1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,000 They're the generation of all this gender stuff, and so she's mad because she's 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,880 like, listen, assign this is a quote. Assigning focus on gender at 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:13,480 birth leaves out so much of their potential and talents that have nothing to do 4 00:00:13,519 --> 00:00:20,559 with what's between their legs. Welcome to another deep dive edition of the Chicks 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:28,760 on the Right podcast, where today we're gonna talk about gender reveal parties and 6 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,759 your stepdaughter just had one. Yeah, we're listen. We're having a boy. 7 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,960 We're having a boy, you guys. It's very exciting. If you 8 00:00:36,039 --> 00:00:38,640 haven't heard the news, I haven't shared it with a lot of people, 9 00:00:38,679 --> 00:00:43,240 will probably share it before this comes out with our insider community. But we 10 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:48,439 are in fact having a grand son, which is very quick, very exciting 11 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:52,200 because now I can buy all the blue you know, because you can do 12 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,640 that, right, You can buy and I can buy cute clothes. I 13 00:00:54,719 --> 00:00:58,119 was really us actually thinking, you know, I may buy a bunch of 14 00:00:58,159 --> 00:01:02,479 pink stuff. But my stepdaughter is anti that. She was like, M, 15 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:03,319 then I want you to buy in a lot of pink stuff. And 16 00:01:03,359 --> 00:01:06,799 I would have been like, oh, I will buy the pink stuff if 17 00:01:06,799 --> 00:01:08,319 it's a girl, And I would buy the blue stuff. It's if it's 18 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,239 a boy. Right, But now I dare you. But this is the 19 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:17,079 thing nowadays people don't like that because of all this gender bull crap. But 20 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,840 they did have a gender reveal party. Now, I will tell you my 21 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:26,560 husband and I are anti gender reveal parties. We're just not into that. 22 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:32,959 We're not into the gender reveal thing. So she had one. I'm throwing 23 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:38,519 her a shower in June, and so I just think the gender reveal thing 24 00:01:38,599 --> 00:01:42,920 is stupid. And we've been very open about that with her. We were 25 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:48,920 like, listen, because here's what I think is stupid about it. You 26 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:53,680 get an envelope from the doctor. You go in to the doctor, right, 27 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:57,040 say, you and I have been through this, where you go in 28 00:01:57,079 --> 00:02:01,079 for your appointment. You see an ultrasound, they know what the gender is. 29 00:02:01,359 --> 00:02:06,040 Okay, the doctor knows, and then they stick this information in an 30 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,599 envelope. You give it to a person who you're not entirely even the closest 31 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:13,000 to. Right, it's not like your best friend or anything like that is 32 00:02:13,039 --> 00:02:15,599 just some what can be? I mean it could be it could that's right, 33 00:02:15,759 --> 00:02:19,360 I mean, like I guess, okay, so it may or may 34 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,120 not be like somebody who you're entirely close to, and you give them this 35 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:27,240 folder and then you're like, all right, so like in a month, 36 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:31,439 month and a half, get do something that is going to reveal what's in 37 00:02:31,479 --> 00:02:38,560 this folder. So you've given this crucial information that was revealed that could have 38 00:02:38,599 --> 00:02:42,439 been revealed to you, you know, like I don't know four to six 39 00:02:42,479 --> 00:02:46,439 weeks prior, you've given it to some person that's in your neighborhood or whatever 40 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:52,199 that's some just some rando in your life that's gonna like reveal this information in 41 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:58,639 some fashion form or fashion, whether it's a cake or an explosion or some 42 00:02:58,719 --> 00:03:02,479 sort of something. This is and this is a phenomenon that's just started, 43 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,840 um, you know, popping up in the past, you know, twelve 44 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:10,960 years, ten to twelve years mock like it's we didn't have these. It's 45 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:15,560 specifically from July of two thousand and eight, because we know where it originated 46 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:21,280 with this this chick that that takes credit for it now but then also hates 47 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,400 that she started it. I gave birth into twenty ten, and I didn't 48 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:29,159 do this well, I mean it may not have. That's when she had 49 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,560 hers and so she I guess did a blog post about it. Then it 50 00:03:31,599 --> 00:03:35,919 started going right now, it's like everybody that don't have it, what are 51 00:03:35,919 --> 00:03:38,199 you doing? You know what I mean? Like, yes, it's it's 52 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:42,120 it's so expect It's a millennial thing. I feel like that I and I 53 00:03:42,159 --> 00:03:45,560 personally think that a lot of millennials do it because they want more gifts. 54 00:03:46,039 --> 00:03:50,439 Am I wrong about that? Well, they want the gifts and they want 55 00:03:50,479 --> 00:03:53,120 the social media clout. They want to have something to put on their social 56 00:03:53,159 --> 00:03:59,199 media and this is a and the more you know, the more outrageous it 57 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:00,360 is, the more for the top it is, the better. It's just 58 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:05,319 like them. Yeah, it's all of the stuff is so just based on 59 00:04:06,199 --> 00:04:10,639 how many likes can I get. Yeah, attention totally based like me me 60 00:04:10,639 --> 00:04:13,120 me, me, me, look at me, everybody look at me, 61 00:04:13,159 --> 00:04:15,319 and look what I'm doing? Me me me. Yeah. And it's gotten 62 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:19,439 to the point and Valin actually has a video to share of this. It's 63 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:27,399 gotten to the point where people are dying as a result of revealed parties. 64 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:31,199 So let's let's just share. Let's share that. Okay, other to Be 65 00:04:31,439 --> 00:04:35,480 is killed by an explosion while making a gender reveal device. It is just 66 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:41,399 the latest in a string of recent deaths to create over the top displays. 67 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,160 We decided that there's no better way to find out if it's going to be 68 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:51,040 a boy or girl than to blow something up explosive gender reveals or all the 69 00:04:51,160 --> 00:05:01,120 rage on social media. But blowing something up his family and friends costa New 70 00:05:01,199 --> 00:05:05,000 York State man his life. Police say twenty eight year old Chris Peckney, 71 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:10,680 a father to be, was killed in his garage while testing a gender revealed 72 00:05:10,759 --> 00:05:15,120 device that should have exploded in a cloud of colored powder. His brother was 73 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,480 injured by flying shrapnel. I mean, this is what we're doing now, 74 00:05:19,959 --> 00:05:24,800 the flying why did you need why why do need to blow anything up? 75 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:30,240 And then there's flying shrapnel that's injured his brother. So now this kid doesn't 76 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:35,439 have a father uncle, well does he as an injured uncle that's probably a 77 00:05:35,519 --> 00:05:43,920 shrapnel is at in his ass from the gender reveal like forever because why because 78 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:47,759 they wanted something for the Graham. This is so stupid, you guys, 79 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:51,360 like what are they doing? And so yeah, but here's the worst part, 80 00:05:51,639 --> 00:05:57,720 Okay, it's it's not that the chick that started these things, um 81 00:05:57,959 --> 00:06:03,720 has regrets all the regrets for inventing the gender reveal party. It's it's the 82 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:09,279 reason why she has all the regrets, right, It's she doesn't regret it 83 00:06:09,319 --> 00:06:15,319 because you know, you look like a me me me, like look at 84 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:20,680 me millennial. It's because it's you know, it's they're the they're the generation 85 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:26,120 of all this gender stuff. And so she's mad because she's like, listen, 86 00:06:26,199 --> 00:06:30,439 assign this is a quote. Assigning focus on gender at birth leaves out 87 00:06:30,519 --> 00:06:34,079 so much of their potential and talents that have nothing to do with what's between 88 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:40,399 their legs. So it's not about it's it's not about hey, me, 89 00:06:40,519 --> 00:06:42,959 me, me, and you're gonna blow yourself up, and that's not cool 90 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,079 to try to blow yourself up during a gender reveal and you may, you 91 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,639 know, leave a kid fatherless. It's not about that. It's about all 92 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:54,279 this gender stuff because gender is a spectrum, and you know, all the 93 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,000 stuff that you try to teach me that I don't want to learn. You 94 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,720 know, it's like I don't understand. I don't understand like half of this. 95 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:03,600 Now she's she's making me feel super conflicted because, like you, I 96 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:10,160 I just think gender reveal parties are over the top and just attention seeking nonsense. 97 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:14,839 But now that she's come out and said, I wish i'd never you 98 00:07:14,879 --> 00:07:17,839 know, started this trend because it's not gender inclusive, and it's you know, 99 00:07:17,959 --> 00:07:23,720 it's it doesn't it doesn't take into account gender expression and gender identity. 100 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:29,680 The fact that that's why she's regretting it makes me then want to support gender 101 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,959 reveal parties. So then I then I'm like, I don't know how to 102 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,319 feel them because I wanted to hate them, but now I also want to 103 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:41,439 like them because if people want to have them because they're traditional people who believe 104 00:07:41,839 --> 00:07:45,720 in having either boys or girls, then I'm all for that, you know 105 00:07:45,759 --> 00:07:47,680 what I mean, even though I hate the whole party idea. I know, 106 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,519 so it used to be the conservatives are on the side of Listen. 107 00:07:50,639 --> 00:07:56,120 Tradition says, just find out and keep it to yourself, like keep it 108 00:07:56,120 --> 00:08:00,680 to yourself in that room with the doctor, and quit being such a self 109 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:05,600 important blowhard and just find out with your spouse, right, just find out 110 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:09,000 or don't or be surprised on the day, right, or be surprised on 111 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:13,120 the day. But now it's like where it's become this whole you know why, 112 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,000 You're like, there are articles now where it's like a why are gender 113 00:08:16,519 --> 00:08:22,160 reveal party is stupid? There? And why they're problematic? Right, and 114 00:08:22,199 --> 00:08:26,240 now it's all about like the unknown difference between sex and gender and there it's 115 00:08:26,279 --> 00:08:28,879 all of this, right, and they start talking about all this. You 116 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:33,440 know, society has created an unrealistic binary standard for sex. What does that 117 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:37,399 even mean? I don't I don't even understand. And they start talking about 118 00:08:37,399 --> 00:08:45,200 the differences between gender identity and gender expression and I and seriously and they and 119 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,360 how it does none of the stuff matters, and why gender reveal part parties 120 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:54,440 are dumb because there's a huge difference between sex and gender, and how you're 121 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:58,600 not supposed to do any of this stuff and and how these parties are done 122 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,279 because of that. When and actually when we I mean pretty much a lot 123 00:09:01,279 --> 00:09:05,080 of conservatives were like, listen, just you don't want to just do it 124 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,279 the traditional way, which is find out and like find out in the office 125 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,679 and then just with each other and have it be an intimate thing and then 126 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,559 you know, maybe tell your family and friends and then it'll trickle out and 127 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:16,879 then people will find out. And that's that's really neat. That's the way 128 00:09:16,879 --> 00:09:22,960 we did it. And then then you don't get presents, You'll do it 129 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,639 the freaking shower, which is the way. I mean, how many how 130 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:30,200 many presents? How many showers do you need? For crying out loud? 131 00:09:30,279 --> 00:09:33,759 Oh god, I mean, there's the thing is so ridiculous, you know. 132 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:37,840 So the only reason that I can get any amount of sleep at night 133 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:41,600 is my my pillow two point zero. Like I sleep maybe six hours of 134 00:09:41,639 --> 00:09:45,559 sleep at night, and I'm you know, completely menopuzzle, but the only 135 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,720 reason that I can get that amount of sleep. I know, you sleep 136 00:09:48,759 --> 00:09:52,120 like fourteen hours a night. You're basically on the Ashley Judd schedule these days. 137 00:09:52,039 --> 00:09:56,000 But the owners that I can sleep a lick is because of my pillow 138 00:09:56,039 --> 00:10:00,320 two point out. And like the temperature controlled pillow that I have, I 139 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,080 don't have to flip it anymore. I used to have to flip it and 140 00:10:03,399 --> 00:10:07,519 do all the you know, to flip it and roll it around like Missy 141 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:11,480 Elliott that's on. But I don't have to do that with my pillow anymore 142 00:10:11,519 --> 00:10:13,200 because it's it's like that two point zero technology. I don't know what kind 143 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,879 of magic he's got going on with that thing, but it keeps me comfortable. 144 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:22,639 It's it's not like all hot and disgusting and sweaty. It's just this 145 00:10:22,799 --> 00:10:28,080 beautiful, wonderful, awesome fiber pillow that I just I just love it so 146 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,759 much. I swear everything he touches turns to gold. It's just he has 147 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,320 There's nothing from my pillow that I've ever gotten that I haven't loved, And 148 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,879 then my pillow two point zero is certainly no exception. And it's great news 149 00:10:39,879 --> 00:10:41,759 for people who want to try it because now it's buy one, get one. 150 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,759 So if you go to my pillow dot com slash chicks and you use 151 00:10:46,879 --> 00:10:50,720 code chicks and you buy yourself a pillow, they're gonna give you another one 152 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:54,200 for free, no matter what the size such no matter what the size is 153 00:10:54,320 --> 00:11:01,399 great. It is a great deal my pillow dot com slash do it. 154 00:11:01,399 --> 00:11:03,639 It is ridiculous. And the whole conversation, well, and you know, 155 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:07,279 to put a fine point on it, that there was an article, you 156 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:13,320 know, in medium from some gender studies major or whatever who's trying to explain 157 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,159 all the differences to people. Listen, I get that there's a difference between 158 00:11:16,159 --> 00:11:20,080 sex and gender. The problem is is that she's now saying, you know, 159 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,840 if you really want to put a fine point on it. These are 160 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:30,039 sex reveal parties with the parents choosing how they're going to gender express the child 161 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:33,960 based on the sex reveal. I mean, that's stupid. Tell me the 162 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:37,440 difference between your Tell me the difference sex and gender, because if when I 163 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:41,519 say what's the gender of a kid, I'm in essence saying what's the sex 164 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,519 of the kid? You know what I mean? Right, Because it used 165 00:11:43,519 --> 00:11:46,480 to be when society was normal, that you could use those terms interchangeably and 166 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:50,120 everyone wouldn't know what you meant, right, But then the problem became that 167 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:56,159 people, the gender bending community has decided and it's it's true that gender and 168 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:00,360 sex are two different things, and that sex is a biological This is biologically 169 00:12:00,399 --> 00:12:07,360 you have male or female characteristics, chromosome's anatomy, whatever. Gender is all 170 00:12:07,399 --> 00:12:13,240 about your express your feeling of that biology. Yeah, but when you're born, 171 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:16,759 but when you are poorn, you don't have you see what I'm saying, 172 00:12:16,519 --> 00:12:18,559 Like, No, I know it used to be a lot simpler, 173 00:12:18,799 --> 00:12:24,240 but now the problem is like that gender studies weirdo that wrote this giant article 174 00:12:24,399 --> 00:12:26,080 is trying to suggest based on this is a false number by the way, 175 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:31,320 that somehow latched on kind of like you know how people always say ninety eight 176 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:35,279 percent of scientists believe that manmade global climate change is man made? Right, 177 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:41,080 that number is inaccurate, but it's that's what the narrative is, and so 178 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:45,200 everybody's grasped onto it. The same thing has happened with now this whole gender 179 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:50,240 thing. Now that community has decided two percent of the population is intersex, 180 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:54,799 which is not accurate. So like this chick decided to say, oh, 181 00:12:54,919 --> 00:13:00,879 having intersex characteristics is as common as being a redhead, because heads are about 182 00:13:00,879 --> 00:13:05,720 two percent, and explain what intersex characteristics are. So do you remember the 183 00:13:05,759 --> 00:13:09,159 word It used to be called her maphroditism. Yeah, everybody thought. So 184 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:13,440 everybody thought Jamie Lee Curtis was a hermaphrodite. Remember do you remember the big 185 00:13:13,519 --> 00:13:18,559 rumor? Do you remember? Am I wrong? I'm not wrong about that. 186 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,000 It's that it was a rumor. Now I don't think she actually is, 187 00:13:22,519 --> 00:13:26,399 but we all remember that. That's what It just gives you some context, 188 00:13:26,519 --> 00:13:30,279 Okay, right, right, But it is actually far more rare than 189 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:35,720 that. It's actually point zero one eight percent is how often someone is truly 190 00:13:35,759 --> 00:13:39,399 intersex, which means that they have they may like look like they have female 191 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:43,759 genitalia, but they'll have male anatomy on the inside. So it's like it's 192 00:13:43,759 --> 00:13:48,759 a total it's just a mess up in in the development in you know, 193 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:52,879 in the womb, you're it's messed up. It is an anomaly, and 194 00:13:52,919 --> 00:13:56,720 it is a deviation from the norm. And that's why this whole conversation is 195 00:13:56,759 --> 00:14:00,600 so ridiculous to me, because the gender bending community, and he likes to 196 00:14:00,639 --> 00:14:07,240 say that this whole idea of gender on a binary is ridiculous because intersex people 197 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,840 make that so that even sex is not binary. But that's crazy because it's 198 00:14:11,879 --> 00:14:18,799 like saying that my kid who has cerebral palsy is somehow just another variation of 199 00:14:18,919 --> 00:14:22,279 normal. No. I mean, I'm sorry, but that's not normal. 200 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:26,159 That's a that's a it's an anomaly. It's not supposed. He's not supposed 201 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:31,639 to have cerebral palsy. You're not supposed to be born with just one arm, 202 00:14:31,919 --> 00:14:35,519 and if you are, you shouldn't. That's not supposed to be something 203 00:14:35,519 --> 00:14:39,919 that's celebrated and looked at as normal. It's a medical deviation from the norm 204 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:45,039 exactly. And so I don't know why we're treating it like it's some it's 205 00:14:45,039 --> 00:14:48,159 just an option, it's just a third option. That's freaking Banana's whack. 206 00:14:48,399 --> 00:14:52,080 Yeah, it is totally wa Yeah, but that's where we are as a 207 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:56,639 society right now. Yeah, it's to be celebrated, right. Yeah, 208 00:14:56,679 --> 00:14:58,879 it's crazy, it like it is they feel like it is an option. 209 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,720 Yeah, it's it's important to make that distinction and people aren't making that distinction, 210 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:07,519 and it's it's it's kind of nuts, like, but this is the 211 00:15:07,559 --> 00:15:11,000 world that we're living in today, and I just think there's such a true 212 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,679 when you know, when she did you know, she had that party this 213 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,960 past weekend. Listen. I'm sure people will think that we're completely heartless because 214 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:22,039 we were, like, we didn't go an actuality just everybody knows before we 215 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,120 get emails and they go, Daisy, you're such a terrible parent. We 216 00:15:24,159 --> 00:15:28,159 actually had things to do for our youngest and so we ended up not going 217 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,960 we're going to throw a shower for her, But she did live stream it 218 00:15:33,039 --> 00:15:37,399 and so we were able to see like what actually happened in that moment, 219 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:41,679 and we were super excited that it was a boy um, delighted for her, 220 00:15:41,879 --> 00:15:45,960 delighted for the whole thing. And I knew it was a boy the 221 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,799 whole time. I knew it. I felt it in my bones, Like 222 00:15:48,879 --> 00:15:52,200 when you were she like what was she? Yeah? She did she have 223 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,600 a thought or doing about it. In fact, she would tell me. 224 00:15:54,720 --> 00:16:00,039 She told me that she had dreams that it was a boy. And I'm 225 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,240 one of those weird people that I believe in all that kind of stuff, 226 00:16:03,279 --> 00:16:07,679 Like I told her, you know, I said, listen, I used 227 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:11,480 to have dreams about Gwen, about my daughter, and so you know, 228 00:16:11,679 --> 00:16:15,600 I've been pregnant three times. The first two I lost, and I never 229 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:19,919 had dreams about those first two pregnancies, But with Gwen, I had dreams 230 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:25,039 that I had that it was a girl, like I could see mental images 231 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:26,879 of her in my brain. The only thing that was different about the way 232 00:16:26,919 --> 00:16:30,960 that she looked is that her hair was curlier in my dreams. I used 233 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,799 to tell her that. And so I told our oldest that, I said, 234 00:16:33,879 --> 00:16:37,039 I dreamed about her. So I think that there's something to your dreams. 235 00:16:37,039 --> 00:16:40,399 If your dream and it's a boy, I feel like it's probably going 236 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:41,559 to be a boy. And she was right, and I was right, 237 00:16:41,639 --> 00:16:45,960 it was a boy. So and did her husband have any feelings or did 238 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:49,000 he didn't have a preference either way, didn't he didn't. Okay, But 239 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:52,200 you know, dudes, it's different for dudes. Don't you think it's different 240 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:56,360 for dudes. I feel like I don't know, I don't. I mean, 241 00:16:56,399 --> 00:16:59,639 I know my husband really really really wanted a boy. Dan I wanted 242 00:16:59,639 --> 00:17:03,159 a boy for him, yeah, which is we had. But I mean, 243 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:03,759 like, I don't think like if it would have been a girl, 244 00:17:03,759 --> 00:17:08,240 it's not like he would have left. I'm just I feel like women become 245 00:17:08,319 --> 00:17:12,880 moms like the second they become pregnant. I'm just a big believer in that. 246 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,400 Don't you do you think that way? I think I would believe that 247 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,799 if there weren't so many abortions. So no, I don't believe that. 248 00:17:18,799 --> 00:17:22,720 You don't really, I mean maybe those well, those women are just skeeves, 249 00:17:22,839 --> 00:17:27,400 right, They're just doesn't discount the fact that, I mean, I 250 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:33,319 became a mom the second I became pregnant with all my pregnancies, and then 251 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,920 you know, it's just with with men, I think it's just a little 252 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:38,559 bit different. They take a little bit longer and then man, the second 253 00:17:38,559 --> 00:17:42,559 they hold that baby. That's why that's when they become dads, you know, 254 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:48,079 just a little bit different. Yeah, but this is the thing gender 255 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:52,119 and and all of the stuff is so different now. It's just it's crazy. 256 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:56,519 And I think it's interesting that this this woman, this inventor. I 257 00:17:56,519 --> 00:18:00,640 also think it's weird that she invented the gender review party. I think that's 258 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,599 a crazy thing. And it's crazy how it's taken off, and it's weird 259 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:07,119 how now she's like I regret it. I wonder if it will, if 260 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:12,240 we'll see a suppression of this particular kind of party, Like, if that 261 00:18:12,319 --> 00:18:15,440 will. I feel like they've just gotten bigger and bigger. Though even in 262 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:21,240 the midst of all the gender ideology activism and stuff, it seems like I 263 00:18:21,279 --> 00:18:25,319 see more and more and more of them, like it has that hasn't dissuaded 264 00:18:25,319 --> 00:18:27,920 people from participating in them. I wonder, I actually wonder if they're going 265 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:33,599 to start getting protested, you know what I mean by transactivists who are just 266 00:18:33,759 --> 00:18:37,920 mad that you're you're suggesting a gender before the child has an ability to speak 267 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:42,319 for itself on what gender it wants to choose for itself. And that's now, 268 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:48,480 of course, where we are. So President Trump recently issued a warning 269 00:18:48,799 --> 00:18:52,440 from his Mara Lago home. And here's what he said. He said, 270 00:18:52,559 --> 00:18:56,039 and I'm quoting here, he said, our currency is crashing and will soon 271 00:18:56,440 --> 00:19:00,599 no longer be the world standard, which will be our greatest defeat, frankly 272 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:06,359 in two hundred years. And there's a reason for that. There's three reasons 273 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:11,240 actually that the central banks are dumping the US dollar, and those reasons are 274 00:19:11,279 --> 00:19:17,640 inflation, deficit spending, and are absolutely insurmountable, impossibly high national debt, 275 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:22,799 all three of which are completely Joe Biden's fall, totally fall. 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And then we 291 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:36,319 talked today about what was it childism on our regular show, that there's a 292 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:38,880 thing called child Well, I don't I don't even know if we should even 293 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:44,200 give it credence. But it's like there's some weirdo who said that there's a 294 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:49,799 new ism and it's called childism because a child should be able to choose things 295 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,240 for him or herself. It might even allow to say him or herself, 296 00:20:55,279 --> 00:21:00,079 but like a child should be able to choose things for itself, and if 297 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:07,160 you don't allow that child to do that, then it's somehow childism. It's 298 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:11,720 like the same as agism and racism and sexism and all the other is ms. 299 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,680 It's like you have to listen to that child or well on The example 300 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,519 that was given was this teacher who said, if I have a kid comes, 301 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,160 you know, if one of my kids comes and says, use they 302 00:21:22,319 --> 00:21:26,119 them pronouns for me, and I say, no, you're too young to 303 00:21:26,319 --> 00:21:30,519 be making that kind of decision, then I would be engaging in childism. 304 00:21:30,559 --> 00:21:33,880 So that was the example that this this whacked out teacher gave, and I'm 305 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:37,880 just like so, and then there's going to be you know, then you 306 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,720 extrapolate that into all the arguments about consent. So how do these people square 307 00:21:41,759 --> 00:21:45,599 that because they're all like, oh, yeah, my my eight year old 308 00:21:45,599 --> 00:21:52,079 can absolutely decide their whole life and they can do puberty blockers and like make 309 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:55,960 decisions that impact their whole life. But yet they cannot consent to sex, 310 00:21:56,079 --> 00:22:00,440 or they cannot consent to whatever until they're a much older age. I don't 311 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:06,480 know how you reconcile those different philosophies on when children can actually make grown up 312 00:22:06,559 --> 00:22:08,279 level decisions. Completely insane. Oh yeah, I know. Yeah. And 313 00:22:08,319 --> 00:22:14,440 I mean if I would have allowed my the young our youngest to decide things 314 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,519 that she wanted to do when she was five, she wanted to be she 315 00:22:17,559 --> 00:22:21,519 wanted to be a ballerina when she was five. She has no there's no 316 00:22:21,599 --> 00:22:23,960 way she would like. I think about the stuff that she wanted when she 317 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,920 was five, and then the things that she wants and even now at age 318 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:32,480 thirteen, which will be completely different than what she wants at age eighteen, 319 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,319 which will be completely different than what she wants at age twenty five, when 320 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:41,200 she's at when her brain is actually fully developed, because you know, your 321 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:45,319 brain is not fully developed until your mid twenties, and so I just it's 322 00:22:45,559 --> 00:22:49,839 insanity what we're doing or what were we think we are doing for the benefit 323 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:55,559 of children. They are not adults, they're not little adults. They're children, 324 00:22:56,079 --> 00:23:00,599 and we're supposed to be guiding them, not allowing them to make pivotal 325 00:23:00,599 --> 00:23:04,680 decisions about their lives. It's it's just insane. That's not parenting, No, 326 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,680 it's it's actually And the worst part is that there are some parents that 327 00:23:08,759 --> 00:23:14,400 I, you know, I have sympathy for in that they get swallowed up 328 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:18,000 in this whole culture and they don't have a way of sifting through what is 329 00:23:18,039 --> 00:23:21,759 real and what is not real. So, for example, like we mentioned 330 00:23:21,799 --> 00:23:23,880 earlier, you know, there's this common number that floats around that two percent 331 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,599 of the population is intersects. Well, when that gets solidified in sort of 332 00:23:27,599 --> 00:23:33,000 the collective mindset of everybody, so too do things like, oh, puberty 333 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:38,839 blockers are totally reversible and don't do long lasting damage. So then those parents 334 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:44,200 who just hear that over and over and over again sometimes don't realize what they're 335 00:23:44,319 --> 00:23:48,599 actually doing to their kids. And I blame it completely on the activists who 336 00:23:49,319 --> 00:23:55,480 who twist you know, reality to suit them. And then all these other 337 00:23:55,519 --> 00:23:57,400 people, these these parents who just want to do right by their kids, 338 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:03,400 who want to be good parents, then they get suckered into into acquiescing to 339 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,359 all these kids demands. Else they're called like horrible names by the trans community 340 00:24:07,599 --> 00:24:11,920 and they and they're accused of abusing their child for not letting them do these 341 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:15,559 harmful, long term change, you know, things to their body. And 342 00:24:15,559 --> 00:24:19,599 then they're validated. They're validated by doctors, medical doctors right now, who 343 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,000 will tell you raaking it in. Oh my god, yeah they are. 344 00:24:23,039 --> 00:24:26,920 I mean that's the thing that sucks for these parents, Like you're talking about 345 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,599 those parents. And then yeah, they acquiesced, but then they also get 346 00:24:30,799 --> 00:24:36,839 they're validated and then pacified by medical doctors who have gone to freaking med school, 347 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,160 so they think, Oh, these doctors know what they're talking about, 348 00:24:38,599 --> 00:24:41,839 right, I mean, surely they know, right. I Mean, these 349 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:45,240 are doctors, they're smart, they're educated, so I'm going to listen to 350 00:24:45,279 --> 00:24:47,640 them. And then they listen to them, and oh my god, I 351 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:52,000 mean, imagine how they're going to feel in ten fifteen years when they realize 352 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:56,640 they wake up and they realize, holy cow, we screwed up. We 353 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,480 screwed up big time. And then and then what's going to happen. Are 354 00:25:00,519 --> 00:25:03,519 these people going to go back and sue like what? I just think about 355 00:25:03,559 --> 00:25:07,599 the ramifications of all this in the next ten, fifteen, twenty twenty five 356 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:11,319 years, Like what the world's going to look like with all these people that 357 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,559 have done all these terrible things to their bodies, Because we've we've seen a 358 00:25:15,599 --> 00:25:19,599 couple instances of that. Now these kids who are in their twenties where they 359 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,079 did it a couple of years ago and then they have regretted it, right, 360 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:29,599 and then but I think of the rising number of kids who are doing 361 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,119 it and then are going to regret it in ten, fifteen, twenty years, 362 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:37,400 and my god, what are they going to do? 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HOWE remember that one 377 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:47,440 that like the thirty year old guy who was like this is my voice now. 378 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,240 I mean he's become so feminized because of what he went through as a 379 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:56,319 teenager, getting all this feminization stuff, and his voice will never return to 380 00:26:56,440 --> 00:27:00,240 a male voice. And so that's just an example you cannot undo of the 381 00:27:00,319 --> 00:27:03,480 damage that you're doing to these kids. And that's why so many normal, 382 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,119 common sense, rational people are like, listen, if you want to be 383 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,200 trans as an adult, go do it, Like live your life, you 384 00:27:11,839 --> 00:27:17,519 but don't force this onto kids and parent kids so that you're not just saying, 385 00:27:17,559 --> 00:27:18,960 oh, you want to be a guy today and you're eight, Yeah, 386 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,519 I'm gonna cut off your boobs. Yeah, you know what I mean, 387 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,839 We're gonna absolutely get puberty. I think that struck me the most about 388 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:30,039 that. One particular case was that he went through menopause at age nineteen, 389 00:27:30,039 --> 00:27:33,000 and as somebody who's gone through menopause, I mean, it is not for 390 00:27:33,039 --> 00:27:41,000 the faint of heart. You don't just like push a teenager through menopause and 391 00:27:41,039 --> 00:27:45,680 then expect that not to affect somebody mentally. That's not okay. Hormones are 392 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,240 just it's nothing that you want to f with. Oh you don't want to 393 00:27:48,279 --> 00:27:52,119 f with that. It's it's completely and totally unnatural. And I just I 394 00:27:52,599 --> 00:27:56,880 when I heard that, when I heard him say that, I just thought, 395 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,680 oh my god, I mean, you can't. There's no turning back 396 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,960 from that. And I just know these kids. Man, it's just it 397 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:08,000 breaks my heart. You cannot at that. And then I think about he's 398 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,559 going to be twenty years old. Think of all the life he has left 399 00:28:11,599 --> 00:28:18,200 to live in that body. Wow, you know, yeah, it's crazy. 400 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,319 I mean, just and then to have to live with that regret forever. 401 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,880 I mean, good for him for speaking out and trying to prevent the 402 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,799 same kind of thing from happening to other kids. And that's that's the best 403 00:28:27,799 --> 00:28:32,200 thing that he can do, honestly. But I think, you know what, 404 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:36,039 before before we close out, I want to make sure that we spotlight 405 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,400 a couple of gender reveals gone bad. We have to do it. And 406 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:45,920 my favorite thing is when people use those gigantic balloons that you're you're supposed to 407 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:49,440 pierce and then they explode with all coups of like either powder or like you 408 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,200 know, confetti type of stuff. So when you get other people involved in 409 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,920 that, and especially kids, things can go wrong. And so we've got 410 00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:11,319 a couple of examples to share. Okay, we go, No, she 411 00:29:11,359 --> 00:29:22,279 doesn't want to do it. She is a monster that just let it go. 412 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:27,680 Okay, mom is so mad. Well, you know what, they 413 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:33,559 should have more kids. Seems like a good plan. And there's another one 414 00:29:33,559 --> 00:29:38,720 too. There's another one with that same balloon um that it also doesn't go 415 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:56,960 the way that it showed. Okay, here we go. Okay, why 416 00:29:56,079 --> 00:30:00,359 though, that's nuts, that's not did they not resper they didn't prep her? 417 00:30:00,759 --> 00:30:04,680 Apparent not apparently there It's like, yeah, this is the thing. 418 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,480 But I'm left again feeling kind of torn. I think where I've settled is 419 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:15,759 that I think gender reveal parties are stupid and attention seeking on the on the 420 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:22,160 on one hand, but if it makes the gender bending activists mad, do 421 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,440 it, then you want power to you just don't explode things, because then 422 00:30:25,599 --> 00:30:29,519 yeah, people should not die doing that. For the record, maya stepdaughter, 423 00:30:29,599 --> 00:30:33,039 they just cut a cake and then that's fun. Internal icing was blue. 424 00:30:33,319 --> 00:30:37,160 That's it. That's perfect. So I mean, that's that's a perfectly 425 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,000 respectable way. I heard that they do that with Lasagna's, and I was 426 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:44,200 like, how do you make a blue or pink lasagn Why does anybody eat 427 00:30:44,279 --> 00:30:49,200 that. I don't have lasagna's. That's that's a terrible ideal. It sounds 428 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,079 really gross. Yeah, so it was okay if nothing was exploded. Nobody 429 00:30:53,119 --> 00:30:56,640 had to pop anything. There were no kids that had to be like, 430 00:30:56,799 --> 00:31:02,119 you know, reprimanded and like scarred for life because of that. So yeah, 431 00:31:02,119 --> 00:31:03,480 it was just it was just a cake. So there was that. 432 00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,880 But yeah, all right, we'll see. I think that's fine. Maybe 433 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,160 just kind of if you do it on the down low, nobody gets hurt, 434 00:31:10,319 --> 00:31:14,480 nothing gets there's always there's always just finding out in the office to you 435 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:18,400 guys, and the just always that and doing it the old school way that 436 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,000 we did it. There's always that way too, you know, there's that 437 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:26,079 that's exactly right. Just wait for the day though that doctors get that. 438 00:31:26,319 --> 00:31:29,559 People get mad at doctors when they say it's a boy. And then the 439 00:31:29,599 --> 00:31:36,079 doctor's get in trouble for assigning agenda reappropriate and he and she didn't decide that 440 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:41,319 yet. How dare you? How dare you? Everything is so dumb so 441 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:45,440 as you would say, so bored, So true, you guys, you 442 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,400 can check us out on all the places checks on the right dot com slash 443 00:31:48,559 --> 00:31:52,319 links check out all of our socials, all of the things, all the 444 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,160 days, and we will talk to you next week.