WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.200 --> 00:00:04.000 I am not going to read the emails today on the Minnesota Goodbye because there's 2 00:00:04.040 --> 00:00:09.119 an internet problem here in Colorado and I cannot get my email to load. 3 00:00:09.240 --> 00:00:13.279 It's very frustrating. It's as slow as dial up. Remember did you ever 4 00:00:13.359 --> 00:00:15.240 use dial up internet, Jenny? Yeah, I was a part of that. 5 00:00:15.279 --> 00:00:18.399 I remember. You can use your phone. You're like host phone. 6 00:00:18.640 --> 00:00:22.519 Yeah. You had to put your phone plug a little outlet, a little 7 00:00:22.920 --> 00:00:26.679 chord into the back of your computer and you would do dial up and it 8 00:00:26.719 --> 00:00:36.719 would go er and then you'll be connected magically to download porn very very slowly, 9 00:00:37.439 --> 00:00:41.960 one line at a time on I mean, not me. I'm like 10 00:00:42.039 --> 00:00:46.359 telling a friend's story. Yeah, but that anyway. So Jenny has got 11 00:00:46.359 --> 00:00:49.520 the email open today, Jenny's gonna be reading the emails because I can't access 12 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:51.960 them today. I am okay, and I'm gonna have to make sure I 13 00:00:51.960 --> 00:00:55.960 take pictures of all these addresses for your yes, then I'll send them to 14 00:00:56.119 --> 00:00:58.679 Okay, all right. First one comes from Liz. It says, hey, 15 00:00:58.759 --> 00:01:00.840 Dave and Jenny, I have a couple of times and questions for you 16 00:01:00.880 --> 00:01:03.840 to discuss if you get low on emails. So here we go. Number 17 00:01:03.880 --> 00:01:07.760 one commercials. Why does the morning show podcast have so many? And the 18 00:01:07.840 --> 00:01:11.400 randomness they are thrown in? Is it based on how popular it is? 19 00:01:11.640 --> 00:01:15.120 The Fallon and Zach one goes for an hour and only have the ones in 20 00:01:15.159 --> 00:01:18.879 the beginning, but I could hear eight plus of them cut throughout your show's 21 00:01:18.959 --> 00:01:23.159 podcasts, no kidding? Can we forward that to somebody and like to aj 22 00:01:23.319 --> 00:01:26.200 or to rich and because again it goes back to somebody is screwing it up? 23 00:01:26.200 --> 00:01:30.480 And I don't know who or where or how, but the listening experience 24 00:01:30.519 --> 00:01:34.120 should be a great one, not one where you go ugh, yeah. 25 00:01:34.159 --> 00:01:36.840 And I mean I don't have a for surian surround this, but I do 26 00:01:36.920 --> 00:01:38.840 think it does have a lot to do with popular thaness. I do think 27 00:01:38.879 --> 00:01:42.239 that more ads are placed in ours because this podcast has been around for a 28 00:01:42.239 --> 00:01:47.159 while, so I think that that's probably why. But it shouldn't be It 29 00:01:47.159 --> 00:01:49.920 should not be eight plus in like an hour span like our seven AM hours. 30 00:01:49.879 --> 00:01:53.760 Shouldn't have eight plus commercials. That's well, you know, absolutely insane, 31 00:01:53.879 --> 00:01:57.200 Jenny. That's actually a really good theory, because you know, the 32 00:01:57.280 --> 00:01:59.920 more popular anything is, the more ads they're going to be in it. 33 00:02:00.319 --> 00:02:02.840 Like the super Bowl, they have a ton of ads and they charge a 34 00:02:04.000 --> 00:02:07.039 million dollars per ad. So it could be because we have a ton of 35 00:02:07.039 --> 00:02:10.560 people that listen to the show that there are more ads, they're more expensive. 36 00:02:10.599 --> 00:02:15.080 It's kind of a it's a license to print money, the Dave Ryan 37 00:02:15.159 --> 00:02:17.800 in the Morning Show a license to print money. So yes, it's good 38 00:02:17.800 --> 00:02:21.879 theory. Okayle's goes on and says topic number two road rage. When you 39 00:02:21.879 --> 00:02:23.919 see someone driving erradically on the road, do you try to pass them or 40 00:02:24.000 --> 00:02:27.560 let them stay ahead of you. My husband and I have this argument, 41 00:02:27.879 --> 00:02:30.159 as I say, keep them in front of you and you can call the 42 00:02:30.199 --> 00:02:32.639 cops or choose to stay away from them to your discretion. Hubby wants to 43 00:02:32.639 --> 00:02:36.680 pass them because if they cause an accident and it isn't affecting him and it's 44 00:02:36.719 --> 00:02:38.400 behind him. I always come back and say, but they could hit you 45 00:02:38.479 --> 00:02:42.639 as you pass them or rear end you. What do you do, Dave? 46 00:02:43.520 --> 00:02:46.680 I rarely see that. I usually just if they're driving aggressively, I 47 00:02:46.800 --> 00:02:52.000 just let them get way ahead of me. But I don't, honestly, 48 00:02:52.080 --> 00:02:53.639 I don't often see that. I did call the cops on somebody on four 49 00:02:53.719 --> 00:02:58.560 ninety four North in Plymouth a few years ago, because they were racing and 50 00:02:58.639 --> 00:03:00.800 driving and changing lanes, then slowing down, speeding up, and I thought, 51 00:03:00.879 --> 00:03:04.599 they're going they're gonna hurt somebody. So I called the cops, and 52 00:03:04.639 --> 00:03:07.680 the cops that made the nine to one one dispatcher they're real pros, but 53 00:03:07.719 --> 00:03:09.639 they were they kind of had an attitude like, what do you want us 54 00:03:09.680 --> 00:03:13.080 to do about it? I mean, you know, yeah, we can 55 00:03:13.120 --> 00:03:15.680 send a car over there, but they're going to be gone by the time 56 00:03:15.759 --> 00:03:17.680 that they get there. So really, thanks for reporting it, but there's 57 00:03:17.680 --> 00:03:20.879 nothing we can do. So what about you, Jenny, what do you 58 00:03:20.879 --> 00:03:23.319 do? Okay? So recently, the last like three or four times I 59 00:03:23.319 --> 00:03:28.080 have gone back to Wisconsin, there is a stretch between Stevens Point and Fondalac, 60 00:03:28.159 --> 00:03:30.639 my hometown, where there has been someone who is driving all over the 61 00:03:30.719 --> 00:03:34.280 road, and it's always in the middle of the afternoon, but it looks 62 00:03:34.319 --> 00:03:37.120 like they're drunk. And this last time, we were just home this weekend, 63 00:03:37.159 --> 00:03:39.520 this guy was all over the place and it was stressing me out. 64 00:03:39.560 --> 00:03:44.400 And Andrew was driving. He stayed behind him most of the time because he 65 00:03:44.400 --> 00:03:46.680 would speed up and be like fifteen over the speed limit. And then he'd 66 00:03:46.759 --> 00:03:52.400 hit the speed limit again. So we stayed behind him, and I was 67 00:03:52.520 --> 00:03:54.680 getting to the point where I was gonna call the cops because he was making 68 00:03:54.719 --> 00:03:59.639 me nervous. He was weaving through cars, And yeah, we did stay 69 00:03:59.639 --> 00:04:02.080 behind them. I did not call the cops. We went and veered off 70 00:04:02.120 --> 00:04:05.919 to a different highway like shortly after. But it has been weird that stretch 71 00:04:06.000 --> 00:04:09.960 of that highway. I swear to God, there's someone like drunk on it 72 00:04:10.000 --> 00:04:14.159 every time that it's very weird, the same stretch. It's so strange. 73 00:04:14.159 --> 00:04:17.839 So I don't know if they're really weaving all over the place. I usually 74 00:04:17.920 --> 00:04:23.319 stay behind them because I just want to have eyes on them and know what 75 00:04:23.319 --> 00:04:26.720 they're doing. But then again, if I'm like trying to get somewhere, 76 00:04:26.759 --> 00:04:30.720 I probably do try to speed quickly past them to make sure I'm out of 77 00:04:30.879 --> 00:04:32.600 harm's way. Okay, gotcha, Yeah, all right. Last one? 78 00:04:32.639 --> 00:04:35.279 She has changing rooms. What is your etiquette when trying on clothes? Do 79 00:04:35.279 --> 00:04:39.360 you leave the piles of clothes on the floor? Great questions. I know, 80 00:04:39.480 --> 00:04:41.279 hang them up and leave them in the room, put them on the 81 00:04:41.360 --> 00:04:44.279 rack outside the dressing room for someone to put them away, or put it 82 00:04:44.319 --> 00:04:49.160 back where you found it to. I hand them back to the clerk. 83 00:04:49.199 --> 00:04:53.319 If there's a clerk or a salesperson helping me out, I hand them back 84 00:04:54.319 --> 00:04:57.680 and usually they say just leave them there. That's fine. So I don't 85 00:04:57.680 --> 00:05:00.439 really have a pattern. I just do whatever feels right. If I picked 86 00:05:00.439 --> 00:05:03.399 them out myself and go in the dressing room, I'll go put them back. 87 00:05:04.240 --> 00:05:06.639 I hate trying on clothes. I've always hated to try it on clothes. 88 00:05:06.920 --> 00:05:10.199 I just don't like it. What about you, Yeah, I always 89 00:05:10.199 --> 00:05:13.639 put them back on the hangars at least, and if there's an option to 90 00:05:13.680 --> 00:05:15.839 go hang it outside of the dressing rooms, like before you go back into 91 00:05:15.839 --> 00:05:18.360 the store, I always hang it on whatever rack they have to put things 92 00:05:18.399 --> 00:05:21.920 away or give it back to someone if they're working. But lately when I 93 00:05:21.959 --> 00:05:25.319 feel like I've gone to try and close, no one's ever like actually working 94 00:05:25.319 --> 00:05:27.560 in the dressing room, so I always make sure to put it on the 95 00:05:27.639 --> 00:05:30.639 rack that's still in the dressing room area, but like out of the room 96 00:05:30.680 --> 00:05:33.439 I was actually in. Yeah. So yes, that comes from Liz. 97 00:05:33.439 --> 00:05:36.399 She would like a staff writer stickers. I'm going to take a picture real 98 00:05:36.480 --> 00:05:40.079 quick for you, Dave. Okay, and then send it over to I 99 00:05:40.120 --> 00:05:44.399 sent out like thirty two staff writer stickers the other day, and it's fun 100 00:05:44.399 --> 00:05:46.040 when I see, like where did you stick it? So people stick it 101 00:05:46.079 --> 00:05:48.759 on their yetti bottle, people stick it on their computer. Somebody stuck it 102 00:05:48.800 --> 00:05:51.839 on their wall by their desk. So you don't have to send a picture 103 00:05:51.879 --> 00:05:55.000 of where you send it, but it's kind of fun to see that you're 104 00:05:55.079 --> 00:05:57.199 enjoying it. And you know what I'm going to start doing because I've got 105 00:05:57.199 --> 00:06:00.879 a mention of Dave Ryan Show stickers too, and I'm going to start sending 106 00:06:00.879 --> 00:06:05.560 those out too. So anyway, okay, cool, let's move on to 107 00:06:05.560 --> 00:06:09.079 the next one. I'm sorry I've got distracted by trying to reboot by again. 108 00:06:09.160 --> 00:06:11.879 Yeah yeah, good, all right. This one comes from Brianna. 109 00:06:11.959 --> 00:06:15.680 It says to my dart licking squad, per the usual. I'd like to 110 00:06:15.680 --> 00:06:17.680 start with my pleasantries and thank you. However, because I'm no wordsmith, 111 00:06:17.720 --> 00:06:21.319 I'll just say this. I appreciate you all everything you do and the entertainment 112 00:06:21.399 --> 00:06:24.720 you provide each and every day. You are all such a big part of 113 00:06:24.759 --> 00:06:27.879 my day and I truly look forward to listening, especially to the podcast. 114 00:06:28.240 --> 00:06:30.639 Now to the reason I'm writing I feel stuck in my career. I don't 115 00:06:30.680 --> 00:06:33.199 know if I want to keep doing what I'm doing. I've been in healthcare 116 00:06:33.240 --> 00:06:35.839 leadership for ten years now. In the past couple of years have just been 117 00:06:35.879 --> 00:06:41.279 exhausting. There is such financial pressures these days for our departments to perform without 118 00:06:41.279 --> 00:06:46.160 consideration for staff or sometimes patients experience. It just feels I'm being squeezed from 119 00:06:46.199 --> 00:06:50.160 every direction and don't know how much longer to continue. I'm seriously considering making 120 00:06:50.160 --> 00:06:53.480 a major change of my employment, but don't know where to start. I 121 00:06:53.519 --> 00:06:56.879 make good money now and the thought of decreasing my income is overwhelming as I 122 00:06:56.920 --> 00:07:00.839 am the primary breadwinner for our family. That is exactly what keeping me from 123 00:07:00.000 --> 00:07:03.639 even looking at other career paths. The thought of starting over is almost paralyzing. 124 00:07:03.839 --> 00:07:08.319 Oh wow, Yeah, So what I'd like to know is, Dave, 125 00:07:08.360 --> 00:07:11.680 you've been in radio a long time. Have you ever hit a slump 126 00:07:11.759 --> 00:07:15.000 or felt like you didn't want to do it anymore? Yes? So how 127 00:07:15.040 --> 00:07:18.519 did you work past it? Absolutely? One hundred percent? Many times you 128 00:07:18.560 --> 00:07:23.639 would be surprised, and it turns out that it's usually for different reasons. 129 00:07:23.720 --> 00:07:27.439 I remember one time about twenty five is years ago. I was burnout. 130 00:07:27.759 --> 00:07:30.519 I wasn't happy, and it was when I worked here, Katie W B. 131 00:07:31.079 --> 00:07:36.720 Sorry. I went to a career counselor and they suggested I did a 132 00:07:36.759 --> 00:07:44.040 survey and a test, and they suggested different careers and one of them was, 133 00:07:44.120 --> 00:07:46.560 oddly enough, a chemical engineer. I would have had to go back 134 00:07:46.560 --> 00:07:49.879 to school, yeah, learn engineering, learn math, learn physics, whatever, 135 00:07:50.120 --> 00:07:54.240 but they said, you seem to have the aptitude for a chemical engineer, 136 00:07:55.040 --> 00:07:57.720 and you know, I got out of my slump. I think that 137 00:07:57.800 --> 00:08:03.600 there are books and different things that you can look at if you are in 138 00:08:03.639 --> 00:08:05.319 a slump at your career. And I think usually if you're in a slump 139 00:08:05.360 --> 00:08:09.079 at your career, it's there's a reason why, and you've got to try 140 00:08:09.079 --> 00:08:13.399 to fix it. I think sometimes it can be your workplace, not just 141 00:08:13.759 --> 00:08:18.959 your career, but your workplace, because some workplaces are toxic. And right 142 00:08:18.959 --> 00:08:22.560 now, I've got a really good friend of mine who they love their job 143 00:08:22.600 --> 00:08:26.879 and what they do, but the people they work with are toxic and they 144 00:08:26.879 --> 00:08:28.480 don't show up and they don't do their job. She spends most of her 145 00:08:28.480 --> 00:08:35.320 time putting out fires getting ready to work instead of being productive. So I've 146 00:08:35.360 --> 00:08:37.799 been in a slump. I've got out of it. I remember that I 147 00:08:37.919 --> 00:08:41.679 love radio more than i'd ever love being anything else. What about you, 148 00:08:41.759 --> 00:08:46.799 Jenny, I think definitely, like I will be fully honest. When Steve 149 00:08:46.919 --> 00:08:48.879 was let go and it was the three of us on the show, I 150 00:08:50.159 --> 00:08:54.240 was hitting quite a burnout phase of doing like Steve's job and what I used 151 00:08:54.240 --> 00:08:58.799 to do and all that good stuff, and it was like pretty exhausting for 152 00:08:58.840 --> 00:09:01.279 a while. I mean, eventually I adapted and involved to what the position 153 00:09:01.480 --> 00:09:05.639 was, and so I like became better at it. It wasn't as difficult, 154 00:09:05.080 --> 00:09:09.679 but there was very much like a beginning time of Steve being let go 155 00:09:09.759 --> 00:09:13.120 where I just felt like I was like thrown into so much and I left 156 00:09:13.120 --> 00:09:18.159 pretty exhausted most days. But I never got to the point where I wanted 157 00:09:18.159 --> 00:09:24.600 to quit. I just like I was really just tired and feeling overwhelmingly stressed, 158 00:09:24.639 --> 00:09:26.080 to the point where I remember I was on like a snowboarding trip with 159 00:09:26.159 --> 00:09:31.480 friends and my anxiety was so high on that trip and for absolutely no reason, 160 00:09:31.799 --> 00:09:33.600 and I know it was stemming from like it was a quick trip and 161 00:09:33.679 --> 00:09:37.519 like I was still feeling like the anxiety from work even though I was on 162 00:09:37.600 --> 00:09:43.519 vacation. And you know, so I've definitely been in like slumps for sure. 163 00:09:45.000 --> 00:09:48.519 I think you have to like reevaluate your job, and like I really 164 00:09:48.600 --> 00:09:52.679 do love radio and I love what we do here, and so like sometimes 165 00:09:52.720 --> 00:09:54.279 you have to take a step back and remind yourself while you do what you 166 00:09:54.320 --> 00:10:01.600 do and then make sure that those benefits and the things you love outweigh whatever 167 00:10:01.679 --> 00:10:05.159 maybe negative things you're dealing with. I think that, Yeah, I think 168 00:10:05.159 --> 00:10:07.279 that's true. I think sometimes it just takes, you know, a little 169 00:10:07.279 --> 00:10:09.679 getaway. I mean, like I said, I've been in a slump many 170 00:10:09.759 --> 00:10:13.840 times, but never to the point where I said, I really want to 171 00:10:13.279 --> 00:10:16.840 accept that time chemical engineer Dave. Can you imagine how bad ass that would 172 00:10:16.840 --> 00:10:20.559 be? Yeah, And I'd get to wear a hat. I'd wear a 173 00:10:20.000 --> 00:10:24.279 heart. I'd be a white hard hat with a white dress shirt. I've 174 00:10:24.320 --> 00:10:26.039 had a lot of pens in my pockets. I got a white hard hat. 175 00:10:26.039 --> 00:10:30.399 I got some eye protect your glasses. And on the front of the 176 00:10:30.559 --> 00:10:33.559 hard hat it says Exxon. I would wear that bitch to church. I 177 00:10:33.559 --> 00:10:35.799 would wear that on an airplane because it'd be like, oh, that guy's 178 00:10:35.840 --> 00:10:39.639 pretty successful. He's wearing a hard hat that says Exxon on. Yeah. 179 00:10:39.759 --> 00:10:43.600 Yeah. Can I ask you a question? Ye, do you know anybody 180 00:10:43.639 --> 00:10:46.240 who Susan, who was it that you said was wearing scrubs because they wanted 181 00:10:46.240 --> 00:10:50.960 to look like a doctor. Do you remember who that was? Oh, 182 00:10:52.039 --> 00:10:54.080 Susan. We were within the airport yesterday, and Susan said, wouldn't be 183 00:10:54.080 --> 00:10:58.519 funny to wear scrubs and like walk around like the airport and already thinks you're 184 00:10:58.559 --> 00:11:01.360 a doctor and you get a whold differ level of respect. And I said, 185 00:11:01.399 --> 00:11:03.000 I think I'm gonna do that. I can order his stethoscope online, 186 00:11:03.360 --> 00:11:07.200 get a thermometer to clip it into my out of my doctors don't carry thermometers. 187 00:11:07.320 --> 00:11:11.120 I'm going to get a tethoscope, carry that around, wear some blue 188 00:11:11.159 --> 00:11:13.440 scrubs, and have people address me as doctor. What do you think your 189 00:11:13.519 --> 00:11:16.240 number one sign of knowing that you're a fake doctor is the fact that you're 190 00:11:16.240 --> 00:11:22.840 walking around an airport with a stethoscope around your deck. God, damn everything. 191 00:11:22.240 --> 00:11:28.080 God. I feel like most doctors actually do wear very nice clothes to 192 00:11:28.320 --> 00:11:31.519 work, and then they put scrubs on before going into surgery or whatever. 193 00:11:31.759 --> 00:11:37.240 Meeting with patients go ahead. So I was gonna say, I just don't 194 00:11:37.279 --> 00:11:41.200 think that doctors typically are wearing their scrubs much outside of the hospital at all. 195 00:11:41.440 --> 00:11:43.879 Yeah, you're probably right. I ever tell you about It's a little 196 00:11:43.919 --> 00:11:46.720 activity that I do when I'm sitting at like the airport, I will look 197 00:11:46.759 --> 00:11:52.519 around at the other passengers and determine in my mind whether they look like they 198 00:11:52.519 --> 00:11:56.320 could be a doctor or not, and just think about it. If you 199 00:11:56.360 --> 00:11:58.600 look around, it's like, oh, look at her, she is very 200 00:11:58.679 --> 00:12:03.320 put together. She's got a coach bag, she is wearing nice glasses, 201 00:12:03.360 --> 00:12:07.000 she's got really nice hair, she looks smart. She could be a doctor. 202 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:09.799 Then you look at like, you know, Larry the cable guy over 203 00:12:09.840 --> 00:12:15.200 here wearing a Cowboys shirt, or you know, you look at Vanessa. 204 00:12:15.279 --> 00:12:18.480 She's wearing a packer's jersey and she's got you know, and it's like, 205 00:12:18.519 --> 00:12:20.679 no, Vanessa does not look like a doctor. And so it's a little 206 00:12:20.679 --> 00:12:24.799 activity that I do. And you can play it silently in your mind. 207 00:12:24.879 --> 00:12:26.840 Look around the next time you're at a crowd and a busy airport or whatever, 208 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:30.200 look around and be like, could they be a doctor? Could they 209 00:12:30.200 --> 00:12:33.000 be a doctor? So is it the best most fun game ever. No, 210 00:12:33.679 --> 00:12:37.480 that's Monopoly. But it's right up there. That's right up there. 211 00:12:37.600 --> 00:12:39.879 All right. Another email, Jenny, I'm getting so sidetracked. Okay, 212 00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:43.159 medications, You're totally good. I like it. I like a little Lucy 213 00:12:43.240 --> 00:12:46.080 Goosey Davy on a fatday morning. Okay. This one says, dear morning 214 00:12:46.080 --> 00:12:50.720 show crew, re Jenny's story on Naughty Tuesday about getting proposition for money to 215 00:12:50.799 --> 00:12:54.960 have foulon on Weggie Dave, you said that instead of calling her weather girl 216 00:12:54.039 --> 00:12:58.039 Jenny, you were going to call her sex worker Jenny. Yes, I'm 217 00:12:58.039 --> 00:13:03.120 disappointed. It's obviously wedgie girl Jenny. You're saying that's what she said. 218 00:13:05.039 --> 00:13:09.279 Oh, you're right, I missed a joke. But yeah, she says 219 00:13:09.320 --> 00:13:13.840 she's wrote in before and if this is worthy of a staff writer sticker, 220 00:13:13.919 --> 00:13:16.559 I'll include my address, so that comes from Jenna. Jenna. Let me 221 00:13:16.639 --> 00:13:22.039 take a picture of this for you. Perfect, all right. Next one, 222 00:13:22.919 --> 00:13:26.720 this person says, do not say my name, So what do I 223 00:13:26.799 --> 00:13:28.600 do? And this is about a job situation too, kind of similar to 224 00:13:28.679 --> 00:13:31.960 the last demoment we read. I left a job that I loved because they 225 00:13:33.000 --> 00:13:37.000 wouldn't promote me after months of promising. Now I'm at this new big kid 226 00:13:37.080 --> 00:13:41.279 manager job and I just don't like it. I'm new to management and I 227 00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:43.519 just suck at this. I don't have a lot of support. Since I 228 00:13:43.559 --> 00:13:46.440 report to a member of the executive team, I get to work from home. 229 00:13:46.480 --> 00:13:48.600 My boss is great and I make good money. But it has since 230 00:13:48.639 --> 00:13:52.639 made me realize that I just don't want to work in this field anymore. 231 00:13:52.759 --> 00:13:56.679 I've only been here two months, and I'm not sure if I need to 232 00:13:56.679 --> 00:13:58.600 stick it out longer, or if I need to get out now before I 233 00:13:58.639 --> 00:14:01.559 get in too deep. If I'm being honest, I love to go back 234 00:14:01.559 --> 00:14:05.399 to my last company, even if it means I make a little less. 235 00:14:05.399 --> 00:14:09.440 I'm embarrassed and feeling so lost. Any advice. So this is interesting. 236 00:14:09.519 --> 00:14:13.320 This is like the scenario the other girls like considering but hasn't done yet, 237 00:14:13.320 --> 00:14:15.879 and now she's done it and she wants to go back to her old job. 238 00:14:16.279 --> 00:14:20.200 Okay, first of all, forgive yourself for making a bad decision. 239 00:14:20.279 --> 00:14:22.960 Yeah, I think that a lot of time we go. God, I 240 00:14:22.960 --> 00:14:24.519 don't want to look stupid. I wanted that job so bad and then I 241 00:14:24.600 --> 00:14:28.279 got it, and now I you know, be careful what you wish for 242 00:14:28.720 --> 00:14:33.240 because, in the words of Dultery Daughtry, you just not get it all. 243 00:14:35.000 --> 00:14:37.440 We played that song, Jenny, I love that song. Talk about 244 00:14:37.639 --> 00:14:41.240 Chris Daughtry. Yeah, be careful what you wish for because you just not 245 00:14:41.440 --> 00:14:45.559 get it all. Write it down, Jenny, play that song. We 246 00:14:45.639 --> 00:14:48.240 played that song. I don't know if I know that one. And I 247 00:14:48.240 --> 00:14:50.799 thought I knew Daughtry the only song by Dory thought. I was like, 248 00:14:50.799 --> 00:14:54.799 I feel like I know the only song he sings. But it's not Maybe 249 00:14:54.840 --> 00:14:58.200 you're not doing it. No, he goes, I'm going home to the 250 00:15:00.200 --> 00:15:03.799 I think that's the same song, isn't it. I don't know. Sounds 251 00:15:03.799 --> 00:15:07.000 a bit different, but we'll go with it. But I will say, 252 00:15:07.080 --> 00:15:09.480 forgive yourself for wanting that and then going, oh, it's not what I 253 00:15:09.519 --> 00:15:11.639 wanted that. Well, that'll be the step one because a lot of people 254 00:15:11.639 --> 00:15:15.600 go, I'm embarrassed and I get to stick it out. No, you 255 00:15:15.679 --> 00:15:18.440 certainly do not. I would say, if you really feel that, even 256 00:15:18.440 --> 00:15:22.440 if you stuck it out for another nine months, it wouldn't make a difference. 257 00:15:22.879 --> 00:15:26.840 Change sooner rather than later. Go ahead and take action to change, 258 00:15:26.840 --> 00:15:31.000 and if you make a little bit less money, that's the price you pay 259 00:15:31.879 --> 00:15:35.720 for your happiness. I mean, if you're making two thousand dollars less a 260 00:15:35.799 --> 00:15:39.960 year or you know, it depends on what your salary is. You're making 261 00:15:39.960 --> 00:15:43.759 one fifty two hundred twenty two thousand dollars less a year is a drop in 262 00:15:43.799 --> 00:15:46.679 the bucket, yep. If you're making forty nine thousand, two thousand dollars 263 00:15:46.799 --> 00:15:48.919 less might be, you know. But whatever, I would say, make 264 00:15:48.919 --> 00:15:54.240 your change sooner rather than later. Don't look back. If you don't like 265 00:15:54.279 --> 00:15:56.480 it, you're probably not going to like it a lot better in nine months. 266 00:15:56.559 --> 00:15:58.799 Yeah, it's only been two months, so you really probably haven't gotten 267 00:15:58.799 --> 00:16:03.080 full used to like the increase in pay quite yet, unless you just want 268 00:16:03.120 --> 00:16:04.720 ham on buying a bunch of stuff because you did get that big increase. 269 00:16:04.960 --> 00:16:07.639 But don't get stuck in the golden handcuffs is what they call, which is 270 00:16:07.679 --> 00:16:11.320 where you are not leaving something because you are so tied to the financial aspect 271 00:16:11.360 --> 00:16:15.879 of it. So don't get stuck in that. If you are miserable there. 272 00:16:15.120 --> 00:16:18.279 You have only done two months, and I would say maybe be given 273 00:16:18.399 --> 00:16:22.639 a little bit longer another month or so, but I think you're gonna know 274 00:16:22.679 --> 00:16:26.639 your answer. I'm going home to the place it at. It it is 275 00:16:26.960 --> 00:16:32.360 okay, I'm David, happy David. We have to wrap it up, 276 00:16:32.399 --> 00:16:34.960 even though I want to let you go in home. Play that song, 277 00:16:36.039 --> 00:16:37.679 Jenny, I want to hear that song. Okay, well, we'll play 278 00:16:37.679 --> 00:16:40.399 it on the radio, coming up here and like a mom, playcat the 279 00:16:40.480 --> 00:16:42.639 brat in the back seat. I want ice cream, will get ice cream 280 00:16:42.679 --> 00:16:45.799 when we get home. I want to back out. You're such a good 281 00:16:45.799 --> 00:16:48.759 play cater, Jenny. All right, you died. You have to be 282 00:16:48.799 --> 00:16:52.000 live on the radio in ten seconds. Okayy bye.