1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:16,399 Made us have pace, sunny sune on, I haveasione n Hey, everybody, 2 00:00:16,559 --> 00:00:19,760 welcome to you for crying out loud. It's me stuck me a little 3 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:24,519 strange voice, but for the best reason. I'm here with my one of 4 00:00:24,559 --> 00:00:31,440 my besties and somebody that is a absolute audience favorite Julie Kaysam, well, 5 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,119 thank you, I thought you were going to say, and someone who is 6 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:38,399 a diehard f cooler, which I totally am, even though I know you 7 00:00:38,399 --> 00:00:42,240 haven't talked to you all the time. That's crazy. Literally listen every week 8 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:46,880 and then Wednesdays when the Patreon comes out, I can't wait till seven am 9 00:00:47,039 --> 00:00:49,240 because that's when it, at least on the West Coast, it comes out 10 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,880 at seven am. And I've been meaning to ask you if you could just 11 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,520 like set it so it comes out at like twelve am, yeah or whatever. 12 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:02,399 I think that it's just for everybody on all over the you know country. 13 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:03,680 It can just right when they wake up because maybe they go to the 14 00:01:03,719 --> 00:01:06,959 gym early or what. I don't know. Last week's actually, for the 15 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,680 first time, I said it for three am because I wanted them at the 16 00:01:08,719 --> 00:01:11,640 East coast. But I'll do it. I'll do it. Midnight and so 17 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:15,000 what I'm looking I'm looking out for our patreon folks over here that like the 18 00:01:15,079 --> 00:01:19,280 first thing in the morning. Let me ask you this, Julie Casem When 19 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,959 you listen to Patreon, aren't you always like, yeah, I know this 20 00:01:23,079 --> 00:01:26,239 story already, it's funny because well, actually probably not if it's Lynette. 21 00:01:26,359 --> 00:01:30,799 If definitely if it's not Lynette. And then with you sometimes yes and sometimes 22 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:34,159 because we we used to talk all the time when I wasn't working, and 23 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,840 now that I'm working, we're kind of hit or miss You'll call, I'll 24 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,799 miss it. I'll call, you won't answer. We're busy, so like 25 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:42,719 I don't hear all the stories. Actually, so it kind of works out. 26 00:01:44,359 --> 00:01:46,840 Yeah, or again I get to text you and be like, who's 27 00:01:46,879 --> 00:01:49,319 Lina talking about? Who are you telling? You know? So I get 28 00:01:49,319 --> 00:01:52,959 the insides right, that is that is true? That is true? Uh, 29 00:01:53,319 --> 00:01:59,040 which you know what's annoying is that the last Patreon we did, so 30 00:01:59,239 --> 00:02:02,120 I I have a little update. Well you know what, I'll save that 31 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:06,640 for. I'll save that for Patreon. The update. Oh but yeah, 32 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,400 but people were trying to guess in the patri in the patreton, the patreon 33 00:02:09,439 --> 00:02:12,759 ap people were trying to guess, and I was like, no, that 34 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,560 defeats the purpose. Like she was so paranoid that even our Patreon listeners would 35 00:02:16,599 --> 00:02:20,840 know who she's talking about. Yeah, yeah, yeah and say something. 36 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,159 But anyway, So I was deleting comments on Patreon, oh, because people 37 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:28,800 were guessing the right one. They tend to guess when they don't know, 38 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,120 and normally it's okay, like it's fun, but this particular instance is like 39 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,719 no, no, no, stop, stop stop. Oh my god, 40 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,520 somebody figured out the one where and you know who it is? I think 41 00:02:39,759 --> 00:02:44,639 the comedian. I had no idea. And then I was reading all the 42 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:49,120 comments and I was like, oh, okay, because Giovanni completely figured out 43 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,759 who we were talking about and then wrote a whole thing. And at that 44 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,800 point I was like, wow, whatever, Yeah, if he finds out, 45 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,919 I mean, I don't know, we're not we're not friends. Yeah, 46 00:02:58,039 --> 00:03:00,919 it's fine, it's well my kidding. Let's say hi. Do you 47 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,560 speaking of people that listen all the time, let's say hi to some of 48 00:03:05,599 --> 00:03:08,919 those people. Now, look, one of you guys is new to my 49 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:15,280 list, and you're not going to hear your name today because I'm going off 50 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:20,400 of an old list because I forgot to. I thought it doesn't really matter 51 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,080 who cares. Who cares. But if you don't hear your name, know 52 00:03:23,199 --> 00:03:27,719 that we have it and you'll hear it next week. But Alicia Askalante, 53 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,439 she's your from the city of elm from the city of Almonte. Kelly Brandt, 54 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:37,680 she's your aunt. Rebecca a little binn you shown fosh prey, Oh 55 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:46,479 Hotti, Missy and Gabby they're I think they're with Lynette that king, Yeah 56 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,759 they are. But what about Amy? What she Oh? Amy? She's 57 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,000 a sweet girl. I guess she's sweet. She's a sweet lady. H 58 00:03:54,199 --> 00:04:01,800 And Katie Murphy is rolling on e not Anna Faris Aaron land Ho Nikki call 59 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:09,000 your girl. Leslie is a costing people and coughing. Still she's in that 60 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:14,599 new round of COVID Athena. We love your dancing, Elizabeth Williamson hot im. 61 00:04:14,719 --> 00:04:17,560 Elizabeth is going through a lot this week, and love you girl. 62 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:21,439 We're here for you. Rita is still rocking her kids in the Basinette, 63 00:04:21,439 --> 00:04:26,439 even though they're much older now. Jacob is Growley. Valerie hit said out 64 00:04:26,439 --> 00:04:30,240 of the park, Polly, we love your pancakes. Katerina seriously, just 65 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,959 had some demo work done and because you didn't listen to me. And that's 66 00:04:32,959 --> 00:04:36,079 that. Oh Kelly, Lottie, Dad, do you want to hurs? 67 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:42,240 She bar share Bear, Ashley so chic? I think we said that. 68 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:46,120 Let oh we got that one. Sarah Stefano, she's our Paisano. Aaron 69 00:04:46,319 --> 00:04:48,560 is a dirty Sanchez. Jennifer, get up, Sandra, it's not easy 70 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:53,160 being green. Christa, you make me want a droop. And Stephanie stinker 71 00:04:53,199 --> 00:04:58,240 wrinker Yeah, yay boom. All right, I gotta tell you something. 72 00:04:58,399 --> 00:05:02,319 Tell me. The day you are listening to this, which is tomorrow for 73 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:10,120 us, is my husband's sixtieth birthday. My god, sixty yeah, sixty. 74 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,759 It doesn't look a day over fifty nine. I mean, he looks 75 00:05:12,879 --> 00:05:17,680 so good. How dare you on his behalf? So okay, can we 76 00:05:17,759 --> 00:05:23,720 just talk about men's birthdays? Yes? Please? Because, by the way, 77 00:05:23,759 --> 00:05:27,040 my husband's turning fifty this year. So I was talking to you, 78 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,920 okay, So I was racking my brain for what am I going to do 79 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:34,000 for my husband because he doesn't want to party, He doesn't even want people 80 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:39,399 coming over. He doesn't want to acknowledge that he's going to be sixty. 81 00:05:39,439 --> 00:05:46,240 He's feeling upset about it. Right, he hates many many years ago when 82 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,279 we'd been together. I mean we've been together for a while, maybe like 83 00:05:50,439 --> 00:05:56,720 two years. Yeah, I fum a surprise party. Okay, so it 84 00:05:56,800 --> 00:06:00,319 must have been. I don't remember what birthday it was for, but it 85 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,040 was anyway, But I fewm a surprise party. And I didn't know that 86 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:09,319 he hates surprise anything. He's got really bad social anxiety. I knew he 87 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:13,040 had social anxiety already. I knew this, but I didn't think. But 88 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,439 in my mind, see, sometimes we do things for other people that we 89 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:19,759 would like done for ourselves, right, And I'd once had a surprise party 90 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:26,040 and it was so fun like it was really I was truly surprised, that 91 00:06:26,199 --> 00:06:30,480 feeling of walking into a place. It was my friend Bonnie McFarlane and my 92 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,480 friend Lisa had thrown up for me. And I mean, just to go 93 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,399 back, because I want to know, if you've ever had a surprise party. 94 00:06:38,079 --> 00:06:42,279 No I have not. Okay, Well, this was like truly a 95 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:47,600 surprise. That's cool when it's truly your like completely thrown off taking a clue, 96 00:06:47,639 --> 00:06:50,560 that's the best no idea. And at the time Bonnie was kind of 97 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:54,680 a newer friend to me, so I wasn't and Bonnie and I were writing 98 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:59,959 a script together. So we're at my apartment in Santa Monica. She's over 99 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:03,759 I'm wearing like literally like no no makeup, and you know, in your 100 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,759 twenties that's the thing, like you don't go you don't go out to bars 101 00:07:06,759 --> 00:07:10,639 with no makeup on. But I was like, we're literally hanging out. 102 00:07:10,639 --> 00:07:13,720 I think I'm wearing sweats or overalls. At the time I was putting in 103 00:07:13,759 --> 00:07:18,920 to my overalls, I had these railroad like railroad engineered yep, you know 104 00:07:18,959 --> 00:07:25,079 the ones with the pintries. Yeah, osh koshash overall. I only know 105 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:30,120 this because I remember from photographs now. But so, so I'm with my 106 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,120 friend, it's kind of and she's like, let's let's like take a break 107 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,560 from writing and like, let's go get a drink. And she wanted to 108 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:39,120 go to this the Coronet Room, which is on Losiana Go, which is 109 00:07:39,519 --> 00:07:42,920 real far from where we were. So I'm like, well, a, 110 00:07:43,319 --> 00:07:46,120 no, like I don't feel like going out, I'm tired, and b 111 00:07:46,839 --> 00:07:49,240 if we were going to go get a drink, why would we go all 112 00:07:49,279 --> 00:07:54,480 the way to that place? That's pretty far. So she just sprung it 113 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,839 on you, like so casually, like, hey, let's go out tonight, 114 00:07:57,079 --> 00:08:00,560 even though she's got this whole thing planned. She and my our other 115 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:05,839 friend had planned it, yes, and everybody taking ricks because usually you'll be 116 00:08:05,879 --> 00:08:07,560 like, oh, on Saturday, can we let's just go grab some dinner. 117 00:08:07,639 --> 00:08:09,560 So at least you have a few days lead up, you know that 118 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,600 the plan is in place. Correct to just do it like a couple hours 119 00:08:13,639 --> 00:08:15,319 prior and be like, hey, you want to head over to this bar? 120 00:08:15,399 --> 00:08:16,279 What if you were like, no, we were in our twenties, 121 00:08:16,279 --> 00:08:22,040 we weren't moms, we weren't like organizational. And she told me later that 122 00:08:22,199 --> 00:08:24,360 she was starting to freak out. She wasn't going according to right. I 123 00:08:24,399 --> 00:08:28,759 think in her mind we were pretty happy, go lucky, like we didn't 124 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:35,120 have kids, a coup I don't have. In her mind it was like, 125 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,039 why wouldn't she want to like go grab a drink. It's like, 126 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:43,320 what are we doing? You know, And normally I think I would I 127 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,799 think I normally would have. So it was surprising to her that I was 128 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:50,039 like, absolutely not, I really don't feel like it. So then she 129 00:08:50,159 --> 00:08:54,519 started to be so then I think she got a phone call. I don't. 130 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,000 I don't feel like we even had cell phones in those days, so 131 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:03,039 I'm trying to remember how down. Maybe she got a call on the landline 132 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:07,320 or she pretended. I don't remember what it was, but the point is 133 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,639 she was she was getting kind of more desperate, and I swear to god, 134 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:13,120 I had no idea. But she tells me that if I really at 135 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,919 that point, if I hadn't said okay, she was just gonna have to 136 00:09:16,919 --> 00:09:22,799 tell me because oh, she was getting calls somehow from our other friend that 137 00:09:22,919 --> 00:09:26,120 was like dude, what the fuck? Like people are here phones back then 138 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:30,000 or something. I maybe there was a page, I don't remember. The 139 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:33,840 point is, finally I was like, all right, all right, if 140 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,960 you're really not, because she's like, I just can't, I can't write, 141 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,279 Like I just I have to go take a break, and like yeah, 142 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:43,039 So I said, okay, okay, okay, okay. So we 143 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:48,600 get there and I walk in and I do remember very specifically seeing somebody that 144 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:52,240 I knew that was a friend of mine and thinking, oh my god, 145 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,519 like, what's it was? My friend Mike Maddox. I was like, 146 00:09:54,759 --> 00:09:58,559 what's mag Maddics doing? Here and I got hi, and he's like hi, 147 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,279 and then I as I'm kind of looking around, there's like people have 148 00:10:01,399 --> 00:10:05,200 balloons, and I swear to God, though, I was like, so 149 00:10:05,279 --> 00:10:11,080 when was your actual birthday? Probably like a week later or something or maybe 150 00:10:11,159 --> 00:10:15,200 yeah, maybe like in the next couple days. Yeah, so but I 151 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:20,399 still it's I was so surprised and shocked that I was like, I still 152 00:10:20,399 --> 00:10:22,279 it took my brain a bit to register, so I was like, what 153 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:26,480 is he doing here? And then finally somebody else because they didn't yell surprise. 154 00:10:28,039 --> 00:10:30,600 It was just all my friends were at this bar, and then they 155 00:10:30,639 --> 00:10:33,600 started and then happy Birthday, And I was like, how do you know? 156 00:10:33,639 --> 00:10:37,159 It was my birthday? And then I start seeing that everybody there is 157 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:41,840 somebody I know, and I was like, oh my god. I was 158 00:10:41,879 --> 00:10:46,159 so surprised. I was very happy. I was very flattered. So what 159 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,080 did I want to do for John? I wanted to give him that feeling? 160 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:52,240 Of course, little did I know that's a terrible feeling for him, 161 00:10:52,799 --> 00:10:56,840 right, like so uncomfortable. Yeah, he well, but you he was 162 00:10:56,879 --> 00:11:00,320 only two years in, so you probably didn't fully know the extension. Maybe 163 00:11:00,399 --> 00:11:03,240 less than that, maybe it was like a year. Maybe I had we've 164 00:11:03,279 --> 00:11:05,000 been together like a year and a half. I don't. Somehow I already 165 00:11:05,039 --> 00:11:09,279 was friends with his friends. Yeah, maybe it was two years. But 166 00:11:09,799 --> 00:11:13,279 I called every single one of his friends. I had them meet me at 167 00:11:13,279 --> 00:11:16,759 the hotel. It's one of the hotels on the beach, Casa del Mar, 168 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,559 because it's a nice hotel on the beach, a fancy hotel. And 169 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:24,440 I had everybody just meet in like the lobby, at the lobby, but 170 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:30,480 there's a big open lounge, yeah, lounge restaurant. Yeah. So I 171 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,039 had all of this, you know, and we were like early thirty. 172 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:37,679 Yeah, so I was it was we hadn't been together that long anyway, 173 00:11:37,919 --> 00:11:43,200 John, we took him out. We went with my his best friend and 174 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:46,559 his best friend's wife, so they are our best couple friends. Yeah, 175 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,600 and then we so he thought he was going down for his birth He thought 176 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,279 he was just going out for his birthday, just with our other couple friend. 177 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:56,120 So we took him out. We went to sushi and he got a 178 00:11:56,120 --> 00:12:00,440 little bit drunk, and then we were like, let's go for an drink. 179 00:12:00,759 --> 00:12:03,080 Let's go have a drink, and he was like okay, you know, 180 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:09,039 so we walk into the bar area to, you know, we tell 181 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,320 him let's go to the Casa del Mar's. It was walking distance too, 182 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:15,320 so he was like, okay, so we anyway, we walk in there, 183 00:12:15,639 --> 00:12:20,159 and he had a similar experience, except for much worse for him because 184 00:12:20,519 --> 00:12:24,080 he walks in and I thought, my a close friend of his, I 185 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,360 thought gave away the surprise. He's in there. He's got like a gift 186 00:12:26,519 --> 00:12:31,000 in his hand. He sees John, but we haven't gotten to the area 187 00:12:31,039 --> 00:12:35,120 where everybody's gonna say surprise. So he's just walking like he'd gotten it about 188 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,960 or he just walked in, and John had no He was just like, 189 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,600 oh, hey, Keith, what are you doing here? And Keith is 190 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,480 like, hey, buddy, you know, just like a oh, I'm 191 00:12:43,519 --> 00:12:46,279 here meeting some friends or whatever. And John goes, oh, okay, 192 00:12:46,399 --> 00:12:50,120 we're having a drink, you know. Anyway, then we walk over to 193 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:56,200 the area and then everybody goes surprise. And John's face was so stunned, 194 00:12:56,399 --> 00:12:58,879 and not in a good way, like it was very he was very shocked. 195 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,279 He got kind of pale. He like didn't know what to do. 196 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:09,440 And then I think he take him a minute to warm up. He warmed 197 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:13,440 up. I think he was very flattered, as I had been. But 198 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:18,919 but for him, there was like this after effect where he got very anxious 199 00:13:18,919 --> 00:13:22,200 about like how did I act? Did I pay attention to people? Did 200 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,639 I seem gracious enough? Like? Who was there? Did I you know 201 00:13:24,639 --> 00:13:30,639 what I mean? Overthinking the entire thought everything basically told me, please don't 202 00:13:30,639 --> 00:13:33,519 ever do that. Please don't ever do that again. That was the biggest 203 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:41,320 nightmare, like it still reverberates his soul. I really fucked up little, 204 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:46,320 did you know? So bringing it back to this milestone birthday, Yeah, 205 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,919 I've only been with him for two big fortieth. That must have been for 206 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:56,360 his fortieth wow, yeah, fortieth, fiftieth and now sixtieth. Yeah, 207 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,360 although no, I don't think it was because well, wait, have you 208 00:13:58,399 --> 00:14:05,440 guys, Helen been together for thirty years? We've been married twenty years now, 209 00:14:05,519 --> 00:14:07,480 and we were already together four years, so we've been together twenty four 210 00:14:07,519 --> 00:14:11,240 years. Okay, Okay, So anyway, the point is, I was 211 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,720 like, what am I gonna do for his birthday? Because it's really hard 212 00:14:13,759 --> 00:14:18,120 to shop for him. There's not like things that he wants all I know. 213 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:22,679 It's so hard to like buy stuff for spouses or boyfriends it's like, 214 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:26,519 especially at this age, you kind of can just buy whatever you want, 215 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:31,399 right Yea, so I said to you. And also i'd post I procrastinated 216 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:35,879 too long to be able to like order him some fun stuff that you see 217 00:14:35,919 --> 00:14:39,240 online right now. I was like, oh, there's a hoodie with with 218 00:14:39,399 --> 00:14:43,039 people. I could have people put on a hoodie, you know. But 219 00:14:43,159 --> 00:14:45,200 you see that stuff and you're like, well, I have four days. 220 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,000 So I called you. Yeah, this is all coming back to Julie Case. 221 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,279 I called you and I was like, girl, what am I going 222 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:56,399 to do for John's birthday? And do you remember what you said? Yeah? 223 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,080 I was like, get him an experience, yeah, and get him 224 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:01,879 a gift to take him to a answer something right. And I was like, 225 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:07,600 that's a really good idea. So then I had the idea of like, 226 00:15:07,039 --> 00:15:11,879 he likes the comedian Taylor Tomlinson. And I knew that coming up in 227 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:16,080 Netflix. Netflix is a joke. Yeah, for the series, I knew 228 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:20,639 there was this. There was going to be Taylor Tomlinson with Michelle Buteau, 229 00:15:20,399 --> 00:15:26,240 Sarah Silverman and somebody else Nikki Glazer maybe oh wow, And I was like, 230 00:15:26,399 --> 00:15:30,039 oh, maybe he I know, he likes Taylor Tomlinson, maybe I 231 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:33,399 could get tickets to that. So I looked at the tickets and they were 232 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:37,080 a Thursday night, which I work on Thursday night. So I'm like, 233 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,120 well, I wouldn't be able to go, but I guess I could. 234 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,000 Maybe I could buy him tickets with the kids. So then I don't know 235 00:15:43,039 --> 00:15:46,200 how I thought of it, but I was like, well, who but 236 00:15:46,639 --> 00:15:50,159 he doesn't even really that's not I was like, who's his favorite comedian? 237 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,840 And I was like, well, John Mullaney. Yeah, So I look 238 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:58,240 up John Mulaney and he's freaking like Hollywood Bowl on May four? What are 239 00:15:58,279 --> 00:16:03,360 the chances that it's so random? And I was already come through here a 240 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:07,639 few times. So then I look and I see that there are tickets available, 241 00:16:08,159 --> 00:16:10,960 and then I called the kids in. I was like, hey, 242 00:16:11,039 --> 00:16:14,639 guys, blah blah blah, what do you think about getting him tickets to 243 00:16:14,759 --> 00:16:17,919 this? And they're like, yes, he would love it. So then 244 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:22,679 I'm like, Taylor Tomlinson or John Malaney and they were like, oh, 245 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:26,799 John Mullaney one hundred percent Taylor is They did. But here's the funny thing, 246 00:16:27,519 --> 00:16:32,799 Xander had. John had just made Xander watch a Taylor Tomlinson Special and 247 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:36,639 I was working at the time, and he said that John said, eh, 248 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,600 her new specials like not that great? Okay, it was okay, 249 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,480 yeah, so I was like, okay, per So then I call LB 250 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:48,360 and she was like, yes, that sounds great. We're all in town. 251 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:52,840 So I bought the tickets. So we're going to surprise him with the 252 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:56,720 with the tickets, and I think it'll be very special to him because he 253 00:16:56,000 --> 00:17:00,320 loves stuff like that the whole you know, he's very sentimental. Do I 254 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,679 love that the kids are old enough now that you can go do that. 255 00:17:03,919 --> 00:17:06,440 You know, it's a whole different world with what we can do with our 256 00:17:06,519 --> 00:17:10,559 kids now. It's so fun. Yeah, so what are you planning for 257 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:11,519 you? Wait, wait, one more thing. Okay, so what are 258 00:17:11,559 --> 00:17:15,440 you doing the day tomorrow, the day of his birthday? Guys gonna go 259 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,440 to the day? Are you working? I am? But so we were 260 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:22,400 thinking of going out, okay, on like the weekend, which would have 261 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:26,599 just passed. But then I was thinking, you know when you go out 262 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:30,119 on the weekend and then the actual birthday comes such a dud, Yes, 263 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:34,359 totally, Like that sucks. Then you're like, well, we already celebrated 264 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,039 your birthdays. You're trying to like have a good attitude the day of, 265 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:45,359 and I totally get that. You're like, I'm gonna go to Coffee Bean 266 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:48,359 and get you a coffee. Oh, you stay in bed, I'll walk 267 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:56,880 penal Bee right. Which it's like I watch every Way exactly, So it's 268 00:17:56,960 --> 00:18:00,240 just not it doesn't hit. It doesn't hit the same as when you actually 269 00:18:00,279 --> 00:18:03,319 have something planned. I know. Agree. So I said, hey, 270 00:18:03,799 --> 00:18:07,119 even though I teach, I teach my writing class on Tuesday nights, but 271 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:11,319 it only goes it's like from five to six forty five, and the kids 272 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,240 have a later start at school on Wednesday. Anyway, So I was like, 273 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,519 do you want to just do your birthday on your actual birthday? And 274 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:19,400 we can go to dinner as soon as I'm done with you know, we 275 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,839 could go to dinner like seven, are you guys going to Benny Hannah No 276 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:27,480 favorite, Stomping my favorite. We're just gonna go for sushi perfect, and 277 00:18:27,559 --> 00:18:30,759 then Sadie's going to bake him the cake and then we'll give him his we'll 278 00:18:30,799 --> 00:18:36,039 give him his gift perfect so special. I think it'll be really happy because 279 00:18:36,079 --> 00:18:38,680 it'll be a gift he likes it's still going to be low key. Yes, 280 00:18:38,799 --> 00:18:45,319 no special guests, not going to appearances. No, nobody came to 281 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,720 our house and making him go. Because this is John. If I want 282 00:18:48,759 --> 00:18:52,240 to have people over, he's gonna be like, but our front lawn looks 283 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:56,079 terrible, like our landscaping. I'm like, no, he's gonna care, 284 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,880 but you have to have our kitchen redone. I'm like, I know, 285 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,200 but so we're gonna have friends over in like ten years, That's what I'm 286 00:19:03,279 --> 00:19:06,920 saying. We never, as you know, we never ever Undertanze, yes, 287 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:08,720 because John's like, there's nowhere for people to be. We don't have 288 00:19:08,799 --> 00:19:11,920 a backyard, and I'm always like, all right, well I'm just gonna 289 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,640 have to keep waiting for those invites. Anyway, what are you gonna do? 290 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:21,240 Okay, So for speaking of surprise parties, you'll remember this, you 291 00:19:21,319 --> 00:19:23,640 know what. 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Bella would have been nine, 318 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:22,599 Sophie would have been five, and your kids were like around this literally the 319 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,000 same age. Yeah, And so I was like, okay, let's make 320 00:21:25,039 --> 00:21:29,880 it like a whole kashaw as Lynette would say, and have we have a 321 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:36,279 very big backyard, so let's have like a water slide and pool party and 322 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:41,119 cater like I think we had Mexican catering and a margarita machine and let's just 323 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:45,920 make it for kids and adults. Everybody come. So that's what we did. 324 00:21:45,039 --> 00:21:48,240 So I was like, okay, So I planned this entire thing, 325 00:21:48,319 --> 00:21:51,960 I mean to this day, he says he was surprised. I don't know, 326 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:56,119 because I had to like have all the tables delivered, the margarita machine 327 00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:00,559 delivered a day before while he was at work two days before on a Friday. 328 00:22:00,599 --> 00:22:03,839 So and then I just shoved it all in the garage, you know. 329 00:22:03,039 --> 00:22:07,920 So then the morning of he leaves for soccer and then I pull everything 330 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:11,119 out set up really quickly, which I did, but I'm still I don't 331 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:15,960 know. And so we had a ton of people, and do you remember 332 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,079 that there were You're acting like you weren't there. Were you not there? 333 00:22:18,319 --> 00:22:22,640 You know? I have the worst memory. I probably was there like you. 334 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,960 Yeah, I gotta now, we gotta go revisit the pictures and see 335 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,799 if there's photo of it. It was because that was like there would have 336 00:22:29,839 --> 00:22:34,920 been elementary school moms exactly like you. Laura Helena was there, I know 337 00:22:36,039 --> 00:22:37,839 for sure, like I got a look or maybe you were busy that day 338 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:41,319 for some weird reason. I don't know. I'm sure I wouldn't have been 339 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:42,920 too busy to come, right, but anyway, go on. So then 340 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,559 so what we did is we all gathered in the front and then he walked 341 00:22:47,599 --> 00:22:51,480 in the door and everybody's like surprise. I do remember that. I do 342 00:22:51,799 --> 00:22:55,119 remember having to like get ready to say surprise. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 343 00:22:55,319 --> 00:22:57,359 And then we had like a huge soccer cake because he's such a soccer 344 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:03,319 yes, yes, fan, yes, anyway, so that was so fun. 345 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,039 And then everybody just you know, partied around the pool the rest of 346 00:23:06,039 --> 00:23:07,799 the day. So that was fun. Say, he enjoyed that. He 347 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,000 loved it. And I even asked him the other day because his birthday's coming 348 00:23:11,079 --> 00:23:12,880 up, and I'm like, no, like, be honest, were you 349 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,960 really surprised, Like we're past it now you can tell me. He's like, 350 00:23:17,039 --> 00:23:19,440 no, no, I was surprised. He's like he said, I 351 00:23:19,559 --> 00:23:23,000 saw something I can't remember if he saw someone walking outside he goes, So 352 00:23:23,079 --> 00:23:26,799 I kind of was like, what's going on here? So he's like I 353 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,400 kind of had some idea like what and then, But but other than that, 354 00:23:30,559 --> 00:23:33,240 he didn't know it would be that many people right right right, And 355 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:38,319 I had like some of his old frap buddies come like like Jim, yes, 356 00:23:38,559 --> 00:23:44,680 exactly, everybody from work to his old FRAP bros to like our new 357 00:23:45,039 --> 00:23:48,000 friends that we met flown in. I want to say Jim flew in. 358 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,839 Yeah, that's best friend like his brother. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, 359 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:56,480 yeah, and then Jim proceeded to get blasted and then every time, 360 00:23:56,599 --> 00:23:59,640 So this is Jamille's best friend and he's like a brother to him. And 361 00:23:59,759 --> 00:24:03,240 but whenever Jim drinks, he wants to wrestle your meals, which meels like, 362 00:24:03,319 --> 00:24:07,079 dude, I'm too old for this. Like they're just looking a nice 363 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:11,039 time, throw down some beers and just chill. And then there's chill, 364 00:24:11,799 --> 00:24:15,599 like tackling him on the grass. You're just like, all right, let's 365 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:22,160 do this. That's so funny. I feel like he brought his son with 366 00:24:22,319 --> 00:24:26,519 him dad divorce, Yeah exactly. He brought was like sleeping in the other 367 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,359 room for a while. Yep, he was little, yeah exactly. Yeah, 368 00:24:30,519 --> 00:24:36,480 so that was super fun. So now he's turning fifty and I feel 369 00:24:36,519 --> 00:24:40,960 like the pressure's on. But I kind of feel like I'm I may be 370 00:24:41,039 --> 00:24:47,359 getting away with something here because we have been building a house in Lebanon for 371 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,359 the last I don't even know how many years. It's finally finished. So 372 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:56,440 we're all going to Lebanon, oh okay, in June and taking his mom 373 00:24:56,599 --> 00:25:00,039 to go see the house and the whole thing. So I feel like I 374 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,559 feel like for him, that's like his big fiftieth of like going to Lebanon. 375 00:25:04,759 --> 00:25:07,200 I put my heart and soul into this house. Like to me, 376 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,480 to him, that's like a big culmination of like fifty years of like, 377 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,480 Wow, look what I've worked towards, Look what I've done, and now 378 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:18,359 we have to go back and enjoy it. So his birthday is July twenty 379 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,440 second. Oh so you girl, that's far away. I can't get away 380 00:25:22,519 --> 00:25:26,079 with that being the fiftieth. Yeah, no you can. No. I 381 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:27,720 think I was gonna say, you can. I thought his birthday was like 382 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:30,359 soon. No no, no, no, no, no, can't really 383 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,440 be like, well, we're gonna be something. We're gonna be birthday. 384 00:25:33,519 --> 00:25:37,559 The other thing we are doing, I believe is one of my besties, 385 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:45,000 Andrea Stephanie knows her well. Her parents have a gorgeous home on a private 386 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,279 lake in Idaho. Basically there's like I don't even know, maybe ten homes 387 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:52,680 on this lake and they have every single toy you could think of, ATVs 388 00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:56,720 and skiing. We're gonna ski, We're gonna tube, we're gonna roast marshmallows, 389 00:25:56,759 --> 00:26:00,759 We're gonna a TV We're gonna do all of it. And his birthday's 390 00:26:00,839 --> 00:26:03,839 July twenty second. We leave July twenty third to go to Idaho for that, 391 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,880 So that's also kind of like going to Idaho, will celebrate his birthday 392 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,480 there, So like those, but there's nothing like specifically that I've planned per 393 00:26:11,559 --> 00:26:15,839 se. That's hey, Jameial, this is just for you your fiftieth birthday. 394 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,960 I mean, what I would love to do is plan for him and 395 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:23,160 his buddies to go to Europe and do some sort of like historical like trip 396 00:26:23,279 --> 00:26:27,720 through Europe following Napoleon's march or I don't know something. He's a total history 397 00:26:27,759 --> 00:26:32,640 buff. Yeah, but he's like not a nerd. He's a total nerd. 398 00:26:32,759 --> 00:26:36,119 He's like he's like John, where he knows a lot about a lot 399 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:40,440 of things. You know, I know very little about very few things. 400 00:26:41,519 --> 00:26:45,440 I just don't. I don't know a lot I James don't, and I 401 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,519 don't even pretend. And Jamil is kind of like John in the way that 402 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:55,279 like loves to be asked shit like yes, go, like what can you 403 00:26:55,519 --> 00:26:56,960 kind of explain to me, like what's going on in the Middle East? 404 00:26:57,039 --> 00:27:00,160 He'll be like all right, have a scene like, for instance, he's 405 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,839 been dying to watch Showgun. I don't know if John's been into this, 406 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,839 yes, And I was like, you know what, I'm gonna be the 407 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,000 good wife. We're gonna do this. We're gonna sit down and watch Showgun. 408 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,880 And I was like, what the fuck? What is happening? Who 409 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,319 are these people? I knew nothing. He's like, well, you got 410 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,799 to kind of know the history. So we're pausing and we're going through the 411 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,359 history of it, and I was like, still don't get it. So 412 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:25,759 I tapped out after like thirty minutes in episode one. I'm like, honey, 413 00:27:25,839 --> 00:27:26,839 like, it's not gonna be fun for you because I'm gonna be asking 414 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,160 so many questions, right, but that is fun for them. Unfortunately, 415 00:27:30,559 --> 00:27:34,519 Unfortunately, they can't wait for an excuse. They're like they sense. They're 416 00:27:34,599 --> 00:27:37,240 like, I feel like, you don't understand what's going on. Literally, 417 00:27:37,519 --> 00:27:40,119 no no, no, no, no no no, you don't have to 418 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,079 pause it. I'll catch up and they're like no no, no, no, 419 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,359 no no no no no, let me pause it. Let me tell 420 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,119 you. And then it's like, okay, let's go back one hundred years 421 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,799 before this took place. Literally We're never literally through this, so now I 422 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,519 feel bad. But what we do is he comes home, we have dinner, 423 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,960 we hang out, and then we're like and break. I go in 424 00:27:59,039 --> 00:28:00,799 the room and I watched it down to Abbey and he stays out and watch 425 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:06,200 his Showgun and I could not be happier toill me fine with that. We 426 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:10,319 just got done. We're way behind on every show, but we just got 427 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:15,039 done binge watching together Homeland, which was I just loved it. He kind 428 00:28:15,079 --> 00:28:19,720 of, I don't know, by the by by season five he was like, 429 00:28:19,799 --> 00:28:22,799 Okay, I get it, like I'm good, and I'm like, 430 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,440 no, it's just getting good. So we kind of were watching it together. 431 00:28:26,519 --> 00:28:29,480 So I feel like we did the together thing and we've been bonded over 432 00:28:29,559 --> 00:28:32,440 that and now we're kind of doing our own thing right, which works out 433 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,880 well. So anyway, I don't know how we got onto this topic. 434 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,319 Oh, we were just talking about him being a nerd. A nerd yeah 435 00:28:38,359 --> 00:28:42,680 that he would like to go see like Napoleon shit, Yeah, exact is 436 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,720 a World War two nerd. As you know, Yes, he just wants 437 00:28:45,839 --> 00:28:49,400 everything. He made the kids watch Masters of Air, which was a recent 438 00:28:51,079 --> 00:28:52,759 thing that was on you know, Apple it's on Apple. It's by the 439 00:28:52,799 --> 00:28:56,200 same people that did Band of Brothers. And yes, okay, Jamil would 440 00:28:56,279 --> 00:29:00,279 love that. Oh yeah, yeah. That was after Saving Private Ryan came 441 00:29:00,319 --> 00:29:02,440 out and then they did Band of Brothers, which is a great show. 442 00:29:02,519 --> 00:29:04,079 Oh yeah. And then they did The Pacific which was all right. And 443 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,640 then I tried to watch Masters of Air but I wasn't really into it. 444 00:29:07,119 --> 00:29:11,400 Is it about like the pilots? Pilot, Oh, Jamille would love that. 445 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:15,799 He knows every single plane. He can tell you like, this is 446 00:29:15,839 --> 00:29:18,319 a B two bomber, it was used in this war. This that that 447 00:29:18,599 --> 00:29:21,319 he knows all of that. Jail was going to go into the Air Force. 448 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:25,039 Oh my god, yes he went. He took the test as a 449 00:29:25,079 --> 00:29:26,880 senior in high school. He wanted to go into the Air Force. He 450 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,559 was like, that is what I want to do. And he took some 451 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:36,480 tests that you take to like then to see what your you know, intelligence 452 00:29:36,559 --> 00:29:38,480 level is to then do something I don't know, and he like was talking 453 00:29:38,519 --> 00:29:44,519 all the guys and then was it the Iraq War back then that happened and 454 00:29:44,599 --> 00:29:47,359 Shamil's like, oh wait, but I don't know that I want to be 455 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,039 like bombing my people. You know. I mean he's not obviously he's not 456 00:29:51,119 --> 00:29:52,480 Iraqi, but you know what I'm saying, like going over the Middle East 457 00:29:52,519 --> 00:29:56,640 and he's like, oh, this is going to get uncomfortable, and I 458 00:29:56,839 --> 00:29:59,920 you know, there was a lot there, and then his parents are like, 459 00:30:00,039 --> 00:30:02,960 please don't do that, like just go be a doctor and let's just 460 00:30:03,119 --> 00:30:06,880 be cool with that. So yes, So he is very knowledgeable about any 461 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,039 airplane that was used in any war at any time. He will tell you. 462 00:30:10,359 --> 00:30:15,160 So John's father fought in World War Two and was in the Air Force 463 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:22,359 and flew one of those planes. I'm going to say B seventeen and now 464 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,319 I can't remember the name of the plane. John would be so upset right 465 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:30,920 now. He's obsessed with his dad's history. And well, what happened is 466 00:30:32,359 --> 00:30:36,720 what happened is that the mission he had to fly, all these they had 467 00:30:36,759 --> 00:30:40,839 to fly like twenty five missions before they could be released after they finished their 468 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,519 and somehow with him, I think they had to fly some extra missions. 469 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,599 As soon as they were done. A new flight crew, you know, 470 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:52,240 with a bombadier and the pilot and they a new team went in on that 471 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:56,920 plane and I think on their second mission they all died. Oh, god. 472 00:30:56,279 --> 00:31:00,920 Yeah. Wow, So he made it through. I mean it could 473 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,039 have very easily not. I mean it was crazy. But at one point 474 00:31:06,519 --> 00:31:11,160 the bomber on his plane, like they got hit, I believe, and 475 00:31:11,319 --> 00:31:17,960 there they lost the bomb bombadier on his plane Like he's been through it, 476 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:22,920 Wow, John, I mean no, I'm just talking about it, just 477 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,480 talking about No. I mean his dad really went through it, and and 478 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,960 he his dad didn't really talk to him much about that stuff. And I 479 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:34,200 think there's like a thing with him where to feel closer to his dad. 480 00:31:34,279 --> 00:31:41,480 I think he's always been really interested in everything surrounding the planes and the history 481 00:31:41,559 --> 00:31:45,640 and the stories, and he knows everything about it. Oh my god, 482 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:49,720 Okay I can't. So we talked about that hours they could do. Yeah, 483 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:55,359 that's so funny. That's wild. Yeah, I love I love Jamille 484 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:59,799 and Jamille. Let me let me say something about Jamil. He is so 485 00:32:00,279 --> 00:32:05,200 he's he's like he can be a little Noah Ali right, and then but 486 00:32:05,359 --> 00:32:08,079 then if you if you sort of push back a little bit, he will 487 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:13,480 soften you. Guys. You guys have an interesting relationship in that way because 488 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,640 Stephanie, you like to be not right, to challenge, you like to 489 00:32:17,799 --> 00:32:22,039 challenge, that's what it is. And he likes to challenge. So if 490 00:32:22,079 --> 00:32:23,279 you say something, he's going to challenge it. If he says something, 491 00:32:23,319 --> 00:32:27,119 you're going to challenge it, right, which I like to see you guys 492 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,640 kind of like talk about stuff. It's good, but it's on the side. 493 00:32:30,799 --> 00:32:32,039 Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course. But sometimes I just want 494 00:32:32,079 --> 00:32:36,119 to know what he knows about stuff. But sometimes his stuff that he gets 495 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,559 challenging about will be like just opinion. Like he'll be like, Okay, 496 00:32:39,599 --> 00:32:44,279 you've got to try this tea and then I'm like, he's like, it's 497 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,680 really good. It's like from you know, it's from my people or whatever. 498 00:32:47,039 --> 00:32:49,799 Then I'll try the tea and I'm like, you know, this is 499 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,119 discussing. It tastes like dirt, and he'll he'll go like, what are 500 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:58,160 you talking about? It's delicious. The nutrientsisness coming from the mother lamb. 501 00:32:59,279 --> 00:33:01,000 It doesn't have any preserves. Not that he's a health nut because it's not, 502 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:05,839 but like he will find an argument as to why you should like this 503 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,240 tea. Right, yes. But the one thing that we but it heads 504 00:33:08,279 --> 00:33:13,680 on, like early in our relationship was he had decided when your kids were 505 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,160 very little, you know, where I'm going with this the Kuman. Yes, 506 00:33:19,799 --> 00:33:24,200 So Julie's kids were babies, like, uh like Sophie must have been 507 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:29,720 one and Bell was four or something. Yeah, yeah, and Jamil was 508 00:33:29,799 --> 00:33:31,839 like, Okay, we are gonna get them. You do a better jamial 509 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,640 voice than I do, but you you tell me Jamil's what he does. 510 00:33:36,559 --> 00:33:37,640 Was like listen. So we got to get him into Kuman. Like, 511 00:33:38,759 --> 00:33:40,799 I'm not kidding when I tell you Bell it was four because she was in 512 00:33:40,839 --> 00:33:45,319 preschool. And I was like, so does everybody know what Kuman is. 513 00:33:45,519 --> 00:33:51,720 It's like it's it's a it's like a it's not totatoring, it's it's like 514 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,680 your kids are gonna be geniuses. We're gonna we're gonna train them up. 515 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:57,440 They're gonna already be ready. Yeah, we're gonna start them early. Get 516 00:33:57,519 --> 00:34:00,680 in. You're gonna they're gonna blow everybody away with their math skills and they're 517 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:04,200 reading comprehension skills. Yes, because you're coming here every week and we're just 518 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,680 gonna like work on it. And Jimmil is very very big on education, 519 00:34:07,119 --> 00:34:13,400 yes, and his whole family is, and I mean but pressure. Yeah. 520 00:34:14,039 --> 00:34:19,480 So anyway, so then we uh so so he really wanted them to 521 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,719 get into Kuman. I was like, all right, I mean fine, 522 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,119 it can't hurt this and that. Okay. Bella, who was four at 523 00:34:27,159 --> 00:34:30,679 the time, is the sweetest kid, Like she's a great She's a great 524 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:36,000 child to have because she's just kind, she's people pleasy, like she's like 525 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,679 she's up for anything. She's literally like I remember when she was like five, 526 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,039 I'd be like, we're going to do this, and then oh, 527 00:34:40,079 --> 00:34:42,760 we can't go. She'd be like, all right, what are we gonna 528 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,280 do, like kind of like an lbie, like let's just make the best 529 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,239 of everything whatever situation put me, and we're gonna have fun. She's the 530 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:52,039 best. Yeah, it's Elbe's the same way. So as a parent, 531 00:34:52,159 --> 00:34:55,480 it was easy, right, Like she never really complained about anything except I 532 00:34:55,679 --> 00:35:00,719 swear to God this is the truth. We're in Encino and I'm holding her 533 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,320 and we're walking up the stairs to go to Kuman and she bit me, 534 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,599 which never in her life has she been a child or done anything meat like 535 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:13,039 this is just not in her DNA And I was like, my god, 536 00:35:13,079 --> 00:35:15,480 it four years old. She knew like, bro, this is where I 537 00:35:15,519 --> 00:35:17,880 don't know where you're taking me, but I don't want to go here. 538 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,920 Mom's not really on board. Dad, so like but she literally and I 539 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:27,800 was like, what Bella. So we walk into Kuman and I'm holding her 540 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,800 and but can I just interject that prior to this, just to prior to 541 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:35,679 this, you were talking about it and you were saying, Jimmil is making 542 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,840 us go and I had an argument with him. Yeah. Yeah. We 543 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:43,199 had a birthday party. I believe it was your kid's birthday party. I 544 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,400 think it was Laura. I feel like, OK, well, I was 545 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,760 like JIMMYO, because this is me. Yeah, I was kind of being 546 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:52,119 funny. Yeah, but I was like JIMMYO, Julie tells me you want 547 00:35:52,119 --> 00:35:54,360 to put the kids in Kuman, Like stop, what are you thinking about? 548 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,480 And he was like, wow, it's going to be really good. 549 00:35:57,559 --> 00:36:00,639 Like I think it's important for them to get a head start, like they 550 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:05,079 don't need Kuman. They're too young, yes, Like they're too young and 551 00:36:05,119 --> 00:36:07,280 he was like, no, they're not. And we had a thing where 552 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:08,920 I was like, Julie, Jimial's being ridiculous and You're like, I know, 553 00:36:09,079 --> 00:36:13,599 but what are you gonna do? So that's which brings us to so 554 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,360 We would literally walk into Kuman and the woman is in there and I'm like, 555 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,679 yeah, we just wanted to get some information and you know, get 556 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,400 her started. And she's like how old is she? I go she's four, 557 00:36:22,599 --> 00:36:27,079 and she goes, no, even I mean, she didn't even want 558 00:36:27,119 --> 00:36:30,199 to sell her own product. She was like, no, no, no, 559 00:36:30,519 --> 00:36:32,920 she needs to go play. She's four. She's not even writing yet. 560 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,119 Like, they can't even start Kuman until they can at least hold a 561 00:36:36,159 --> 00:36:38,679 pencil and write. They need to know the alphabet lady. And I was 562 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:43,719 like, okay, this makes sense. So she was like, oh, 563 00:36:44,119 --> 00:36:46,800 okay, all right, So then we left, but we ended up we 564 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:52,000 did end up doing Kuman with them later for math, but that literally lasted 565 00:36:52,159 --> 00:36:55,280 maybe three months, and we were like, this is so ridiculous because the 566 00:36:55,360 --> 00:37:00,559 math that they do is they're not teaching math so much. Start giving you 567 00:37:00,639 --> 00:37:04,400 worksheet after worksheet after worksheet, so you just do repetition, repetition, repetition, 568 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,239 moving on to the next level worksheet, worksheet, worksheet. Okay, 569 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,000 now you've got that down. And I was like, this is why what 570 00:37:09,119 --> 00:37:12,920 are we doing? So then we stopped. But yeah that was really funny. 571 00:37:13,079 --> 00:37:15,400 Yeah, yeah, yeah, that literally. Bella and I talk about 572 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:16,559 it to this day. We're like, those are the stairs that you bit 573 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,599 me? Like, I don't know how you knew what Kuman was, but 574 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,159 you knew even at four and you were like no, So anyway, so 575 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,960 that was really funny. I know, all right, let's take a quick 576 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:35,039 break and we'll come right back. Yeah, and Bella probably, I'm sure 577 00:37:35,079 --> 00:37:38,079 that Jamil had to wrap his mind around the fact that Bella is not like, 578 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,599 she's not trying to be a doctor, no, like she from a 579 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:46,599 young age was like I just want to sing and dance act. Yes, 580 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:51,440 he was like, what is happening? Yeah, I mean, yes he 581 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,480 was. But he himself is an artist too, so he has that artistic 582 00:37:54,599 --> 00:37:59,840 side, and he was like, if I could have just fall, you 583 00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:04,000 know, done art, I would have been probably like an animator or something 584 00:38:04,119 --> 00:38:06,440 like that. So he understands that side of it. He just didn't have 585 00:38:06,519 --> 00:38:09,679 that option. You know, his family they immigrated here and they just had 586 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:14,639 to kind of go into something that was going to provide them with a stable 587 00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,639 income. So you know, his brother and sister are engineers and he's a 588 00:38:17,679 --> 00:38:22,280 physician, so he had these two just a physician by the way. He's 589 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:29,760 the head of adult cardiac cardiac health. He's a adult congenital heart disease. 590 00:38:30,039 --> 00:38:35,440 Yes, so thank you for that same here. I know a little bit 591 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,480 about a little bit about a medical schools yea, yeah, like that. 592 00:38:37,679 --> 00:38:42,800 I call it something a little bit different. You say tomato, I say 593 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,280 tomato. But whatever, heartshit anyhow. Yeah. Yeah, he has a 594 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:51,599 very big important job and he helps a lot of people, and he goes 595 00:38:51,639 --> 00:38:53,800 around the world, not just the country. He goes around the world and 596 00:38:54,440 --> 00:39:00,400 teaches about new like technology in the heart. Yeah, he teaches. He 597 00:39:00,639 --> 00:39:07,320 So he's an interventionalist, so he teaches other interventionalists in the country and in 598 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,440 the world how to implant certain devices and things like that. So he writes 599 00:39:10,599 --> 00:39:15,519 textbooks, he does. He's a nerd, like we said. Then, 600 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:20,599 on the weekends, he likes to play Warhammer, Yes he does, for 601 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,719 any for any of you that know what Warhammer is, if you know, 602 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:28,639 you know, And he travels all over the country to go to Warhammer tournaments 603 00:39:28,679 --> 00:39:30,840 and he takes it very seriously. You know, he has fun with it 604 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,360 too. He'll send me videos of the people that are there and he's like, 605 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,880 babe, okay, and he'll just like pan and I'm like, oh, 606 00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:43,119 way, these basically men that live in their mom's basement who we're dealing 607 00:39:43,159 --> 00:39:47,119 with, right, But there's a great community. Honestly, these people are 608 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:51,840 very bright, they're very intelligent, they're very creative, they're really good at 609 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,480 what they do, and he loves just being around that environment. So now 610 00:39:53,599 --> 00:39:57,800 this is very Dungeons and Dragons adjacent, right, Yes, it is, 611 00:39:58,039 --> 00:40:00,480 it is, and it isn't. I mean, I'm sure Warhammer people would 612 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:04,519 say no, but by the way, that's right. Yeah, Dungeons and 613 00:40:04,559 --> 00:40:07,360 Dragons you kind of sit around a table and you know, you do your 614 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:09,519 your stories or whatever, and you make your own characters. But it's all 615 00:40:09,599 --> 00:40:13,840 just kind of made a Warhammer. There are these little figurines that you buy 616 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,559 them, you paint them, you build an army with them, and then 617 00:40:15,599 --> 00:40:20,440 oh, Jamil paints the fuck out of them, out of them sing you 618 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,760 know what he said. He said during the pandemic, He's like, you 619 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,440 know what's what's not going to change and you know what's not going to be 620 00:40:25,519 --> 00:40:30,320 unstable are my miniatures. It's like they're there for me no matter what. 621 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:35,599 It's like, they don't give me shit, they don't have diseases. I 622 00:40:35,639 --> 00:40:39,000 can go to them every night and just paint them. So he does. 623 00:40:39,079 --> 00:40:42,920 He paints all of his own figures. In fact, he was just at 624 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:47,000 a competition last weekend and he won best Painted Army. So yeah, wow, 625 00:40:47,199 --> 00:40:53,320 you know, yay, Yeah, you should be very excited too, 626 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:58,559 because speaking of nerdy TV shows, there's one that Henry Cavell. Oh yeah, 627 00:40:58,639 --> 00:41:01,800 Henry Cavill is a big war and he was this guy called the Witcher, 628 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,800 which is a big thing. He's a big nerd too, and he's 629 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,199 helming the Warhammer TV show as like a major fan and he's going to be 630 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,679 the front of it and he's putting like all his energy into It's gonna be 631 00:41:10,679 --> 00:41:14,400 awesome. It's gonna be awesome. And by the way, during the pandemic, 632 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,440 we were like, okay, Jamille's like we need to buy stock in 633 00:41:17,519 --> 00:41:22,559 Games Workshop, which is the umbrella of Warhammer. Okay, and I was 634 00:41:22,639 --> 00:41:25,440 like, honey, because it's not cheap because you have to buy all these 635 00:41:27,039 --> 00:41:29,679 armies and then you buy more because they're switching things up. It's not a 636 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:31,960 cheap, you know, game to play. And I'm like, nobody has 637 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,480 money right now. During the pandemic, nobody's going to be buying this stuff. 638 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,519 He's like, trust me, and we bought stock and it almost doubled 639 00:41:38,559 --> 00:41:42,880 within like the like a couple of hours. Yeah, why did you say 640 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:49,119 something? Staff? Well, insider, what the hell next time? If 641 00:41:49,159 --> 00:41:51,840 you have a tip like that, you got to share the way I know, 642 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,000 I'll just struggling here over here, NERD alert, NERD alert. So 643 00:41:55,679 --> 00:41:59,360 so anyway, Yeah, so that's what he does in his free time, 644 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,599 which is great. There's he's not going to strip clubs, he's not playing 645 00:42:01,639 --> 00:42:05,800 golf for eight hours a day. He's just like sitting around painting miniatures. 646 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:07,599 Right, Can I write? I sort of, But I feel like we 647 00:42:07,679 --> 00:42:12,559 don't have time in this episode. But I feel like in the next episode, 648 00:42:13,119 --> 00:42:15,440 have you ever told the story of like how you guys met and how 649 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:21,519 you broke up? Probably like years ago. I don't know, we can 650 00:42:21,599 --> 00:42:23,480 tell that. That's a good story. Oh, thank you. Yeah, 651 00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:28,079 but I also want to give a little heads up about what we're going to 652 00:42:28,119 --> 00:42:32,079 be talking about on Patreon, making you tell us so our kids through the 653 00:42:32,159 --> 00:42:37,400 years, yes, have had should I say how should I say this? 654 00:42:37,559 --> 00:42:40,599 Like ups and downs with their friendships? Yeah? Not with each other? 655 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:45,960 No, Bella and LB have had a very stable relationship. Yea, honestly 656 00:42:45,039 --> 00:42:49,639 from day one. For those of you who are new to our show or 657 00:42:50,079 --> 00:42:53,199 don't remember this, Julie and I met at the park when our kids were 658 00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:57,760 like eighteen months old. They had they definitely weren't two. We started going 659 00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,920 to the same park and we started to talking and we realized like we got 660 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:06,360 along and we were both bored and had our one kid. And then Julie 661 00:43:07,119 --> 00:43:10,480 was like, hey, does elbe like Dora? And I was like, 662 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:15,840 well, of course, yeah. So she was like having a birthday party 663 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:19,400 for Bella for she's turning too. Do you want to come? And I 664 00:43:19,519 --> 00:43:22,679 was like okay, So I came to the party and Albie hid in a 665 00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:27,320 corner the whole time because she had undiagnosed anxiety and was petrified. And Dora 666 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,159 had one of those big ass heads. It wasn't like just a Dora a 667 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,159 girl. It was like a girl with this big head, giant Dora head. 668 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:36,400 Yeah, with the hair, and so I feel you, Alb yeah 669 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,639 yeah, but Elbie wanted nothing to do with it. But I was like, 670 00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:43,039 act right, we're out of like a party, we're meeting, you 671 00:43:43,119 --> 00:43:45,920 know, at that time, I was pretty starved for new friends. So 672 00:43:45,199 --> 00:43:50,239 you know, anyway, we bonded and we I think the girls have celebrated 673 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,639 their birthdays like almost yes, every year ever since we became friends. Then 674 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:59,679 we brought my other friend Lara into the mix because Lara was like Lara was 675 00:44:00,559 --> 00:44:04,239 paranoid and felt like I was going to leave her for new mom friends. 676 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,280 You know, we get it. We're all friends that have pools. I 677 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,079 mean, yes, she could not offer the pool, so she was a 678 00:44:10,159 --> 00:44:15,639 little insecure about that. Well I don't I didn't even know that Casey Kyson 679 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,039 was your dad, which not that that would mean so much to everybody, 680 00:44:19,119 --> 00:44:22,039 but of course I'm a seventies kid, so you know, eighties kid. 681 00:44:22,119 --> 00:44:25,079 But I didn't even know that at the time. But then when I found 682 00:44:25,119 --> 00:44:28,559 out, I think I did tell her like, oh, you know, 683 00:44:28,679 --> 00:44:32,800 she's Kasey Kyson's daughter. And that's when Lara was like, oh, great, 684 00:44:34,199 --> 00:44:38,559 so you're just moving on up in the world social climbing mom friends. 685 00:44:38,599 --> 00:44:42,880 Oh now she oh. And then so the next one I met another woman 686 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:47,840 at like a Jimberree or my gym, and she and this mom said she 687 00:44:49,039 --> 00:44:52,199 was like very lonely, kind of had some postpartum and she was like, 688 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:53,920 oh, you know, I have a pool. You could come over to 689 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:58,559 my pool and invite your invite some other moms. So I was going to 690 00:44:58,599 --> 00:45:00,800 invite you and Lara. I go to tell Lara and she was like, 691 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:07,679 wow, oh okay, So first it's Kasey Kayson's daughter. Now it's somebody 692 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,039 with a pool, because you didn't have a pool at that time. And 693 00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:14,280 the funny thing is, even though Laura it sounds like she might have been 694 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,039 kidding, deep down, she was not kidding, not kidding, No, 695 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:21,480 not kidding at all. She'll tell you that she Yeah, she was parannoying 696 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,039 and scared that I was going to leave her yea for a friend while we're 697 00:45:25,079 --> 00:45:29,199 all like best of friends. In fact, Laura just called me now while 698 00:45:29,199 --> 00:45:32,400 I'm sitting here talking to you, and our girls are all good friends, 699 00:45:32,599 --> 00:45:37,440 yes, all really good friends, still do stuff together, and your daughter 700 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,880 is at UCLA, yes, which is pretty cool, Yes, pretty amazing. 701 00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:46,400 So anyway, the point is, over the years, though our girls 702 00:45:46,679 --> 00:45:53,559 had did not go to school together, never ye our own friendship stuff going 703 00:45:53,639 --> 00:46:00,400 on, but yours had a special kind of kind of yeah hell with something. 704 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:06,800 Yeah, so elbe had a friend that Stephanie called hot and cold back 705 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:13,679 in middle school, and Bella has a friend hot and Cold in high school 706 00:46:14,079 --> 00:46:16,880 now college. They don't go to the same school. But we'll talk about 707 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:21,880 that on Patreon. Yes, because it's dicey and I don't want to. 708 00:46:22,199 --> 00:46:23,880 Yeah, I'm actually good, really good friends with the parents. Yes, 709 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:28,800 that's what it gets even diceier exactly. Okay, but before we go, 710 00:46:29,079 --> 00:46:32,599 let's give a shout out to the Family Skeptical, which is a podcast. 711 00:46:34,599 --> 00:46:39,519 Uh okay, sorry, I'm just I was just foundte Lynette sent me, 712 00:46:39,639 --> 00:46:44,199 had to send me hers. But anyway, Family Skeptical is for people that 713 00:46:44,559 --> 00:46:46,280 you know are not raising their kids with any religion and feeling kind of on 714 00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:50,840 that outside about that. Maybe all your friends are raising their kids, you 715 00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,079 know, Christian and going to church. Maybe all your friends are Jews, 716 00:46:53,119 --> 00:46:55,159 and maybe you're just like, I'm not down with that kind of thing. 717 00:46:55,519 --> 00:47:02,039 Listen to The Family Skeptical to get some interesting takes that also Kelly from Wilmanfrieda. 718 00:47:02,119 --> 00:47:07,559 They're in Palm Springs and Palm Desert. They have delicious brunch. They 719 00:47:07,599 --> 00:47:12,960 have pop Tart's homemade and eggs Benedict and anyway, you know, you know 720 00:47:13,039 --> 00:47:17,519 the drill. Also Basic Becky Just basic Becky dot com is her website. 721 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:22,920 Love Basic Becky. I know you'll be calling her again for more T shirts 722 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:25,119 because Bella is going to do her chair camp again this summer. Yeah. 723 00:47:25,599 --> 00:47:30,039 Yeah. Also, my friend Adam Lerner, he's a car broker. I 724 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,800 got in my car. You know him. He's our other good mutual friend's 725 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,480 husband. He has been helping so many FCOL people. It's hilarious. I 726 00:47:38,599 --> 00:47:43,519 was just with my friend Cecily and Adam came in the room and he's like, 727 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:46,039 just got another one. Somebody going, Hi, I'm from f Cool. 728 00:47:46,199 --> 00:47:49,440 Can I looking to buy a car? You know? And so he 729 00:47:49,559 --> 00:47:53,719 can help educate you whatever you need. Go to Adam's got a car dot 730 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:58,639 com and you can contact him through there and his emails on there. And 731 00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:05,079 also so this is Lynette's our friend Mike Gerstein. It's Lynette's BFF. His 732 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:10,000 slogan is were number one with number two. That's really funny. I love 733 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:15,360 it so for anyone in the Phoenix metro area and basically all of Maricopa County. 734 00:48:15,679 --> 00:48:19,599 He's a twenty year plumber who can fix anything. He can even help 735 00:48:19,639 --> 00:48:22,000 you over the phone or zoom for all of you di wires. But if 736 00:48:22,039 --> 00:48:27,719 you have any issues call him. He's the real deal. His phone number 737 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:35,480 is four eight zero six nine six one seven seven seven. And for all 738 00:48:35,519 --> 00:48:38,039 of you realtors in Arizona, he's been running a camera in the main sewer 739 00:48:38,119 --> 00:48:43,000 lines of houses for sale, catching big problems, so give him a call. 740 00:48:43,079 --> 00:48:45,960 I just gave you the number and there you go. All right, 741 00:48:45,199 --> 00:48:49,719 So we'll have more for you on Friday, and please tune in for our 742 00:48:49,760 --> 00:49:00,800 Patreon. You're a parent, now it up. 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