for only a few years. Piercers. Yeah, I was a person
who worked at a piercing place. It wasn't that long though, so like
and it was a while ago, was like three months ago. You have
all your licenses, of course. Yeah, I can do tats. You
know, I'm not super fancy. I could. I could do a sleeve,
but not like a whole leg okay, I mean sleep but not okay
for a short person. I could do if you have like a kind of
a small army, like for somebody like Sadie, I have an age limit.
Okay, and then I don't you know, for children, I could
do babies. Let's put it that way. I could do I could do
baby sleeves. Yeah, because I'm not going to be there all day.
I can be there. I don't have all day to you know what I
mean also if even if it's a baby, I'm probably gonna want to do
it, and because they need to nap, so we'll go like an hour.
Do babies get like what kind of what kind of texts do they get?
Well, you don't want something that they're going to immediately want lasered off
and they change their mind, their babies, so as soon as they're in
the next developmental stage, they're like, I don't want to bottle on my
arm anymore, you know. Yeah, but then you could change it to
like a wine bottle as they get older. That's one of the things I
offer. Yeah, I do stuff that's like you could easily morph into something
else without a lot of laser, right, you don't a laser that's a
lot, especially on like an eighteen month old, Like, so I make
sure I'm like, do you really want that? And then obviously they can't
talk to because or sign their names, so you know you have to see
point right, Okay, Um, you know just rattle right. Um,
maybe paraphernalia. Yeah, you can make it more into like something like a
guitar pick as an age, Yeah, depends on what their hobbies are,
right, Okay, I'll turn it into a bass guitar but later but you
know, anyway, Sadie wants a piercing, I told her to go to
an actual place where they can really position it with a needle. So it's
pretty expensive though, well how it's like, uh, and she found a
cheaper place than the regular place that we go to once ninety dollars her side
her, Yeah, ninety dollars and that's for one. So then she found
a place that will do both sides for one twenty. How much? How
much is how much is a piercing usually? Well, like at a place
like Claire's, I feel like you could do both sides for like forty bucks.
I want to say, it's like forty bucks and it's for two earrings.
She's done her regular piercings. I'm like, ain't no need to go
to a fancy piercing place for the fur for your just regular piercing. People
love to like shame you about, like, oh, don't get to do
the gun. It's like not, oh Carrie, it's your ear lobe.
It doesn't matter. Everybody and their brother has used the gun on the ear
lobes. But now you're not the nose, So the nose she spent a
lot of money on that piercing. Really, I spent a lot of money
on that piercing. How much is a nose? It's like ninety dollars Yet
one I was thinking Italian I maybe I don't know, but like I because
I was always like, I'm never getting a tattoo. Never. Never,
I told my kids, don't ever get a tattoo. You're gonna, Hey,
you're gonna when you get older, you're not gonna like it. We're
already but now I'm old. So who cares for me? But for Natalia
because she's like mom, me, you and Auntie Wendy could get like matching
ones, go it, I know, but she's still young, so I'm
like, I don't know, she might not like it later in life when
she who knows? And so she was thinking, like on her pinky on
the side, like so nobody sees it, I go, But then it's
gonna look like dirt on your hand, be cute. It would be cute,
I don't know, something something like or on the inner of your wrist.
I like, the real place to get a tattoos gonna hit hurt like
a bitch. But I like, I have one on my ankle. Oh
you do? Yeah, which is what is it? It's a bird?
Oh yeah, a bird on my ankle. Bird is a word only see
you know, if like I'm wearing pants that kind of like come up a
little bit, or if she's wearing a skirt or something, it's cute.
It is cute. I'd like to get a little matching on with her.
Remember remember the story that John did not want me to get a tattoo.
Remember that, No, so John was was this before you got it?
Was before I got the tattoo. Okay, So I had said that I
was going to get a tattoo on my one year of sobriety day, oh,
which I did not do because I don't know, I just didn't.
And John just kept saying, don't get a tattoo. You've gone this long
without having a tattoo. Like it's just stupid. You're gonna regret it,
you know. So then when I was doing parental discretion, I came up
with the idea to do a bit where I would go to a tattoo place
and get a tattoo. I was like, you know, and everybody loved
the idea, and I was like, you know, I could just be
kind of funny while getting the tattoo, and so I didn't tell John about
it. And then I went to the tattoo place and I took a picture
of a crazy tattoo, like a big one with like a devil on it,
and I was like, so this is happening, and he was like,
shut up, don't. I hope you're joking. And I was like,
well, the bad news is I'm not joking. But the good news
is I'm not getting that tattoo. It's a good news, badman situation.
And I was honestly scared that he was going to be upset, even though
it's so stupid, like why would he care? Yeah, and he didn't
care. Once I brought it home and showed him, he was like,
oh, it's cute. So you got that one? Yeah? Oh I
love that. Yeah. So there's a whole video clip of me at the
tattoo place getting that tattoo. It was like it was it did not even
hurt that bad. Yeah, it hurt, but like, I don't want
to say it was a good. Well I think it wasn't that bad,
right, but I think that area is probably better than No. He told
me this would be sensitive really, but yeah, it's probably not. It's
definitely probably not as sensitive as this as the wrist. Yeah, yeah,
get a boob tattoo, yeah, tramp stamp? Maybe where do you think?
Where are you thinking? I don't know. I do like the inside
of the wrist. Maybe what would you get? Do you think? I
don't know, Uh, I don't know. I have no idea. Maybe
something in Italian, I don't know. You know, I almost got a
tattoo with the with the first initials of all my kids. I think it's
so glad I did not do that. Why because one of my kids doesn't
have that name anymore. That's right, it was it was back then.
Oh you would Actually I have to change it. I mean I could probably
do the laser myself. Yeah, yeah, you know how to do it
right, Yeah, you've done it on babies. You could do it.
So So anyway, just to wrap up, just to wrap up the show,
uh summer plans. So Sadie's big summer plan is getting a piercing but
basically, uh, Xandra wants to take drum lessons. Nice. All these
things are very pricey, by the way, But the way I'm trying to
think of it in my head is at least I'm not they're not going to
camp, right, That's what I was gonna say. And then but also
didn't he teach himself out to play guitar on the Yes, but we don't
have drums, right, so he has to go to a studio and have
somebody teach him how to play drums. You can't, like, I mean,
oh my gosh. So this one I reached out. If you go
on like um nextdoor dot com and you put in drum lessons, what I
really wanted was for like a neighbor that has drum sets to like teach sanders,
you know, walk over there and like learn drums and uh no,
but it brings you to have you ever heard of thumbtack? Yes? Okay,
so thumbtack is like they all kinds of different services you can get people
go on there to offer services and lessons. So they had drum lessons.
So one of the guys was like, he only does zoom, and I
had I had kind of put out there that I want drum lessons. So
this guy responds and he's like, oh yeah, you know, I give
drum lessons over zoom. And I was like well, but my kid doesn't
have like a drum set. So and he's like, oh, yeah,
that's fine, Like I'll teach him he can like play drums like on his
pillow. I'm like, now on YouTube, why do I need to teach
my kids pillow? Like say, that makes no sense? So I was
like, yeah, no, no, like wow, I'm going to take
him to a place that has drums. Right, there's so many. There's
like all these guys that teach out of student Yeah, what about like Guitar
Center on Vin Turon. Maybe they have drum lessons. I don't know,
Oh they probably do. Bet they got I bet they got those things flyers
or something over there. You're probably right. They were actually at Guitar Center
today. Both he and Sadie like playing on some drums. But I found
a place that's not very far from me at all. That's and he's doing
one on Wednesday, and then he's also doing a Groundlings nice week and now
he's busy. He's well, but like you're in there, I'm trying to
keep him from getting like you can get him that little um. When I
started the drum lessons, I got just a little snare thing that you play
you practice your rudiments on. Oh okay, and you can just it's just
it's and you get him the dress. So he has the drumsticks and he
has like a snare top thing, and then that is something that you can
like really start to learn like how to like, oh call it the rudiments.
Yeah, okay, I could get that, and then you can learn
how to twirl. Yeah, get him some drumsticks and a little snare thing.
Okay, I'm gonna do that. And then Sadie wants to learn to
play the bass bass guitar. So then I was looking on Facebook Marketplace because
I'm like, I'm not buying her a four hundred dollar like yass guitar.
Then she'll play like a few times and then go it's not for me.
But but if she's going to take a bass guitar lesson or she has to
have one, we don't have any bass guitars in the house. So then
I looked on Facebook marketplace and I'm out to a couple of people for a
used bass guitar. Oh well I could be. I was like, you
guys should totally do like a brother sister band, and they both were like,
no thing. I know, why don't kids listen to I don't know
that. I was like, oh, do you hate money? Right?
Like you could start that could be a very cool love that I think they
should totally do ends in a band together. Yes, fucking Sadie like Jemma
Car is so bad as absolutely five foot hute Sadie with her black and blue
hair and like her eighteen hundred piercings on her ears playing bass. Yes,
how yeah, yeah, anyway, all right, listen. We got a
couple of business shout outs today, like, for instance, my friend Adam
Lerner, whose website is Adam's got a Car dot com. If you're local,
if you're in especially La, but you're in California, he can get
no fee involved at all. He will just find you the best price,
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will give you a car. Should call him up. I'll give you His
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paperwork there like they run credit and the paperwork and then there's your car and
they and they'll sell your old one. By the way, if you have
a car, even if it's a lease, they'll resell your last It's really
great, a great service he does. Anyway. Also, our friend Maren
has a business called Sugar Skull on the island of Kauai, So if you're
vacationing on Kawuhi, you could check them out, or you can like and
follow their Instagram page which is at Sugar's Skull eight oh eight badass name fifteen
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oh there's a bakery so they do wedding cakes. Yeah, anyway, and
a gift shop. I gotta check them out. Um. And then also
we already talked about basic Becky, so you guys know what, Yeah,
so go to just basic Becky dot com or find her on Facebook at Basic
Becky and uh yeah, I'll do the other ones on Friday. All right,
thanks everybody. By the way, we have a Thursday show yep this
week. Check out our Thursday with Pat and Dylan. Yeah yeah, all
right. You're a parent now, don't f it up.