They're the generation of all this gender stuff, and so she's mad because she's
like, listen, assign this is a quote. Assigning focus on gender at
birth leaves out so much of their potential and talents that have nothing to do
with what's between their legs. Welcome to another deep dive edition of the Chicks
on the Right podcast, where today we're gonna talk about gender reveal parties and
your stepdaughter just had one. Yeah, we're listen. We're having a boy.
We're having a boy, you guys. It's very exciting. If you
haven't heard the news, I haven't shared it with a lot of people,
will probably share it before this comes out with our insider community. But we
are in fact having a grand son, which is very quick, very exciting
because now I can buy all the blue you know, because you can do
that, right, You can buy and I can buy cute clothes. I
was really us actually thinking, you know, I may buy a bunch of
pink stuff. But my stepdaughter is anti that. She was like, M,
then I want you to buy in a lot of pink stuff. And
I would have been like, oh, I will buy the pink stuff if
it's a girl, And I would buy the blue stuff. It's if it's
a boy. Right, But now I dare you. But this is the
thing nowadays people don't like that because of all this gender bull crap. But
they did have a gender reveal party. Now, I will tell you my
husband and I are anti gender reveal parties. We're just not into that.
We're not into the gender reveal thing. So she had one. I'm throwing
her a shower in June, and so I just think the gender reveal thing
is stupid. And we've been very open about that with her. We were
like, listen, because here's what I think is stupid about it. You
get an envelope from the doctor. You go in to the doctor, right,
say, you and I have been through this, where you go in
for your appointment. You see an ultrasound, they know what the gender is.
Okay, the doctor knows, and then they stick this information in an
envelope. You give it to a person who you're not entirely even the closest
to. Right, it's not like your best friend or anything like that is
just some what can be? I mean it could be it could that's right,
I mean, like I guess, okay, so it may or may
not be like somebody who you're entirely close to, and you give them this
folder and then you're like, all right, so like in a month,
month and a half, get do something that is going to reveal what's in
this folder. So you've given this crucial information that was revealed that could have
been revealed to you, you know, like I don't know four to six
weeks prior, you've given it to some person that's in your neighborhood or whatever
that's some just some rando in your life that's gonna like reveal this information in
some fashion form or fashion, whether it's a cake or an explosion or some
sort of something. This is and this is a phenomenon that's just started,
um, you know, popping up in the past, you know, twelve
years, ten to twelve years mock like it's we didn't have these. It's
specifically from July of two thousand and eight, because we know where it originated
with this this chick that that takes credit for it now but then also hates
that she started it. I gave birth into twenty ten, and I didn't
do this well, I mean it may not have. That's when she had
hers and so she I guess did a blog post about it. Then it
started going right now, it's like everybody that don't have it, what are
you doing? You know what I mean? Like, yes, it's it's
it's so expect It's a millennial thing. I feel like that I and I
personally think that a lot of millennials do it because they want more gifts.
Am I wrong about that? Well, they want the gifts and they want
the social media clout. They want to have something to put on their social
media and this is a and the more you know, the more outrageous it
is, the more for the top it is, the better. It's just
like them. Yeah, it's all of the stuff is so just based on
how many likes can I get. Yeah, attention totally based like me me
me, me, me, look at me, everybody look at me,
and look what I'm doing? Me me me. Yeah. And it's gotten
to the point and Valin actually has a video to share of this. It's
gotten to the point where people are dying as a result of revealed parties.
So let's let's just share. Let's share that. Okay, other to Be
is killed by an explosion while making a gender reveal device. It is just
the latest in a string of recent deaths to create over the top displays.
We decided that there's no better way to find out if it's going to be
a boy or girl than to blow something up explosive gender reveals or all the
rage on social media. But blowing something up his family and friends costa New
York State man his life. Police say twenty eight year old Chris Peckney,
a father to be, was killed in his garage while testing a gender revealed
device that should have exploded in a cloud of colored powder. His brother was
injured by flying shrapnel. I mean, this is what we're doing now,
the flying why did you need why why do need to blow anything up?
And then there's flying shrapnel that's injured his brother. So now this kid doesn't
have a father uncle, well does he as an injured uncle that's probably a
shrapnel is at in his ass from the gender reveal like forever because why because
they wanted something for the Graham. This is so stupid, you guys,
like what are they doing? And so yeah, but here's the worst part,
Okay, it's it's not that the chick that started these things, um
has regrets all the regrets for inventing the gender reveal party. It's it's the
reason why she has all the regrets, right, It's she doesn't regret it
because you know, you look like a me me me, like look at
me millennial. It's because it's you know, it's they're the they're the generation
of all this gender stuff. And so she's mad because she's like, listen,
assign this is a quote. Assigning focus on gender at birth leaves out
so much of their potential and talents that have nothing to do with what's between
their legs. So it's not about it's it's not about hey, me,
me, me, and you're gonna blow yourself up, and that's not cool
to try to blow yourself up during a gender reveal and you may, you
know, leave a kid fatherless. It's not about that. It's about all
this gender stuff because gender is a spectrum, and you know, all the
stuff that you try to teach me that I don't want to learn. You
know, it's like I don't understand. I don't understand like half of this.
Now she's she's making me feel super conflicted because, like you, I
I just think gender reveal parties are over the top and just attention seeking nonsense.
But now that she's come out and said, I wish i'd never you
know, started this trend because it's not gender inclusive, and it's you know,
it's it doesn't it doesn't take into account gender expression and gender identity.
The fact that that's why she's regretting it makes me then want to support gender
reveal parties. So then I then I'm like, I don't know how to
feel them because I wanted to hate them, but now I also want to
like them because if people want to have them because they're traditional people who believe
in having either boys or girls, then I'm all for that, you know
what I mean, even though I hate the whole party idea. I know,
so it used to be the conservatives are on the side of Listen.
Tradition says, just find out and keep it to yourself, like keep it
to yourself in that room with the doctor, and quit being such a self
important blowhard and just find out with your spouse, right, just find out
or don't or be surprised on the day, right, or be surprised on
the day. But now it's like where it's become this whole you know why,
You're like, there are articles now where it's like a why are gender
reveal party is stupid? There? And why they're problematic? Right, and
now it's all about like the unknown difference between sex and gender and there it's
all of this, right, and they start talking about all this. You
know, society has created an unrealistic binary standard for sex. What does that
even mean? I don't I don't even understand. And they start talking about
the differences between gender identity and gender expression and I and seriously and they and
how it does none of the stuff matters, and why gender reveal part parties
are dumb because there's a huge difference between sex and gender, and how you're
not supposed to do any of this stuff and and how these parties are done
because of that. When and actually when we I mean pretty much a lot
of conservatives were like, listen, just you don't want to just do it
the traditional way, which is find out and like find out in the office
and then just with each other and have it be an intimate thing and then
you know, maybe tell your family and friends and then it'll trickle out and
then people will find out. And that's that's really neat. That's the way
we did it. And then then you don't get presents, You'll do it
the freaking shower, which is the way. I mean, how many how
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It is ridiculous. And the whole conversation, well, and you know,
to put a fine point on it, that there was an article, you
know, in medium from some gender studies major or whatever who's trying to explain
all the differences to people. Listen, I get that there's a difference between
sex and gender. The problem is is that she's now saying, you know,
if you really want to put a fine point on it. These are
sex reveal parties with the parents choosing how they're going to gender express the child
based on the sex reveal. I mean, that's stupid. Tell me the
difference between your Tell me the difference sex and gender, because if when I
say what's the gender of a kid, I'm in essence saying what's the sex
of the kid? You know what I mean? Right, Because it used
to be when society was normal, that you could use those terms interchangeably and
everyone wouldn't know what you meant, right, But then the problem became that
people, the gender bending community has decided and it's it's true that gender and
sex are two different things, and that sex is a biological This is biologically
you have male or female characteristics, chromosome's anatomy, whatever. Gender is all
about your express your feeling of that biology. Yeah, but when you're born,
but when you are poorn, you don't have you see what I'm saying,
Like, No, I know it used to be a lot simpler,
but now the problem is like that gender studies weirdo that wrote this giant article
is trying to suggest based on this is a false number by the way,
that somehow latched on kind of like you know how people always say ninety eight
percent of scientists believe that manmade global climate change is man made? Right,
that number is inaccurate, but it's that's what the narrative is, and so
everybody's grasped onto it. The same thing has happened with now this whole gender
thing. Now that community has decided two percent of the population is intersex,
which is not accurate. So like this chick decided to say, oh,
having intersex characteristics is as common as being a redhead, because heads are about
two percent, and explain what intersex characteristics are. So do you remember the
word It used to be called her maphroditism. Yeah, everybody thought. So
everybody thought Jamie Lee Curtis was a hermaphrodite. Remember do you remember the big
rumor? Do you remember? Am I wrong? I'm not wrong about that.
It's that it was a rumor. Now I don't think she actually is,
but we all remember that. That's what It just gives you some context,
Okay, right, right, But it is actually far more rare than
that. It's actually point zero one eight percent is how often someone is truly
intersex, which means that they have they may like look like they have female
genitalia, but they'll have male anatomy on the inside. So it's like it's
a total it's just a mess up in in the development in you know,
in the womb, you're it's messed up. It is an anomaly, and
it is a deviation from the norm. And that's why this whole conversation is
so ridiculous to me, because the gender bending community, and he likes to
say that this whole idea of gender on a binary is ridiculous because intersex people
make that so that even sex is not binary. But that's crazy because it's
like saying that my kid who has cerebral palsy is somehow just another variation of
normal. No. I mean, I'm sorry, but that's not normal.
That's a that's a it's an anomaly. It's not supposed. He's not supposed
to have cerebral palsy. You're not supposed to be born with just one arm,
and if you are, you shouldn't. That's not supposed to be something
that's celebrated and looked at as normal. It's a medical deviation from the norm
exactly. And so I don't know why we're treating it like it's some it's
just an option, it's just a third option. That's freaking Banana's whack.
Yeah, it is totally wa Yeah, but that's where we are as a
society right now. Yeah, it's to be celebrated, right. Yeah,
it's crazy, it like it is they feel like it is an option.
Yeah, it's it's important to make that distinction and people aren't making that distinction,
and it's it's it's kind of nuts, like, but this is the
world that we're living in today, and I just think there's such a true
when you know, when she did you know, she had that party this
past weekend. Listen. I'm sure people will think that we're completely heartless because
we were, like, we didn't go an actuality just everybody knows before we
get emails and they go, Daisy, you're such a terrible parent. We
actually had things to do for our youngest and so we ended up not going
we're going to throw a shower for her, But she did live stream it
and so we were able to see like what actually happened in that moment,
and we were super excited that it was a boy um, delighted for her,
delighted for the whole thing. And I knew it was a boy the
whole time. I knew it. I felt it in my bones, Like
when you were she like what was she? Yeah? She did she have
a thought or doing about it. In fact, she would tell me.
She told me that she had dreams that it was a boy. And I'm
one of those weird people that I believe in all that kind of stuff,
Like I told her, you know, I said, listen, I used
to have dreams about Gwen, about my daughter, and so you know,
I've been pregnant three times. The first two I lost, and I never
had dreams about those first two pregnancies, But with Gwen, I had dreams
that I had that it was a girl, like I could see mental images
of her in my brain. The only thing that was different about the way
that she looked is that her hair was curlier in my dreams. I used
to tell her that. And so I told our oldest that, I said,
I dreamed about her. So I think that there's something to your dreams.
If your dream and it's a boy, I feel like it's probably going
to be a boy. And she was right, and I was right,
it was a boy. So and did her husband have any feelings or did
he didn't have a preference either way, didn't he didn't. Okay, But
you know, dudes, it's different for dudes. Don't you think it's different
for dudes. I feel like I don't know, I don't. I mean,
I know my husband really really really wanted a boy. Dan I wanted
a boy for him, yeah, which is we had. But I mean,
like, I don't think like if it would have been a girl,
it's not like he would have left. I'm just I feel like women become
moms like the second they become pregnant. I'm just a big believer in that.
Don't you do you think that way? I think I would believe that
if there weren't so many abortions. So no, I don't believe that.
You don't really, I mean maybe those well, those women are just skeeves,
right, They're just doesn't discount the fact that, I mean, I
became a mom the second I became pregnant with all my pregnancies, and then
you know, it's just with with men, I think it's just a little
bit different. They take a little bit longer and then man, the second
they hold that baby. That's why that's when they become dads, you know,
just a little bit different. Yeah, but this is the thing gender
and and all of the stuff is so different now. It's just it's crazy.
And I think it's interesting that this this woman, this inventor. I
also think it's weird that she invented the gender review party. I think that's
a crazy thing. And it's crazy how it's taken off, and it's weird
how now she's like I regret it. I wonder if it will, if
we'll see a suppression of this particular kind of party, Like, if that
will. I feel like they've just gotten bigger and bigger. Though even in
the midst of all the gender ideology activism and stuff, it seems like I
see more and more and more of them, like it has that hasn't dissuaded
people from participating in them. I wonder, I actually wonder if they're going
to start getting protested, you know what I mean by transactivists who are just
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eight. I just cannot believe they're even able to do. And then we
talked today about what was it childism on our regular show, that there's a
thing called child Well, I don't I don't even know if we should even
give it credence. But it's like there's some weirdo who said that there's a
new ism and it's called childism because a child should be able to choose things
for him or herself. It might even allow to say him or herself,
but like a child should be able to choose things for itself, and if
you don't allow that child to do that, then it's somehow childism. It's
like the same as agism and racism and sexism and all the other is ms.
It's like you have to listen to that child or well on The example
that was given was this teacher who said, if I have a kid comes,
you know, if one of my kids comes and says, use they
them pronouns for me, and I say, no, you're too young to
be making that kind of decision, then I would be engaging in childism.
So that was the example that this this whacked out teacher gave, and I'm
just like so, and then there's going to be you know, then you
extrapolate that into all the arguments about consent. So how do these people square
that because they're all like, oh, yeah, my my eight year old
can absolutely decide their whole life and they can do puberty blockers and like make
decisions that impact their whole life. But yet they cannot consent to sex,
or they cannot consent to whatever until they're a much older age. I don't
know how you reconcile those different philosophies on when children can actually make grown up
level decisions. Completely insane. Oh yeah, I know. Yeah. And
I mean if I would have allowed my the young our youngest to decide things
that she wanted to do when she was five, she wanted to be she
wanted to be a ballerina when she was five. She has no there's no
way she would like. I think about the stuff that she wanted when she
was five, and then the things that she wants and even now at age
thirteen, which will be completely different than what she wants at age eighteen,
which will be completely different than what she wants at age twenty five, when
she's at when her brain is actually fully developed, because you know, your
brain is not fully developed until your mid twenties, and so I just it's
insanity what we're doing or what were we think we are doing for the benefit
of children. They are not adults, they're not little adults. They're children,
and we're supposed to be guiding them, not allowing them to make pivotal
decisions about their lives. It's it's just insane. That's not parenting, No,
it's it's actually And the worst part is that there are some parents that
I, you know, I have sympathy for in that they get swallowed up
in this whole culture and they don't have a way of sifting through what is
real and what is not real. So, for example, like we mentioned
earlier, you know, there's this common number that floats around that two percent
of the population is intersects. Well, when that gets solidified in sort of
the collective mindset of everybody, so too do things like, oh, puberty
blockers are totally reversible and don't do long lasting damage. So then those parents
who just hear that over and over and over again sometimes don't realize what they're
actually doing to their kids. And I blame it completely on the activists who
who twist you know, reality to suit them. And then all these other
people, these these parents who just want to do right by their kids,
who want to be good parents, then they get suckered into into acquiescing to
all these kids demands. Else they're called like horrible names by the trans community
and they and they're accused of abusing their child for not letting them do these
harmful, long term change, you know, things to their body. And
then they're validated. They're validated by doctors, medical doctors right now, who
will tell you raaking it in. Oh my god, yeah they are.
I mean that's the thing that sucks for these parents, Like you're talking about
those parents. And then yeah, they acquiesced, but then they also get
they're validated and then pacified by medical doctors who have gone to freaking med school,
so they think, Oh, these doctors know what they're talking about,
right, I mean, surely they know, right. I Mean, these
are doctors, they're smart, they're educated, so I'm going to listen to
them. And then they listen to them, and oh my god, I
mean, imagine how they're going to feel in ten fifteen years when they realize
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these people going to go back and sue like what? I just think about
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that like the thirty year old guy who was like this is my voice now.
I mean he's become so feminized because of what he went through as a
teenager, getting all this feminization stuff, and his voice will never return to
a male voice. And so that's just an example you cannot undo of the
damage that you're doing to these kids. And that's why so many normal,
common sense, rational people are like, listen, if you want to be
trans as an adult, go do it, Like live your life, you
but don't force this onto kids and parent kids so that you're not just saying,
oh, you want to be a guy today and you're eight, Yeah,
I'm gonna cut off your boobs. Yeah, you know what I mean,
We're gonna absolutely get puberty. I think that struck me the most about
that. One particular case was that he went through menopause at age nineteen,
and as somebody who's gone through menopause, I mean, it is not for
the faint of heart. You don't just like push a teenager through menopause and
then expect that not to affect somebody mentally. That's not okay. Hormones are
just it's nothing that you want to f with. Oh you don't want to
f with that. It's it's completely and totally unnatural. And I just I
when I heard that, when I heard him say that, I just thought,
oh my god, I mean, you can't. There's no turning back
from that. And I just know these kids. Man, it's just it
breaks my heart. You cannot at that. And then I think about he's
going to be twenty years old. Think of all the life he has left
to live in that body. Wow, you know, yeah, it's crazy.
I mean, just and then to have to live with that regret forever.
I mean, good for him for speaking out and trying to prevent the
same kind of thing from happening to other kids. And that's that's the best
thing that he can do, honestly. But I think, you know what,
before before we close out, I want to make sure that we spotlight
a couple of gender reveals gone bad. We have to do it. And
my favorite thing is when people use those gigantic balloons that you're you're supposed to
pierce and then they explode with all coups of like either powder or like you
know, confetti type of stuff. So when you get other people involved in
that, and especially kids, things can go wrong. And so we've got
a couple of examples to share. Okay, we go, No, she
doesn't want to do it. She is a monster that just let it go.
Okay, mom is so mad. Well, you know what, they
should have more kids. Seems like a good plan. And there's another one
too. There's another one with that same balloon um that it also doesn't go
the way that it showed. Okay, here we go. Okay, why
though, that's nuts, that's not did they not resper they didn't prep her?
Apparent not apparently there It's like, yeah, this is the thing.
But I'm left again feeling kind of torn. I think where I've settled is
that I think gender reveal parties are stupid and attention seeking on the on the
on one hand, but if it makes the gender bending activists mad, do
it, then you want power to you just don't explode things, because then
yeah, people should not die doing that. For the record, maya stepdaughter,
they just cut a cake and then that's fun. Internal icing was blue.
That's it. That's perfect. So I mean, that's that's a perfectly
respectable way. I heard that they do that with Lasagna's, and I was
like, how do you make a blue or pink lasagn Why does anybody eat
that. I don't have lasagna's. That's that's a terrible ideal. It sounds
really gross. Yeah, so it was okay if nothing was exploded. Nobody
had to pop anything. There were no kids that had to be like,
you know, reprimanded and like scarred for life because of that. So yeah,
it was just it was just a cake. So there was that.
But yeah, all right, we'll see. I think that's fine. Maybe
just kind of if you do it on the down low, nobody gets hurt,
nothing gets there's always there's always just finding out in the office to you
guys, and the just always that and doing it the old school way that
we did it. There's always that way too, you know, there's that
that's exactly right. Just wait for the day though that doctors get that.
People get mad at doctors when they say it's a boy. And then the
doctor's get in trouble for assigning agenda reappropriate and he and she didn't decide that
yet. How dare you? How dare you? Everything is so dumb so
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